23/07/2023
Where will you be in 12 months … 3 Years … Still stuck where you are ?
Nothing changes if nothing changes, and you are the change needed.
This is me living my best life… well part of what I see my best life to be, but time is ticking by.
One minute you’re at the top of your game and then some random unsuspecting event(s) in life changes your trajectory of your future plans in a heartbeat. This can be good and bad.
I all of a sudden, I realised I lost my passion for my life and I knew I shouldn’t have.
But I was betrayed and shocked by that betrayal that I just shut myself off from the world.
I was embarrassed, I blamed myself that I was just not good enough.
I was a failure as a mother and a wife.
I lost trust in everyone. I also lost trust in myself and that was where the pieces really started to crumble.
I couldn’t trust myself to make good decision about anything in my life. Personally or in my farm business.
I lost the belief in myself. The light went out for all the things I loved as I faced an uncertain future.
Trust life to feel I needed a greater test to change things because life in the form of Mother Nature
came along and threw in a 3 year drought for the farm.
I was personally broken and now I was about to be financially broken.
I was so angry on the inside and I shut it down, it festered all because I blamed myself for my poor decisions. I wallowed in my self pity for too long.
The good of the drought was it made me fight for something again, I was fighting for my farm.’
My dream had always been to leave it as a legacy for my son.
I’d worked to damn hard for 35 years to give up
I’d sacrificed everything to get this far…I would not fail on this. It was my dream.
Reality check …you need money to run a farm. What the heck was I going to do this time, I was on my own financially.
I got the off farm job…
Got 2 jobs….no way was that enough money for my time to make a difference. I was however making a wonderful difference to someone else’s business and I was grateful to be able to put food on my table…but meeting the big costs of wages for the farm and stock feed…not a chance.
I was at my lowest point. Busted. I had to find something to not just change my life now but to make a huge difference in my future.
So I made a decision that what ever this was to be, it need to meet my criteria of values and needs.
It had to have potential to grow enough that it could help support the farm and my family into the future.
I couldn’t keep working so physically hard, long hours, solo on my farm. I needed to get my sone home.
It had to be that I could do it from home and continue to run my farm.
I need to have an independent income and create financial security because I’d never built a super fund of any consequence.The far was always my super. I also wasn’t going to get a pension on retirement.
I was 58. My plan of retiring at 60 pre drought, and handing things over to my son was on hold …. however, time won’t be stopped !.
I wasn’t getting any younger and I’d spent the last 10 years in hell. 10 years of shutting down my life and existing to just survive. Shelving my dreams and vision. I became very reclusive and didn’t see people often.
I found myself scrolling facebook in the early hours of my sleeplessness.
I was searching for jobs I could do online. Bookwork service, accounts, administrative….nothing was going to work in those jobs.
Then I read a post of another female farmer who was doing something and she was changing her life very quickly. Her story resonated deeply with me.
Desperation was the push that had me reaching out to learn more…
I was more desperate for a solution than I was to allow the skepticism and doubt that lurked in my thinking to stop me from looking.
I mean that’s all I had to do was take a look at what it was about. What did I have to lose…I could lose far more by not looking !
Well, I took a look and I am so glad I did.
I had to face some things to move into this New business of Hight Ticket Affiliate Marketing.
I didn’t have any skills and I wasn’t young to learn new skills!
I wasn’t very tech savvy.
I knew nothing about sales and marketing…. BUT
I didn’t have to have any of the above because everything is provided within the education platform and the amazing automation systems in place to be used.
Therefore it will work for anyone !!!!
What you do need is an open mind, a desire to change your existing situation and be willing to learn the skills.
The most favourable thing for me is that I don’t leave the farm to do it.
I can do it from horse back, working cattle or working my dogs, I can do it living my farm life.
I am so excited to see life turning around for me after making a decision in which I would remind you I had no confidence in my decision making choices.
This was the best choice I have made for getting my dreams and vision back on track.
I can chase my dream of campdrafting and competition again with the horses I breed.
I can get off the farm and be with friends and family in an environment that excites and brings me joy.
A whiskey and laughter shared around the campfire.
I can teach my granddaughter to ride and train her horses, to run a farm as a female, work stock and train her working dogs.
I will see the farm secure into the future as well as my own personal financial security.
If it can change my life in small steps and move me towards my ultimate goals then it can do the same for anyone.
What excites me most about this business is I now have the ability to share it with others.
This is a new fire in my belly. Being able to help someone else change their life !!!
To show them with a simple 3 step strategy how this business can change lives on all levels, financial, personal growth, health and wellness and community
If they are looking for more time to do more things they love, more time with family and friends or with horses and dogs. More time to travel the world and build experiences to create amazing memories.
The hardest thing you will find is to simply step out of your comfort zone enough to check this out and see if it aligns with your values and needs just like it did with mine.
Ask yourself if this opportunity could create the funds that allow you to do the things and have the things you desire most in life and the freedom of time to ensure you’re doing it … would you overcome your fear of the “what if’s” and reach out to have a look at how High Ticket Affiliate Marketing works?
Reach out and send me a message and I’ll arrange access to our training !!
“Cowgirl Up”