Obianuju Olivia

23/04/2021

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06/04/2021

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07/02/2021

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02/02/2021

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A Nigerian Man who goes by the name Jude Ayomide Skones on Twitter has released series of relationship advices for men on his Twitter handle.

15/01/2021

I want to appreciate you all for liking and following my page, this means so much to me. Website would be ready soon.

09/01/2021

Nwanyi Ochanja has landed in town.

Kiddies shoes available.

08/01/2021

I appreciate you all for liking and following my page. God bless you all.🙏

19/06/2020

I want to remind myself and you this morning not to cave in under pressure, not to bow or bend to it.

I understand the kind of pressure some of us are under, especially when you're constantly reminded of only things you haven't done. When you don't have that job yet and everyone is looking to you like a failure.

When you haven't started that business yet and you keep seeing people around you starting theirs, when your family won't stop pointing out your age mates and things they have achieved, when they show you those who have gotten married and those who are bringing money home.

Do you know one thing they fail to show you? Your mates who have died, those who have caved in and committed su***de. This lockdown also has increased depression due to the high rate of unemployment and due to the fact you're home with family members and they always mount pressure on you to turn papers into dollars.

Some families would even go as far as insulting you and denying you food because according to them, your mates should no longer be fed.

This days, my panic attacks comes frequently with my birthday fast coming close and my many goals remain unattained, I remain grateful for life and tell my heart, PEACE, BE STILL.

If you slip into depression and eventually take your life, everyone will move on including your family members, so hold strong, sorrow may endure for the night but joy comes in the morning. Learn to mute those negativity.

We shall all get there someday.

OBIANUJU OLIVIA ©️

25/04/2020

A little something to make you laugh.

25/04/2020

Good morning world. I was talking about mama Peace yesterday, yes, that angel woman who is a tailor would make fine gowns for me, I was never in lack of clothes because of her.

She introduced me to church, Redeemed Christian Church of God, and she would make sure she takes me along every Sunday, I can still remember her making a beautiful gown for me in 2 hours one Saturday so I could wear and take my child to church.

Surprised?

Yes I have a boy, the only good thing that came out of such horror, he set me free actually from him, want to know how?

I got pregnant sometime in 2012, when I got to 6 months and working became hard, dude decided to work all of a sudden, but couldn't continue because he was caught after stealing huge amounts of money from his boss who traced him to the house and met me instead, he was so shocked and decided not to prosecute, he left me with some money to see me through. Happened that dude told him he was living with his parents.

Mama Peace did not let hunger kill me, she did not let me be embarrassed, I made another friend along the line, Loveth Ifunanya who was always checking on me, she would ask me 100 times a day if I was hungry or sad.

Fast forward to when my child was 2 or 3 months, dude packed all his stuff and left, his excuse? That I have begin to wear bum shorts and seduce boys. What I know? He was running from the fatherhood and responsibility.

I nearly died but my baby's smile would make you forget about your pain, he has a lot of hair that I would plait, I dress him like a little king, thank God for giving me sense to save from when I worked, thank God for my pastor then, pastor Babatunde, thank God for Mummy Timi, mama Peace and Loveth, these ones no let me down.

Tomorrow being the 26th of April, my consolation would be having his 7th birthday, over the years, I have sometimes gotten curious about why his father never cared to see him, until I learnt he has another child with another girl and left her too.

23/04/2020

23.04.20

A lot of people thrive when they know that others have been through what they are going through and overcame.

They heal when they can resonate with your stories.

Imagine what life would have been like if others didn't document their journeys for our wisdom

Too many would have been running in an endless loop trying to reinvent the wheel

In this journey from here to there, we are all so grateful we are never alone.

Someone somewhere has been through this path before

And that alone might be the assurance we need that we would weather the storm.

Our stories, whether the good, the bad and the not so good all have their roles to play

Yours might just be that light others have been waiting for to step out of their darkness

May healing flow through your brokenness.

You're a beacon of hope.

25/03/2020

At times such as these. Endeavor to stay safe.

Avoid crowded places.

Wash your hands always and thoroughly with soap and running water.

Don't forget to sanitize your hands always.

Obey government directive to stay at home.

Isolate yourself if you notice even the slightest symptoms.

Help yourself and those around you by reporting to the right authorities if you feel the symptoms of Corona virus.

Help educate people around you too.

This too shall pass.

16/03/2020

In females

Depression is nearly twice as common among women as men, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

Below are some symptoms of depression that tend to appear more often in females:

irritability

anxiety

mood swings

fatigue

ruminating (dwelling on negative thoughts)

Also, some types of depression are unique to females, such as:

postpartum depression

premenstrual dysphoric disorder

16/03/2020

Signs and symptoms

The symptoms of depression can include:

a depressed mood

reduced interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed

a loss of sexual desire

changes in appetite

unintentional weight loss or gain

sleeping too much or too little

agitation, restlessness, and pacing up and down

slowed movement and speech

fatigue or loss of energy

feelings of worthlessness or guilt

difficulty thinking, concentrating, or making decisions

recurrent thoughts of death or su***de, or an attempt at su***de.

16/03/2020

Depression is a mood disorder that involves a persistent feeling of sadness and loss of interest.

It is different from the mood fluctuations that people regularly experience as a part of life.

Major life events, such as bereavement or the loss of a job, can lead to depression.

However, doctors only consider feelings of grief to be part of depression if they persist.

Depression is an ongoing problem, not a passing one.

It consists of episodes during which the symptoms last for at least 2 weeks.

Depression can last for several weeks, months, or years.

13/03/2020

This days, depression is killing more people than AIDS.

What is worse is that people are shamed for saying they are depressed.

The society has turned it into some stigma of some sort.

People suffering depression has gone silent for fear of being considered weak.

People who committed su***de are called names and considered deranged.

I say, never let anyone make you feel that been depressed is a sign of stupidity and weakness.

I say, depression is a mental sickness you can actually heal from.

I say, it may take time and real effort but you can actually be free from it.

13/03/2020

What is depression?

Depression is classified as a mood disorder. It may be described as feelings of sadness, loss, or anger that interfere with a person’s everyday activities.

13/03/2020

We are in the age where depression is as common as malaria, while many are equiped emotionally to handle it, some people are not.