29/07/2024
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*"I'm responding to my husband, the man who said; he married me, sponsored me into a nursing school, took me abroad & i bétràyéd him by processing my boyfriend's pappers to join me in the States & got pregnant for him..
*Pls, I'm not here to defend myself but tell exactly how it happened, so the world can also understand my position in the whole situation.
* I had to drop out of school due to lack of finances. My parents are retired primary school teachers. During that very tough period, this guy's mom, came to our house & told my mom she'll wish for her son to marry me. My parents talked me into it even though they knew, i was already in a serious relationship & so much in love with my boyfriend.
*I actually didn't have much of a choice since, the guy was based abroad & also doing very well. I felt like this was a God given opportunity to eradicate p0vérty in my family. On a quest to also pls my family too. After a few chats with him, Our wedding was set in which, he came back to the country & we finalized our marriage.
* Now before he traveled back, i pleaded that instead of hi, being in a haste to process my documents he should instead register me into nursing school & start processing my documents when am almost about to graduate, since it will obviously be expensive if i should school abroad & also so, it can help me
get a good job when i finally join him. He was happy, proud of me & even praised me for being smart.
*He finally registered me & also an apartment was rented & furnished for me to stay in, so i be comfortable while i school. Just few month before my husband went back. My boyfriend came to me & cr!ed, pleading that he was still very much in love with me. I felt really pity for him knowing, he did nothing wrong to me & I was also still & very much & deeply inlove with him, i couldn't resist taking him back. we started seing each other again & he even moved in with me.
*So, I started asking my husband more money & complaining of financial shortages in which he always sent a huge sums. I used this monies to also register my boyfriend into an ICT learning program, so he can graduate with an international standards certificate which, can as well help him get a good job abroad. We had it discussed & planed that, when i finally move to the states, I'll process he's documents while he joins me later.
*Actually, We saw this as a good opportunity which could change our lives. I believed it was God's doing. To cut the long story short. Luckily My visa was ready few months after my graduation. In which i joined my husband in the states. That same week, i immidiately started making enquiries on how i could go about to get a job. My husband confessed how proud & happy he was to have an ambitious woman as i for a wife. He even helped me out in getting me a "work permit" & also summited my cv to several hospitals & that's how i finally got a job..
*However, i was still keeping in touch with my boyfriend. After 4yrs of living abroad, I was already well established & stable. After several trials & failures. My boyfriend's visa finally came out. I actually had no child with my husband for 4yrs, he was worried. We did several tests which always proved that, we're both ok. It's true that i was taking pills to avoid getting pregnant for him & i also denied him access to my b0dy for 6 months. Truth is by this time, my boyfriend was already in the states. In which i finally got pregnant for him. I really didn't care anymore, if my husband found out about us cuz i was already deeply & màdly inlove with my Finace'..
*I ctually planed on revealing everything to my husband in due time & probably ask for his forgiveness. But somehow he found out on his own before i could.. it's true I didn't feel remorseful. But instead served him with dv0s papers. My mind was already made up. I'm sorry to say, Our marriage from the onset was a shàm, I honestly never loved him. My heart belongs to another. I did what i did out of love, any w0màn in my shoe will do just same. I'm just a lady who's in love, God br me weakness that, i didn't mean for this to happen. I'm not here to defend myself like i said but rather to apologize. I'm so sorry Rowland. You are a good man.
*Even after everything i did. You still asked us to fix our marriage even when, I'm pregnant for someone els & you kept apologizing, when I'm the one that wronged you. Pls forgive me. I'm sorry that i can not stay. Pls consider my feelings too, My heart belongs to someone els. It wouldn't be good for us. Thanks so much for signing the dvos pappers. My Fiance' & I are ready & willing to repay everything & even more that you've ever done or spend on me, pls name your price. I'm pleading with you that you kindly see me as a sister you helped out of poverty, pls let's not be eném!s but rather be friends.
* I'm sure that my God will repay you & sent someone whom will love you, just like you deserve Rowland. I know, this is not you, you're a good man, i believe you came to soc!al média to xp0s me out of frústrat!0n & dpréss!0n. Pls, forgive me & my family. I'm so sorry😭🙏"
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