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"Get married to a divorced man at your own risk A single mother may move on but single father's hardly do they move on" ...
29/01/2025

"Get married to a divorced man at your own risk A single mother may move on but single father's hardly do they move on"
,what do you think?

To me :
It's a Yes and No question

Most Single mothers move on genuinely but single father's!! But again we do have single father's who do not go back to their ex's

The main reason could be many men do not seek legit healing after a relationship has ended. They enter another relationship immediately one ends, to help with the emotional pain... Wrong move!!!

So if you are the woman who is supposed to help him heal...utalia wewe because after healing he realizes,I made a mistake.

Another reason,many separations/ divorces are intitiated by women,so when a woman initiates one it's because she couldn't deal with the man, usually the man is the one on the wrong.
After getting a rebound and he heals,he realizes he was on the wrong and wishes the main could come back,so if the main is available,there it is ...they will reconcile

Another reason many women may initiate divorces but later regret after the healing she realizes I need to go back to my home, I did not logically think things through,I also did him wrong...there it is...

As a woman who is getting married to a divorced man,get to know why they separated, assess the mans healing...

Rebounds are bad for women and children who will be born out of it, this is how many hidden side homes came about!! Yes main becomes the side or the rebound becomes the side after the main returns home 🤣

Let everyone embrace healing,sit and go through the pain by yourself and not jump into another relationship , the decisions you will make while hurting are so emotional that you might regret later
So help me God
Asante 🙏

LADIES  DONT GET MARRIED WITHOUT DOING THESE TO AVOID REGRET :1. Build female friendships more than your desperation for...
29/01/2025

LADIES DONT GET MARRIED WITHOUT DOING THESE
TO AVOID REGRET :

1. Build female friendships more than your desperation for a love relationship. And when you start dating, don't make your partner the sole source of your happiness. Have friends. Make good friends. Have a life outside your partner. Your partner, no matter how good can not fill up your emotional void.

2. Save as much as you like. Can't say this enough. Having too much money is never bad.

3. Be independent before you get married. Spend time knowing what career path or purpose you wanna pursue in life.

4. Now is the time to try to relocate. Get to see the world beyond your nose.

5. Never igore red flags in your relationship. They magnify in marriage.

6. Be given to self development. Learn something new. Soft skills abound. It could be as little as knowing how to research using Google. Or some hand skills.

7. Have older friends in your tribe who can share with you their mistakes and guide you on the right path. This is because you'll avoid repeating their mistakes.

8. Learn to say NO. Don’t be guilt tripped to say no when you hurt inside.

9. Master the act of saving and investing.

10. Take time to build yourself before you get married, and start having children. Do all you can before this. Get all the certifications, degrees, etc before you settle down.

11. Take out time to spoil yourself. Buy shoes, clothes, hair. Go on trips, vacations, or whatever you fancy. It doesn't have to be a lot of money, but start with 1K that you can spare.

12. Don’t make decisions that would hurt another person. Don't make decisions that would hurt you.

13. Learn to always put yourself first. Never be with a person who is inconsiderate of your feelings.

14. Take care of your hygiene.

15. Your only purpose in life isn’t to be a wife, mother or get married. You’re made for something more. Find it. Trash out those misogynistic teachings of a woman only made for a man. Don’t focus on marriage as a life goal.

16. Have somebody who inspires or mentors. You don’t have to them know but let their lives, stories and achievements push you to do more for yourself.

17. If your parents didn’t have a good marriage, let their marriage make you do things better. Let your children be proud of the parent they'd have.

18. Avoid s*x in your relationships as much as you can. Don't give your body to useless men. Learn body autonomy and be in control of your own body. Delay s*x as much as you can, because s*x can cloud your logical judgment and make you take irrational decisions. Have s*x when you’re ready for the consequences.

18. Don’t waste time brooding over your mistakes or your past. Let it go. Don’t live your life being guilty. Forgive yourself for all the times you failed yourself.

19. Know God personally. Let his love and security reign in your life.

20. Build yourself emotionally. Marriage doesn’t solve loneliness. Love yourself. Be self content.

And finally, build your body and self autonomy.

REASONS WHY MEN DIED EARLIER THAN THEIR YOUNG WIVES AFTER          MARRIAGE A man is an adult male human. Prior to adult...
29/01/2025

REASONS WHY MEN DIED EARLIER THAN THEIR YOUNG WIVES AFTER MARRIAGE

A man is an adult male human. Prior to adulthood, a male human is referred to as a boy.Like most other male mammals, a man's genome typically inherits an X chromosome from his mother and a Y chromosome from his father. The male fetus generally produces larger amounts of androgens and smaller amounts of estrogens than a female fetus. This difference in the
relative amounts of these s*x steroids is largely responsible for the physiological differences that distinguish men from women. During puberty, hormones which stimulate androgen production result in the development of secondary s*xual characteristics, thus exhibiting greater differences between the s*xes.

Build your home and marriage. It is not greener outside there. Don't be deceived!!
Help your husband to live longer like you.
Here are the potential men killers.
● Children school fees
● house rents
● Electricity bills
● Medical bills
● Generator fuel & repairs
● Car fuel and repairs
● Feeding of family
● Clothes for children
● Sallah or Christmas and New year bills
● Furniture & House maintenance
● In-laws wahala/demand
● His own aged parents
● His siblings most times
● His wife's demands
● Vigilante bills
● Erecting Building
● Religious demands
● Family social bills
● Electronics bills
● Recharge cards
● Extended family bills
● Community demands
On top of the above, he also faces:
● Wife stress
● Boss stress at work
● Police stress on the way
● Area boys stress
● Kidnappers fear
● Friends stress
● Economy stress
● Fear of job loss
● Unemployment pains
● Armed Robbery stress
● Children misbehaviour
● Neighbours stress
● Bank loan payment stress
● Enemies stress
● Demonic attack stress
● S*x stress
Are these reasons not enough for all African Wives to understand and give their husbands peace at home?
Are men not trying? How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man?
I am not making a case for men.

POLICE just nab this MAN who cut off his wife's hands with a CUTLASS over a MINOR ISSUE. My sister don't allow DESPERATI...
29/01/2025

POLICE just nab this MAN who cut off his wife's hands with a CUTLASS over a MINOR ISSUE. My sister don't allow DESPERATION of MARRIAGE make you to MARRY NONESENSE and the WEAPON FASHIONED AGAINST YOU.

Some MEN are better off SINGLE.

CHECKING GENOTYPE before MARRIAGE is IMPORTANT..

CHECKING BLOOD GROUP before MARRIAGE is IMPORTANTER..

But CHECKING MENTAL HEALTH STATUS before MARRIAGE is IMPORTANTEST because we have so MANY WELL DRESSED MAD PEOPLE walking around the STREETS SNEAKING into MARRIAGES.

Look before you leap so you don't leap on BROKEN BOTTLES..

My  husband gave me his old phone because my son broke mine. I took the phone and fix it and while looking through throu...
28/01/2025

My husband gave me his old phone because my son broke mine. I took the phone and fix it and while looking through through the phone, I saw a shocking video. In the video, there was a woman doing something very private and asking if the person she sent it to wanted to play with snail and bwest too

The woman put a sticker on her face, but I knew who she was right away. She was the best friend of my husband's mother ( mother-in-law's best friend) . I saw that the video was sent through WhatsApp. I also found some nü.d£ pictures from her in his phone. In those pictures, there was no sticker and I clearly saw her face; she is even older than my mother-in-law!

For two whole days, I cried. My heart was broken. I decided to send her a message to tell her that I knew what she was doing. The next morning, I received a package. Inside was an iPhone 14 and a lot of money, about 300,000. The woman sent me a message saying that if I stayed quiet, she would send me little gifts from time to time.
From colyfrank 🥰
I took the iPhone and chose to keep quiet. But now, I feel so guilty. It feels like I was bought, and since I got the new phone, I don't even care if my husband is cheating on me or not. Deep down in my heart, I feel like I almost like that woman because I am happy with the gifts.

Sometimes, when I think about all this, I feel a little disappointed in myself. I wonder if I have lost my dignity.
Credit:Edna Oheri

4 TYPES OF WOMEN WHO CAN'T MAINTAIN A MARRIAGE 1: The Most Beautiful Women-It takes holyspirit only to make a beautiful ...
28/01/2025

4 TYPES OF WOMEN WHO CAN'T MAINTAIN A MARRIAGE

1: The Most Beautiful Women

-It takes holyspirit only to make a beautiful woman to be in a marriage.

-They are on high demand
-Many beautiful ladies are still single, and you keep wondering what is keeping them

-They use their beauty as a capital for money making

2:. The Most Educated Women

-A woman having a degree,masters, PhD to have to stay in a marriage, its the grace of God.

-Their qualifications makes them independent.

-Visit offices in the companies, most high ranked women and rich are single,divorced.

3: WOMEN FROM RICH FAMILIES

-Women raised under rich families find it difficult to get married because they want same environment they grew up with it a marriage.
-They want no on to advise them

4: The Most Anointed Women Of God

- Most women with the calling of God have no husbands ,either divorced

-No time to do house works

-No time to care for their husbands

-Their husbands can't advise them because they only listen from the holyspirit.

You will find a man with a phd goes to the village and marries a grade 5 woman,what is he looking for ??? Because that is the one that would understand and respect him better.

Speaking in tongues will never make you a wife, only a submissive woman will stay in a marriage and not the beauty and the like.

I knows you will oppose this message but read it again and again before you oppose it.

Some men aren't for you. They don't want to love you properly at all, but at the same time they don't want to let you go...
27/01/2025

Some men aren't for you.

They don't want to love you properly at all, but at the same time they don't want to let you go.

The more you give to them, the less they unfortunately appreciate, and the minute you've had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right.

So you decide to give them a chance in the hopes they've changed only to realize they only changed for a very short period of time.

You finally find the strength to walk away and here he comes again, proclaiming his love for you.

What alot of people dont understand is that if a man shows anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it off isn't proof of love at all.

A man trying to flatter you or making weak attempts to be "nicer" for a couple weeks isn't proof that he's trying, its proof that he knows you well enough to know how to defuse you long enough to hook you once again.

Lets put it this way....

If you take a childs toy away from them, the child begins to cry.

Same goes for the relationship... If you take away a relationship of convenience, a man begins to cry. Just because he cries doesn't mean you give him what he wants.

Stop listening to what your man keeps promising you and start watching what his actions keep telling you.

A lot of women don't know what its like to be loved by a real man.

You know lust, you know joy, you know passion and you know the fear of abandonment.

Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and recognize what love actually is.

Love isn't promising to act right after he gets caught screwing up time and time again.

Love is him acting right from the very beginning because he doesn't want to lose you because he knows how truly special you are.

Love isn't telling your grown man he needs to change so he can keep you, love is a grown man changing on his own because he cant imagine life without you.

So take my advice and choose to be loved properly and always no matter what..... remember your worth.

~ Cody Bret

If a man believes he can protect his children while hurting his woman, he is deeply mistaken. What you give to your woma...
27/01/2025

If a man believes he can protect his children while hurting his woman, he is deeply mistaken. What you give to your woman—whether love, respect, or pain—is what she will pass on to your children. This is an undeniable truth of life, one you cannot escape. A woman is the emotional and spiritual foundation of a home, and her well-being influences the emotional climate of the entire family.

When a man nurtures and supports his woman, he creates an environment where love and safety thrive. This love flows through her and reaches the children. A woman who feels cherished and respected will radiate warmth and stability. Her sense of peace will naturally create a secure world for her children to grow and flourish in.

On the other hand, when a man chooses to hurt or neglect his woman, he disrupts the harmony of the home. Her pain doesn’t stay confined within her; it becomes a silent burden that shapes the atmosphere of the household. Children growing up in a space filled with tension and emotional distress often internalize those struggles, carrying them into their own lives.

It is essential for a man to recognize that his relationship with his woman sets the foundation for his children’s emotional development. If he provides her with love and security, his children will learn the importance of healthy relationships and emotional intelligence. If he chooses to cause her harm, he risks teaching his children to repeat the same patterns of dysfunction.

A woman’s role in a family is unique. She is often the heart of the home, and her energy influences the rhythm of daily life. When a man honors this role and treats her with care, he empowers her to fulfill it wholeheartedly. This empowerment doesn’t just benefit her—it shapes the emotional well-being of their children for generations.

A man cannot claim to be a good father while being a poor partner. His treatment of the mother of his children is one of the greatest lessons he teaches them. Sons will learn how to treat women by observing their father, and daughters will learn what to expect from men. Therefore, a father’s actions have a profound and lasting impact.

Many men fail to see this connection, assuming they can compartmentalize their relationships. They believe they can show up as loving fathers while being absent or hurtful partners. But children are incredibly perceptive. They notice the unspoken dynamics and carry those observations into their understanding of relationships.

The truth is, children thrive in an environment where both parents are emotionally healthy and supportive of one another. A man who uplifts his woman not only strengthens her but also creates a stable foundation for his children to grow upon. His love and respect set an example that shapes their worldview.

Men must also recognize that protecting their children goes beyond physical safety. It involves creating a space where emotional security is prioritized. This cannot happen if the mother of the children feels unsupported, neglected, or hurt. Emotional wounds within the family ripple outward, affecting everyone.

To truly protect your children, protect their mother. Nurture her spirit and honor her contributions. When you invest in her happiness and well-being, you invest in the emotional health of your entire family. What you give her, she will magnify and return to your children tenfold.

So dear man, the greatest legacy a man can leave for his children is the example of a loving and harmonious partnership. By treating his woman with care and respect, he teaches his children the value of love, kindness, and mutual support. This is the universal truth you cannot escape—and one every man must embrace.

- Abhikesh
_Ccto.

Am on my way to my children school. I want to go and change my daughter's sport uniform because we are tired of yellow h...
27/01/2025

Am on my way to my children school.
I want to go and change my daughter's sport uniform because we are tired of yellow house

How can yellow house be carrying last on every inter house sport?

Last year, she cried home because her house took last. I console her and told her that failing is an opportunity to improve and do better.

I even encourage to participate and help her house win medals.
She actually ran for 100m race and came 3rd position this year.
Only for yellow house to still carry last

She still cried home again this year, I told her that they will do better next year.
Only for her to remind me of saying thesame thing last year. I became confused and I promise to change the house for her.

This is how some of us remain in bad situations and refused to move because we are expecting a change that may never happen.

But YELLOW HOUSE na swear? Because right from my school days, una dey always carry last

We are going for green house from today
After all, the land is green too.

This is not a laughing matter oooo 🤨🤨

Mothers of the nation,  am seeking for advice, please no insult. My biological father and mother got misunderstandings w...
26/01/2025

Mothers of the nation, am seeking for advice, please no insult. My biological father and mother got misunderstandings which led to their separation/divorce, by then, I was two months old. My mother left the marriage with me when I was still young. My mother started her new life, worked so hard and later got married to another man whom I call step father. My mother with the help of step father raised me up, educated me so well and am now a lawyer by profession, despite the challenges, hardships and ups we went through, my mother never gave up on me. Mothers, My father has never supported me in any way except donating s***m, we left his place when I was two months old. I remember, one day visiting my biological father asking for some help on my education journey, my biological father assured me that he had no money to waiste on me. Mothers, Recently, I got a man who is willing to marry me officially. However, my biological father is insisting that we celebrate our introduction and wedding at his home place, my biological mother is saying that she will not attend the celebrations if it's put at my biological father's home place. Mothers, I don't know who informed my biological father about my wedding but I just received a call from him, my biological father still added that "I will never have a successful marriage if I don't conduct my wedding and introduction at his place". Guys, my mother has refused and said she will not attend if the celebrations and I can't do it without my mother. She has been the pillar of my life. My mother is saying that "my biological father should just come to our home place and attend but not her going to my father's place". Mothers, am so confused. What should I do?

I’ve had feelings for Beauty for a while now. When I got close enough to her, I told her, “I have a crush on you. Do you...
26/01/2025

I’ve had feelings for Beauty for a while now. When I got close enough to her, I told her, “I have a crush on you. Do you think we can go on a date and see how it goes?” She smiled sweetly and responded, “You are a nice guy, but I have a boyfriend. We can be friends, though.” It wasn’t just friendship I wanted, but if that was all I would get, then so be it.

I tried to keep my feelings in check, but sometimes the lines got blurred. She is beautiful, you know. And she likes to post photos of herself on her WhatsApp status a lot of the time. When she does, I can’t help but admire how stunning she is. I tell her, too.

Every time she posts her photo, I leave her a compliment. I do it so naturally that it doesn’t even occur to me. Besides, we are friends. It shouldn’t be a problem when friends compliment each other.

However, I am beginning to think my compliments are getting to her somehow. Why am I saying this?

All of a sudden, she has started opening up to me about her relationship. “My boyfriend doesn’t see me,” she told me once. When I probed further, she said all her efforts to keep the relationship alive were met with indifference.

Another time, she said, “These days, he doesn’t even answer my calls. I text him, but he takes forever to respond. If I decide not to reach out, he doesn’t even bother to check up on me. I think he is cheating on me.” Usually, I listen to her rants until she is done.

In one of our conversations, I asked her, “If he is treating you so badly, then why won’t you leave?” She said she loved him too much to let him go. Well, what else could I have done apart from being her supportive friend?

Now, whenever she tells me how badly he has hurt her, I do my best to console her. I tell her to talk to him about her feelings. Sometimes, I tell her to give him time and see if he will come around. I am just being a safe space for her, but I can see my advice does little to help matters. What she needs is to get out.

I know she is better off without him, but she doesn’t want to hear it. Sometimes I try to be subtle about it. I tell her she deserves someone better, someone who sees her worth—and I mean it. She truly is an amazing person.

I can say with my full chest that she is the kind of woman any man would be lucky to have. And I happen to be a man who is deeply into her. I know that I can treat her better than her boyfriend does.

Sometimes I wish I could swoop in and rescue her from her miserable relationship. However, I don’t want her to misconstrue my intentions. She is in a vulnerable place, and I would hate for her to think that I am taking advantage of her. Here’s where I need help. How do I tell her how I feel without coming across as an opportunist?

Stop testing the limits of my patience and my love. I’ve given you my trust, my loyalty, and my heart...but even I have ...
25/01/2025

Stop testing the limits of my patience and my love. I’ve given you my trust, my loyalty, and my heart...but even I have boundaries. If you continue to deceive, manipulate, and betray me, don’t expect me to stay.

I’ve stood by you time and again, forgiving your mistakes, overlooking your flaws, and believing in the person I hoped you could become. I’ve poured everything into this relationship...my love, my energy, and my faith...even when it hurt me, even when you didn’t deserve it. That’s what love is: showing up, holding on, and believing in someone, even when it’s hard.

But love and loyalty are not infinite. They have limits, and they come with expectations. Cheating is not an accident; it’s a choice. Narcissism is not just a flaw; it’s a refusal to see anyone but yourself. If you keep exploiting my forgiveness, testing my understanding, and shattering my trust, there will come a moment when I no longer have the strength or desire to repair what you’ve broken.

And when that moment comes, don’t act surprised. Don’t play the victim. Don’t accuse me of walking away too easily. I’ve given you every opportunity to change, to grow, and to prove that this relationship is worth saving. But if you continue to take me for granted, you can’t be shocked when I finally choose to walk away.

When I leave, it won’t be out of anger or hate...it will be out of self-respect. And when you finally realize what you’ve lost, remember: it wasn’t me who gave up...it was you who pushed me away.

REPOSTED & COPIED from
✍️📷: Diary of a Soldier's Wife

I read a very disturbing story today. This young woman who has been married to a kind and loving husband, suddenly lost ...
25/01/2025

I read a very disturbing story today. This young woman who has been married to a kind and loving husband, suddenly lost her husband.

The man, while he was alive, gave her the soft life, such that he fuels her car, does the shopping for her and the kids, does school runs, etc. The wife basically lived a baby girl life style untill the sudden death of her husband.

Being a wife who has been totally dependent on her husband, she found it impossible to cope following his demise.

I think she may not even know how to change the bulbs, turn on the generator and some other DIY home hacks. She is not only hit with grief, she doesn't know how to begin to run the house without her husband's presence.

This is the essence of this post. As much as it is beautiful to be pampered with soft life, try and have a life that can exist independent of your husband. Get a job or a business, learn a skill, try to have a life of your own. I mean a life that you are in total control of.

It's not all the time that you call your man on the phone and say "Honey, oxygen is finished in the house, what do I breath?"

Nothing is absolutely wrong with living the baby girl or nwunye odogwu lifestyle, but if anything happens to Odogwu, what will become of you? Do you have the mental strength to manage the business, the company, etc. Life is unpredictable, so we must always be ready for any eventuality.

There is something beautifully s*xy and admirable about women who look so soft and pampered, yet they are trailblazers in their different fields. They close business deals, handle important offices, etc.

This also applies to the men. Your wife just steps out of the house, and in less than ten minutes, you're calling her on the phone. "Baby, the baby just pooed on her diapers, how do I change the diapers?" As funny as it sounds, it is ridiculous.

Being a father goes beyond providing for the family. You must be a hands-on-father. You can't be calling your wife who is busy in the kitchen to come and change the baby diaper.

Some men become totally 'uselěşş' any time their wife travels. They can neither cook nor wash. They can't even clean up after themselves. Their house automatically turns into a pig sty, and if you ask them why the house looks so unkempt, they will boldly say that their wife is not around.

Doing minor chores, cooking, cleaning, knowing a few quick-home-fixes are not gender based. They are the basic adult survival skills which everyone must have, irrespective of your gender.

As a woman, you should be able to detect when something is wrong with your car. Not just to enter car, drive, when the fuel finishes, you park the car there and call oga to come over and carry the car.

As a man, it is possible for you to stay home with the kids for a few hours, and they will still be looking like human beings, and not like aliens or chipmunks.

In all, let us all learn to be all we can ever be, because as adults, we are solely responsible for the outcome of our lives.

🍂🍂🍂

20th January 2025
Credit: Victor Firdance Page

, I find myself in a very difficult situation because I believe, I am being treated unfairly by my husband. My issue is ...
24/01/2025

, I find myself in a very difficult situation because I believe, I am being treated unfairly by my husband. My issue is that, about some weeks ago I went on my annual leave so I decided to have enough rest at home.My husband then decided we go spend some 3 days with his 70 year old father, who is a widower and live alone. On the second day of our stay however, something happened of which my husband wants to divorce me.

that fateful morning I prepared the kids for school and my husband left to drop them off, before proceeding to the office. When they left, I went to check on my father-in-law in his room to see how he was doing. Surprisingly, I found him trying to musterbate so I said sorry and was about to excuse him, when he asked me to come back and help him. I objected but he begged me so, I decided to help his prostrate health by giving him a BJ. Unfortunately for me, my husband just walked in on us, because he came back to pick something he forgot at home. I have explained everything to him but he is still insistent on divorcing me. Am I not been treated unfairly by my husband for helping his own father?

Worried wife
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My name is Annasthesia.  I'm the girl whose mistress came online sometime last week to accμsse me of running away with h...
24/01/2025

My name is Annasthesia. I'm the girl whose mistress came online sometime last week to accμsse me of running away with her 3 years old son. I saw a lot of funny comments under the post, many condemning my actions, with some even laying cμrses on me without waiting to hear my side of the story. I must say, una well done ohh!.

As I said earlier, my name is Annasthesia, and I'm from Benue State. I'm the last child in a family of four children. My mom died when I was just 12 years old. Barely two years after her death, my father joined her in the great beyond. Life became extremely tough for my siblings and me. My eldest brother, David, took me out of Makurdi to live with him in Lagos. He was a mechanic and lived with three other guys as roommates.

At one point, I had to drop out of school due to financial challenges. My brother found me a job as a housemaid for a rich woman. I started work immediately, but I didn't know how much I was being paid because the woman paid directly into my brother's account. From there, he would give me a small amount every two months for my upkeep. I was just a child, and I didn't know any better.

As I grew older, I began to realize that I was being taken advantage of. At 17 years old, I was wiser, and I started looking for freedom. I couldn't continue working for someone without seeing my salary. I wasn't getting any younger, and I knew I had to make a change. That was when I met Madam Rosa, the woman who came online to c@ll me out.

The agreement was that I would work for her as a live-in nanny, but when I arrived at the house, I was surprised to find that there were no children. When I asked her about it, she told me that the children were on vacation and would be back soon. So contrary to our agreement, I started working as a maid, awaiting the children's return, which never happened.

I never complained because the couple didn't give me any reason to. I was being showered with a kind of love and attention that my brothers have never shown me.

But along the line, the husband, Mr. Romanus, started making advances towards me, and I, being young and inexperienced, didn't understand the implications of his actions. One day, I found myself in a compromising situation with him, and he took advantage of me. He defl0wered me and introduced me to a life of imm0rality. He warned me never to mention it to his wife, and I was too scared to say anything.

As the days turned into weeks, Mr. Romanus continued to vis¡t my room almost every night, and I felt trapped and helpless. I didn't know how to escape the situation, and I felt like I was living in a nightmare. One day, I fell ill, and my mistress took me to the hospital for a check-up. It was there that I discovered I was pregnant. She was alarmed or so I thought.

When I told her about my situation with her husband, she was furious. She accused me of sedμcing him and threatened to throw me out of the house. I was devastated and felt like my world was crashing down around me. Later that night, I was crying in my room, awaiting my fate, when my mistress walked in. She sat down beside me and spoke at length about how she had plans for me and how disappointed she was in me.

I knelt down and apologized with tears in my eyes. In the end, she promised to take care of me throughout my pregnancy. However, she made it clear that I had to keep the pregnancy a secret, and I was grateful for her willingness to help me. I ended all connections with my family and dedicated my life to serving the couple. I was treated like a queen during my pregnancy, and I felt indebted to them.

However, as my pregnancy progressed, I noticed that my mistress was also pregnant. But one night, in my sixth month, she and her husband came to me with an unusual request.

“You will have the baby, but I will be the mother”. She requested.

“How? Why?” I asked, confused.

The husband explained that I was too young to nurse a baby and that my family would not be happy about me having a child out of w€dlock. He also said that society would c0ndemn me, and no man would want to marry me.

“I'm going to be the mother until you're of age”. The woman said.

I was young and naive, and I saw the reason in their argument. I agreed to their proposal. I also agreed to remain indoors throughout the period I was pregnant.

On the day of the delivery, I wasn't taken to a hospital. Instead a private nurse was brought to the house. When I opened my eyes after delivery, I saw the nurse smiling down at me.

“Congratulations, darling. You have a baby boy”. She announced.

“Where is he?”. I asked, scanning the room.

“With your aunt in the other room”. She replied.

Yet I wasn't allowed to leave the room, and the baby was always in another room with my mistress. She would only bring him to me when it was time for breastfeeding.

At first, I didn't see anything wrong with the arrangement, until I noticed that her own pregnancy had suddenly disappeared after I gave birth to my son. This sparked a wave of suspicion in me, and I started thinking that maybe they wanted to take my child away from me. It was also around this time that it dawned on me that they never actually had any children of their own. If they did, I would have seen some evidence of it by now - toys, baby clothes, or at least a few childish belongings scattered around the house. But there was nothing, which made me even more convinced that something was amiss.

When I fully recovered from my maternity rest, I resumed my duties as a maid and a nanny. I watched my son grow into a handsome toddler, but I dared not refer to him as my son. One day, while cleaning the master's bedroom, I stumbled upon a document that caught my attention. Although I didn't complete high school, I am not illiterate, and I can read and write very well.

The document contained three passports and three visas, and I discovered that my mistress and her husband were planning to relocate abroad with my son. I felt ch€ated and used, and I realized that I had to take action. That was how I took to my heels, taking my son along with me, only for me to come online later at night to see a viral video of my mistress, crying that her baby nanny had run away with her child. I was shocked and hurt by her accμsations, and I knew I had to tell my side of the story.

I don't really blame all these judges in the comment section because they didn't know the pains of watching your own child call another woman "mummy" while seeing you, the real mother, as a NANNY.

The child is mine, not hers. And I deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. I deserve to be acknowledged as the mother of my children, and I won't let anyone take that away from me. I'm f¡ghting for my rights, and I won't back down.
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