12/01/2025
I know a lot of men want to marry g!rls in their early 20s largely because of their youthfulness,
But the truth is, while their youth is enticing, g!rls within that age range still have so much to learn from life.
AGE shapes a woman better than education or exposure can ever do. There are things only age can teach a w||man.
No matter how exposed or educated a girl in her early 20s, she still believes she has time,
And that concept of “I’m still young” creates an HINDERANCE and doesn’t give her the URGENCY she needs to face life or plan her life.
Assuming she’s 21-22, even if she waste 3 years of her life chasing fantasies, she’ll still be 25 and still in her prime.
But a 25 year old girl cannot afford to waste 3 years of her life chasing fantasies because now she feels the URGENCY.
URGENCY shapes a woman’s mindset, because age serves as a constant reminder that she cannot afford to waste any more years on fruitless dating or social activities.
If you hang around sensible ladies in their late 20s or early 30s, the energy flow is different, the conversation is different.
They’re thinking business, investments, family values, how to ensure they’re not liabilities to their man and how to support him.
While majority of girls in their early 20s are discussing Saidaboj, thinking hairdo, fancy nails, latest fashion, phones with clean camera and how to find a man that’ll spoil them.
They often come to dates empty handed, No transportation, no data to chat, no airtime to call, “ Babe I don’t like what they cooked at home. 🤦♂️
90% of girls in their early 20s, do not like being asked what they’d bring to the table, they find it offensive because they still think they’ve got time and options. ( To be fair, they’re brokies)
Only 10% of them are built different but even at that, age is still a factor, You’d have to be patient with them.
The mindset of “ I’m still young “ HINDERS a lot of them from taking their lives seriously and it is completely natural.
