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Sel, this is a very difficult and practical situation I find myself in and will urgently need advice, from your noble pl...
16/02/2025

Sel, this is a very difficult and practical situation I find myself in and will urgently need advice, from your noble platform and it's enthusiastic followers. My case is that, I happily got married to a lady I love so much for the past 1 year. It happened that I travelled abroad for an official work and will be there for 3 years. In view of this, I worked out the necessary documentations for her to join me and luckily, she joined me about a month ago.

Sel, my huge dilemma now is that, my lovely wife screams the world when getting or**sm during s*x. A week ago, my wife screamed while reaching or**sm but something strange happened. Just after that morning's performance while resting, we heard a knock on our flat.Shockingly, It was the police at the door and according to them, 2 of our neighbours called to complain about a lady screaming for help and that, they therefore suspected an abuse case.I had to explain everything to them even though, they doubted it. Eventually, we had to sign a bond not to disturb our neighbours again.My worry now is that, for days now, I could not touch my wife even though, I feel for s*x. How do we solve this problem because my wife can't do without the screaming.Advice needed!

Troubled Husband

16/02/2025

May every financial burden & stress on your life catch fire in Jesus name!!

Sel,there's something bothering me and will need the advice of your followers. My sister got married late 2021 against o...
16/02/2025

Sel,there's something bothering me and will need the advice of your followers.
My sister got married late 2021 against our family's opposition to the marriage.
She however, went ahead to marry and took in 2022 but lost the baby. She went ahead and took in again 2024 and in the middle of the pregnancy, discovered that she was HIV positive.It took me alot of talking and encouragement before she started taking her drugs. Fortunately, she gave birth but unfortunately,lost the baby again,

Sel, her husband has however, been misbehaving after giving my sister this terrible disease. He still sleeps around with girls and sharing the disease everywhere. I am thinking of advising my sister to leave the marriage and also, tell my dad to return the bride price to them. Will I be wicked to also effect his arrest?Please is my decision good, advice is needed.

Worried Lady

Sel, there is a huge problem in my home and thus, placing me between my beloved mum and my dear wife. The issue is that,...
15/02/2025

Sel, there is a huge problem in my home and thus, placing me between my beloved mum and my dear wife. The issue is that, my wife has given birth and my beloved mum, who is a widow has come to spend few weeks with us. Even though I told my wife before her visit and her consent given for the whole arrangements, she became a different person.Upon the arrival of my mum however, she started putting up some strange attitude.

Sel, I quickly expressed myself as the man of the house, to bring the issue under control. I will however, need to take a very decisive decision and will need an honest advice from your platform. 3 days after my mum's arrival, my wife told me she was going to stay with her mum, until my mum leaves before she will return. I love her but is it okay, if I also ensure my mum's happiness as a son? Also, will I be a wicked person to keep her with her mum permanently for disrespecting my mum? Advice needed

Troubled Husband

Sel, I am currently going through difficult moments in my life, because of my past activities. I am a 35 year old lady ...
14/02/2025

Sel, I am currently going through difficult moments in my life, because of my past activities. I am a 35 year old lady who is single and hoping to get married however, nothing is working for me.The issue is that, in the past, I had taste for only married men and so far, I have been able to date about 7 married men and out of these, collapsed 5 of those marriages due to my relationship with the husbands.

Sel, their wives mostly do not respect them at home, neither do they make them feel special as men. To this end, I made sure I make time for them, cook and give them good treats in bed. With these, they followed me like bee. My dilemma now is that, one of the men wants to marry me after divorcing his wife.However, my friends say, since I repented it will be bad to marry him after divorcing his wife, because of me. Will I be wrong by marrying him because I am still single and searching!!!

Worried Lady

Sel, I am a lady who is 38 years and married for the past 7 years, with 2 children. All was going well with my marriage ...
13/02/2025

Sel, I am a lady who is 38 years and married for the past 7 years, with 2 children. All was going well with my marriage and my husband was doing his best however, the devil manipulated me and now, I am facing divorce by my husband. My issue is that, 5 years into our marriage, I made some new friends at work and the church and we became very close. They always listen to women affirmative talks on social media. Sometimes, they describe their husbands as Narcist and with time, I bought into their ideas and got influenced by these ideologies.

Sel, sooner or later, I started disrespecting my husband at home, and came to the realization that we are both equal in the marriage. This was strange to my husband who complained but I thought I was doing the right thing. Furthermore, I declined to contribute to the upkeep of the home, leaving everything for him. All my friends have gone to beg their husbands, after divorce notice and have been forgiven. However, my husband has refused and very focused on our divorce. I regret my actions but don't know, how to get him to accept me back. Advice is needed.

Worried Wife

Sel, I met some 3 gentlemen on facebook and they all wanted something serious with me. A painter, a civil servant and a ...
12/02/2025

Sel, I met some 3 gentlemen on facebook and they all wanted something serious with me. A painter, a civil servant and a company worker. We've been talking for about a month now and so far, I've seen two in person and I'm okay with them but yet to meet the third one. They all call me regularly to check up and I also do call them.I have however, noticed something about these three guys, that's making it difficult for me to make a choice.Anytime I chat or do video calls with the painter and my airtime or bundle got finished, he sends me airtime.He will jokingly say oh I made you spend your airtime and bundle, then he send it.

Sel, the other 2 however, will never do that, even if I tell them I don't have airtime or bundle.Meanwhile these other two guys are the ones who mostly requests for video calls and Whatsapp chats.There was a day I felt sick and couldn't go to work,when the painter called and I told him about it, he quickly sent me money to get some medicines but the other 2 only placed a call. My instinct is telling me to choose the painter but I don't know whether he's also faking it or being real. As for the other 2 do you think they will be generous to me and my children in the future? Who do I go for?

Confused Lady

Everyone is business minded when money is available!! Now let's know which country you are and with 10,000 dollars avail...
12/02/2025

Everyone is business minded when money is available!! Now let's know which country you are and with 10,000 dollars available to you, which business can you do to double this amount in 1 year?

Sel, I beg you in the name of God, I am doing this because I don't have any other choice. I am 7 months pregnant with tw...
11/02/2025

Sel, I beg you in the name of God, I am doing this because I don't have any other choice. I am 7 months pregnant with twins, but my boyfriend denied the pregnancy. Please, can anyone gift me baby clothes or any other baby stuffs, not necessarily new stuff. I am begging, I am not asking for money, just baby things for a boy and a girl, as confirmed by a medical scan. Thank you!!!

Pregnant Lady

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Sel, I recently found out that love, is very powerful because, it doesn't know any boundaries.My case may sound weird bu...
11/02/2025

Sel, I recently found out that love, is very powerful because, it doesn't know any boundaries.My case may sound weird but it is very important to me.Now,my dilemma is that, I have seen men, met them and dealt with them however, there is one man, I will even pay to have in my life. Any time I see him, I get very h***y to the point of even getting wet.

Sel, this person is no other person than my beloved church pastor. Seriously, I have done everything to catch his attention including, not missing any church service, prayer meetings and Bible studies.I am also close to his family, especially the wife however, she is not my priority. As a result of this feelings for him, I have given huge amounts of my savings at church, during harvest and also help fund major church projects. What can i do now because all my savings is gone, am I not being human or there is something wrong with me?

Anonymous Lady

Sel, I have a very terrible experience not long ago, and will need some advice from your platform. My issue is that I am...
11/02/2025

Sel, I have a very terrible experience not long ago, and will need some advice from your platform. My issue is that I am a corporate worker but has recently gone into real estate businesses. As a young and single guy , it is my desire to to get married in the near future. Thankfully, I met a lady I like and will want to marry however, there is a challenge.

Sel, apparently she is one of the tenants occupying one of my buildings. My dilemma now is that as a woman I love to marry, is there anything wrong with her paying monthly rent to me until we get married? Must dating automatically cancel her payment of rent to me?
Advice is needed

Worried Guy

11/02/2025

All those looking for jobs, May good jobs follow u for immediate employment by Grace!

One thing is certain in life, a thankful heart will always receive more!! What is that great thing God has done for you,...
11/02/2025

One thing is certain in life, a thankful heart will always receive more!! What is that great thing God has done for you, that you feel reluctant to share with others? Or something great that someone has done for you.Lets know where you are and as u share this, God will shock u with abundant success beyond measure in life!!!

Sel, I am a guy who has been married to my wife, for the past 11 years and has a terrible dilemma. Fortunately, our unio...
10/02/2025

Sel, I am a guy who has been married to my wife, for the past 11 years and has a terrible dilemma. Fortunately, our union has produced 2 beautiful children and I am grateful for that. To be honest, let me say my wife is a very lovely and supportive one and I love her so much. My only headache now is that, I decided to test the paternity of my children and it turned out to be that, one of them is not mine.

Sel, surprisingly that same child is also very close to me. I managed myself and asked God to give me the heart to handle this situation. Luckily, for the past 5 years that I discovered this, I have never asked my wife but just conditioned my mind that all the kids are mine and we live happily. Sometimes, it strike me to deal with the issue and I get troubled, but another part of me also says, protect the family happiness and move on. What should be the best way of dealing with this issue? Advice is urgently, needed!

Worried Husband

Sel, I'm a married woman who finds herself in a very tight corner of life. The fact is that, I am a corporate lady but a...
09/02/2025

Sel, I'm a married woman who finds herself in a very tight corner of life. The fact is that, I am a corporate lady but a very private hook-up lady, before I got married 3 years ago to my husband. To be fair, my female friends envy my success but the truth is that, they do not know what I do privately, to be the person I am. Fortunately, I got married to my dear husband, but started the hook-up thing once a while.

Sel, my serious concern is that just as I accepted my 3rd meeting with a man who liked my profile, it turned out to be a disaster. Unfortunately, the man turned out to be a friend to my husband. I decided I won't sleep with him but he rather insisted to do it or tell my husband. Eventually, he had me for free, without paying anything and I lost 2,000 dollars just like that. My issue is whether am safe or he will still tell my husband everything, after sleeping with me. What should I do?

Troubled Wife

Sel, I am a lady who is married for the past 3 years and currently 7 months pregnant with our first child.I am here to s...
09/02/2025

Sel, I am a lady who is married for the past 3 years and currently 7 months pregnant with our first child.I am here to seek your help to help me take a decision in my dilemma. My issue is that, I met and fell in love with this guy, when my pregnancy was 3 months old. Even though I told him I was pregnant, he still told me he loves me and that made me fell for him more.

Sel, my dilemma now is that ever since I met him, my husband has not touched me in bed again. This is because he told me not to allow him, so I told my husband that, the gynaecologist says the pregnancy is a bit delicate hence we should not have s*x. He is more than happy not to touch me however, I am busily been sorted out by my man. Unfortunately, he has travelled out of the country and would not be back before, I put to bed. I really feel h***y and wants my husband badly however, I don't know what explanation to give him, against instructions by the gynaecologist. How do I go about this?

Worried wife

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