Love and Fun

12/12/2024

Sometimes the bravest thing you can do is walk away. Walk away from those who diminish your worth, who thrive on control, or who drain your energy with their toxicity. Life is too short to stay entangled with narcissists who twist reality, bigots who refuse to see beyond their narrow world, or those who demand it’s their way or no way.

You don’t owe anyone an explanation for prioritizing your peace. Their chaos isn’t your responsibility to fix, and their toxicity doesn’t deserve a place in your heart. Surround yourself with people who lift you, who inspire growth, and who meet you with respect and kindness.

Walking away isn’t weakness; it’s strength. It’s a declaration that your mental health, self-respect, and happiness matter more than tolerating environments that crush your spirit. Choose peace. Choose yourself. And remember, leaving behind what weighs you down is the first step toward soaring higher.

07/12/2024

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07/12/2024

04/12/2024

A healthy relationship is when both of you apologize after having a misunderstanding.

29/11/2024

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23/11/2024

HOW TO AVOID EMOTIONAL AFFAIR...✍🏾

Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love" with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.
No one gets married and plan to have affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.

1. Don't be too friendly with the opposite s*x. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can't handle close friendship with the opposite s*x as a married person. Your heart is involved. Set boundaries. Be disciplined. Be cordial. Be respectful. Be godly. Be holy.

2. Don't share your personal problems with an opposite s*x friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

3. Don't contact any opposite s*x you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and their is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't contact!

4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite s*x.

5. Don't tell an opposite s*x you are romantic or s*xy, that private information is for your spouse only.

6. Avoid discussions with the opposite s*x when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.

7. Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite s*x.

8. Stop saying "I love you" to the opposite s*x, for what?

9. Work on your marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage!

10. Protect your family. Don't share your marital problem with your opposite s*x friend, it will bond you.

11.Never flirt with the opposite s*x.

12. Mind the pictures you post on the social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as s*xy.

13. Do not contact all your EX after marriage.

22/11/2024

𝗦𝘂𝗿𝘃𝗶𝘃𝗮𝗹. 𝗛𝘂𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝗼𝗼𝗱!

21/11/2024

𝗕𝗮𝗯𝘆 𝗧𝘂𝗿𝘁𝗹𝗲! 🐢

21/11/2024

“Men Only Correct the Women They Love” – A Harsh Truth

Listen up, men. If you’re letting a woman spiral into chaos without stepping in, you don’t love her—you’re just playing along for your own convenience. Real love isn’t about passive acceptance; it’s about stepping up, holding her accountable, and guiding her toward becoming her best self. If you can’t do that, you’re either afraid or uninterested in her future.

A man who has no long-term plans for a woman will let her “do anyhow.” He’ll let her dress half-naked, smoke, drink recklessly, and act wild because he doesn’t care about her future—he’s just there for the short-term thrill. He’s not investing in her as a partner; he’s exploiting her. And the worst part? Many women prefer this. They mistake his silence for love, not realizing that a man who doesn’t correct them doesn’t respect them.

Contrast this with a man who truly loves a woman. He won’t sit back and let her ruin herself. He’ll tell her the hard truths, even if it stings. If she’s dressing inappropriately or engaging in self-destructive habits, he’ll confront her because he cares. He’s not controlling her—he’s protecting her. Real love involves discipline and correction because he sees her potential and wants to build a future together.

But here’s the problem: many women can’t handle being corrected. They’d rather soak in their emotions, complain to friends, and hear lies like, “You deserve better, babe.” They confuse guidance with control, rejecting the very men who care enough to hold them accountable. Meanwhile, they cling to men who let them do whatever they want—men who don’t care about their future. The cycle is predictable, and the outcome is always the same: regret.

Men, stop enabling chaos. If a woman rejects correction, she’s not worth your time. A woman who truly values you will respect your guidance, not resent it. Correction isn’t about control—it’s an act of love. If you love her, you want her to be the best version of herself. But if she can’t handle accountability, she’s not ready for a real relationship.

And women, understand this: a man who corrects you isn’t your enemy—he’s your ally. The man who stays silent doesn’t care about you; he’s just passing time. The one who calls you out is investing in your future. Don’t confuse his discipline with criticism. He’s building you up, not tearing you down.

The bottom line? Real love isn’t about letting someone “do whatever they want.” It’s about setting standards, holding each other accountable, and building a solid future together. If you’re not willing to correct the woman you’re with, you don’t truly love her. And if she can’t handle correction, she doesn’t love or respect you either.

Stay strong, stay sharp, and demand accountability in every relationship. A woman worth keeping will value your guidance and respect your leadership. Anything less is a waste of time.

20/11/2024

𝗡𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗮𝗽𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗲𝘆𝗲𝘀!🦅

20/11/2024

17/11/2024

𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘀𝗻𝗮𝗸𝗲 🐍😑

17/11/2024

𝗚𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿

16/11/2024

𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗖𝗿𝗼𝘄 🐦‍⬛?😥