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28/02/2025

Ramadan Mubarak all

If you have questions about taraweeh prayers and others

Try watching all this link videos

https://youtu.be/EWZBN-WwDRQ?si=RqMRcv1bgHqkiiHd

For people like me who can't attend congregation taraweeh prayer

https://youtu.be/p32uKcz2sEM?si=818teGkCTaCTHK90
Differences between night prayers

https://youtu.be/DAuBcLPopOk?si=fyti0JdHzeDrmGkG
How to pray them

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22/02/2025

Let me tell you something about the people that cheat on their partner

👉 They just want to do it, not because you are not enough or because of anything that concern you especially when some of them want to fault you just to justify the reason they do it, no, they fault you because they know they did you wrong and need to fault you in order not to feel any guilt

👉 They won't stop because you are trying to educate them on stopping, no my dear, they won't, it's not something you should try to stop but a decision they should decide themselves to stop, because if they didn't decide themselves, your own lectures, nagging, and all negative reactions will only improve their cheating activities

👉 They feel like if you would have accepted them, then, nothing is wrong with them, so, they can also attract others they want and see if they will be accepted. Here is when it down on most of them that what their partner has accepted and loved about them wasn't even looked at or time by those they want.

22/02/2025

The best decision you can ever make as a mother is giving a good father to your child

I am not talking about a father you have to endure from or a father you have to give senses to etc

No, but a father that when your child is being called of his name, you will stand and be like, alhamdulillah

He is a father, a husband, a friend, someone that you and your child will feel so safe by his present, a matured person that when you and your child/children sees, you will be grateful to Allah and wish him all the good things in this world and hereafter

That will be your biggest achievement as a mother
If not
You and your child will regret ever having to relate with the opposite of above mentioned especially if he doesn't have any direction in his life or he is not even mature enough to be a father, you go hear am.

But if the mistake is already done, try and distance yourself and your child/children from such man and make sure to impact the best of the best knowledge to your child/children.

22/02/2025

Two different men with different personalities and understanding
Choose well.

10/02/2025

HOW THE COURT REACT TO SUPPOSED UNWANTED PREGNANCY
Reply from Atanda

The person that report:
My girlfriend got pr£gnant late last year and i pleaded with her to remove it cos am not ready fin'ancially to be a father

We agreed and i gave her m0ney to renove it before it becomes too late

Last week, she called me to let me know that her parents now know about the pr£gnancy and i was like which pr£gnancy

She said the pr£gancy na and she was telling me that she used the said medicine but the pr£gnancy did not flush away

Atanda, my head was sounding Gbagaon cos i don't even know what to say

Something we agreed on and i gave you m0ney for and you are now looking for a way to push it on me when am not ready fin'ancially

Atanda, i still have a very long way to go in life, pls what can i do cos i an not ready

Atanda reply:
Pregnancy and children matters are very sacred before the law
There is nothing like unwanted Pregnancy or a bastard child or illegitimate child under the law.

It's not a thing of mistake

Cos you calculated well for the arrangement and as you dey chuck your joystick into her tiny well, while playing with the two natural oranges, you don't expect a cat or football to come out of it.

Small pim pim into that tiny well, especially for fertile women ehn,
Pregnancy don show face be dat and as e show face
You must be responsible for your deliberate action

The child must not suffer cos of Negligence from two adults

So, oga

This kind of agreement to kpai innocent child coming to this world is null and void under the law

In fact, if you mention it out that you had agreement to ab0rt the baby ehn, FREE beans for you

Cos ab0rtion is very serious crime under the law in Nigeria and it's now an offence to take fin'ancially responsibility over the person you got pregnant (anoda wahala for you)

You see this seed wey you plant
You go follow harvest am

Be a man and take charge of your responsibility while she take her own part too

She must be responsible for her own actions too, na Equal rights

Now wey your responsibility don increase, you go need to increase your source of income too

My own POV:
If no be say most of my genders no sabi law
Omo
Alot of men go hear am
Sha, some of my genders will still let it slide even if they have knowledge of it waiting for the right time.
Sha
As a lady like this, have a good job, apply to have full custody of your child from the court, then wait for the yeye man to come and claim child later especially if he is like this man. He has a long way to go in life but not his preeq, hindiot🙄.

02/02/2025

It is well
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After you have eaten tomotoes, pepper, beans which was milled with this machine with paints and grease entering your food for the past 30years.
At 55, you are beginning to have unexplained symptoms cancers, elevated liver enzymes, you wouldn't understand your problem started gradually from the grease and paints from this machine.

Food processing machines are not painted, they are fabricated with stainless steel, food are not suppose to come in contact with moveable machine parts especially the ones lubricated with carcinogenic materials like grease.

But in Nigeria wrought iron are used to fabricate these machine with toxic paints which find their way into your foods, and accumulate in your liver and underneath your skin causing severe symptoms as you grow old.

Infact a lot of food from this machinery are contaminated with LEAD!

01/02/2025

*ABUSIVE HUSBANDS didn't fall from the SKY. Someone RAISED a BOY WRONGLY.*

*Your 3years old SON gets ANGRY whenever you give him food he doesn't want and throws it on you, you laugh and say CHILDREN EN.*

*BABY BOY will lift his little hands and SLAP you when he wants you to drop him, all you would say is YOU ARE BEATING MUMMY. No other child in that AREA messes with him and you are calling him A NO NONESENSE BOY.*

*He picks up things from the ground and hits PEOPLE whenever he is stopped from doing something, you smile and call him ACTION BOY.*

*You expose him to all manners of VIOLENCE and say HE IS A MAN, MAN SUPPOSE GET MIND. Few years down the line the TEENAGE BOY BULLIES his SISTERS, COMMANDS them around like a MILITARY MAN, SHARES SLAPS as SOUVENIRS to anyone who cares to challenge him, you call him MAN OF THE HOUSE.*

*He grows up having his ways all through. Now he is a full grown man in the SOCIETY and it isn't funny anymore.*

*ABUSIVE HUSBANDS didn't fall from the sky, someone RAISED a BOY WRONGLY. Let us spend more time in preparing the male CHILD for marriage as much as the females. Let us RAISE our SONS right because we have so many IRRESPONSIBLE and ABUSIVE HUSBANDS. Truth is, it is easier to TRAIN a SON than to CORRECT a HUSBAND.*

31/01/2025

This are somethings innocent boys go through in school and even homes

Look out for them too

**Sensitive post

"Was I molested? Nah, I wasn't...well, I'm not sure what to call it because na me carry my leg waka go there. I was in boarding school (form 1) and my school father (form 5) asked me to come with him to 'town' (town meant we were sneaking out). Usually, this was to eat and we'd wear dark coloured m***i so as not to be easily seen while jumping fence or going through the bushes.

We headed to town and stopped at what was supposed to be a buka (food vendor) but as we approached, I saw ladies with big big things displayed like they were literally for sale. I walked behind him wondering what was going on and why they were trying to hold him like he owed them money (much later in life, I realised it was the opposite).

I kept hearing 'customer' but I didn't see food or any sign of cooking. After what seemed like a lengthy talk with one of them, she called another, whispered things to her and left with my school father. The second lady held my hands and asked me to walk with her.

We got into a poorly lit room that seemed luxurious compared to our hostels but still felt off. Then the interrogation began. Do you know why you are here? Small boy like you? How old are you even? So, you already know women?

It was uncomfortable and I didn't understand why she sounded rude. She took off all her clothes and asked me to 'see' and I saw. Then she asked me to 'touch' and I touched. She dressed up and asked me to leave, and I left quietly.

Outside, I stood in the corner waiting for my school father, wondering what had just happened. When he came back, he laughed at me and said I was now a man.

Was that the last time I went there? I wish I could tell you it was."
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28/01/2025

Copied from a commenter on 2baba and Annie case

Your first child with him is his fifth, and you were jn the picture before all the other kids' mothers. That means, d guy misbehave once and said sorry for baby number 1 n u agreed, he went and did second and said sorry n u again agreed n forgave,he went for the third and said sorry yet u agreed n forgave and he did fourth and said sorry and u agreed and forgave before u landed him ur first baby making it his fifth yet no one has eyes to see that u appeared vulnerable and too attached ? 2baba momsi put sugar water on his gbola,I guess. lol! Baba saw u as a weakling who would take every mess in the name of love. I can't blame u for being in love but blame u for being mumu four times, so it was just a matter of time for him to leave coz the evidence is clear that he saw his maga in love, so it was easy for a repeat of misbehavior. I am sad for u on one end but then u made him feel u were zero without him so it felt exhausting . Sorry Annie but the red flags were huge from the start, very visible to the blind and audible to the deaf, but love made u ignored till u are hit harder today. A learning experience. Annie presented herself to be taken for granted right from the start. We hate misbehavior from women but in our heart of hearts, we love women who are aware of their self worth and value and not someone who appears so vulnerable and obsessed. It never ends well in such cases. We wanna be aware of the corresponding repercussions of our actions coz it keeps us on our feet to behave well, but Annie's over zealous love for 2baba was a catalyst for his misbehavior coz he even said yesterday that " he loves Annie but he thinks it's time they go their separate ways coz he wants a woman that challenges him intellectually and not someone who is so attached ( obsessed) with him that makes him think he's a master". She never strongly criticised his poor actions, hence he repeated them, so he felt she isn't strong willed as a lady. It's easy for any man to sack such a lady . She was her own devil, sadly. Even my father in philosophy, Socrates said " an unexamined life isn't worth living". He went further to say that " the best teacher in this world is yourself" . Know thyself always. At times, we need what you called human meditation, meditation of self conscience where you constructively critique yourself or scan your life and throw away those rubbish you do not need. Until you come to that realisation, you would remain social halliluyah man or woman or in other words, a yes sir or yes madam even when you know that your values are being immeasurably compromised, and that's the worst state any human can reach, believing your life and peace of mind is tied to another. Tufiakwa!

Wishing her the fortitude to bear this pain that should have been long avoided, coz it has always been a time bomb, waiting to get blasted.

A lady commented
What then should women do? If we cheat and misbehave, we are divorced on that ground. We are being called names, the world will hate at us because we cheated and we miss behaved.

If we are arrogant and opposed to every decisions made by our husband. The world will say that we are not humble and that we are not submissive. We will be divorce on that ground

If We love her husband so foolishly, get attached to him, humbled and obeyed everything that he says. for the sake of love we swallow every bitter pills that he puts in our mouth. For the sake of love we try to understand everything wishing and praying that one day he may change. And yet we are served a divorce paper, we are being told that we over love, we are being told that we are too attached, we are being told that we are too humble, we are being told that we are too submissive.
What will women do?

He replied
Don't be arrogant but know where your value lies and know when they're being compromised and have a conversation about it. If it persists, leave early for ur mental health and pride. Don't love till you're lost . We love women that are respectful but strong willed, not rude or arrogant

19/01/2025

A word is enough for the wise.

19/01/2025

Yeye
The husband nko
Where should they send him to learn?
Abi
Na only wife dey learn?
Make en too go learn how to lock his manhood for only one wife till he is ready to marry more. Also learn how to respect his wife and not to be taking late night calls, chat numerous girlfriend. He should also learn how to cook because wife can become sick. He should learn how to help with house chores, e get why

This year
Na gbasgbos
Everytime, an upcoming wife should......
Upcoming husbands nko
Mtcheeeeeew