Apostle Benjamin Kitonyi

08/01/2025

KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

1. Laziness kills marriage.
2. Suspicion kills marriage.
3. Lack of Trust kills marriage.
4. Lack of Mutual Respect kills marriage.

5. Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice, and Anger kill marriage.
6. Unnecessary Arguments kill marriage.
7. Keeping Secrets from Your Spouse kills marriage.
8. Infidelity (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc.) kills marriage.
9. Poor Communication kills marriage.

10. Lies easily kill marriage; be sincere with your spouse in every aspect.
11. Prioritizing Parents/Family Over Your Spouse kills marriage.
12. Lack of or Unenjoyable Intimacy kills marriage.
13. Nagging kills marriage.
14. Too Much Talk and Careless Talk kill marriage.

15. Spending Little Time with Your Spouse kills marriage.
16. Being Too Independent-Minded kills marriage.
17. Love for Partying, Money, Impulse Buying, and Financial Indiscipline kills marriage.
18. Exposing Your Spouse's Inadequacies to Your Parents or Siblings kills marriage.
19. Neglecting Spiritual Practices and Not Praying Together kills not only marriage but also your life.

20. Spurning Correction and Reprimand kills marriage.
21. Always Wearing a Sad Face and Being Moody kills marriage.
22. Extreme Feminism Advocacy kills marriage.
23. Male Chauvinism kills marriage.
24. Uncontrolled Temper and Anger kill marriage.

25. Not Understanding Your Role and Responsibility in Marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.
26. Ignoring the Spiritual, Emotional, and Physical Needs of Your Spouse kills marriage.
27. Threatening the Security of a Spouse will have detrimental effects on the marriage.
28. Lack of Knowledge of and Obedience to the Word of God kills marriage.

28/12/2024

If the Lord was not on our side this 2024... Let's come and praise His Name.

24/07/2024

Be patient, the best is on its way.When life knocks you down, help yourself stand back up. Challenges make you better.The strongest people tend to smile even during their toughest times. Keep smiling. God is always with you.

23/05/2024

Welcome this Friday 🙏

23/12/2023

MY PRAYER FOR YOU THIS SEASON;
The remaining days of this year, nothing will threaten your peace, nothing will break your heart, nothing will deflate your faith, nothing will steal your joy. The Lord will shield and protect all that he has deposited and given to you.In Jesus mighty name. Amen.
MERRY CHRISTMAS 🎁⛄🎄

21/11/2023

God will make a way. God will work it out, and God will see you through.God is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think.Never underestimate what can happen when God gets Amen

25/10/2023

Strive to find gratitude in every twist and turn on the journey towards your dreams.In everything, give thanks to God.Remember, every experience helps you move closer to achieving something better. God bless you.

07/07/2023

Weather changes daily, People change oftenly, this life changes without notice but Jesus Christ Never changes, He can make every change favour you, trust Him.

12/06/2023

Psalms 20:7_
```“Some boast of chariots, and some of horses; but we boast of the name of the Most High God.”```
Precious one, the Most High God is almighty, all powerful, all wise, all good, all loving, and He is totally worthy of all of our trust.There is no one like unto Him. We must not put our trust in anything in this world because, the Most High God is greater than everything in this world.May the fellowship Holy Spirit through our Lord Jesus Christ of the Most High God grant us the divine grace to holistically trust Him completely... He’ll gracefully, blissfully, fruitfully and gloriously prosper us abundantly in Jesus mighty name...Amen

02/06/2023

HOW A PASTOR STOLE AN OPEN BANK CHEQUE 🤔
How a Pastor Stole a $25,000.00 Open Bank Cheque During Dinner in Member's House.

A Successful Nigerian couple invited the Pastor of their Church for dinner in their home in California, United States of America.

After the Pastor left, the couple realized their cheque had disappeared. The man said to his wife; “I think the Pastor has stolen the $25,000.00 open bank check that I kept here on the table of which I had the intention to give to him”.

Angrily his wife exclaimed; “Hmmmm! All of them are just the same. If they are not fake, they are thieves. There is no need to invite him again, we shall from henceforth be attending another Church”.

Two Months Later, the woman met the Pastor on a certain street and was courageous enough to face him and said: “Good morning Pastor, you have surely realised that we no longer attend Church, this is because we're angry with you. The day you ate in our house, there was a $25,000.00 open bank check on the table but unfortunately it disappeared while we we're eating. You were the only Person who visited our house at that time”.

The Pastor said to her, “Yes, I took the cheque. I put it in your Bible to avoid spilling the sauce on it”.

The woman got so confused and asked the Pastor to forgive her.

Back in her house, she took up the Bible and found the bank check which had been there for two months.

This meant that for two months, she had not opened her bible. For two months, she and her husband falsely accused the innocent Pastor. For two months, the incident had tortured them unnecessarily.

How many times do we suspect and accuse other people without reasonable proof, evidence or testimony?

How many times do you wrongly give someone a bad name?

How many times do you misinterpret the actions of a brother or sister that means well for you?

Lesson: if you think your brother has offended you..tell him....ask him...iron it out....do not harbour a grudge or hold a beef for nothing.

16/05/2023

SEVEN DANGEROUS PEOPLE IN AN ORGANISATION YOU NEED TO KNOW AND HANDLE THEM WITH WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE.

As a Leader, beware that at one stage or the other in your church, business or association, you will find yourself dealing with the following groups of people.

1. THOMAS GROUP -They walk with you but they don't really believe in you.

2. JUDAS GROUP - They walk with you but they have issues with you when God begins to bless you. Anyone who is jealous about your prosperity in your workplace tomorrow he will betray you.

3. ABSALOM GROUP - You give them opportunity to teach or lead and he begins to see himself as the Leader of the place. He won't even mention you in his conversation. He will make people to feel they are neglected in your position. This one he is in competition with you , he believes he can be a better Leader than you .

4. KORAH GROUP - This one will challenge your authority, he believes you are at the same level with everyone and he has issues when others give honor to you. He is rebellious and dangerous because he sees you as someone who is at the same level with him.

5. HAM GROUP - This one he will expose your nakedness, the day you find yourself in a shameful act, He will tell everybody your weaknesses and he will be happy to expose your disaster. Atakuanika sawa sawa!

6. GEHAZI GROUP - He is with you but he will be collecting money from behind your back. He takes advantage that he is close to the Leader and use that to collect things from people.

7. DEOTREPHES GROUP - This one is too dangerous, he is famous in the workplace/group/association, he has power and influence and has a voice amongst the people. He speaks malicious words behind your back. He is poisonous, he can come with stories that can totally destroy your image as a Leader.
3 John :1
Be blessed

18/04/2023

PRAYER FOR TODAY.
Beloved, I pray from today that the Almighty God will bless your children with the spirit of excellence and they shall be preferred above others in Jesus mighty name. Dan.6:3.

27/02/2023

DON'T LET FEAR STOP YOU.

It takes faith to go the extra and break limitations in your carrier, purpose and destiny. Fear has limited so many people from living their dreams. They fear failure, they fear past mistakes, present and future uncertainties. If you want to live above mediocrity you must silence the voice of fear and continue to take giant steps.

A young eagle don't fly in a day. It takes steps and process to accomplish such mechanism just like a new born baby learning how to walk, sit and stand. That is same with us accomplishing our full potential. We must be ready to take steps little by little.

In our journey to destiny there are obstacles like fear. But if you are born again and have placed faith in Jesus Christ, you must believe that you have power and authority in Christ Jesus to rule and reign over fear.

Don't allow fear resist you. You can become what God has declared concerning you. You can fulfill that vision and assignment for your life. We can fight fear and the spirit of fear with the fear of God in our heart by obeying the word of God. Each time we obey the word of God we increase in faith, courage and boldness.

You might not be good enough but God has chosen you and what He wants from you is, your faith in Him and through faith He will perfect and equip you.
Don't give up!!!

18/02/2023

I prophesy on you that the God who has no limit stretches His hands to prove Himself in your life. He works mighty in areas of your endeavour that seem gloomy.

The limitless God opens doors for you; He shows His Power & Mightiness over that prevalent situation in your family. He silences satan for your sake and brings you, your household, into the Peace that transcends human reasoning in Jesus' name.

30/12/2022

19/12/2022

Psalm18: 39_"For You have armed me with strength for battle, You have subdued under me those who rose up against me."_

I pray with you this day According to the word of GOD Almighty, that the LORD will arm you with the strength to overcome all life's uncertainties and challenges...

May He subdue satan and all his agent that are working against your peace, joy, happiness and your expectations towards this festive season.

May all be well with you and all yours this day and all through the rest of 2022, in JESUS mighty name. Amen.

12/12/2022

Even though you walk in the midst of trouble, God will protect you. He will guide you.He will stretch out his hands against the wrath of your enemies. The Lord is your keeper. Don't give up.Good morning.