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About That Street, About That, Nairobi (2025)

26/04/2025

MOST GUYS THINK THEIR PROBLEM IS MONEY, WOMEN, OR THE ECONOMY. BUT THE TRUTH IS: your biggest obstacle is the man in the mirror.

It’s not life that’s holding you back.
It’s your undisciplined habits, your emotional weakness, and your addiction to distractions.

1. A WEAK MAN IS A SLAVE TO PLEASURE.

He can’t resist temptation. He sees cleavage and loses focus. P**n, w**d, alcohol, and cheap thrills own his mind.
He's not addicted to pleasure—he’s allergic to control. And that’s why he keeps failing.

2. A WEAK MAN TALKS TOO DAMN MUCH.

He reveals his every move. He wants to sound smart, so he spills secrets. He complains. He gossips.
Real power doesn’t announce itself. Strong men let results speak, not their mouths.

3. A WEAK MAN PUTS WOMEN ABOVE HIS PURPOSE.

He spends all day texting babes, buying gifts, and begging for attention.
But kings don’t chase queens—they build empires. And when the throne is strong, the right queen shows up.

4. A WEAK MAN LIVES FOR LIKES AND APPLAUSE.

He posts to impress. He acts to please. He’s a slave to public opinion.
But real men don’t need validation. They walk into rooms and shift energy—without saying a word.

5. A WEAK MAN WANTS LIFE ON EASY MODE.

He avoids hard work. He wants shortcuts, not strategy. He fears discipline, so he remains average.
But growth never comes without pain. Strong men respect the process—even when it’s hell.

6. A WEAK MAN LACKS CONSISTENCY.

He starts 100 things and finishes none.
He can’t stick to a goal, a habit, or a plan. His life is a broken cycle of laziness, excuses, and self-pity.
The world rewards the consistent, not the confused.

7. A WEAK MAN IS TERRIFIED OF LONELINESS.

He clings to toxic women. He tolerates insults. He fears rejection.
But real men know: peace is better than company that disrespects you.

8. A WEAK MAN LIVES IN DISTRACTION.

He scrolls endlessly. Games, gossip blogs, memes—he’s entertained but unfulfilled.
Then he blames the system for his poverty. Truth is, his focus is too cheap to succeed.

9. A WEAK MAN FOLDS UNDER PRESSURE.

Tough times come—and he breaks. He quits fast.
But life is a battlefield. Only those who fight, adapt, and endure rise above.

10. A WEAK MAN WANTS SYMPATHY INSTEAD OF SELF-RESPECT.

He wants people to feel sorry for him.
But the world doesn’t reward tears—it respects power, grit, and consistency.
Get up, fix your mindset, and level up. Nobody’s coming to save you.

Final Word:

Your habits, not your hustle, shape your future.
Your discipline, not your desires, define your legacy.
Stop being your own enemy. Build yourself before trying to build a relationship.

Control your emotions. Master your mind. Protect your energy.
The future belongs to men who rise when everything around them tries to break them.

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26/04/2025

DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME, ONLY TAKE A WOMAN SERIOUS IF SHE'S SHOWING YOU THESE 23 SIGNS

A Savage & Eye-Opening Thread for Men Who Want Peace, Not Problems:

Not every woman deserves your energy.
Not every fine face deserves your loyalty.
If she’s not coming correct, walk away like a king.

Here are 23 clear green flags that show she’s WORTH your time, focus, and commitment:

1. She Gives Peace, Not Pressure
Being with her feels calm, not chaotic.

2. She Doesn’t Post Everything Online
She values privacy over attention.

3. She Knows How to Be Feminine Without Being Weak
Soft, not stupid. Classy, not clingy.

4. She’s Not Moved by Money Alone
She respects hustle, not just your wallet.

5. She Can Handle Delays Without Drama
No “you don’t love me” just because you’re busy building.

6. She Brings Ideas, Not Just Problems
She helps you think, plan, and grow.

7. She’s Grateful, Even for Small Things
She doesn’t act entitled. She appreciates effort.

8. She’s Not Competing With You
She supports your shine, not trying to outshine you.

9. She’s Loyal When You’re Broke, Not Just When You Ball
Her love isn’t tied to your bank balance.

10. She Doesn’t Make You Chase Validation
You don’t have to prove your worth daily—she sees your value.

11. She Listens More Than She Argues
Communication is not a battlefield with her.

12. She’s Got a Life of Her Own
You’re not her entire world—she’s complete on her own.

13. She Knows When to Speak and When to Stay Silent
Wisdom, not noise.

14. She’s Not Always Online Hunting Attention
Likes and comments don’t drive her worth.

15. She Respects How You Lead
Even when she doesn’t fully agree, she follows your direction with grace.

16. She Keeps Her Body for You, Not the Internet
No thirst traps. No ‘for the streets’ behavior.

17. She Doesn’t Play Manipulation Games
No fake tears. No silent treatment. No guilt traps.

18. She’s Emotionally Mature
She doesn’t turn every conversation into a war.

19. She Encourages Discipline, Not Distraction
She helps you stay focused, not fall off your goals.

20. She’s Not Afraid of Sacrifice
She’ll stick through tough times, not run when it gets hard.

21. She Sees the Future, Not Just the Moment
She plans life with you, not just dates and vibes.

22. She Prays For You, Not Just Posts You
She covers you spiritually, not just for social media clout.

23. She Brings You Closer to Your Purpose, Not Away From It
You feel stronger, clearer, more driven when she’s around.

BOTTOM LINE:
Don’t commit because of pressure.
Don’t settle because of beauty.
Wait for substance, peace, loyalty, and purpose.

If she’s not showing you signs like these,
she’s not a life partner—she’s just a delay in disguise.

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25/04/2025

“EVERY TIME YOU LIE DOWN WITH HER, YOUR FOCUS GETS UP AND LEAVES”

(The productivity cost of lust)

You’re not unlucky.
You’re just distracted.
And the distraction has a pretty face and soft thighs.

Let’s talk.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. S*X MAKES YOU SLEEPY—PURPOSE NEEDS YOU AWAKE

After you "release," what happens?

You sleep. You slack. You scroll.

You forget your plans, your goals, your tasks.

The man who was on fire suddenly becomes calm like generator wey no get fuel.

2. TOO MUCH S*X = NO MENTAL CLARITY

You used to think deeply. Strategize. Build.

Now you're constantly drained, dazed, and distracted.

She says "Come over."

Your to-do list says "Work."

You choose her—again.

Focus is not a spiritual gift. It's a muscle.
And you’re letting yours go flabby.

3. S*XUAL DISTRACTIONS ARE THE WORST TIME THIEVES

You spend 4 hours texting her.

2 hours getting ready.

1 hour on transport.

30 minutes on the act.

Now the day is gone—and your purpose is still waiting at the door like: "Oga, are we not going out today?"

4. LUST KEEPS YOU BROKE

Every round of s*x that’s not purpose-aligned is a withdrawal from your destiny account.

You think you’re just having fun?

You're burning time.

You're wasting your mental drive.

You're giving billionaire energy to bedroom hobbies.

5. SHE'S NOT EVIL—YOU'RE JUST TOO WEAK

Stop blaming her curves, her voice, her perfume.

The real issue is your lack of discipline.

A strong man says: “Not now, I’m building.”

A weak man says: “I'm bored, let's link.”

And guess who gets ahead in life?

6. YOUR ENERGY IS NOT INFINITE

You only have so much drive in a day.

And every time you waste it on empty pleasure, you lose momentum.

S*x with the wrong woman is not just “pleasure”—
It’s sabotage in disguise.

7. SHE GETS ATTENTION, YOU LOSE DIRECTION

You spend your day planning how to see her.

But when will you plan your future?

You know her favorite color but don’t know your next move in life.

You memorize her body but forget your mission.

That’s the real cost of lust—mental bankruptcy.

8. TOO MANY WOMEN, TOO LITTLE WINNING

You're texting 5 girls at once.

Sending money. Planning visits. Sharing energy.

And you're wondering why your business is crawling, why your life feels stuck.

Oga, you're spreading yourself thin.

BOTTOM LINE:

Every time you lie down with her, your focus gets up and leaves.

Discipline is the new s*xy.
Clarity is the real high.
Purpose is the only true partner.

Your future is too powerful to keep sleeping with distractions.

Let them call you boring—be rich and boring.

Let them say you’ve changed—be focused and fulfilled.

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25/04/2025

Modern S£x Is a Trap—And Men Are Dying to Prove They’re Enough

Let’s not sugarcoat it.

Modern s£x is all performative and ego-driven. We have all lost the plot—it’s no longer about intimacy and bonding.

The competition isn’t with the single six packs neighbor—it’s every smooth talker in her DMs, every drug-induced actions displayed on adult sites, and the unbeatable machine she keeps under her pillow.

Some of these toys spin at 10,500 revolutions per minute. That’s 175 strokes per second.

You really think your 1-minute plank routine can match that?

And just so you know: 150 watts of electric power—enough to run a full apartment—is now being used… to manifest pleasure.

Let that sink in.

1. You’re Not Weak—You’re Just Human

Let’s start from the top.

Women and men are wired differently. You’re not broken. You’re just not built like a machine—and that’s okay.

Stop comparing your body to something powered by lithium batteries and industrial-grade engineering. It’s like comparing a motorcycle to a rocket.

She doesn’t need a superhero. She needs a man who understands himself—and brings real confidence, not pressure.

2. If You Need Help, Get Help

Use tools. Yes, tools.

Your job is not to beat the machine. It’s to bring satisfaction to the room.

If she finishes and you do too—there’s peace.

But if she keeps ending up unsatisfied while you’re snoring like a conqueror, don’t be surprised when resentment builds.

Real men don’t chase ego. They chase connection.

3. There’s No Trophy for Bedroom Olympics

You could have 30 rounds—but if you’ve less than $30 in your bank account and no legacy plan, you’re just a broke gymnast.

Forget the 3-hour marathons. Can you build a future? Can you lead? Can you inspire?

Because when life hits, she won’t be thinking of rounds—she’ll be thinking of results.

4. Stop Risking Your Health to Prove a Point

Don’t take unverified supplements. Don’t fall for babalawo promises. Don’t take risks with your life just to “show her you’re enough.”

You’re not impressing anyone when you collapse on the floor like a fallen champion.

It’s not worth dying for.

5. Stop Listening to Bragging Boys and Pretending Babes

Most men are lying. Most women are acting.

He says “12 rounds.” She says “the last guy was a beast.” But everyone is winging it.

Truth is—most people don’t even know what they’re doing. So stop chasing their fake stories.

Talk. Ask. Be real.

You’d be shocked how many women want to say, “I’ve been waiting for us to figure this out together.”

6. Quit Before You Kick the Bucket

She’s been rewired by devices built with aviation-grade precision. You’re showing up with skin, bone, and ego.

Do what you can. Do it well. But don’t compete with a transformer.

Because when it’s all over, she’ll mourn you for two days… then order another device on Amazon by Friday.

Don’t die chasing thunder.

Listen up!

This isn’t about being weak.

It’s about being wise.

You’re not a machine. You’re a man.

Your value is in your leadership, your discipline, and your legacy—not your lung capacity or hip stamina.

So lead. Love smart. And leave the rest to Tesla.

Because real men don’t die over or**sms—they build something worth remembering.

Let the bold comments begin.

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25/04/2025

Men,

Being extravagant will drain you. Learn financial management.

Trek to work if you live close to work and save part of your salary. Cook your food. Eat breakfast at home. Cook or prepare foods directly gotten from the farm.

Cook and eat meats directly gotten from animals and stop eating junks or industrialized or processed foods and meats.

Avoid begging for lifts. Use part of the money you save and buy a bicycle, From bicycle you'll grow to owning a motorcycle to a Car. If you are used to jumping into cars and begging for lifts, you'll forget purchasing your own vehicle.

This is called PROCESS and PHASE in Life and you must Learn to endure and go through them.

Leave your father's car at home while going to visit your prospective girlfriend for the first, second and third times. You don't own a Car, let her know. Don't impress a stranger.

Your father's or mother's Car isn't yours, except you you want them de*d this early to take over, do you want that? Then go hustle for yours.

Above all, Learn to stay away from trouble.

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25/04/2025

UNNECESSARY SUFFERING IS A RISK

Listen Up, Men!

One of the biggest mistakes many men make is trying to figure everything out on their own. They struggle for years, making costly mistakes, going in circles, and wasting valuable time—all because they refuse to learn from those who have already succeeded.

But let me tell you the truth: there is no reward for unnecessary suffering. Life is already tough. The last thing you should do is make it harder for yourself by refusing to learn from men who have already walked the path you are trying to follow.

If a man has done what you want to do… If he has built what you are trying to build… If he has reached the level you are dreaming of… Learn from him! If it requires money, pay him—and make your journey easier.

Too many men have ego problems. They don’t want to admit that someone else knows better. They believe that since they are “smart,” they can figure everything out on their own.

But let’s be real: wisdom is not about knowing everything. Wisdom is about knowing where to find answers. A wise man does not waste time struggling with what another man has already mastered. He humbles himself, learns, and applies the knowledge. That’s how progress happens.

Some men say, “I can’t afford to pay for knowledge.” But what they don’t realize is that ignorance is even more expensive. You will lose money making mistakes that could have been avoided. You will waste years trying to reinvent the wheel. You will miss opportunities that could have changed your life.

When you pay for knowledge, you are not losing money—you are buying speed, wisdom, and direction. You are cutting years off your journey. You are protecting yourself from unnecessary pain.

There is no successful man who did it all alone. Behind every great man is a mentor, a teacher, a guide, or a set of principles he followed.

So, ask yourself today: Who has already succeeded in the area I am struggling with? Who has already built the kind of business, career, or life I desire? Am I humble enough to learn from them? Your next level is tied to the knowledge you are willing to acquire.

This is how you grow. This is how you evolve. This is how you become the kind of man who leads, provides, and dominates in his field.
Let go of pride. Seek knowledge. Pay for it if necessary. And make your journey smoother. A real man is always a student of wisdom.

Stay sharp.

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24/04/2025

One of the Best Pieces of Advice I Got in My 20s…

“She’s not yours. It’s just your turn.”

At first, I laughed.
Then life slapped me with the truth behind those words.
And now, at ATS we teach this as law.

Because once you understand this, your entire view of women, dating, and power changes forever.

Let me explain…

You think she’s “the one”?
You buy her flowers, post her pictures, make her your entire identity?
All while she’s texting that other guy with the edge you refuse to develop?

ATS , we call that emotional su***de.

The truth?
Women don’t fall for the guy who worships them.
They fall for the man who makes them chase.
The man who’s focused, driven, masculine, and unbothered by her beauty.

ATS teaches men to STOP acting like lovers… and START thinking like leaders.

Because when you act like a weakling in love, you don’t get rewarded, you get replaced.

So here’s the brutal advice you need:
Detach.
Not emotionally dead, but emotionally disciplined.
You want her? Cool.
But never forget, it’s just your turn.
She was someone else’s before.
And if you get complacent, she’ll be someone else’s after.

ATS doesn’t raise boys who cry over heartbreak.
We build MEN who use pain as fuel.
We build men who don't chase validation, they build empires and watch women orbit.

If this truth offends you, you’re not ready.
If it activates something in you…
Then welcome to the path of the masculine elite.

But remember this:

If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood, and explain why you’ve decided to disgrace everybody.

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24/04/2025

During Divorce, Have You Ever Heard a Woman Say: “I Just Want His Love Back”?

Let’s be brutally honest, gents — when love fades and the courtroom gates open, what do you really hear?

Do women say:
“Let’s reconcile” or “I miss his love, not his money”?

No. What you hear is:
“I want the house.”
“He must pay spousal maintenance.”
“I’m taking the kids — and I want child support.”

That should tell you something very real:
Most women aren’t emotionally attached to you — they’re emotionally attached to your lifestyle.

Your assets.
Your income.
Your pension fund.
Your inheritance.
Your ambition.

That’s the love language — not romance. It’s money.

Some even walk out of court smiling — wearing your surname, holding your children, living in your house, and walking away with a piece of your future.
Marriage, for them, became a business transaction.

Let this be your awakening.

Build your empire for yourself — not to impress, not for Instagram validation, not to attract women.

Live well, dress sharp, stay disciplined — but act broke.
Let your money speak quietly, and your mind speak wisely.
Because if she’s truly into you, she won’t need proof of your balance sheet to commit.

Give her full access to your financial blueprint, and you’ve handed her a roadmap to ruin you.

She’ll gather information silently.
She’ll use your transparency as leverage.
She’ll speak your secrets in anger.
Some even plan their exit while still cooking your dinner.

And the law?
The law isn’t designed to protect you — it’s designed to manage the damage after you’ve lost everything.

Still think this is a joke?

Ask the men who trusted too quickly.
Some never recovered.
Some died from stress.
Some became visitors in homes they paid for.
Some fight just to see the children they raised.

Don’t be another cautionary tale. Be a strategic man.

Yes, love is beautiful.
But blind love? That’s su***de with a smile.

Let her love your soul — not your salary.
Let her respect the man — not the material.
And never expose your weak points — no matter how soft her voice or beautiful her presence.

Even Carla Bruni, former First Lady of France, said:

> “Marriage is another trap. If you like independence, it's another stamp against that.”

And Catherine Deneuve, legendary French actress, once warned:

> “Marriage is obsolete and a trap.”

Let that sink in.

Marriage is not evil. But entering it without wisdom, caution, and protection — that’s where the real threat begins.

Protect your peace. Guard your grind. Build in silence.

Not every woman is a blessing — some are disguised shareholders in your downfall.

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24/04/2025

“WHEN YOU CHASE S*X, YOU DELAY SUCCESS”

(How lust keeps men distracted and broke)

Let’s tell the truth a lot of men won’t admit:

It’s not village people holding you back — it’s va**na.
You’re not broke because of bad luck…
You’re broke because you keep trading focus for pleasure.

Every time you chase s*x, you’re pushing success further away.

Let’s break it down like men:

1. S*x Is the Most Expensive Free Thing

You think it’s just “ordinary” s*x?
No problem.

But check your life…

Since you started jumping from woman to woman, what has grown?
Your goals?
Or your excuses?

You’re wasting time, money, and mental space trying to impress women…
While your destiny is stuck on pause.

2. Lust Makes Men Lazy

You were meant to build.
You were born to conquer.
But now you’re just h***y, hungry, and distracted.

Instead of chasing purpose, you’re chasing panties.
Instead of building skills, you’re building body counts.

No great man was ever built in a woman’s DM.

3. Every Round Is a Round Lost

Every round of s*x you’re having with women you don’t love, don’t respect, and don’t plan to marry…

You’re losing time, clarity, and ambition.

Your mates are investing in business — you’re investing in waist.
They’re building empires — you’re building libido.

This is why you’re always tired. Foggy. Empty.

You’re draining your greatness in hotel rooms with nothing to show for it.

4. The Most Dangerous Woman Is the One Who Feels Like “Escape”

She’s soft. She’s sweet. She listens. She rubs your back.
You feel like a king in her arms — but you wake up with nothing.

That’s not a woman. That’s a distraction with makeup.

She’s not building you. She’s draining you.
And you’re addicted to the illusion of comfort.

5. Women Are Not the Problem — Your Discipline Is

S*x is not evil. Women are not the enemy.

But lack of control? That’s your downfall.

You can’t blame women when it’s your zipper that won’t stay up.
You can’t blame seduction when it’s you that keeps answering “Come over.”

You don’t need more women. You need more focus.

6. You Can’t Plant in Every Soil and Expect a Harvest

Your energy is like seed.

And you keep planting it in toxic soil — broken girls, unserious women, emotionally damaged distractions…

And you expect to reap success?

No sir.

You’ll reap confusion. Poverty. Setbacks.

Every or**sm with the wrong woman is a step away from your purpose.

7. Great Men Aren’t S*x-Addicted — They’re Purpose-Addicted

Want to rise in life?

Start saying NO to cheap pleasure.

Start saying YES to late nights building.
Early mornings grinding.
Weekends learning.

Your mates are focused. You’re h***y.

That’s why they’re succeeding… and you’re just scrolling, chasing, and struggling.

Final Word:

S*x will always be there. But opportunity waits for no man.

You must decide:

Will you chase the temporary rush of s*x — or the long-term reward of success?

Because you can’t serve two masters.
You either build… or you keep begging.

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23/04/2025

Submission Is Not Slavery—But Modern Women Can’t Tell the Difference

Let’s get one thing straight:

Leadership is not control.
Submission is not slavery.
And partnership does not mean power struggle.

But try telling that to a woman raised on “boss lady” quotes and 3-minute TikToks about “never needing a man.”

In 2025, the mere mention of submission makes modern women flinch—like you just told them to hand over their passports and kneel in a hut.

Let’s break down how we got here—and why it’s destroying peace in relationships.

—

1. The Word “Submission” Has Been Hijacked

Submission used to mean trust.
Now it means weakness.

It used to mean alignment.
Now it’s mistaken for freezing your brain.

But here’s the irony:

These same women submit to bosses.

To Instagram algorithms.

To TikTok “show me your nipples” requests.

To celebrities they’ll never meet.

They follow instructions at work.
But can’t take guidance in love.

—

2. Equality Is Not Sameness

Men and women are not the same—and that’s not oppression. It’s design.

You can’t expect a man to lead, protect, and provide—
but then fight him at every decision like it’s a court case.

Submission is not silence.
It’s not servitude.
It’s alignment.

You chose him.
Why not trust him?

—

3. The Loudest Women Want Simps

They say “I want a strong man!”
But what they really want… is a silent one.

A man who pays the bills—but never speaks on how she spends.
A man who plans the future—but never questions her past.
A man who leads—but only when she agrees.

That’s not submission. That’s selective cooperation.

And real men don’t buy BS.

—

4. Every Woman Submits—To the Man She Respects

Let’s stop the act.

Every woman is submissive—just not to you.

The problem isn’t submission.
It’s lack of respect.

If she doesn’t trust your vision, your voice, or your values—
she will fight everything.

But when she meets a man she admires, the war ends.

So maybe the goal isn’t to “avoid submission”…
It’s to become the kind of man she wants to submit to.

But don’t ever trust them blindly—it’s mostly a facade from modern women.
A ruse until they secure the ring.

—

5. She’ll Submit to Money—Not You

Modern women have been trained:
Only submit to money.

If you don’t have it, you can’t lead.
If you lose it, she’ll leave.

They don’t chase character.
They chase currency.

And the moment they see a “bigger boat”?
They’ll monkey-branch like Tarzan’s ex.

Because loyalty today is conditional—and transactional.

Submission isn’t about values anymore.
It’s about value.

—

6. Strong Men Don’t Want Another Alpha in the House

A man already fight the world outside.
He doesn’t want to come home and box shadows with a woman who thinks dominance equals dignity.

Submission is not a downgrade—it’s a choice.
And peace is the reward.

But when every conversation becomes a competition…
The house turns from a home into a courtroom.

—

Conclusion: Submission Isn’t Dead—It’s Just Misunderstood

Submission isn’t about losing power.
It’s about choosing peace.
It’s not about being beneath him.
It’s about building with him.

Feminine women know this.

The rest?

They’re still in the ring, shadowboxing with their own pride.

Let the debate begin.

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23/04/2025

MY SON, LISTEN TO ME CAREFULLY TO THESE MESSAGE....

S*x is sweet but it can ruin your life and bright future.

First lesson - Your p***s is not your friend, its as much as your enemy until you know how to control it.

Learn self control especially when it comes to your s*xual urge, you will never regret it in life.

A man who is s*xually disciplined has already conquered life 80%, the most dangerous battle men face in their life time always comes from s*x.

To protect your life and your future, you must first have self control over your s*xual appetite.

There are s*x your should never have, they are women you should never sleep with.

Avoid under age teens, married women, pr******te etc.

Many men are prison because they lack s*xual discipline.

Many men are dead because they lack s*xual discipline.

Many men are infected with dangers diseases because they lack s*xual discipline.

Many men are failures and stagnated in life because they lack s*xual discplines.

Many men married wrongly and are suffering dangerously because they lack s*xual discpline.

Many men are the chains of women because they lack s*xual discipline.

The cheapest mĔñ to destroy by women are men that lacks s*xual discipline.

Don't be one, as an alpha male, s*xual discipline is a super power to you.

Be wise.

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23/04/2025

A SIMP IS LIKE A WALKING DEAD

13 Hard Truths About Why Women Use Weak Men (And How You’re Letting It Happen)
Read this twice if you’ve ever been ghosted, played, or heartbroken by a girl you “treated like a queen.”

Let’s be real:

Simping doesn’t make you loyal. It makes you stupid.

Women don’t respect the guy who bends over backward. They use him.
They collect his time, his money, his energy—and when they’re done, they vanish without saying thank you.

Let’s break it down:

1. She’ll Act Single in Public, But Collect ‘Girlfriend Benefits’ in Private

You’re paying her bills, driving her around, doing boyfriend duties…
Meanwhile, she’s posting thirst traps and replying “lol” to other men’s DMs.
You’re loyal to her. She’s loyal to attention.

2. She’ll Use Your Kindness as Leverage

You think being sweet makes her love you.
No sir—it makes her comfortable. She’ll keep you in her life because you’re useful, not because she’s attracted.
You're not her dream guy—you're her safety net.

3. She’ll Make You Compete With Other Men (And Call It “Being Honest”)

She’ll say, “I’m just talking to people, nothing serious…”
Yet she expects exclusivity from you.
You’re playing by boyfriend rules in a situationship built to drain you.

4. She’ll Withhold S*x to Control You

Once she knows you’re desperate to keep her, intimacy becomes a weapon.
She’ll give you crumbs and say, “I’m not in the mood,” while giving another guy the full buffet.
You’ll wait months… someone else is getting it tonight.

5. She’ll Say You’re Too Nice—Then Run to a Man Who Treats Her Like an Option

Truth bomb: Nice doesn’t attract. Strength does.
You’re emotionally available. He’s emotionally scarce.
Guess who she’s obsessed with? Not the one texting her good morning.

6. She’ll Use You for Free Therapy and Dump Her Emotional Luggage on You

She’ll vent. Cry. Trauma dump.
You’ll spend hours listening, thinking you’re building connection.
Then she’ll feel “better” and go back to chasing the guy who gives her butterflies and stress.

7. She’ll Leave You When You Finally Set Boundaries

You’ll say, “I don’t like that you go clubbing every weekend.”
She’ll call you insecure and controlling.
Bro, she was never going to change. She was waiting for an excuse to bounce.

8. She’ll Borrow Money and Never Pay Back
She’ll cry about rent.

You’ll send 30k. She’ll post her nails the next day.
You won’t ask for it back, because “you don’t want her to feel bad.”
Now she knows you’re a cash machine with emotions.

9. She’ll Publicly Humiliate You—Then Say You’re Too Sensitive

She’ll talk down on you in front of friends. Joke about your hustle. Compare you to her ex.
And when you react, she’ll say, “I was just playing.”
That’s not love. That’s disrespect wrapped in sarcasm.

10. She’ll Make You Feel Lucky to Have Her—Even Though She Brings Nothing to the Table

You’re the one planning dates, paying bills, calling, texting, doing everything.
What does she bring? Just her looks.
And you feel “lucky” to have her? Wake up.

11. She’ll Leave You Emotionally Drained—Then Say She’s the Victim

You gave her your heart, your loyalty, your peace.
She left you anxious, confused, and depressed.
Then she’ll cry on Instagram and call all men “toxic.”
The manipulation is spiritual.

12. She’ll Come Back When Her ‘Alpha’ Broke Her Heart

After getting played by the guy she really wanted, she’ll return with fake remorse.
“I miss you.” “You were the good one.”
She doesn’t love you. She loves your stability. And she’s only here till she heals enough to leave again.

13. She’ll Move on Fast—Because She Never Really Cared Like You Did

While you’re crying over her old texts, she’s laughing at brunch, collecting validation.
You gave your all to someone who gave you half. And the worst part? She doesn’t even feel guilty.

FINAL TRUTH:
You’re not unlucky with women.
You’re just addicted to being used because it feels like love.

The solution?
Stop being the man who chases. Be the man who builds.
The man who sets standards. The man who makes women EARN his time.
The man who knows his worth.

Women don’t respect simps. They respect structure.

Let her chase. Or let her go.

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