Habitation of Love

17/10/2024

HERE ARE WAYS TO TEST TRUE LOVE

I Love you! You love me!
Is a common saying. Everyone wants to be in Love but not everyone is ready to pay the price. To know whether it is true love or not. I will mention a few ways to test true love.

1. TRUTH TEST
True love is not afraid to tell the whole truth, but lust and infatuation have a lot to hide/keep. So, if you are still hiding behind one “finger”, keeping the truth from your partner because you don't want him or her to know the truth, who will later know? Don't be a deceiver. You're not a true lover. True love doesn't lie neither keep any records of truth.
Be truthful and real. If he or she will stay, why not, she will. You should tell him or her than find out later.

2. TIME TEST
Real love does survive the test of time because it was deeply rooted before it started. It is rooted in the other person’s total personality and not just the physical appearance because the more they know of each other, the more the love grows.
Check it, if that guy who used to come almost every day now finds it difficult to see you for a whole month, fails to call, or never picks up your calls, it only shows that he is not in love and he has seen it all, it is time to go. Not a real love.

3. GOAL TEST
True love is ready to give, even if it hurts, it is unselfish and committed, you want to do all you can to make the other party happy as far as he wants in the fear of God, that is true love. If all that your partner wants is to collect from you or have s*x with you, he or she is not in love.
If you desire to get somebody to kiss, caress, fo**le, and sleep with that's infatuation, not true love. His her her goal must not be s*x.

4. MATURITY TEST
Teenagers are not ripe enough for love affairs or anything called love, they can only be infatuated which they call love. If you are still a teenager you are deceiving yourself, ©©©

14/10/2024

HOW TO HANDLE FIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP.

1. Know that it is normal for two people in love to disagree, offend each other, fall short, or misunderstand each other

2. Always remember how much you love and need each other. Remembering this will give you the incentive to resolve any conflict between you two. Don't throw away true love because of a passing storm

3. Know each other's temperaments. If you are a hot-tempered person, tell your partner/spouse so that your partner/spouse will prepare incase you spark off. But work on your temper still

4. Agree how to handle fights before fights emerge. A nation develops a constitution to guide its operation, partners/spouses agree on what to do to guide in relations

5. Don't let the fear of fighting or disagreeing with your partner/spouse keep you two from confronting each other and expressing your feelings. Too many are tired, bored, frustrated or angry in their relationship/marriage but pretend all is well because they are afraid of talking about heavy and uneasy stuff with their partner. Slowly their relationship/marriage collapses, you can't pretend for long

6. Before you confront and blame your partner/spouse, analyze the situation and see if you have played a role in causing the problem

7. When a fight between you two is approaching or something happens that inflames tempers, walk away, cool off. Don't talk in anger. Cool down then talk rationally

8. Remember you are in the same team. Fighting your partner/spouse is fighting what you two have, which in effect is fighting yourself

9. Avoid insults. Hold and control your tongue, hurtful words only complicate matters, once they are spoken they can't be taken back

10. Don't be tempted to use the information your partner/spouse shared with you in trust to get your way. Don't use the secrets your partner/spouse shared with you to attack or intimidate your partner.
11. Don't disclose matters to a third party. Solve the matter the two of you.

Thank you.

06/10/2024

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26/09/2024

WHAT KILLS LOVE?

1. LACK OF COMMUNICATION
The less you two communicate, the more you two slowly learn to live without each other. The more you two take breaks from each other, the faster love dies

2. ENDLESS FIGHTS
Constant fighting will make you two avoid each other for the sake of peace, thus drifting apart

3. LACK OF MUTUAL ACTIVITIES
Yes, you two might be in different careers and have different likes; but if you don't have common activities to do together, the bond will fade

4. AFFAIRS
Affairs distract, your love for each other withers

5. ADDICTIONS
Addictions such as p**n or alcohol take the best of our time and we end up defending the addiction more than the relationship, we get too hooked to see how we are neglecting or hurting our partner

6. THIRD PARTIES
You might end up siding with third parties such as parents, friends or siblings to the point that they pull you away from your spouse

7. LACK OF APPRECIATION
The more appreciation lacks, the more loving starts to feel like a strain; worst of all is when things are done, not out of joy but obligation as a spouse

8. UNFORGIVENESS
Your heart cannot love and hold a grudge at the same time

9. DISTANCE
Physical distance but most of all, emotional distance can make two people fall out; try as much as possible to connect as a couple

10. WORK
When your work or business becomes too demanding, you might struggle to balance, and your love life, because it appears not to have financial value, might suffer the consequences

11. BLAME GAME
When you two keep exchanging blames and finding fault in each other, you will began to dislike each other's company

12. LACK OF EFFORT
Love doesn't just happen, doesn't just grow; it needs constant watering, nurturing and attention. If you both don't put in the effort, it will gradually die, follow me for more. God bless you.

21/09/2024

Every man is eligible to marry but not every man has the grace to keep woman at home.

20/09/2024

The fact that you are a Christian does not in any way take romance out of your marriage. Marriage is the only institution where romance and intimacy is allowed between a man and a woman. Some pastors hardly go on dates with their spouses because they consider such a romantic activity as a distraction from their focus on spiritual matters. Some of them don’t even play with their spouses anymore. Beloved, the anointing does not reduce the need for romance in marriage.
Isaac was an anointed man of God and a successful businessman, yet in Genesis 26:8, the Bible says he was being romantic with his wife:
And it came to pass, when he had been there a long time, that Abimelech king of the Philistines looked out at a window, and saw, and, behold, Isaac was sporting with Rebekah his wife.Don’t become too rigid in your marriage; don’t have more fun elsewhere without your spouse. Make the times that you and your spouse spend together so much fun that you are always looking forward to seeing each other again. If you are married, remember how you used to talk for long hours with your spouse before you got married and had children; revive that relationship again. Your spouse is still the same fellow you were very fond of, and the things you loved in him or her are still there. Don’t let all the cares of this life distract you from the gems in your spouse.

Once in a while, compose a poem for your spouse and read it to him or her in a romantic setting. Spice things up with pleasant surprises every now and then. Write a note and put it in his or her bag so that when they get to the office and open their bag, they will see the note and smile. Have a pet name that you call each other behind closed doors. Up until today, there is a pet name my wife calls me when we are alone. I equally have a pet name that I call her, and every time I call her by that name, she cannot but smile at me lovingly. When we are alone, we are lovers, not Daddy G.O and Mummy G.O. Your marriage can be like heaven on earth if you and your spouse are deliberate about remaining the lovebirds that you were when you first got married.
Don’t let the romance die.

17/09/2024

08/09/2024

Anyone try to block your way to your destiny the angel of God will slap him/her in Jesus name Amen.

02/09/2024

With STEVE CROWN – I just got recognised as one of their top fans! Thank you Jesus.

24/08/2024

You are welcome dear friends

24/08/2024

COMMON MISTAKES SINGERS ALWAYS MAKE
AND THEIR SOLUTION

Singing is an art that requires practice, technique, and understanding of one's vocal instrument. Even seasoned singers can fall into common traps that can hinder their performance or vocal health. Here are some mistakes that singers often make, along with tips on how to avoid them:

# # # 1. **Not Warming Up Properly**
- **Mistake**: Starting to sing without properly warming up the voice can cause strain and damage to the vocal cords.
- **Solution**: Spend at least 10-15 minutes warming up your voice before singing. This should include lip trills, hums, scales, and breathing exercises.

# # # 2. **Incorrect Breathing Technique**
- **Mistake**: Shallow or upper chest breathing can limit your range and power, causing strain on the voice.
- **Solution**: Practice diaphragmatic breathing; inhale deeply through the nose, filling your lungs fully and supporting your breath from the lower abdomen.

# # # 3. **Ignoring Vocal Health**
- **Mistake**: Not taking care of your vocal health can lead to chronic conditions like vocal nodules or polyps.
- **Solution**: Stay hydrated, avoid smoking and excessive alcohol, and protect your voice from extreme weather conditions.

# # # 4. **Over-Singing or Straining**
- **Mistake**: Singing at the top of your lungs or pushing your voice beyond its comfortable range can cause damage.
- **Solution**: Sing within your comfortable range and use proper vocal technique. Gradually build up your range with the guidance of a vocal coach.

# # # 5. **Not Practicing Consistently**
- **Mistake**: Infrequent or sporadic practice can impede vocal development and technique.
- **Solution**: Establish a regular practice routine. Even a few minutes of daily practice can improve your skills more effectively than sporadic longer sessions.

# # # 6. **Ignoring Vocal Fatigue**
- **Mistake**: Singing when you're tired, .

15/08/2024

1. First thing in the morning just put on your shoes and go for a run or cycling for atleast about 30-40mins.

2. Get rid of hot water baths. Cold bath refreshes your entire nervous system making you fresh in thoughts.

3. Play a lot of chess with computer at least two games a day.

4. Read, read and read a lot. Read things that are new to you and informative. Stop watching stupid movies and useless publicity news channel and page3 news.

Read simple physics or do some basic high school math exercises.

5. Spend lots of time with the youth, preferably college folks or high school buddies. They have the innovative minds.

6. Numbers, play a lot with numbers, try to memorize phone numbers of all of your friends and close people and make sure to dial their number rather than calling from the contact list or call log.

7. Learn the art of calmness and get rid of anger. Makes you a smarter decision maker. In any tense situation think before you react.

8. Make it a point to speak at least to one stranger a day at your office or surrounding and try to remember their names and what they do.

9. Learn a new language every year. Also speak in multiple languages through out the day.

10. Start playing a new sport and try to be at least an intermediate player in it.

11. Be curious be hungry, ask questions to yourself about everything that you are curious about and find answers to it.

12. Eat only what is required for your body in limited quantity. If possible eat foods which contain essential amino acids for brain development. (Ex - sea food and nuts.)

13. Take a stroll down your lane before hitting the bed. Do not use your phone just before sleep or when in bed. Finish all phone activities an hour before bed time. Have a 7-8 hour undisturbed sleep.

14. Go on a solo trip once in a while to a new place and stay away from phone as much possible. Adapt to the conditions of the place where ever you go.

15. Learn to play a musical instrument or simple start singing songs and g

13/08/2024

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07/08/2024

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04/09/2023

Truly Gospel music chase evil spirit away
Be very careful with the kind of music you listing to 1Samuel 16:14--23

31/08/2023

Trust and obey