18/06/2024
A great teaching copied from Blesings Bleh
10 THINGS THAT NO ONE CAN DO FOR YOU
1. No one can believe in you for you. No matter how great people think that you are, it doesn't matter if you don't see that greatness
2. No one can heal for you. You need to take responsibility for moving on from the pain you're going through. Stop walking with a wound you are not taking care of
3. No one can build your relationship with God for you. Spiritual awakening is a personal responsibility. Don't miss out
4. No one can believe in love for you. You will sit there watching your peers getting into successful and thriving relationships and marriages as you keep away because of your skepticism crying "Why me?"... you are standing in the way of your desire to love with your fear of commitment
5. No one can get out of a toxic relationship/marriage for you. You waste your life away as life moves on, people not knowing how much you are being cheated on, beaten up, insulted and destroyed
6. No one can chase after your vision for you. Only you know the vision that burns in your heart, it is yours to pursue. If you don't accomplish your purpose as you watch others thrive, it is all your fault. One day your life will end, what will it count for? Excuses? Blame game? Mediocrity? Complains? or an executed purpose?
7. No one can take care of your body for you. The food you eat, things you drink, drugs you take and the lifestyle you live by is all on you. Your loved ones and spouse can beg you to take care of yourself, but how your body turns out to be is all your choice
8. No one can choose peace for you. Your sleepless nights, anxiety, stress is all a personal choice. Don't make life difficult for others just because you choose chaos
9. No one can build your relationship/marriage for you. Love is what you make it
10. No one can gain knowledge and wisdom for you. If you choose to live an ignorant and shallow life where you are not using your mind to the fullest, don't feel bad when you're left behind by those who are stretching themselves and deepening their understanding
No one can live life for you. Maturity means knowing it is up to you to make some important decisions, follow through and take responsibility for the consequences