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26/12/2023

Good afternoon sir kosivi….kindly ask your audience which business can be profitable with an amount of 50k ….pls hide my identity. I will be reading comments….thank you sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏

11/12/2023

I HAVE A HUSBAND WHO LIVES DOUBLE LIFE BUT I AM SCARED OF REPORTING HIM

Hello sir, I am 37 years old and have been married for the past five years and some months. I am a church administrator and my husband is also a church worker. So meaning we both work for the church.

We are honestly been paid well and so as for hardship we don’t experience some because by the grace of God aside our salaries, we get a lot of gifts from people.

My problem with my husband is although he is seen as a very strong Christian, this man would hardly pray nor read his Bible. Not even will be call for family devotion. Nothing.

He takes alcohol and he does a lot of ungodly things which I honestly didn’t expect him to do. Recently I realized he seem to be getting a lot of female calls and I’m beginning to wonder if he’s really the man I got married to or the man I know as God fearing and a church worker.

I am tempted to report his actions to the church board but again I’m thinking of the repercussions on us as a family and how it’s going to affect our marriage.

What should I do? I am getting extremely frustrated and divorce or separation is a no no for me. I need him to change and focus on the things of God.

I have attempted a conversation but he won’t change. He tells me I don’t know what pastors are doing and that they’re doing worse things.

28/11/2023

TELL ME WHAT YOUR SECOND WIFE IS BRINGING INTO THE MARRIAGE ASIDE S*X-Wife Questions Husband

Hello Mr Kosivi, I have been quite worried for about two weeks now. Reason being that, my husband for some time has been telling me something that I find quite weird.

We’ve been married for three years and two months now. I am 33 and he’s 38. We have been blessed with two children and I am currently pregnant with the third born.

So far our marriage has been good and although we have had issues it has not been quite serious to the extent that external people must come in.

I am forced to have this conversation because I need an honest answer from you and your followers.

I am a business woman and I must say that I am successful and so is my husband. He is equally successful.

We have together achieved a lot in the last few years being together as a couple.

My husband married me at a time when I have come out of a very terrible relationship.

Sir, two months ago when we were clocked five years in marriage, the only thing my husband had to tell me was that, he wanted to add another wife.

He categorically said he wanted to add a second wife. I was taken aback by his decision. I thought it was a joke so I just laughed.

A week later, he came up with the conversation that he wanted to confess something to me and the confession was that, he has been cheating on me ever since we got married with a particular lady and that the lady is pregnant and the ladies family wants him to marry her.

I asked him what he really wants. Is it that he wants to marry the lady out of the love he has for her or he’s doing it to please the lady and her family.

He couldn’t answer that question immediately but he later came to tell me he feels he doesn’t need to cheat on me again and that he need the lady as a second wife so he can make everything official.

Mr Kosivi, I don’t know how I managed to catch some sleep that night. I cried my heart out throughout that night. I am six months pregnant and this whole thing is weighing on me.

I have loved my husband with everything in me and despite the money I have and the successes I have chalked, I have been very submissive to my husband. At a point when his business had a low turnout, I was there to cushion him back to his feet.

Why would he do this to me.

I asked my husband what the woman was bringing on board as a second wife and what she does for a living?

He rather got angry and started casting insinuations and telling me not to think low of people and a lot of distasteful words.

Am I not justified in asking what the lady is bringing into the marriage? You wanted a second wife and I want to know the contribution she would make in the marriage apart from s*x. Is it a bad question?

I am angry but I have been very calm in this matter since it started. I haven’t told any family member of mine.

I wouldn’t mind for him going in for the second wife but I want to know what the woman is bringing to spice the marriage.

I am an independent woman and aside that, I know how to keep myself well and treat my husband right but I am really surprised this man had to behave this way.

I feel this man doesn’t respect and value me as a wife. Perhaps he married me for convenience sake. Couldn’t it have been better if he had told me before thinking of dating the lady or even told me prior to us getting married so I know this was what my husband wanted?

Two things I have decided, either I move out from the house and seek for a temporal separation to enable me think through this whole thing or I divorce him and move on with my life.

I am not entirely against a man going in for second wife but the approach must come with respect.

Please help me out sir? What do you make of this second wife thing my husband is talking about and my position.

21/11/2023

OUR MARRIAGE WAS ARRANGED BUT THERE IS MORE TO IT

Hello Mr Kosivi, I have been married for seven months now. I am 31 and hubby is 33.

We both met at church and we’re both in the choir. In my church, we believe in pairing couples so we were paired as couple.

We were not forced at all. We both loved each other and the chemistry has been very good from day one.

The issue right now is, ever since we got married, my husband has changed drastically and he makes comments like he regret this whole arrangement thing. For whatever reasons he says that, I don’t know.

I have been a very good wife to the best of my knowledge and he has been a good husband to me so far. But his utterances are piercing and heartbreaking sometimes.

Nothing much has changed except for his utterances. I fear this marriage will soon fall apart due to these words of his.

I work as a pharmacist in a government hospital and he is an administrator also in a government establishment. We are both financially sound.

What should I do?

20/11/2023

MY GIRLFRIEND CANNOT ENJOY S*X WITHOUT SMOKING

Mr Kosivi, I don’t smoke nor drink. I am a young man raised from a strong Christian background but I find myself between choosing between the devil and deep sea.

Sir, I met my girlfriend through a lady friend of mine. That lady friend of mine is quite a very disciplined lady who commands respect a lot.

She once posted the picture of this beautiful lady of which I couldn’t resist. I had a chat with her and asked for the ladies contact. She later sent me the ladies contact after seeking the ladies concern.

Ff, we started chatting and we eventually started dating in no time because my lady friend had laid all the foundation and done all the underground works.

She visits my house and helps with chores and she spends the weekends with me as and when I make the request.

We’re in our third month of dating. Last month we traveled for a weekend outside Accra and we had the best time ever in this relationship.

I noticed my girlfriend would step out of the hotel room early morning and late evening before we sleep for like five minutes. Immediately she enters, she would rush straight to the bathroom to. Rush her teeth. On our last day which was a Sunday, I gathered courage to also follow her few minutes after she stepped out.

I searched her on the hotel compound but couldn’t find her until I decide to walk in the hotel garden just to admire the beautiful scenery.

I got to an area where I could perceive the scent of w**d. I only got curious and was wondering why would someone decide to smoke at such an environment.

I got a bit closer to steel glances, only to find my girlfriend at that obscure place smoking.

She quickly threw the thing away but I asked her not to worry and that I was ok. She really didn’t need to hide it from me.

She felt bad but I was cool and rather gave her a positive vibe so she wouldn’t be too worried. And my plan really was to make her feel comfortable to tell me more about that lifestyle of hers.

She later opened up about how she couldn’t enjoy s*x without either smoking Indian h**p or taking ecstasy.

According to her, it’s something she has been doing for a while and was introduced to by some friends.

Mr Kosivi, truth be told, my girlfriend gave me a very beautiful s*x during our time out there and it has since been the norm.

She always smokes at least half a role before we make out and it’s always crazy and exciting when she gets into that mood. She does everything she ought and can do to take me to the moon and back.

I love how we make out but Mr Kosivi, for how long can wage continue this. When we make out on a normal day without her not taking her usual, then it’s going to be a very boring and lonely exercise.

I am trying to wean her off it slowly but she’s not enjoying the bedroom game without her stuffs.

I love her and would wish to marry her but I keep asking myself a lot of questions whether she’s worth my time and efforts or not.

Please help me on what to do to save this girlfriend of mine.

20/11/2023

I AM SUCCESSFUL BUT CANNOT FIND LOVE

Mr Kosivi, I have kept this to myself for quite a long time but I have to finally real the news to you for help.

I am 34 years and a successful young man working with one of the government institutions as a boss. I am doing extremely well because of the position I occupy.

By the grace of God I own my own house and have a car.

The only thing left is a woman to marry so we can settle together. But my problem is, the ladies I meet are all not serious even though I make them aware I’m quite serious and ready to settle.

They come into my life, milk me dry and later decide to leave me for no reason. I’m not the outgoing type but sincerely I love out going ladies.

I give them their freedom to explore but it seems it’s not enough for them. The last one I dated cheated on me with her ex boyfriend and later came to beg for my forgiveness. I forgave her because I loved her but she repeated the act with a new guy he met at work, so she ended the relationship after she realized I had caught her.

The one before her, a nurse ended up stealing my money and faked pregnancy just to extort more money from me. Her act caused an argument and she said I had accused her so she ended the relationship.

Hmmm…now, there’s this lady I have spotted and we’ve started talking but I want to know if I should rush in marrying her immediately so she also doesn’t end up like the others or I have to wait to know her better.

18/11/2023

MY HUSBAND USES ME AS IF I AM A PR******TE

Mr Kosivi, what would make a man have s*x with his wife for more than one hour and still be firm. My husband makes love with me as if he’s sleeping with a Pr******te. I’m beginning to get irritated by that and I may start giving him excuses soon. I’ve told him I’m not comfortable with prolonged s*x yet he keeps doing it as if I’m just a random Pr******te. I recently noticed he has been taking this tofee and a particular powdery that gets him high. I’m becoming worried. I have vaginal sores which is making me find it difficult to urinate these days. How do I get him to stop this with me. We just got married barely two months now and I’m just worried. I’m 28 and he’s also 30.

17/11/2023

MY HUSBAND HAS SMALL KPEKUS AND HE IS A ONE MINUTE MAN

Mr Kosivi, I know you are hearing things paa but we can’t stop bringing the issues to you as and when they come so please bare with us. I’ve been married for 2 years and my husband has a very small p***s that does not equally function correct. I have tried seeking help for him but he sees me as rather being a bad wife. Anytime I bring him some remedy he will insult me and call me all manner of names. Sincerely I wasn’t a virgin when he saw me and I’m also not a person who likes big p***s though but as for my husbands own is too small that never satisfies. I fake to moan and I fake or**sm. I’m always left hanging. Aside that, he does not even last in bed. I wish I could mix his food with s*x enhancing drugs to help him but I don’t know if any. What can I do to make him understand that it’s not about his satisfaction alone but mine too. I’m worried ooo sir. I am also not into ma********on. Please post for me cos I need help.

17/11/2023

MY HUSBAND SLAPPED ME BECAUSE I CHANGED S*X POSITION

Hello sir, I have been married for four years yet my husband is a chronic womanizer and I have just been quiet watching him do his own thing. We have two kids and my attention is on the kids welfare.

This man will go out and come home drunk and sometimes smelling of sperms yet I’m very very calm. I wash his boxers and mostly I see sperms drip in them.

Recently I also tried to see what I could do to make him stop womanizing so a friend said perhaps I’m not giving him styles so I decided to watch p**n and learn about some new s*x positions just so I can make my husband happy.

He will always do the missionary style with me and nothing more. Few days ago when he made out with me, I decided to give him the back and also try to give him bj, but to my surprise he slapped the hell out of me and stopped the act. He got angry and referring to me as a Pr******te who is cheating on him. How?

Sir I swear I have never cheated on this man before. I’m surprised he behaved that way because he isn’t that violent.

I’m even afraid of him now. He has failed to apologize and he isn’t even talking to me nor eating my food.

In this case what did I do wrong sir. Please advice me sir. He married me a virgin anyway. I am a police officer and he is also a police officer too. Thank you

17/11/2023

MY WIFE IS A LOW KEY LE***AN
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Kosivi, I feel like going on radio to name and shame my wife for being an underground le***an. On Christmas Day, I asked we go visit a few family friends but she told me she wanted to stay back and rather spend some time with my younger sister who had come on holidays from school. My baby sister is 23 and a final year student in the university while my wife is 27 years and an office assistant. I really didn’t see anything wrong so instead I called a friend to go with me. About 30 minutes after I had left home, I remembered I had left something important I had wanted to carry along. I returned home and to my surprise, my wife and little sister were busy kissing and romancing like crazy. I was utterly shocked because I never knew my wife was a low key le***an and neither my sister. They were so much engrossed in the act such that for about a minute they didn’t notice I was staring at them. They immediately jumped out when they saw me. I had to slap both of them and beat the hell out of them until my friend I had come with had to come to their rescue. But I couldn’t tell my friend what they were doing and till today I’m confused and haven’t said a word to anyone. I’m contemplating a temporal separation between us. The marriage is just a year old and I can’t live with a le***an or a wife. I have sacked my sister from the house and I have refused to sleep in the same bed with my wife since. What should I do?

14/11/2023

MY WIFE INSIST WE RENT CLOSER TO HER PARENTS; But…

Efo Kosi, I have been married to my wife for the past six years without a child. I am a taxi driver doing work and pay and my wife is a trader who does everything some. She’s hardworking but there’s one thing about her that hurts so much and I am contemplating of going in for a girlfriend.

Efo, I can hit my chest in all sincerity to tell you that, I have never cheated on my wife since we got married all these years.

I use a yam phone while my wife uses a smart phone just because I want my wife to be happy. I work from 5am to 10pm everyday except sundays.

I work my ass out just to satisfy this lady but it seems nothing I do pleases my wife.

In as much as she’s hardworking, nothing she does becomes profitable. She’s always bringing in debt after debt.

She made us rent an apartment closer to her parents house after we got married and we have been living there since. Now our landlord is sacking us because my wife had an altercation with him over sweeping of the compound.

My wife is now insisting we rent in the same house her parents live and I am highly against that. This has degenerated into a heated argument and for three days we have not been talking. I am thinking of going in for a girlfriend because this lady is tormenting my life.

I don’t have any savings. I am living from hand to mouth. I can’t even go to the hospital when I’m sick. I’m really worried and need a way out sir. Please help.

13/11/2023

I WANT TO BE HIS SECOND WIFE BUT…

Mr Kosivi, I am 29 years and I have been dating this young married man for close to three years.

He is 41 years and he has been very supportive in my life. He has become my friend and confidant. My family knows him as my boyfriend and they have no problem with that.

The apartment in which I live was provided and furnished by him. He has never for once hidden me from people as his girlfriend. Infact, some of his family members like cousins and aunties knows me to be his girlfriend.

He made things clear to me from the beginning of the relationship that, things aren’t too well between himself and the wife but divorce will be his let option, however he would like to marry me should everything work well between us.

I actually didn’t take his words serious because I really didn’t even have in mind the intention of getting married to a married man talk less of being a second wife.

Over time, I realized he is not just a good guy but a very lovely and generous person too.

Now, I wish to be his second wife but that discussion has not surfaced in recent times. My father is late and my mom is very much aware of his plans for me. Now mom wants him to come and officially do the formal introduction which he doesn’t have a problem but he is a bit sluggish about the whole thing. What could that mean sir?

He has assured me he will marry me but sometimes, his actions gives me a different vibe. How do I approach this issue sir.

I am ready to be his second wife because he is a good man and I don’t want to lose him.

Am I being selfish or I am asking too much? Kindly advice me sir.

13/11/2023

HE WANTS ME AS A SECOND WIFE BUT…

Efo Kosivi, I have this married man friend who is going through a lot in his marriage. He tells me a lot about his marriage and sincerely as a friend I have attested to some of them.

He and I have become so cool that I have begun falling in love with him or let me say we both have fallen in love with each other.

He asked me this question whether, I would like to be his second wife. I don’t remember the exact answer I gave him but I think I asked him to divorce the wife if he’s not happy so we can start on a clean sheet. He didn’t say anything sensible at the time though.

But he has come back again to ask me same question again; and this time he told me divorcing the wife is impossible because he stands to lose a lot.

I love him though but I don’t know if I’m ready to be a second wife. I tried avoiding him but I succeeded for only a day.

What should I do please?

10/11/2023

I CAUGHT MY HUSBAND SMOKING INDIAN H**P AND I WANT TO DIVORCE HIM

Good morning Kosivi, I found out last night that apparently my husband is on drags. He smokes w**d. I saw him yesterday at a base in my neighborhood on my way to see a friend off. It was my friend who saw him and prompted me. I felt so ashamed and didn’t know what to say because he had the substance in his mouth when we saw him. He tried to hide it but couldn’t due to how close we were to the joint. He came home angry at me for monitoring his movement which isn’t the case. Sincerely, sir I didn’t know my husband smokes. I wouldn’t have married him. We have been married for just six months and what I saw yesterday can’t just get off my mind. I have called my parents and told them already and they have asked me to take my decision and they will support it. I want to leave him because thank God I do not have any pregnancy yet and I think I can’t be with someone who smokes let alone hard drugs. It is a big No for me. I told him this morning I wanted to leave for my parents house and he seems not to understand. He’s at the living room begging while I’m in the bedroom. I’m bent on leaving because I can’t stand a smoker. He does his own business and is doing well. I noticed his eyes are mostly red after we got married and when I ask him he tells me, the sun and all manner of excuses until his cup got full yesterday. His mother is on her way here but I don’t want to stay. What do you think sir?

09/11/2023

AFTER PUTTING OUR MARRIAGE PLANS ON HOLD, HE PLANS ON TRAVELING TO THE UK AFTER ASKING ME TO TURN SIMILAR OFFER DOWN

Hello Efo Kosivi, I’m 32 and he is 35. We have been dating for two years and some four months. We are both health workers and lives in the Eastern Region. During the start of the relationship, we told ourselves we will date for a year and then settle down due to our age. A year later we were preparing to settle when he said he wanted to further his education so we should hold on another one year. Another one year has come to pass and he said we should wait for a while as he is planning on migrating to the UK for greener pastures to better our lot then we can marry later. But Efo Kosivi my problem is that, last two years when he was doing further studies, I had the opportunity to go to the UK but he asked me to stop so that we do that after marriage. But I’m surprised he is now talking about he going first so he comes back for me before we can marry. I am just surprised at his behavior and don’t know what to do? Is this guy really serious or he is just selfish? I still have the opportunity to go to the UK because my certificate is valid for two years. What should I do sir?

08/11/2023

I AM A WOMAN BE**ER BUT I WANT TO STOP

Efo Kosivi, I am a woman be**er and I want to stop. I beat almost every lady I date at the least provocation.

The last lady I beat was during the World Cup games where my girlfriend was crushing on Kudus. She got me arrested and his brothers had to pay the cell mates to beat the hell out of me while in custody.

I am unhappy with the way I beat my girlfriend’s and I want to stop. Please help me.

I remember my father used to slap and beat my mother with belt and anything at hand when I was a little boy. I don’t know if I learnt that from him but it is affecting me.

I am even ashamed sending this message but it is a condition my girlfriend gave me so I have no option. Please help me. What do I do?

08/11/2023

GOD REVEALED MY BEST FRIEND AS MY FUTURE HUSBAND BUT I AM AFRAID TO TELL HIM

Good afternoon Efo Kosi. I trust you're doing well. I've been following stories on your platform and it's interesting to know what people are going through in their relationships.
This is my little story I want to share with your followers and I believe I will get the help I am looking for.
So I'm a young lady who has a nice handsome gentleman as my best friend. He came into my life at a time when I needed someone like him there. When he came into my life, I was freshly grieving the death of my mum who was the closest person in my life. When he came, he showed me all the love and support I needed and he became the one person in my life. I hardly make friends because I'm an introvert. One night I was praying to God to help me locate my life partner and I heard my best friend's name. I was confused and thought I didn't hear well so I went ahead to pray about it for 3 consecutive days and kept hearing the same name. But I didn't know how to tell him about it so I've kept it to myself. After this revelation, I started having these strong feelings for him and it's over 3years, and the feelings keep getting stronger. He has been an awesome person all these years. He hasn't done anything to show that he is interested in anything beyond just friendship so sometimes I feel I didn't hear right. I have built my life around him to the extent that, I don't see myself with any other person apart from him. Just last year, I decided to date someone to see if my feelings towards him will change but I ended up hurting the other person. These days when I see him talking to other ladies, I feel jealous. I want to be that one person in his life but sometimes I think because he knows my past and all about me that's why he hasn't considered anything like that with me.
Sometimes I just want to tell him about how I feel about him but I'm so scared he'll reject me.

06/11/2023

COULD HE BE CHEATING ?

Good morning Efo, please help me out with this sir, how do I know if my man is cheating? When we started dating, he allows me access to his phone and all that for both games and research. But six months into the relationship, he no longer gives me his phone to even check time. He is so overprotective of his phone these days and I’m beginning to get worried. His phone is always on silent and sometimes some calls he mutes them when I’m around him. What could that mean? He is quite a nice guy but sincerely I’m beginning to have trust issues with him. Am I right to think that way?

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