SHARE YOUR PAINS

22/11/2024

Hope

23/10/2024

23/10/2024

Pls do share your view

Check out Faada’s video.

17/09/2024

Life sometimes can be stressful but you have to keep hope alive

10/09/2024

Patient but don't be too complicency

11/08/2024

Claim it,

It's My Time

08/08/2024

DEAR WOMEN !!

You left your husband because he was cheating.

You have a kid or two.

So you divorced because you were so pained.

You left.

With the kids.

You started working hard to cater for your needs. You work so hard, but it isn't enough.

To meet up with the growing economic demands, you find a wealthy man. He is rich. You dont care. You need to pay fees for your kids as a strong, independent woman. You need to prove that it can be done. So you're dating a wealthy married man.
You are now a side chic.

Then, you begin to think of the side chics your husband has and why he has them.

You do not even question the morality. You begin to understand why. Maybe they've got kids too. Mouths to feed, life to live.

It doesn't make sense still.

So you call the married man when he is home, and he hides to shout at you for wanting to disturb his peace with his "wife" as you ought to know when he is home.

You think of your hurts.

You think of your consolation.

At least you had a husband who was fully yours. He cheats, but he was fully yours.

So you attempt to find out what is going on with him now, but he is married again to a younger woman.

After you make contact, he comes to visit you and the kids. He drops some money once a while. The new wife is in charge now...

You connect on old times. You even had s*x.

He leaves to his house to his wife. You're now dating two married men. Both of them are cheating on their wives.

And then you say life wasn't fair to you.

As bad as this may sound, it happens. It is the reality of our time.

Wise people learn from the mistakes of others.

Don't leave ur peaceful abode (marriage) because he cheats.

It rains every where.


Remember Love is beautiful 🌹 But It Sits On You
Look Within You 🧎

18/07/2024

DON’T TAKE HER LOVE FOR GRANTED.❤️

if she is giving you too much attention just consider yourself lucky because maybe she loves you so much that she doesn’t want anyone else to take her place in your life.❤️

If she visit you all the time, calls you, helps you, care for you and give you attention more than she gives herself and family, don’t think she’s desperate. She’s doing that because you are the only one in her heart.❤️

If she cries for you, don’t think she is weak but consider yourself lucky that she thinks you are worth her precious tears.🥺

If she is jealous of the other women around you, don’t think she is insecure but she doesn’t want to see anyone else to be in your arms.😊

If a woman says sorry to you even though it was not her fault, don’t think she is afraid of losing you but she considers her relationship worth another chance and she doesn’t want anyone else to have your heart..🥰❤️

My brother, respect and value what you have now because once it is gone, you'll never see it again.🙅🏽‍♂️

To your continuous growth and wellness.

💝📌💯❤️

21/06/2024

My SISTER, no matter how GOOD you TREAT a MAN, if you are not the WOMAN he has FEELINGS for, he will never APPRECIATE your EFFORTS. No WOMAN is more miserable than a woman trying to be the RIGHT WOMAN to the WRONG MAN. To the WRONG MAN, even at your best you still won't be GOOD ENOUGH. STOP watering dead plants, stop forcing connections. Truth is when the right man comes into your LIFE, you won't FORCE COMMUNICATION, you won't FORCE ATTENTION, you will be VALUED and RESPECTED.

MOST MEN are only LOYAL to their FEELINGS. They don't CARE .

10/05/2024

Dear Girls/Sisters

Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.
1. I'm too young for that.
2. Who cares about marriage.
3. I'm focused on my books.
4. I want to gather some money first.
5. Marriage is full of problems.
These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.
But these girls will be having serious & series of s*x relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have s*x with boys.
No problem, God is watching you.

At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;
1. How far?
2. Don't you have any one yet ?
3. Are you not planning to get married ?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?
5. Don't you know you are getting old?
But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.
With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,
1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.
4. They are not even ready to marry yet.
5. Well, God knows the best. I believe in God.
See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "God's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake.
At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have s*x and play with again.
They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.
You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.
No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
My sister, it matters a lot.
Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too.
Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.

At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?
2. Is it not getting too late for you ?
You will hear her asking you some silly questions like...
1. Are you God?
2. Or do you want to marry me?
3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?
4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?
5. God knows the best for everyone please.
At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. She will start praying mid-night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:
1. My brother, I'm not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern.
Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.
You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.
Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.
Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.
Everything in life has its own season and time.
There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.

Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of God. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.
Think about this when you have time.

19/02/2024

THUMB 👍 UP 4 MAN

Sometimes I wonder where we draw our strength from. We stay months without buying clothes for ourselves all because we want to put food on the table

We stay hungry so that our family can eat and survive.

Sometimes we leave home with no direction but still be able to come back home with money.

We sometimes derived our basic education so that our kids can have it.

Our parents look up to us for survival whether we have a job or not,we just have to provide

We pay huge bride price to marry a woman we love and end up taking care of her family, her siblings and even our very own

We have to fight tirelessly for our mothers , wives and kids.

Fellow men, may God almighty bless us all with long life and courage to go through each day..
I really have to CRUSH on us all❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

15/02/2024

Get yourself a man, not a little boy. Forget about s*x! When life gets overwhelming, does he uplift you? If your finances are low, can you rely on him to provide? When you're mentally overwhelmed, does he offer a safe space for you to vent? You need someone on your team who's willing to help you elevate to a different level than where you currently are, in real life. He won't be perfect, but he will be willing to fix things, work through them, and support you. Yes, they do exist!