10/03/2025
BEWARE OF EXTERNAL MARRIAGE INFLUENCES:
1. IN-LAWS:
Inlaws are different. Some can love you and some can give you attitude. At times the attitude can be a strategy to destroy your Marriage. Some inlaws can even prefer their son or daughter to have married Some else not you.
2. FRIENDS:
Becareful of friends. Some friends are deadly to marriage. Always keep friends who encourage you to become a better marriage partner not those who advice you negatively about your Marriage. Wise-up.
3. GOSSIP:
Do not gossip about your husband, wide or family issues. You are encouraging people to undermine your Marriage. You are giving outsiders total control of your Marriage.
4. CULTURE:
Some cultures affect Marriage negatively. What did you always believe about men or women and marriage growing up? Some cultures encourage oppression of women on marriage. You can always modify your beliefs about marriage. You don't always have to believe what you grew up believing.
5. COLLEAGUES:
Draw a thin line between work and family. Do not discount your family problems to your colleagues. Let your colleagues remain colleagues not marriage Counsellors.
6. SECRET LOVERS:
They will do everything on their power to pretend they are better than your spouse. They will advice you against your partner and marriage. Many people divorced because of secret lovers only to regret deeply after losing a marriage that had potential. Don't lose your Marriage to please someone you don't really know. Remember the cost of your Marriage? It was not just financial but Human as well. Save what you built so far!
WHAT TO DO?
Boundaries! Boundaries! Boundaries! Yes relate them but with limits. A secret affair is not supposed to even be heard of in your Marriage.
External Influences can drift you apart unaware until your Marriage is but a shell of itself with nothing left.
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