Every relationship and Marriage deserve constant communication to grow .
One of the easiest way to end any relationship or marriage is absence of communication .
If you must build a successful marriage, communication is vital and shouldn't be restricted from your partner.
Don't be too busy more than the Love and Friendship both of you agreed to have for each other.
Time and chance should not be optional in that relationship and Marriage if you actually want to achieve a successful one.
Your job and business shouldn't be a barrier, if you must build a better family.
Your partner should be your number one priority, anything greater than that is no longer true love, because true love value each other more than any other thing .
Love is practical, it's daily demonstration, and it's evidence of promise to each other.
Let communication and time be unquenchable between you and your partner.
Always remember together you stand but divided you fall.
Give more attention to your partner and you will see true love dominating in your Relationship or Marriage.
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When you think of her in the morning, SEX came to your mind.
In the Afternoon, the same thought of SEX
Even in the night, same SEX thought.
You don't think about her progress, vision, goals, dreams and the value she is bringing into your life.
All you are after is sex and her beautiful body.
My brother, what did she do to deserve this wickedness❓
Lastly, be ready for everything.
Even if your partner is loyal and everything is going smoothly, be prepared for the worst. Anything can happen.
You’ll never know what might end your relationship.
Never decide that the person will be with you forever based on a few years of experience.
And there’s a quote that says, “Only time can heal what reasons cannot.”
Always prepare yourself
Every marriage has its own challenges. There is no problem free marriage. A working marriage is just two people who are experts in problem solving living together. Those who are quick to leave their marriages always marry again to find out that only partner changed, the system remains the same. You are still required to be a responsible, respectful, patient, forgiving, determined and faithful husband or wife.
Your marriage can work if you want it to. It is your choice. Even Jezebel could keep her marriage. And yes Adolf hitler kept a wife till he died. You are too anointed to fail in the area of loving a partner. Most of these tyrants that hated humanity had marriage partners they loved genuinely. Christians who claim to love humanity always have marriage partners they hate with passion. We must rise to change the status quo. You have one lifetime to reward your generation with a stable family. Don't let divorce ruin it. Don't do us a deservice. No one can care for your children like yourself. Don't cast out who has a child with you or have lived with you for a while. It will work if only you want it to.
YOU MUST BE INTENTIONAL TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE in this generation.
There is what is CALLED SEX SKILLS. Unfortunately, this is what many ladies call love.
👉The look in his eyes when he wants to have sex...
👉The gentleman manner at which he lays them down on either the couch or bed
👉The bedroom voice is just irresistible so they begin to believe that the guy is just so much in love with them.
👉The muscles and energy he puts in are just so uncontestable.
👉To crown it all, his ability to last long on that first night drives the lady crazy.
Right there in the sexual ACT, they begin to plan wedding...(they've even printed the IV) This is actually the part that causes the heartbreak. Their permutations and stakings have just been shattered because they mistook the guy's SEX SKILLS for LOVE.
Guys put in a lot just to impress a lady on the first sex date.
👉Some take concussions to last that night,
👉Some spray pefs, dim the light and turn on the music for the mood,
👉Some undergo manhood enlargement,
👉Some get a new bedspread to taste...
All these for that night and thats all but the gullible lady plans her whole life on it!
Now, don't get me wrong, i condemn such acts of deception from men, i am in no way supporting it, i'm only trying to open the eyes of some ladies who keep falling for the sex skills
#focus
#CLEANMINDED
Love is not enough to choose a life partner, they are other qualities to look out for when choosing a life partner, amongst them are:
1. Is the person ready to sacrifice and stand by you?
2. Can the person stay if the material things are no longer there?
3. Can the person support you and key into each other's dream?
4. Are you both God fearing?
5. Are you good enough to parent your kids?
6. Can you stand by yourselves in sickness?
7.can the person stay in that relationship if you say no to premarital sex?
8. Can the person treat your people well when they come visiting?
Answer all these questions before choosing a life partner.
#focus
#CLEANMINDED
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𝗔 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗯𝗲 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗱𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱 𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀. 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗱𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘂𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀.
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RULES OF LIFE
1. What others think of you is none of your business.
2. Time heals almost everything, give it time.
3. Smile. You don't own all the problems in the world.
4. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
5. Don't compare your life to others and don't judge them. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
6. Stop thinking too much. It's alright not to know the answers. They will come when you least expect it.
7. No one is in charge of your happiness, except you.
IS THIS WORDLD WE LIVE BALANCE?
CHECK THIS OUT: THE TRUE STATE OF LIFE NOW IS;
𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐔𝐒𝐁𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘:
1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him in peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his movements
6. Clean the house
7. Wash his clothes
8. Always pray for him.
So what's so hard about that?
𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘:
It's really not too difficult but... To make a wife happy, a husband only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer/prayer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐆𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐎:
44. give her compliments regularly
45. go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. not stress her out
48. not look at other girls
𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄, 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐀𝐋𝐒𝐎:
49. give her lots of attention
50. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
51. give her lots of space, allow to visit her family members and your relatives.
𝐁𝐔𝐓 𝐌𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐈𝐓 𝐈𝐒 𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘 𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐓:
52. To learn not to ask for change when u give money for shopping. Whatever u give out becomes rightly hers no matter how big the note is.
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