Doctor Love, Knows About Love; Affairs; Romance and Relationship

07/03/2025

The Psychology of a Woman

No matter how old a woman becomes, she always retains a childlike nature.

Attention makes her happy, while neglect brings her to tears.

Never try to suppress a woman, for her rebellion can be devastating.

A woman is like soft grass that bends gracefully in the breeze of kindness.

For the one who understands her, she is easy to deal with.

For the one who opposes her, she is a complex puzzle.

If you want her love, take care of her.

If you want her to stay by your side, respect her.

Shakespeare beautifully said:
"Trying to argue with an angry woman is like trying to turn the pages of a newspaper during a storm.

Just embrace her, and she will calm down on her own!"

A man who does not forgive a woman’s small mistakes can never attain her greatest virtues.

A woman wishes to live under the shade of a man, not under the weight of his oppression.

A woman was created from a rib close to the heart, filled with love, gentleness, and compassion.

If a woman’s mind withers and fades, the entire nation’s intellect will wither and fade.

True love is loving her despite her flaws, not because of her perfections.

A woman loves the man who is her brother, support, and friend—

the one who respects her intellect and personality.

A woman was made to be loved, not to be fully understood.

She loves the man who revives her childhood innocence time and again.

A woman is like a musical instrument, playing its best melodies only for the one who knows how to touch the strings of her heart.

A woman is like the ocean:
beautiful on the surface, stormy in anger, and deep and mysterious within. In her eyes, a man is someone who brings her joy, provides support, and offers comfort before giving advice.

Be a man for your woman, not a man over her.

08/02/2025

11 RULES OF S€X DURING DATING.

1. Don't sleep with a woman on the first day of seeing her naked body. Create an emergency and stop.

2. Don't sleep in a woman's house, whether it is your first night with her or the second or the last. Sleeping in her house is losing your power and control.

3. Use a condom on the first s*x attempt. Use a condom every day you have s*x until the day you decide to marry her. This is a MUST. Don't compromise on this.

4. The first s*x should be during the daytime. This allows you to understand her s*xual health and nature.

5. Talk vulgar deliberately. If she responds with vulgarity. End the relationship.

6. No s*x messages on WhatsApp or text. No nudes. Your inbox should always be as clean as a whistle.

7. Have a HIV test together as early as possible in the relationship. Remember, this is not a ticket for raw s*x. Some tests can turn out negative because of HIV treatment. This is called a false negative.

8. Find out if she is on any medication. Don't be a fool. Ask. Research.

9. If there is malodorous discharge on the condom, reprimand her. If there are traces of blood on the condom sheath, reprimand her. Don't be in a relationship with a woman who does not take care of her vag!nal health.

10. Know her menstrual cycle. This will save you from being a slave of the state.

11. Take care of your pen!s. This is your manhood. Don't sleep with anything in a skirt. Love Life Matters
Doctor Love, Knows About Love; Affairs; Romance and Relationship

15/05/2024

A Boy & A Girl Loved Each Other Very Much....
Unfortunately The Boy Died.........
Girl Was Upset Too Much & She Couldn't Stop Her Tears....
She Kept On Crying Every Day..........

Many People Gave Sympathy But No Argument Could Stop Her Tears............
One Night She Slept & Had A Dream..........
She Saw The Guy In Heaven With So Many Guys Of His Age.......
she Felt Relaxed.......
But She Noticed That Every Guy Was In Fairy Dress......& Had A Lightened Candle In Their Hand........
But Her Guy Had A Candle Which Was Not Lightened........
She Asked Him:;"Why Your Candle Is Not Lightened?"......
He Said:-"Whenever I Lighten My Candle Your Tears Falls On It"

Please Don't Cry For Whom You Really Love Because They Don’t Want You Too
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14/05/2024

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10/05/2024

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My husband was driving me to work - last year, when I saw a familiar face, opposite the Neoplan bus stop. The traffic usually was intense in the mornings on that route; yeah, that's how I got to see him.
He used to be a former course mate, at Legon. We used to date too. We dated for Three (3) years.

He looked 'mad': so dirty, and in tatters. I recognized him immediately, and I believe he did too when he saw me. He drew nearer to my husband's car, and then, smiled at me.
My husband also saw it, and even burst into laughter. He knocked on the glass, but I wouldn't roll it down. My husband asked who he was; I was lying about his identity when he called out my name. My husband read his lips, so he heard him.

The vehicles ahead of us - started moving. We drove along slowly, but this guy wouldn't stop following us. He walked or run by my husband's car, depending on the pace. My husband even switched lanes, just to frustrate him, but he kept jogging and trailing our car, till we eventually got the opportunity to speed off.

I don't know what could have led to his present state of mental illness, but I know he never returned to school - the following semester, after our breakup.

I couldn't tell my husband about him. The thing is, I accidentally met him again, in traffic, last year, September, 15, and I stopped by his side, to talk. He could carry on a meaningful conversation. He was speaking impeccable English. I bought him yoghurt, water and food, and paid a Waakye seller, to feed him lunch and dinner, that day. I asked him to wait for me the following day, at the same place/time, and he did.

I brought him some of my husband's used clothes, and also, cooked for him. I found out where he laid his head at night, and got food vendors, to feed him every afternoon and evening, for Four (4) months. I paid for all that.

I found out from friends who remembered him, that he stopped schooling, and kind of, checked out because he couldn't deal with our breakup. I left him for a 'Sugar Daddy'. That was in 1999, at the University.

In our numerous talks, whenever I passed by his area, he wouldn't stop telling me how much he loves and misses. I didn't tell my husband about all this.

I have been married to a very wonderful, young man, for three years, and I just found out that I am seven weeks pregnant. On the 12th of February, 2017, my husband travelled for three weeks. And on that same day, I called in sick, at work. But I wasn't sick. I needed the day off.

I took my friend home, to shower. I changed his clothes and gave him new sandals. I took him to the Barbering shop to have his hair cut. I had earlier on, discussed him with a former colleague at school, who is now a medical doctor at the 37 Military Hospital, to do a round-up checkup, on him. I brought him back home from the hospital, cooked for him, entertained him for hours until it was late.

That evening, he forced himself on me and r***d me. Well, I don't know if it was 'all' r**e, because I gave in to him at a point in my struggle, willingly. He apologized to me afterwards and then told me he hadn't been with anyone else, since he stopped schooling. I dropped him off at his usual junction, and then, that was that: I tried to stay away from him. I haven't stopped paying for his feeding (through Mobile money) every week - to two food vendors. And, I mostly call them to know about how he is doing.

I think I might be carrying his baby. My husband is happy about our first pregnancy, but I am totally confused. I certainly did not tell him about the events that took place, and I don't plan on doing so, however, I think I have started developing feelings for my friend.

Maybe I enjoyed his s*x better, as compared to my husband's. Maybe I miss or can't stop thinking about him. Maybe I still care about him, maybe I never really got over him. Maybe I am feeling all these things because I could be carrying his baby.

His checkup results were all clean. He is very healthy. Even his HIV result was negative.

I am just confused."

25/04/2024

Happy follow-versary to my awesome followers. Thanks for all your support! Terry Kananu

24/04/2024

Reader's Confession!

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Hello TUKO! I have been married for 5 years, and God has blessed us with two beautiful girls. My wife is working at a parastatal as a human resources manager. I'm also working as a boda boda rider in the city, running chain of other small businesses. My wife earns a six-figure salary, while my earnings can't afford our lifestyle. Yangu kidogo lakini naeza lipa bills kiasi.

My woman has become a dictator; she doesn't respect me as a man in the house. Sometimes she can go out for a few days and when she comes back, and I try to ask her where she was, the woman abuses me, literally shutting me off. Threatening to beat me. One day she slapped me in front of our kids. On Easter, she slept out. On the following day she came home drunk being driven by a young man whom she purported to be her cousin. The woman is short-tempered, full of pride and ego.

Sometimes she can pinch my nose hard when we argue. One day my woman assaulted me. I could not fight back because I thought it could've ended badly. She has also denies me my conjugal rights. Kitambo alikua mzuri ila siku hizi amebadilika😌 What should I do? Quit this relationship and marry another woman?

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24/04/2024

22/04/2024

EMPLOYEE COMPLAIN TO BOSS

Once two childhood friend, Sonu and Monu went to look for job. Both applied in same company and luckily both were selected for job.

Both were hard working. After working for few months Sonu got promotion while Monu didn’t get any. Boss was fond of Sonu and always kept him near. Monu saw this and started getting jealous of Sonu and kept thinking – Why only Sonu got promotion and he didn’t.

One day boss called Monu for some work, when monu came to Boss office, he refused to do work and saying, "We both started working together in this company at same time and both worked hard for this company still only Sonu got promotion. I don’t want to work here anymore."

Monu kept on complaining, Boss listened to his complaints calmly. When Monu was done complaining, his Boss said, "Monu i know you work very hard too but still it was not enough to get you promotion."

Monu still argued and didn’t want to understand.

At last Boss said, "Ok fine. I will give you promotion and give you salary more than Sonu but for that you have to do something."

Monu agreed.

Boss said, "You go out in market and check how many banana sellers are there."

Monu went and came back, he told Boss, "There was only one banana seller in market."

Boss said, "Ok. Now go and ask him about price of banana."

He went to market again and came back to Boss and said, "Banana cost is 60rs per dozen."

Boss replied, "Ok. Now i will give same work to Sonu. You wait and watch."

Monu hid in corner of office. Boss called Sonu and ask him to inquire same thing.

When Sonu came back, he informed his Boss, "Sir, there is only one banana seller in market and he is selling it at price of 60rs per dozen. But if we buy his whole lot then he will sell use them at half that’s 30rs per dozen.

He have 30 dozen bananas. If we buy all of them and then we sell them at 60rs per dozen then we will be able to make good profit."
Monu was standing in corner, listening their conversation. When he heard Sonu reply, he got surprised and realized his mistake. He apologized to the boss for his mistake and continued to work in that office.

Learning:
Hard work is not always enough in life, along with hard work, it is also very important to think smart.

19/04/2024

TEACH THEM ABOUT THE FACT
GARDEN BOY IMPREGNATES THREE BIOLOGICAL SISTERS.

According to reports, the Kenyan parents to the girls kept their daughters indoors and could not allow them to mingle with friends. The gardern boy was the only close friend they knew. Without their strict parents knowing, he started sleeping with them until he got all of them pregnant. The Christian Parents were shocked that their daughters were pregnant despite being strict on them. But when they inquired who was responsible, their honest response caused the mother to faint. It was further revealed the garden boy started sleeping with the second born and after they were caught by the first born, she demanded that she be helped inorder for her not to report to the girls' tough and strict parents but in the process, the last born also saw what was happening and demanded to also sleep with the gardden boy if she has to keep secrete. In the end all the three sisters got pregnant by the same man. The sisters have since given birth and parents have accepted the fate after intense counselling and blamed themselves for being too strict towards their daughters. The garden boy instantly lost his job but the girls still send him money and love him and the father to their two daughters and son. This is how life treats people who are tough and strict towards girl children.

16/04/2024

I WISH YOU ENOUGH

I overheard a father and daughter at an airport in their last moments together. They had announced her plane’s departure, and standing near the door; he said to his daughter, "I love you; I wish you enough."

She said, "Daddy, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Daddy." They kissed goodbye, and she left.

He walked over toward the window where I was seated. Standing there, I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, "Did you ever say goodbye to someone knowing it would be forever?" "Yes, I have," I replied.

Saying that brought back memories of expressing my love and appreciation for all my Dad had done for me. Recognizing that his days were limited, I took the time to tell him face to face how much he meant to me. So I knew what this man was experiencing.

"Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever goodbye?" I asked.

"I am old, and she lives much too far away. I have challenges ahead, and the reality is, her next trip back will be for my funeral, " he said.

"When you were saying goodbye I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.’ May I ask what that means?"

He began to smile. "That’s a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone." He paused for a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail; he smiled even more.
When we said 'I wish you enough,’ we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with enough good things to sustain them," he continued and then turning toward me he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.

"I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright. I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more. I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive. I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger. I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting. I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess. I wish enough "Hello’s" to get you through the final "Goodbye."

15/04/2024

Once a poor boy fell in love with a rich man daughter. Boy loved her a lot so one day he proposed to her.

Girl rejected him by saying, "Listen, your monthly salary is even less than my daily expenses. How can i live with you? How could you even thought of coming to me and ask me?? I can never ever love you. Forget about me and go find someone of your level to get engaged."

Even after knowing girl’s thought he still loved her and after getting rejected boy left but couldn’t forget her.

10 years later they stumbled into each other in a shopping mall.

Girl recognized him and said, "Hey!! You.. how are you?? I am married now He is very smart and do you know how much my husband’s salary..!! it’s 20,000$ per month. Can you beat that??

Boy eye’s got wet hearing those words from same person. A few seconds later her husband came around.

Before girl could say a word seeing the guy her husband said, "Sir, you are here! you have met my wife."

"This is my boss. I am one those working for his 100 million $ project." husband said looking at his wife.

Husband continued, "He is very good person and do you know my dear, My boss loved a girl but he couldn’t win her heart that’s why he remained unmarried. How lucky would that girl have been, if she married my boss now..!! Now days who would have loved someone so much."

Girl got totally shocked but couldn’t say a word after that.

Moral:

Life is too short so don’t be too arrogant and proud of yourself and look down on others current situation. Things change time change. Don’t under estimate anyone because everyone can have a great future.

14/04/2024

Which one are you tonight??? ❤💜💗💞💖💕

10/04/2024

HUSBAND AND WIFE SAD TRUE STORY
Part 2
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office and jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind. I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The sales girl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, "I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart".

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed – dead.

My wife had been fighting cancer for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce. At least, in the eyes of our son— I’m a loving husband.

Moral:

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other.

09/04/2024

HUSBAND AND WIFE SAD TRUE STORY
When I got home that night as my wife
served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions. She didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month, we both try to live as normal a life as possible. Her reason for this conditions were simple. Our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me. She had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last-minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly, it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly mov

06/04/2024

S*X IS SWEET BUT CAN DESTROY YOUR DESTINY.

s*x is sweet but there is poison in between the legs" (A Must Read)
Most downfalls of men are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends.
S*x is a spiritual encounter I stand to be corrected, not every girl has a good spirit,some are demon, some has
poison in between their legs.
Some are killers and destiny destroyers, be careful. Worst is a man who can't control his s*xual urge.
A man who can control his s*xual urge is a man who can live many years on earth.
1. Having many girlfriends does not make you a man. It only makes you a womanizer, a cheat, sinner and a boy.
2. A real man has only one woman(wife) in his life.
3. For the fact that you are good in bed does not make you a man. A real man is the man who does not run away from his responsibility but faces it squarely.
4. You don't need to sag your trousers and walk round the street before girls will love you.
Infact it is only small boys that sag trousers and it is premature little girls that fall in love with men who sag trousers.
5. Don't use and dump women. Remember the law of karma. Whatever you do, you will receive the reward.
6. If you cannot make her your wife, don't make her a mother. If she can't be your wife don't sleep with her.
7. Do not obey your er****on at all times. Most times your er****ons mislead you to the wrong direction.
Control your er****on. Don't let your er****on control you. If you don't you will have few days on earth with much poverty on you.
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