24/09/2024
" I got married to my wife 4 years ago and somehow my siblings didn't like my wife. I am the 3rd son and the first to get married in our family. My wife is very calm and collected which is why I fell head over heels for her.
After our marriage, my wife got pregnant and just 3 months into pregnancy, I got my Visa to travel to Germany. Two of my sisters suggested to live in my house with my wife but my wife refused saying she prefers to stay with her siblings.
I didn't object to it because I don't want any issue to arise between her and my siblings because I know how annoying my sisters can be. However my mom convinced me to let my sisters stay with my wife instead so they can be sure she's being faithful to me and all that.
I told my wife and she wasn't happy about that but I made her understand that my decision is final. I traveled and in less than 3 months, my siblings started bombarding me with reports about my wife. It became so much as I kept confronting my wife about their complaints and my wife wasn't having it.
She told me I was being insecure and my sisters are trying to destroy our marriage but I allowed my emotions and ego get ahead of me. I stopped sending her money, I would send to my mom and she will collect from my mom when she needs money.
I didn't know what happened but I allowed my mom and siblings manipulate me to the extent that my wife had a stillbirth and they accused her of kil.li.ng her own child and I believed them. I stopped talking to my wife for months, blamed her for loosing our child and never consoled her.
My wife kept pleading with me through chats, calls etc. I was really hurt that we lost our baby but I gave in after 4 months. I and my wife started talking again and I came back to Nigeria a year later when my papers expired.
I met my wife in the same cool headed, calm, peaceful and respectful manner as I've known her. I tried applying for visa and kept getting rejected, the little money I made vanished in a twinkle of an eye.