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You most understand why the leaders under consideration may also be our ministers, pastors, priests; all those men and w...
20/09/2025

You most understand why the leaders under consideration may also be our ministers, pastors, priests; all those men and women who serve God at the head of our churches, chapels and charities. God wishes us not only to be obedient to him, but also to those within his fellowship who have dedicated their lives to following his words and wisdom. For in order to be truly wise, we ought to also know that knowledge does not spring from oneself alone, but in knowing when to listen, especially to leaders who know the word of Christ inside out, who have spent their lives and careers devoted to understanding his salvation.

The reason why you must understand that God places each of us in a position of authority at one time or another. We are ...
19/09/2025

The reason why you must understand that God places each of us in a position of authority at one time or another. We are parents, CEOs, managers, pastors, or teachers, to name a few. The setting makes no difference; God directs us to treat each position the same. We must be righteous, merciful, and fair. Good leaders observe the strengths of those they oversee and encourage them to use their abilities for God's plan.

The bass from the speakers was a physical thing, a thrumming heartbeat you felt in your teeth. From the curb, I watched ...
19/09/2025

The bass from the speakers was a physical thing, a thrumming heartbeat you felt in your teeth. From the curb, I watched the silhouettes of graduates dance against the lit-up windows of my daughter Amara’s off-campus house. This was her world now: a whirl of future doctors, engineers, and artists, their laughter sharp and joyous against the night air.

My phone buzzed in my hand. Amara: So sorry you couldn’t make it, Mum! It’s chaos but so much fun! We ordered like 10 pizzas lol. Love you! xx

I smiled, tightening my grip on the handles of the large, insulated pot at my feet. She’d told me not to come. “It’s not your scene, Mum,” she’d said gently. “Just a bunch of us being loud and silly.” She was trying to protect me, I knew. To separate her university life from her home life. But some threads can’t be cut.

I’d spent the afternoon building a masterpiece. The jollof rice was more than just food; it was our history. I’d fried the tomato paste until it bled oil, added the onions and peppers until the very air in our kitchen thickened with memory. I’d stirred in the rice, each grain destined to soak up the rich, peppery stock. The chicken, roasted and falling off the bone, was nestled on top. It was a pot of home. A pot of pride.

Taking a deep breath, I hoisted the pot and walked toward the pulsating noise.

The front door was open. I navigated through a sea of backpacks and discarded shoes, the pot leading the way like a culinary shield. I found the kitchen, a disaster zone of pizza boxes and red plastic cups. And there she was.

Amara was in the center of the room, demonstrating a dance move to her friends, her head thrown back in a laugh I could barely hear over the music. She was so effortlessly cool, so grown.

I set the pot down on the only clear corner of the counter with a soft, definitive thud. A guy with a bright blue beanie turned. “Whoa, delivery?” he asked, peering at the pot.

Amara turned, her smile still in place, ready to shoo away another pizza guy. Then she saw me.

Her face went through a journey: confusion, shock, a flicker of horror that her mother had invaded her sanctum. Then, I lifted the lid.

The scent didn’t ask for attention; it commanded it. It was a warm, spicy, profound aroma that cut through the smell of cheap beer and pepperoni like a laser. It was the smell of Sundays, of family celebrations, of home.

A hush fell over the immediate group. Heads turned. Noses sniffed the air.

“Mum?” Amara said, her voice small against the dying music someone had wisely turned down. “What… what is that?”

“Jollof,” I said simply. “I thought you and your friends might be hungry.”

Her friend Chinwe, whose parents were from Lagos, let out a sound that was half-gasp, half-prayer. “No way. Is that… real jollof?”

The crowd parted as Amara walked toward me, her eyes fixed on the pot. She looked inside at the vibrant red rice, the perfectly browned chicken. She looked back at me, and her eyes, which had been bright with party fun, were now glistening with something else. Something deeper.

“You made this? For me? For us?”

Before I could answer, she threw her arms around my neck, squeezing me tightly. The music had stopped completely now. “You came,” she whispered into my shoulder, her voice thick. “You really came.”

Then the spell broke. “I’ve heard about this!” a tall boy exclaimed. “The legendary jollof!” “Pizza is cancelled!” someone else yelled, to a chorus of cheers.

I produced a stack of paper plates and a serving spoon from my bag. Amara took the spoon from me, her posture different. She was no longer just a graduate at a party; she was a priestess dispensing a sacrament. She served her friends, her voice proud and clear. “My mum made this. It’s her special recipe.”

I stood back, watching as they ate, their exclamations of “Oh my God!” and “This is incredible!” the only music needed. Amara caught my eye from across the room, a piece of chicken in her hand. She didn’t say anything. She just put her hand over her heart and smiled, a tear finally escaping down her cheek.

She was happy. Not because of the food, but because I had seen her, truly seen her, in her new world. And instead of turning away, I had walked right into the heart of it, bringing the best part of her old one with me. I had brought myself.

The rebellion began at dawn, with the sun still a faint blush on the horizon. The air held the season’s first true chill...
19/09/2025

The rebellion began at dawn, with the sun still a faint blush on the horizon. The air held the season’s first true chill, a warning of what was to come. The tomatoes knew it, and I knew it. This was the last stand.

I went out into the garden, the dew soaking the cuffs of my jeans. The plants were heavy and slumping, a tangled empire of green and red. They were not the pristine orbs from a supermarket; they were flawed, gloriously so. Some were split from a recent rain, their cracks like lightning forks. Others were misshapen, bulging with character. I cupped a hefty Brandywine in my palm, its skin warm from the remembered sun, and with a gentle twist, I broke its connection to the vine. It came away with a sigh.

The basket on my arm grew heavy, a collection of treasures: clusters of scarlet Romas, perfect for sauce; a few knobbily heirlooms, their colors a watercolor bleed of orange and pink; and a handful of tiny Sun Golds, like warm candy, which I ate on the spot, their explosive sweetness a secret between me and the morning.

Inside, the kitchen became my laboratory. I filled the sink with cool water, baptizing the harvest, washing away the dust and the tiny specks of soil. The real alchemy began with a large pot of water, brought to a rolling boil. One by one, I lowered the tomatoes in, just for a minute, until their skins puckered and split like old parchment. Then, into an ice bath they went, shocking them into letting go.

The peeling was meditative. The taut skin slid away under my thumbs with a soft, satisfying pull, revealing the warm, seedy flesh beneath. I let the juices run down my wrists. The Romas, I cubed. The heirlooms, I simply crushed with my hands in a large bowl, feeling the seeds and pulp ooze through my fingers. It was primal, this making of something from raw, living matter.

The biggest pot I owned took center stage on the stove. Into it went the crimson mound of prepared tomatoes. It started as a chunky stew, bubbling lazily. I added nothing but a few sprigs of thyme from the windowsill and a single bay leaf. For hours, it simmered. The sharp, acidic scent of fresh fruit mellowed, transforming into the deep, rich, savory perfume of sauce. I stirred occasionally, watching the transformation, the reduction, the deepening of color from bright red to a profound, brick red.

While it simmered, I prepared the jars. They stood in a row on the counter, gleaming glass soldiers. I washed them in hot, soapy water, then sterilized them in a boiling bath, ensuring their emptiness was pure, ready to be filled.

When the sauce had thickened to a consistency that coated the back of a spoon, I fished out the thyme stems and the bay leaf. The kitchen windows were steamed up, the air thick with the concentrated essence of summer.

Ladle by ladle, I filled the hot jars, leaving just the right amount of headspace. I wiped the rims with a clean cloth—a crucial step, a seal of good faith. Then came the lids, placed on top with a soft click, and the bands, screwed on fingertip-tight.

The final act was the water bath. The jars went back into the giant canning pot, submerged, boiling for a long, steady forty-five minutes. The wait was filled with a quiet anticipation. Then, one by one, I lifted them out with tongs and set them on a towel on the counter.

Ping. Ping. Ping.

The sound was a tiny, triumphant fanfare. Each clear, metallic note was the sound of success, a vacuum seal locking summer inside. I watched as the lids, once slightly domed, were pulled down by an invisible force, concave and unyielding.

I left them there to cool overnight. In the morning, I ran my fingers over the cool glass, reading the labels I’d written: “Summer ’23.” Inside, captured like a genie in a lamp, was the sun of August, the rain of September, and the labor of a crisp October morning. They stood in a row on the pantry shelf, not just jars of sauce, but promises. Promises of a taste of warmth to be opened on a frigid night in February, a little bit of saved sunshine, a story sealed in glass.

19/09/2025

My cooking process

We must understand why pride is one of the so called 'seven deadly sins', and with good reason. Arrogance in ones own im...
19/09/2025

We must understand why pride is one of the so called 'seven deadly sins', and with good reason. Arrogance in ones own importance over others is vain, and angers God. There is nothing that may rival Gods heights and power, and yet, he shows no arrogance. No nation, no group, no person is 'number one'. With true faith and love in ones heart, all are equal in the eyes of our Lord.

How often, we speak before we have to opportunity to think about our words. In the heat of the moment, we immediately ex...
18/09/2025

How often, we speak before we have to opportunity to think about our words. In the heat of the moment, we immediately express negative feelings without analyzing the situation first. We jump to conclusions when directing meetings and speak in haste with our children before evaluating all sides. As leaders in any setting, we must be tactful and make decisions by weighing all details. Instead of expressing emotions with our authority, we must seek to mediate justly and reflect the mercy of God with our decision-makin

You have to understand why It look like some of the lives of some non-believers are often much easier and carefree than ...
18/09/2025

You have to understand why It look like some of the lives of some non-believers are often much easier and carefree than our own. Unshackled to principle, they may float free between pleasures with no particular conscience. But this 'freedom' is not true freedom, and one shouldn't mistake it for what it really is; being lost in the wilderness. This 'freedom' of the non-believer does not extend into the afterlife, and is in fact, shackled only to this, our material world. Since they have not had to endure the call of their consciences, they will not find our God's eternal peace.

17/09/2025

Soup loading

The first thing I learned about my new village was its silence. It wasn't an empty silence, but a watchful one. The rust...
17/09/2025

The first thing I learned about my new village was its silence. It wasn't an empty silence, but a watchful one. The rustle of palm fronds, the distant chatter from compounds, the clang of a blacksmith's hammer—they all felt like a conversation I hadn't yet been invited to. I was Chiamaka, the city girl who had followed her heart to a husband and his ancestral home, and now I lived in the gentle, isolating glow of being politely called "new wife."

My husband, Uzochi, saw my loneliness. One evening, he said, "The way to a village's heart is through its biggest pot. On Saturday, the women are preparing a communal meal for the visiting masquerades. You should join them. Make your egusi soup."

My heart somersaulted. Egusi soup? My mother’s egusi was a legend in our family, a thick, aromatic masterpiece that was my proudest culinary achievement. But this wasn't for family. This was for the keepers of the village's tastebuds, for women who could tell the age of a palm nut by its smell and the freshness of a fish by the glint in its eye.

The morning of, I dressed in my best wrapper and tied my gele with a determination I didn't fully feel. I arrived at the village square with my bags of ingredients, my pride a fragile shield. The firewood fires were already roaring, and large iron pots sat over them like proud elders.

The women, led by the formidable Mama Obi, welcomed me with smiles that didn't quite reach their assessing eyes. They assigned me a pot and a spot. The real test had begun.

I laid out my ingredients not as a display, but as an offering. I had soaked the bitter leaves myself, washing them until the water ran clear, patient as a monk. My egusi seeds were ground to a fine, pale yellow powder. I had the red oil from our own nuts, the choice stockfish, the fattest dried fish, and the fresh beef, cut just so.

I started, and the world narrowed to the dance of my pot. I fried the meat until it sang. I sautéed the onions in the red oil until the air itself turned gold and sweet. The scent was my first language, my first introduction. I felt the subtle shift in the atmosphere. The casual chatter nearby dipped. A few women paused in their own stirring to glance my way.

Then came the moment of truth. I poured in my ground egusi. I didn't just dump it; I stirred it into the oil, toasting it slowly, patiently, letting it release its deep, nutty soul into the air. This was the secret—the toasting, not the boiling. The aroma that rose was not just good; it was a story. It was the story of sun-drenched fields and my mother’s kitchen.

I added my stock, a rich, fragrant broth I had made from scratch. The soup began to simmer, thick and promising. Finally, the bitter leaves. I stirred them in, their slight sharpness the perfect counterpoint to the nutty richness.

I was so lost in my own world that I didn't notice Mama Obi standing beside me until her shadow fell across my pot.

She didn't say a word. She simply picked up the wooden spoon from my table, dipped it into the simmering pot, and blew on it gently. She took a taste.

The square seemed to hold its breath. I held mine.

She closed her eyes. For a long moment, she was silent. Then, she opened them and looked at me, and this time, the smile was not just in her mouth, but in the very wrinkles around her eyes.

"Ah, my daughter," she said, her voice loud enough for everyone to hear. "You did not come with empty hands. You have brought your home with you."

She dipped the spoon again and called out to the others. "Come! Come and taste what a proper egusi soup is! We have a new master among us!"

One by one, they came. They tasted. They nodded. They asked questions—"What did you use for your stock?" "How long did you toast the egusi?" Their questions were no longer tests; they were invitations.

They moved my pot, my beautiful, bubbling pot of pride, to the center of the fire. My egusi soup was not just accepted; it was given a place of honor.

As we sat later, eating from the same large bowls, the laughter that had felt distant now included me. The stories they told were now told for me. I was no longer the "new wife." I was Chiamaka, whose egusi soup could make Mama Obi close her eyes in respect.

I had come to the village with a heart full of love and a head full of fear. But I had introduced myself with a pot full of pride. And in that beautiful, delicious beginning, I didn't just feed my new village; I found my new place. I had spoken a language everyone understood, and they had answered with a welcome that tasted

The reason you have to understand why we most Love one another; it is as simple as that. For if God demands you to honor...
17/09/2025

The reason you have to understand why we most Love one another; it is as simple as that. For if God demands you to honor his creation, this also includes his people. Love is not a science, it is an art that takes constant negotiation, communication, and consideration. But should we become better in this, all the better not only for this world, but also in preparing us for the next -wherein everything resides within the arms of our everlasting and loving Fathe

16/09/2025

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