18/06/2023
THE ESSENCE OF FATHER’S DAY
By: Cosmas Abai
The importance of a father cannot be over emphasized. He is the superhero in a family. Fathers are always ready to take on everyday troubles from every member of the family. Just like a mother, a good father spends quality time with his family. And so, to honour such fathers and to celebrate the paternal bonding, a special day is observed every year as Father’s Day to commemorate their efforts and contributions in the society.
Father’s Day celebration dates back to the time of middle ages. The day was celebrated as the feast day of Saint Joseph, “the putative father of our Lord Jesus Christ”. Fathers’ Day is a day which celebrates fatherhood, paternal bonds and the efforts of male parents towards their family and the wider society.
No doubt, Fathers’ Day is an occasion to honour all the fatherly figures like stepfathers, grandfathers, uncles or even big brothers. Fathers are so important that Glory Naylor remarked: “Old as she was, she still missed her Daddy sometimes”. George Herbert also said that “one father is more than a hundred school masters”, while Liam Nelson said that “it is an ongoing joy being a Dad”. All these go to show the importance of a father in the family and entire society.
Fathers have great roles to play in building the nation. Through fathers, children have access to a vast network including, grandparents, cousins, aunts, uncles, friends of the family, work, colleagues, community organizations, faith communities and even personal histories.
Fathers plan the future of their children which, in turn, affects the moral, physical, psychological, social, political, religious and developmental tone of the nation. For instance, a morally-bound family begets children who are well nurtured to conform to the dictates of the society. Such children, later in life, become the conscience of the nation and living examples to their peer groups.