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The 2face and Annie Idibia saga has reinforced these thoughts I have had and I hope it is a lesson for the singles who a...
28/01/2025

The 2face and Annie Idibia saga has reinforced these thoughts I have had and I hope it is a lesson for the singles who are yet to marry.

1. The power is in your hands: dear single ladies, the way God designed marriage requires the woman to submit to whoever she is married to; no matter who the man is. Now the power in your hands is the ability to choose that man you want to submit to. It is up to you to do a thorough assessment of the man so you can decide if he is worth your submission. The dating stage before saying yes to a proposal should be used to consider not things like his wealth but his character. Wealth can always come but character hardly changes. Assess deeply his character and ask yourself, is this the man I want to be submissive to all my life? If the answer is no, do not go into it.

Many may argue, that the man may change along the line, but you see, even though that is a rare occurrence you would at least be comforted in the fact that you didn’t see those negative threats before you said I do.

2. Allow the man to love you more: Let the man do the chasing, do not offer yourself so cheaply to the man. Men are natural hunters, they love chasing. Anything given to them on a platter of gold is not often valued. Experience from many marriages have shown that it is better for the man to love you more, that way he will protect you no matter how he strays. It is not easy for men to love but when they do, it sticks for a long time.

3. Don’t portray yourself as one that accepts anything. No! Anything should not be condoned by you. Clearly state your boundries from the onset. Do not manage the relationship and do not understand things that you should talk about, discuss and possibly determine if it is a deal breaker. For instance, the man is a chronic womanizer, you have all the evidence that he is but you still go ahead to think that him marrying you will put a stop to that! No way! When it comes to men, I have realised that it is only God in heaven that can influence or change them. It is often difficult for them to leave how they function. So set your boundaries from the beginning so everyone will know where they stand.

4. Do not be carried away by money, wealth, riches. These factors may make marriage interesting, yes, but then when it comes packaged with a spouse with a bad character, a spouse you have to defend all the time, a spouse that makes you live in your shadows, a spouse that makes you thread carefully, a spouse that does not give you peace of mind etc, then don’t go for it. Wealth is sweeter when it comes with positive vibes. Abi you be one of those people wey say them prefer to cry for Range Rover? Dey play! Just Dey play.

27/01/2025

A Hot Tempered Person has no place in Marriage. A spouse who is quick to anger is like a time b0mb waiting to explode. ゚

Memories from years back when I travelled to Abuja and didn’t feel like coming back.Abuja is such a cool city. No rush! ...
25/01/2025

Memories from years back when I travelled to Abuja and didn’t feel like coming back.

Abuja is such a cool city. No rush! It is so calm and will keep your sanity intact😀.

Abuja is also a clean place. I loved the fruits and fresh vegetables, they were so affordable.

I guess with little money I can make a big bowl of Salad compared to what they would cost in Lagos.

When I look back though, I think I will like to remain in Lagos make I dey hustle my hustle. Abuja na for working class people and those wey don make am.

Make I begin gather money for another visit ❤️❤️❤️

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard!Fetuga Ademola Daymophobia, Helenc Ikebuchi
25/01/2025

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard!

Fetuga Ademola Daymophobia, Helenc Ikebuchi

24/01/2025

With recent happenings of k!dna*pp of children, what measures have you taken to ensure the safety of your children? ゚ .com

I still maintain that teaching is a vocation, It is not for everyone. If you are not patient, caring and kind, you have ...
22/01/2025

I still maintain that teaching is a vocation, It is not for everyone. If you are not patient, caring and kind, you have no business in the teaching profession. Unfortunately what we see today are people who become teachers by chance. Infact many of them do not love their jobs.

For me, teachers who take care of toddlers are particularly required to possess the attributes mentioned above and more.

Now, I want you to picture your child at home especially the toddlers and visualize what you go through everyday when you are with them, then visualize yourself having ten of them in your care. Now ask yourself if you can handle them. I am sure the thought of it is already nerve racking.

Now imagine the teacher who has no love, patience or care handling this number of toddlers, what do you think will happen? Are your kids safe?

Dear parents, I don’t how you are going to do this, but I think it is important you find a way to check your toddler’s teacher. Pay particular attention to how loving, caring and kind the teacher is. Find a way to check their temperament and ensure that they are of stable mind. Please try to find out a little background information about the teacher. Find out if they come from a home that exudes happiness, find out if they are paid their salaries on time, a teacher who is hungry and angry will not be able to carry out his or her duty properly. Dear Parents,if possible make that teacher your friend.

With the recent happenings of the toddler that lost her life in school, and even the viral video of the teacher that vented her frustration on her a pupil because he could write the figure 6; it has become pertinent for parents to be concerned about who the teachers of their children are.

Parents should make it their business and priority to know the teachers not just physically but also their mental capabilities.
Please spread the news.

Oh Chim! This one choke😭😭
21/01/2025

Oh Chim! This one choke😭😭

21/01/2025

I want you to watch this video and tell me what lessons you have learnt. I am in tears. May we not miss our destiny helper because of our attitude

20/01/2025

Is your child’s teacher a professional or a teacher by chance? ゚

Have you seen a beautiful mum and daughter today? Congratulations to Ekene Umenwa. This your child is really beautiful.❤...
18/01/2025

Have you seen a beautiful mum and daughter today?

Congratulations to Ekene Umenwa. This your child is really beautiful.❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉

I pray that all who are praying for the blessing of child will be blessed. 🙏

16/01/2025

Don’t make this mistake. Utilize your season properly because nothing lasts forever.

14/01/2025

Do not be carried away with what they say with their mouth, their heart is saying the opposite.

12/01/2025

Four things you need to consider before you rent that apartment.

Stop judging people based on their looks.I saw a video of Taoma and her husband all loved up. One of the comments in the...
11/01/2025

Stop judging people based on their looks.

I saw a video of Taoma and her husband all loved up. One of the comments in the video drew my attention and it was where a man made a pitiful comment (see comment attached) that it was unfortunate that Taoma ended up with an irresponsible man despite her values. The man concluded that Taoma’s husband was irresponsible simply because he braids his hair🙄.

This incident reminded me of a concern one of my Uncles raised when my husband came for our traditional wedding. Just because of his looks, he has no tattoo even, but because he is a musician and is a fine man who looked guyish my uncle questioned his ability to be a faithful and responsible man😂. Not directly though, he called my brother and expressed this concern.

But I knew who I was getting married to and it’s been 11 years and I have not had any reason to complain to the glory of God.

Many people are like my Uncle and the man who concluded on Taoma’s husband’s attribute. And just because they base their judgment on looks, they get to loose many quality people. I am here to change that perception because from experience I know many people are far different in character in comparison with their looks. Some look so holy and carry the holy books but their heart is black, while some others look very b@ad in quote but have the best of hearts.

There is a guy I recently had an encounter with, he looked responsible physically, even in the office, he was either reading the holy book or listening to sermons but his character is far from what he projects. His attitude towards me for the few days I met him got me praying for his wife, that is if he has one.

Before you conclude on someone’s character, I suggest you relate with the person and find out who the person is than just concluding that the person is nothing to write home about.

Can you relate?

09/01/2025

Why do so many people fail the test of honesty when money is involved? SMH

Landmark Africa to relocate headquarters from Lagos after beach demolition, expand to two African countries Landmark Afr...
07/01/2025

Landmark Africa to relocate headquarters from Lagos after beach demolition, expand to two African countries

Landmark Africa, the company behind the Landmark Beach Resort in Lagos, has announced plans to relocate its Nigerian headquarters and expand its operations.

CEO and founder Paul Onwuanibe revealed that the company will extend its reach into two other African countries, establish a presence in three Nigerian states, and move its headquarters out of Lagos.

This decision comes in the wake of the April 2024 demolition of the Landmark Beach Resort, which Onwuanibe described as a devastating setback, resulting in an estimated $80 million loss.

In an appearance on The KK Show – Key to Keys podcast, featured on Eden Oasis’ official YouTube channel, Onwuanibe explained that the demolition highlighted the need for geographical diversification to reduce the risks of concentrated investments.

He also shared plans to relocate Landmark Africa’s entire events and tourism platform outside of Nigeria.

“We’re going to have some diversification. We’re going to diversify to two other African countries. We’re going to go into three different states.

“We’re going to move our Nigeria HQ location out of Lagos. And we’re going to move our entire sort of events and tourism platform out of Nigeria,” Onwuanibe said.

Onwuanibe shared that Landmark Africa received interest from governors in 12 states across Nigeria, with three states selected for new ventures after a six-month evaluation. He did not disclose the names of the states or new African countries for expansion.

Onwuanibe detailed the impact of the April 2024 Landmark Beach Resort demolition, revealing the short notice and ongoing financial strain.

“We were issued a seven-day notice,” he said, adding that the demolition was delayed by two to three months.

Despite this, Landmark Africa has yet to receive any compensation, although other affected properties have been paid.
Onwuanibe also questioned the changes to the Coastal Road’s planned route, which was initially meant to run in front of the resort.
“It was meant to be in front of us, not behind,” he said, adding to the confusion surrounding the demolition.

Onwuanibe stressed Landmark Africa’s contribution to the local economy, noting over 10 billion naira in taxes paid the previous year.

“We were the only private business listed on the government’s tourism website,” he said.

Describing the demolition’s chaotic nature, he recalled guests still in the hotel as it began:

“We didn’t have time to remove fridges, TVs, mattresses, or even plates from the kitchen.”

He highlighted that the financial losses are far higher than initially estimated.

“It sounds like a $30 million loss, but it’s more like $60 million to $80 million,” Onwuanibe explained, adding that the broader impact on surrounding investments could reach $200 million to $300 million.

Source : Nairametrics

Even in this Genz age, good character outweighs physical outlook. It never gets old fashioned. People will always want q...
06/01/2025

Even in this Genz age, good character outweighs physical outlook. It never gets old fashioned.

People will always want quality over quantity. The attraction may first be that of quantity but over time, quality becomes paramount. It shines through and lives a more lasting impression.

If you attract it with beauty and leave out character, what happens when beauty fades eventually? The attraction fiddles out obviously.

The choice is yours any ways to choose wisely what you invest on.

I hope this speaks to you.

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