16/01/2025
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When a guy is serious with you, he doesn't play hide and seek games. He will waste no time in introducing you to people that matter to him, his pastor, mentors, parents, colleagues, friends etc.
If you have been dating a guy for some time now, say 2 year or 3 years, and you don't know who his parents are, you don't know any of his siblings, colleagues or friends, and whenever you bring up the issue, he will change the topic, Aunty be careful, he may be one of those hit and run guys.
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A guy that is serious about marriage will not only introduce you to important people in his life but will also like to meet important people in your own life so as to make things official and formal.
When you are in a relationship with a guy that's doing hide and seek with you, whenever you bring up the issue of him coming to meet your parents, see your mentor or pastor, he will divert the conversation or run off, then you should know that he isn't serious.
You shouldn't waste your time with a guy that for 2 or 3 years has refused to meet your parents or important people in your life. Don't do that.
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For many guys, their main aim for entering into a relationship is to have s*x. They are not interested in getting married to you or having anything serious with you. They just want to chop and go.
Some of them will tell you, "If you love me, prove it." That is, if you say you love them, you should have s*x with them or give them free access to your website. No listen to them. S*x is not a prove of love.
Some of them once you tell them that no s*x until after marriage, they will zoom off without looking back. Some of them will threaten you that if you don't have s*x with them, they will break up with you and all that.
But when you tell a guy that there will be no s*x until after marriage and he still stays with you, he doesn't disturb you for s*x, he doesn't threaten to leave if you don't give him s*x, and he doesn't sleep around with other ladies, that may be a sign that he is serious about getting married to you.
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When a guy is serious with you, he will include you in plans and major decisions in life, he will tell you about his plans and decisions he wants to make, sometimes he will seek for your ideas and suggestions and counseling
That means, he is seeing you in his future but when you are with a guy that hides things from you, he never tells you his next move or actions or his whereabouts, he just shows up and disappears anytime he wants, that's a guy that is not sure of the future with you.
A man wants to marry a woman that will be useful to his future, so when a guy includes you in his plans and decisions, he wants you to be part of his future.
We don't go about sharing our plans with anyone that cares to listen but with those we consider important to us. The point is, when a guy includes you in his plans and decisions, he plans the future with you, he is seeing the future with you.
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When a guy is serious with you for marriage, he will talk about marriage, he will make his intentions known to you, he will define the relationship. You will know where the relationship is heading to.
If you have been dating a guy for the past 2 to 3 years and he has never said anything about marriage, the relationship is not defined, you people are just there to see how it goes, that may be an unserious wasting your time and driving away other serious suitors.
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In other words, he will be vulnerable to you. What does this mean? It means that he doesn't hide things from you, he's not faking anything to you, he's real about who he is and what he is. He doesn't pretend to be who or what he's not in order to impress you.
A guy doesn't open up his life to someone he doesn't want to have anything serious with. When you are with a guy that lies and hides things from you, pretends to be what he's not, that guy may not be serious with you.
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When you are a priority to someone...
βHe give you attention
You give attention to something that is important to you, to something that interests you, to something that occupies your heart, and to something that attracts your mind.
β He will have time for you
We have time for everything, so anyone that doesn't create time to be with you is not into you. Stop begging people to make time for you. If they consider you important, they will have time for you.
βHe care about you
When someone is into you, they will make efforts to ensure that you are good, safe, okay, comfortable and all of that, they will call you to know how you're doing, how your day is going and they will be concerned about your well-being.
β He communicate as often as possible with you
When someone is into you, they will be in regular communication with you, they will call you, they will chat with you, they will text you as the case maybe just to hear from you.
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Prayer remains the master key. So, for your time not to be wasted, for you not to chase away suitors, for your heart not to be broken, subject everything to God in prayers.
"Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:" (Matthew 7:7 KJV)
"The secret things belong unto the Lord our God: but those things which are revealed belong unto us and to our children for ever, that we may do all the words of this law".(Deuteronomy 29:29 KJV)
If you are in a relationship with a guy and you are not sure if this guy is God's will or even serious for marriage, you have some prayers to do.
This is one of the reasons why it is important that before you enter into a relationship with a man or woman, you have a relationship with God so you will be able to receive divine direction and guidance.
Lastly, when a guy is serious with you, you will know it, you will feel it. The above signs will be available.
Thanks for reading and understanding βΊ
Thee Voice Hermajesty
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