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20/05/2024

Many people want to learn how to publish their books on Amazon and have fallen into the hands of scammers parading themselves as KDP.

You can do this yourself and of course, teach people how to publish their books on Amazon.

That's why, I have organised this intensive training for you. In this training, I will be teaching you EVERYTHING you need to know to get your book published and how to open an international account number with which you'd get your royalty (money) from Amazon.

It is just N15, 000. If you need someone to upload your book for you on Amazon, it is nothing less than $50 but you can learn to do this yourself.

The class holds on the 31st of May. Don't miss out, only limited slots are available for the current price. Subsequently, the price might change

To sign up,
Pay 15,000 naira
GT Bank
0234229621
Adaoma Onwukaeme

Once you make payment, send the proof of payment, phone number, and email address to my DM.

You can also make payment here
https://bit.ly/AmazonKDPIntensiveTraining

20/05/2024

Johnny Johnny
Yes papa
Eating sugar
No papa
Are you sure
Yes papa
Open your mouth
Only to see a mouth of sugar.

Our babies are watching it. What do you think they are learning, that sugar is not good?
I laugh in Swahili.

20/05/2024

My Korean neighbor must be doing a fantastic job or maybe it's just luck, whatever it is, I love it!

I grew up in a society where you always greet your elders. You cannot see the face of a familiar elder walk pass you and not greet. If you are with your parents, they will nudge you to greet and you dare not start asking who the person is, you just greet.

Then, I came to Korea where everyone minds their business, you don't even know your neighbors. You meet a Korean child, they stare at you like you are from Mars and sometimes, they exchange pleasantries with you by saying hello. Then, there are our own children, who stare at you and you feel the stare poking holes in you and then they only greet when you nudge them to.

Imagine my surprise the other day when I was drying my clothes under the sunlight and this breathe of sunshine walked in and with a smile, said hello to me. I was shocked and I replied.

Then two days later, his younger brother was returning from school and met me at the gate and bowed and greeted me in Korean, I felt like I should jump. I am extreme, I know. Na only me know how and why e sweet me.

For me, it's not the greeting, it signaled, I see you.

Anyways, whether the parents are to be applauded or not, I appreciate the gesture.

17/05/2024

As a teenager, I started wearing eye glasses and then the optician or optometrist, please, forgive me, I forget which one now, told me, I would be wearing corrective lenses. So, I prided myself on having a good eyesight.

Some years ago, I lost my glasses and since I was told my lenses were corrective, I carried on with life. Once in a while, I would wear the blue lenses to filter off bright lights.

Whenever I walked at night, I see light of beams like streaks and I thought it was normal. I just thought that was the way light was supposed to be seen.

But I got worried when my headaches were persistent and how blurry objects were when I looked at them. I knew I had astigmatism but I felt it was just a minor thing, afterall, I could see people afar off. But then again, I realised that I couldn't see people's faces clearly when they come close to me.

Imagine my shock when I went for a proper eye examination and was jumping like a baby. I was seeing the world differently.

Some days, I step out of the house and realise that something is wrong, everything is blurry and then I run back to go wear my glasses. Gosh! All my buga in the mud.

Well, May is healthy vision month and this is a reminder to go get your eyes checked and even that of your children.

I love you.

15/05/2024

Are you an aspiring author dreaming of seeing your name on the cover of a book? Or you’re an entrepreneur looking to expand your brand with published content? This Amazon KDP Intensive training is your gateway to the world of self-publishing, and it’s accessible to anyone ready to invest in their publishing journey.

Who Can Join?
Aspiring Authors: If you have a story to tell or knowledge to share, this course will guide you through turning your manuscript into a published e-book or paperback.

Experienced Writers: Even if you’ve been published before, this class can refine your skills and update you on the latest trends and tools in self-publishing.

Entrepreneurs and Business Owners: Use the course to learn how to create books that complement your business and serve as a powerful marketing tool.

Bloggers and Content Creators: Expand your content’s reach by transforming your online material into an e-book or series of guides.

Coaches and Educators: Publish your methodologies and teachings to establish credibility and reach a wider audience.

Students: Gain valuable skills that can set you apart in the job market and provide a potential source of income.

Retirees: Share your lifetime of experiences or dive into fiction writing as a new venture in retirement.
Parents: If you have a child who loves to write stories, you can this training to gain the skills to help them publish their work.

Whether you’re taking your first step into publishing or looking to master the KDP platform, this course is an investment in your future as an author. With comprehensive lessons and hands-on guidance, you’ll be equipped to navigate the self-publishing landscape with confidence.

To sign up,
Pay 15,000 naira
GT Bank
0234229621
Adaoma Onwukaeme
Once you make payment, send the proof of payment, phone number, and email address to [email protected]

You can make payment here
https://bit.ly/AmazonKDPIntensiveTraining

15/05/2024

Relationships are helpful in your journey of fulfilling purpose. Don't close your heart to it. You will struggle.

15/05/2024

It is not about the destination or the journey but the person you are becoming along the way. Don't allow the process to be a waste, be refined, grow, evolve!

15/05/2024

Queen of Tears fan , behold your crush.🤣

14/05/2024

Today is a good day

14/05/2024

So, I watched a movie, can't remember whose channel. But the story was about a young artist who was doing quite well and had a boyfriend who was into crypto. He would stay home all day, mess the house and not clean up. He would even go as far as finish the food she meal prepped with his friend and never raised a finger to help.

One time, she got him a card from one of her clients and he flared up and asked her to even close down her gallery that being an artist isn't also profitable.

This guy was living with this girl in her house and even used the money they were saving for their wedding to buy coins without letting the girl know. He had only 400,000 naira out of 3.5M and took out a million.

On top of all these, he was a.bu.siv€ to the extent he sla.pp£d her infront of a client who helped her when she collapsed because of work exhaustion.

When the client asked why she was with him, she said, she was 32 and had spent 4 years with the guy.

Listen to me, young boys and girls, stop accepting non.£Sen.se.
Infact, stop this nonesense behavior of co-living before marriage. Yes, I said it.
Stop settling for crumbs, you are not a dog!
Omo Oba na im you be.
It is better to wait and get it right and live a beautiful life than to hurry to an early g.r.a.v.e or unhappy Un.ion. E no make. Sense na?

You sef think am.

14/05/2024

Mummies and Daddies, make your home a haven for your children.

14/05/2024

10 THINGS YOU LEARN FROM THE AMAZON KDP INTENSIVE CLASS

Are you interested in publishing a book on Amazon KDP and wondering if this class is a good fit for you? Let me share with you 10 things you will learn from this class. At the end of this class, you will:

1. Have a clear understanding of the KDP Platform: You will learn the ins and outs of Amazon’s Kindle Direct Publishing system.

2. Learn how to navigate the KDP Dashboard and become proficient in using the KDP dashboard for publishing.

3. Understand how to set the right price: learn the pricing strategies to maximize royalties and sales.

4. Learn how to choose the right keywords: Understand the importance of keywords for discoverability.

5. Be introduced to a system for formatting your book for Kindle and with practice, master the art of formatting your manuscript for the Kindle format.

6. Learn to write descriptions that entice readers to purchase.

7. Be introduced to the business of self-publishing on KDP. How to create a passive source of income using Kindle publishing.

8. Gain mastery of some tools to aid your publishing journey.

9. Learn how to use reader feedback to improve your work.

10. Learn how to set up an international payment system.

This and more are the things you will learn in this class and all for a token of N15,000 / $15 only. If you are an aspiring author, content creator, business owner, coach, educator, or just someone interested in writing and self-publishing, then hurry and sign up.

By the end of the class, you will have a comprehensive understanding of the self-publishing process and be equipped with the tools and knowledge to successfully publish your first book on KDP.

To sign up,
Pay 15,000 naira
GT Bank
0234229621
Adaoma Onwukaeme

Once you make payment, send the proof of payment, phone number, and email address to [email protected]

14/05/2024

No one is an island, we need relationships because God uses people to facilitate a part of His purpose in our lives Every relationship requires attention, care, and, above all, time to flourish. The thing is that we are often seeking for new and exciting relationships that we often overlook the beauty of what's already before us.

Stop looking for new relationships when you are not willing to invest in the ones in your life presently.

So, before you extend your hand to a new face, ask yourself: Have I appreciated the hands already holding mine? Have I invested in the hearts that have invested in me?

Before you lie on the ground for your man of God, make sure you have greeted your husband good morning.
Before you spend all your life-savings on that young girl in your girl, make sure you have invested in your wife.
I know you love children, but before you go nurturing relationships with other children, do you have a cordial one with your children at home?
Can you call on your siblings, to join you in prayers?

Remember, the grass isn't always greener on the other side; sometimes, it's just a matter of nurturing the ground beneath your feet.

Investing in existing relationships requires intentionality and effort. Here are some ways to enrich your existing relationships:

Quality Time: Dedicate uninterrupted time to be with loved ones. Whether it's a regular date night, family dinners, or simply hanging out, make sure you're fully present during these moments.

Active Listening: Show genuine interest in their thoughts and feelings. Listen more than you speak, and try to understand their perspective without judgment.

Communication: Keep the lines of communication open. Share your own thoughts and feelings, and encourage them to do the same. This builds trust and understanding.

Appreciation: Tell me a person who doesn't like to be appreciated. Regularly express gratitude for their presence in your life. Acknowledge the little things they do and let them know they're valued.

Support: Be there for them during both good times and bad. Offer help when needed, and be willing to stand by them through challenges.

Forgiveness: Let go of grudges and forgive mistakes. Holding onto resentment can poison a relationship, so practice forgiveness to move forward.

Consistency: Be reliable and consistent in your actions and behavior. Don't be a green snake under a green grass.

Encourage and support each other's personal development goals. Share resources like books, courses, podcasts. Celebrate each other's successes and learn from failures together.

Darlings, invest in your present relationships.

Now, there is a caveat, while I encourage you to invest in your present relationship, if by any means that relationship becomes dang£rous or you get a directive from God to cut, by all means do that.

I love you.
I am rooting for you.
Cheers.

14/05/2024

For many of you who have followed me for a long time, you know my story of how much a lifelong learner I am. It was in 2020 or so, I first took a writing course with coach Gbemi, and I have continued to build on it and also explore my other expressions.

After that writing class, I went on to write a book and self-publish it on Amazon, and I have published more since then.

Depending on the event and audience, whenever I am asked what I do, I just say, writer and go ahead to share the links to my book. Some have bought, and it has made some people treat me differently. "Wow! She is a writer and even published on amazon. " To me, it's no big deal, but I have learned to others, it is a big deal.

Over the years, many people have asked me to teach them to publish, and I have done it on a one-on-one basis and have also helped other publish.

Recently, a friend approached me to help as some things were not so clear, and It dawned on me that some things that I think is common knowledge isn't really common. In fact, I saw a post by someone who was lamenting how she was scammed by KDP and how they promised to publish her book since last year, and nothing has been done. Definitely, she was in communication with some scammers who clearly weren't KDP because KDP is a platform, and this further cemented the fact that many people still don't know anything about publishing with Amazon KDP

So, if you want to know more about the KDP platform and how to self-publish on it, I have the perfect solution for you. I am organizing an intensive class on the 31st of May 2024.

At the end of the class, you have 1 month access to free mentorship and 6 months of access to an exclusive community that will help you on your journey.

To take advantage of this.
See the link in my bio

To pay in naira
Pay 15,000 naira
GT Bank
0234229621
Adaoma Onwukaeme

Once you make payment, send the proof of payment, phone number, and email address to [email protected]

I look forward to seeing you in class.
I am rooting for you.

13/05/2024

In the pursuit of destiny, our path is often filled with challenges and obstacles. Yet, it is this very journey—the process—that shapes us into the individuals capable of fulfilling our potential.

Many of us are familiar with the story of Joseph. He was sold into slavery and wrongfully imprisoned. He could have yielded to the advances of his Master's wife, it could change his status but he didn't not. He maintained his intergrity. Joseph rose to become the second most powerful man in Egypt. He endured the process and that positioned him to save nations during a famine.

Like gold that is impure and ugly without the refinement by fire, we too would be unbent and misaligned if we try to jump through life. Each step forward is a lesson learned, each setback is a chance to grow stronger. The process teaches us resilience, patience, and the sheer tenacity required to reach our goals.

You may not be where you want to be now but I encourage you to:

Embrace the journey: Acknowledge that the road to success is part of the success itself. Also that the journey to your destiny is not a sprint; it’s a marathon—a series of steps that forge you into the champions you are meant to be.

Stay committed: Keep your eyes on the prize, even when the going gets tough. Don't waiver, don't use the journey of others to gauge yourself it is an unjust and unbalanced scale.

Learn continuously: Every experience, good or bad, has something to teach us. Be a lifelong learner.

Seek support: Surround yourself with people and resources that uplift you.

Celebrate your wins: Celebrate your milestones not matter how small because aach milestone is a step closer to your ultimate destiny.

Your story is being written with every step you take. As we launch into this new week, I encourage you to embrace the process to your becoming.

I am rooting for you.

05/05/2024

It's children's day here in Korea. On this day, I reflect on the wonders of childhood. This special day reminds me of the boundless energy, the infectious laughter, and the pure hearts of children.
No wonder Jesus admonished us to be like children. May never lose your childlike wonder.

As we celebrate Children’s Day, let’s commit to nurturing, guiding, and loving our children. They are not just our future; they are the bright lights that illuminate our present. Let’s help them grow into compassionate, intelligent, and kind individuals.

Happy Children’s Day to all the wonderful children out there! May your days be filled with laughter, learning, and love.

02/05/2024

the view of Songdo international city from the 33rd floor of G-tower.

17/04/2024

17/04/2024

What's the biggest parenting myths you' ve heard?

15/04/2024

Many of you are familiar with the story of the Biblical prodigal son. He was eager to live life on his own terms, free from his father. This is the allure of independence for teenagers and young adults today.

I remember my days too as young person, I would say to myself, "I can't wait to be married and leave this house for them", or when I said " I can't wait to get into the university and be free". Most of you have thought this way too, don't act like it was only me. Although this reasoning isn't as critical as that of the prodigal son, there is a single theme - the enticement of freedom.

Like the prodigal son, many forget that there's a crucial step before setting out : learning responsibility. Independence comes with responsibility. You have to learn to be responsible. You may ask why?

Responsibility prepares you for life.
Like we would say, life will show you shege but how you respond to them defines your character. Responsibility will teach you to stand firm, face challenges head-on, and emerge stronger.

This is something most teenage don't consider, responsibility leads to true independence. Stay with here, did the prodigal son go back home? Yes, he did. Why? Because he realized that true independence isn't just about doing what you want; it's about being able to take care of yourself and those around you. Read it again and let it sink.

This is one of the lessons I have shared in my upcoming book- 50 things I wished I knew as a teenager. The wisdom in this book would serve as light house for teenagers, young adults and also others who just want to reminisce about their teenage years. Trust me, parents, you don't want your teenager to miss out on this journey of self-discovery and growth.

In a couple of days, I will be sharing a pre-order link, do well to preorder for your teenager, even for yourself.

Now to everyone reading this, especially the young ones: take a moment to reflect on the areas of your life where you can start taking more responsibility. Is it in managing your time better or being more reliable in your relationships? Start small, but start now. Your future self will thank you for it. Tag someone who needs to read this.

10/04/2024

Yesterday, I read a post written by a facebook friend where she shared about the spirit of heaviness and how she felt trapped and stagnant. I could relate to that because I have also experienced it. I have realised that in this journey of life, it is easy to feel overwhelmed when we take our focus off God and when we compare our paths to others.

Life happens and sometimes we feel the weight of the world upon our shoulders but we must never allow the enemy make us lose sight of our place in God. I know it is easier said than done, but it is doable.
I have also experienced those dark times and I can tell you for free some tips to help:

The first is to constantly activate the protocol of Joy and I learned this from PDDK when she taught about praying for an atmosphere of joy, declaring joy over your life and situation.

Another tip is to learn to embrace your unique journey. Acknowledge that your path is yours alone. Sometimes, I feel like I am not where I want to be and I am just stagnant and at such moments, I remind my self of my victories, growth and progress and then I move forward, praising God for how far I have come. I look at my journals and it changes my perspective.

Practicing gratitude is another great tip. It helps shift your focus from what is missing to the abundance you already have.

If you are in a dark place, share your experience with trusted loved ones who can support you. Who will not indulge you in your self-pity. Who will cry with you and yet pull you out. A great support system is important.

You have to learn to seek joy in small moments. A kind word, a smile, a text mesaage, a call, even the feel of breeze on your face, savour it. Cherish it.

Most importantly feast on the word. Sometimes, you will not feel like it, stay there, it may move from pleasure to duty, stay. Read the word, speak the word, listen to the word.
You will gain strength and hope.

I have written to let you know you are not alone if you are feeling this way right now. Your spirit is indomitable, and your journey is a testament to the strength that lies within you. The spirit of Joy is activated in your life. Amen.

PS. This is an A.I image

29/03/2024

Growing up, we always sang a song during lunch break in my primary school. I don't know about now. That song is a powerful song of gratitude.
Who can guess?

Okay, let me help you.

"Some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but have no food, we have food and we can eat, glory be to God, Amen." And we would recite the song and ask God to bless this food and rush to feed our hungry stomachs.

I used to think that the people who could eat but had no food were people who were poor or very sick in the hospital. Now, I know otherwise.

The past few days, I have been to hell and back. It started with a minor tooth pain and before I could say, jack, my gum became swollen and the pain intensified. I couldn't open my mouth to even eat.

I got some over- the -counter pain killers, they didn't do anything. To help with the pain, I was told to chew cloves on the spot of the pain, that I did, and it helped a bit but the pain came back in its fury.

By Monday, the swelling was so much that I couldn't even talk. I was just crying even at the dentist office. I was prescribed some antibiotics and painkillers to reduce the swelling and pain. I was told to go to a bigger hospital, in case the swelling doesn't reduce.

On Tuesday, I "wakaed". All the big hospitals had their dentist absent or fully booked. At the last clinic, after hearing they can't help, I just sat down and tears were just flowing. Thankfully, the nurses there were humane, they encouraged and told me to stop crying and continue with the drugs I was given at the previous clinic that until the swelling reduces no one could do anything.

I was in communication with the clinic I visited the previous day cos that's where I have my dental work done. They asked me to come back for a stronger pain killer.

I am still taking my drugs, the pain is still dancing tutukati, I can't still yawn wide or laugh as I used to, but I am grateful.

Men and brethen, if you have food before you and you can open your mouth to eat, you should thank God cos my eyes don see shege.

So, today, as we celebrate the sacrifice of Jesus, look at the seemingly tiny things and thank Him for them. I wish you a Happy Easter Celebration.

08/03/2024

Dear woman, you are seen.
Your strength, resilience and determination is an inspiration.

Remember every challenge is a testament to every success you achieve which paves the way for the young generations. So, today, I encourage you to keep striving, keep shining and keep breaking barriers.

Happy International Women's Day.

26/02/2024

I have got many persons asking what the parent challenge is all about.

It is simple.

Are you ready to transform your relationship with your child?
Do you want to create a stronger bond, a deeper connection, and a happier family?
Are you looking for a supportive community as you parent?
If you answered yes, then the 30-day parenting challenge is for you!

The 30-day parenting challenge is a practical, and powerful way to improve your parenting skills and enhance your children's well-being. Every day, you get daily prompts and affirmations, I have also included affirmations for your young ones. You will learn how to foster a positive, supportive, and nurturing environment for your children.

At the end of this challenge, You will:

❤️ learn how to communicate with your children effectively, respectfully, and assertively. You will discover how communication can prevent conflicts, solve problems, and build trust.

❤️ discover how encouragement can motivate your children to try new things, overcome challenges, and achieve success.

❤️ begin to enjoy your children's company, personality, and humor without complaining, nagging, or boring. This is because you will discover how to involve your children in creating fun, laughter, and memories.

❤️ know how to love your children unconditionally, and wholeheartedly and discover how love can heal their wounds, fill their hearts, and transform their lives.

❤️discover how empathy can help your children cope with stress, develop resilience, and feel valued.

By the way, a generous donor has paid for Five slots.
Are you reading and you are an intentional parent and have followed me these years and you sincerely want to participate in this challenge but cannot afford to, take advantage of this!

To be eligible for this offer:
👉Your child/children must be from 6 years and above.
👉Write in the comment why you think you should be selected. (Express yourself freely)
👉Share any of my posts advertising the parenting challenge.

Offers last till we get 5 parents and afterward, we close this up.

26/02/2024

In my work and interaction with young people whether tweens or teens, I always see this play out. So, a person does something and you ask them why they did it, you hear, "It's not my fault, it's his fault", or "I did it because she made me do it", or "I couldn't help it, it was the situation". Somebody is always to be blamed for whatever they have done especially if it is wrong. Parents in the house, can you attest to this? This is what is called the “ blame game”- avoiding to take responsibility for our actions or mistakes by pointing fingers at someone or something else.

We all have done this at some point in life and can I blame us? The blame game is nothing new. It started in the Garden of Eden, with the first sin ever committed. You probably know the story: God created Adam and Eve and gave them everything they needed, except for one thing: they were not allowed to eat from the tree of the Knowledge of good and evil. But one day, the serpent tempted Eve to eat the forbidden fruit, and she gave some to Adam as well. When God confronted them, they played the blame game. Adam blamed Eve, and Eve blamed the serpent.

I have played the blame game at some point in my life. You reading this, have done it too. We do it because we don't want to admit our faults, we don't want to face the consequences, or we don't want to change. But the blame game is harmful to ourselves and others. It prevents us from learning from our mistakes, from growing as a person, and from repairing our relationships.
It also makes us deny our faults, distort reality, and deceive ourselves and others. We then think, we are not accountable for our actions or choices, and that we can escape the consequences. We end up deceiving ourselves.

Many Nigerians are on this table, yes, we have a bad government, and the system is nonsense, we all know. But when you take money from students applying for transcripts after they have paid the normal amount and you call it “ mobilization fee” and blame the Government, are you being real?
You work in an office and get paid but you are never on seat, you move from one office to another chewing gum and selling chin-chin or sharing daily manna while people are in queue waiting for you to come to attend to them and you spend 30 minutes and say, its time for lunch and you leave, only to return 2 hours later, is the Government still to be blamed?
We need to learn to take responsibility for ourselves and our actions. I tell teenagers all the time, that they can't be mad at their parents, they have a responsibility to make sure they develop and grow to the best of their ability. Work on yourself too!

So, how can we stop playing the blame game?

We need to come to the place, where we acknowledge our faults. Not denying justifying, or minimizing it. Be honest with yourself and with God. Confess your faults to God and ask for forgiveness.
Accept your responsibility. Don't shift it, share it, or ignore it. Own up to your actions and their consequences. Apologize to those you have hurt and seek reconciliation.
Ask for help. Don't isolate yourself, blame yourself, or give up. See when it comes to your personal life, ask for God’s help and ask others for support and guidance.
Act differently. Don't rationalize or explain away bad behaviour. Make a plan to change your behavior and your attitude.

Now, I want to hear from you. How do you think life would change if we stopped playing the blame game? Please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. I would love to read them and respond to them. Let’s have a conversation and learn from each other. Thank you for reading, and for being part of my online community.
I appreciate you all.
Have a great day, and remember: you are amazing!