12/12/2024
*STUBBORN WOMEN ARE ALWAYS A FAILURE IN LIFE!*
_Stubborn women fail in their marriages, and even in their relationships with relatives._
_Women who lack emotional intelligence and flexibility in dealing with people around them, are the biggest failures in their marriages and their lives._
*Why?*
_Because, she enters into an egoistic tug of war with her husband, and prefers the voice of her ego to try to overcome him, and in fact she fails before the ego of her husband and the ego of those who are around her, because men become more stubborn in front of a stubborn wife and stubborn sister, and they become more gentle in front of a submissive woman._
_A headstrong woman thinks that she can win while insisting on her opinion, and she can stand in front of any opposition. She forgets that even if she wins by her obstinacy in her opinion and stand, she loses the heart that was loving her and caring for her even Christ favour upon her._
_Many narrations and Wise Proverbs in all the cultures on earth today, Praising an Easy-going, Soft, Friendly, Patient and Enduring Women. Even Christ gave his Peace and Blessings to her and her companions. That is the favour a man finds when he marries a woman._
_He recommended and praised a woman who respects her husband, speaks with softness and wisdom, and in turn, the husband loved her and cherished her._
_The woman who will obey her husband and stoop to let the storm pass; she is the wise rational woman who thrives and holds the family together. The woman who stands like an unyielding dry stick is the one who breaks and suffer irreparable damage._
_The uncompromising woman clings to her opinion. She tries to constantly perpetuate the illusion of her victory:_
_I Win and You Lose,_
_I am Right and You are Wrong. Such a woman destroys herself before destroying others and she lives a life of sorrowful despondency in this world and hereafter._
_From my experiences in marital life and counseling, I found out that, mulish (stubborn, obstinate, intractable) women always end up in divorce, and bitterly fail in their family and social life. They even end up destroying their own father's family and their siblings'_
_The advice of a bedouin, an Arab woman to her daughter on the day of her marriage is considered by all the successful women on earth the best advice for a woman._
*She Said:*
_"Be his slave...... and surely, he'll become your imminent slave"._
_"Men are kind, generous and benevolent, but a stubborn and foolish woman turns them into enemies."_
_But these days you see some mothers advising their daughters, go and come back. In other words, stay when it is better and return when it is worse... Then, you'll see single mothers with over five or six children everywhere, committing adultery, fornicating even with their age mate's children, their children's age mate, with another woman's husband etc just for survival after missing the track, yielding to wrong advice earlier on. Lord Have Mercy........._
*Finally, I Quote A Wise Saying By; Sheikh Abdus Salam al-Madani, Founder: Aspire College of Excellence.*
_I was a civil court judge for 27 years and I found out that most of the divorce incidents are caused by the anger of a man through the foolish responses of a woman. In other words, the stubbornness of a woman makes a man ten times more stubborn than her._
_Well, in these days of feminism and female affirmative action, l find out that the perceptions young women have about what should be their relationship with their spouses is seriously blighted by ego and impatience. They are not willing to work on their inherent flaws, and feel the man should be the one to adjust to their own idiosyncrasies. I personally think the above tips works and any woman who wants to make a success of her marriage will do well to follow them._
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