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Sel, I am currently facing a challenge and don't know what to do. My challenge is that, I have been secretly admiring my...
16/01/2025

Sel, I am currently facing a challenge and don't know what to do. My challenge is that, I have been secretly admiring my pastor's wife until I could not stand it again, so I discussed with one of my friends. I thought he will insult and rebuke me but surprisingly, he rather gave me a brilliant idea that worked.

Sal, he told me to just drop a note on paper for her since I was shy and scared.All I wrote was "mum I admire you". To my surprise, she was s*xually starving so she ran for it and we have been having s*xual relationship for 6 months now. My dilemma now is that she has already had 3 abortions for me and at this point, I want out because I am scared of the ramifications but she says if I do, she will rather confess to her husband and get a divorce, so that the cause will be on my head. What should I do?

Worried Guy

16/01/2025

Ladies,guys want to know. Do guys with beard attract u? And will u like ur partner to keep beard or not and Why?
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Sel, my friend has betrayed me and I am very confused at the moment because, divorce is starring at my face. The fact is...
16/01/2025

Sel, my friend has betrayed me and I am very confused at the moment because, divorce is starring at my face. The fact is that, I am married with 2 children while my best friend was struggling with childbirth. In view of this, they agreed to have artificial insemination. My friend asked for a difficult help from me without her husband's knowledge. That is for my husband to donate his s***m but without his knowledge.

Sel, I hesitated but eventually did it because of our friendship. I made my husband use condom during s*x and that was how I harvested the s***m for my friend. After having the child, she is now back saying the child must know his father because she and her husband are divorced now. This is giving me sleepless nights because I did that without my husband knowing. What should I do?

Worried wife

16/01/2025

If you had the opportunity to come back into this life, will you still want to come the same s*x, female or male? Why?

Sel, I am a married lady who is 5 months pregnant.My problem is that, I am currently in a relationship with this guy for...
15/01/2025

Sel, I am a married lady who is 5 months pregnant.My problem is that, I am currently in a relationship with this guy for the past 4 months and I am enjoying it. In view of this, I will need a clarification on something that convinced me about his love for me. I know it is not common for a man to propose love to a pregnant woman. So taking the step forward to propose to me alone, means a lot to me.

Sel, his courage and boldness to even approached me was a reason why I gave in to me. My only dilemma now is that, is it true that a man who proposes to a pregnant woman truly loves her? What exactly might be his motive for loving me, because I love him so much.

Anonymous pregnant Lady

Sel, I am a married woman who wanted to try something for the first time, but just backfired into my face and facing the...
15/01/2025

Sel, I am a married woman who wanted to try something for the first time, but just backfired into my face and facing the music now. My trouble is that, about 2 weeks ago I was working from home when my husband rang around 1pm. He checked on me and told me he had ordered food for me, so I shouldn't worry to cook. To be honest, I was speechless because he is always surprising me.

Sel, I started thinking of how to surprise him in bed that night but got carried away by imaginations and became very wet and h***y. Unfortunately, it was not long when the delivery guy arrived. I tried to control myself but at the end, I begged him to have s*x with me and he never spared me. After everything, he said he felt bad as a Christian and never planned to do anything like that.In view of that therefore, he wants to confess to my husband. My frustration now is that, this will result in divorce so I begged to offer him money. The amount he is mentioning now means, I must empty everything in my bank account. If I ask my husband for forgiveness, will that affect our future relationship? What must I do?

Worried wife

Sel, my mum is doing something that is bothering me and will need help to solve the problem. The fact is that, I am the ...
14/01/2025

Sel, my mum is doing something that is bothering me and will need help to solve the problem. The fact is that, I am the only child to my widowed mum and I work so had to provide for her. However, my mum has gone for a young and unemployed guy and they are having s*xual relationship.

Sel, even though I don't like it, I have kept quiet but what is annoying is the fact that she gives all the money I give her to the guy. My dilemma now is that, I have decided not to give her that much, however, she is painting a picture to everyone as though I am not taking good care of her. What should I do?

Worried son

Please sel, post this for me, am a single pregnant lady and a graduate, hopefully seeking for job, Genotype AA Blood gro...
14/01/2025

Please sel, post this for me, am a single pregnant lady and a graduate, hopefully seeking for job, Genotype AA
Blood group A+
I need a helper, husband who will marry me and my baby from Igbo land.

A man who is 45 years old is looking for a lady who is single or a single parent for a relationship. Preferred age is 35-50 years and from Ghana or America.

A man who is 40 years is looking for a lady between 28 - 40 years for a relationship. The lady should be from South Africa, Nigeria or UK.

A Muslim guy who is 35 is looking for a Muslim lady aged between 30- 35 yeas and in Ghana.

A lady between between 28- 38 is seriously needed for a relationship in Nigeria and Ghana.

All interested persons should reach the selshow on whatsapp +233245835858

Sel, a risk I took is almost going bad, so I asked myself why some men think ladies, who genuinely propose to them are c...
13/01/2025

Sel, a risk I took is almost going bad, so I asked myself why some men think ladies, who genuinely propose to them are cheap? My issue is that, I am genuinely attracted to this guy in my office and wish he marry me. I have given all signals to get his attention but he is not getting it. In view of this, I tried kissing him without his consent but he resisted it. I don't know how he managed the information but it got to the HR and I was suspended.

Sel, I was so hurt but he explained that it was his friend he spoke to, that leaked the issue. He then asked me for forgiveness to which I demanded s*x as a condition. Fortunately, it happened the way I wanted it and am currently pregnant. My issue now is that, he wants me to abort the baby but I refused because I want to give birth. In view of this, he doesn't want any responsibility, towards the child. Will I be wicked to report him at work so he will be responsible towards the child?

Anonymous Lady

Sel, we are about getting married within a month and already, there is a huge disagreement between us. My wife to be inh...
13/01/2025

Sel, we are about getting married within a month and already, there is a huge disagreement between us. My wife to be inherited a house from his late father as the only child. While I currently live in a single apartment, I am taking steps to get a double apartment so we can move into, after our wedding.

Sel, our disagreement now is that, she want us to move into her inherited property so I pay rent to her. I disagreed saying, I cannot pay rent for a 4 bedroom house considering my financial position. This has generated heated argument on her part saying, she cannot live in any small apartment. Can I cancell this marriage because I feel she may not be part of this marriage?

Worried Man

13/01/2025

God will see you through that challenge, keep hope alive!!

Sel, I am a single guy who is 35 years old . The reason why I am here for advice is that, something has has been giving...
13/01/2025

Sel, I am a single guy who is 35 years old . The reason why I am here for advice is that, something has has been giving me sleepless nights. My problem is that, my pastor's wife is pregnant for me and has refused to abort the pregnancy. According to her, she will find a way to give the pregnancy to her husband, because abortion is against her Christian values.

Sel, I am very scared because such an action could have future effects on us spiritually and physically. How can I convince her to abort the pregnancy?

Worried guy

Sel, I am suffering in marriage because our s*xual life is simply boring. My trouble is that, we have been married for t...
12/01/2025

Sel, I am suffering in marriage because our s*xual life is simply boring. My trouble is that, we have been married for the past 7 years and we have a great marriage. The only problem however, is that, since the 7 years marriage, my wife has never had climax or or**sm during s*x.

Sel, someone will say we don't do foreplay and romance before s*x but it's not true. We have exhausted every romantic avenue but my wife will simply not get there. I can stay on s*x up to 30 to 40 mins before coming, but this is not even enough to make my wife reach or**sm. Can I get some help from the house!!

Worried Husband

Sel, I have encountered a terrible scene in my marriage and will need some advice here, to see the way forward. I am mar...
12/01/2025

Sel, I have encountered a terrible scene in my marriage and will need some advice here, to see the way forward. I am married to my wife for 8 years and she is currently 3 months pregnant with our second child. I am in a serious dilemma as to what to do because I am very shocked at what my wife has done.

Sel, i first caught my wife giving our 2 year old a BJ and when I confronted her, she apologised and I forgave her. However, I caught her for the third time and this means she is abusing our son s*xually and therefore, our son is not safe.Is this not a criminal offence and what must I do, knowing she is pregnant with our second child?

Worried Husband

Sel, I am in a very tight corner as a married woman and will need some help from your platform. Facts of the matter is t...
12/01/2025

Sel, I am in a very tight corner as a married woman and will need some help from your platform. Facts of the matter is that, my husband's business has not been doing well for some years now so he decided to go for a loan. In fact, it was that bad that, even the financial institutions could not give his company a loan, due to collateral issues. God been so good, one of his friends decided to give him a personal loan, with the same amount.

Sel, 2 years of repayment came but he could not pay so everything became a problem. In the heat of things, it was going to be a big legal issue but somehow, his friend put some conditions forward which could settle half of the amount. Even though it was against my wish, I accepted it and had s*x with him. And for the first time ever in my life, I had to agree for a th*****me with him as par of the condition. Somehow, from no where, my husband managed to raise all the money for him. Instead of giving back half of the amount to me per our agreement, he has refused. How do I enforce our agreement without my husband knowing?

Worried wife

12/01/2025

Do not envy anyone you perceived to be materially, successful. Be in ur lane because very soon, u shall be the talk of town!

Five days of how partners met each other!! Day 1.......Sel, I remember years ago when I was in junior High school. It ha...
12/01/2025

Five days of how partners met each other!! Day 1.......

Sel, I remember years ago when I was in junior High school. It happened that my mum was also a primary 5 class teacher in the same school. One day, we went to assembly when I spotted this beautiful girl who was admitted into the school. I got so much attracted to her and wanted to know which class she was. Fortunately, the next day, I discovered she was in my mum's class so I started visiting my mum regularly in class.

Sel, while I thought things could be easy for me, this girl would rather chuckle anytime we met one on one or would always avoid me. To make matters worse, other guys were also chasing her so had to give up on her at a point. One day however, I was in class when a girl from one of the classes brought me a cup ice cream at break time, saying Joyce sent her. According to her, Joyce said she liked me so if we could e friends.That was the beginning of our love life and when I asked her later why she was rude and was avoiding me earlier, she said some ladies will do that if they are falling for a man. Ladies, is that true?

Sel, our love went through so many trials, challenges and tests and how we managed to keep in touch till we got married some years later with 3 beautiful children, is a story for another day. We went our separate ways on several occasions but finally, it is what it must be. I still love as though we just met. I shared this story not for fun but to encourage someone that, whatever you put your mind to achieve, you can make it. So don't give!!

Are you also married or in a relationship with your childhood friend? Or how did you meet your partner? Send your story to whatsapp +233245835858 to be published.

Sel, my very good friend has forcefully had s*x with my 19 year old daughter and the issue has become a police case. Unf...
11/01/2025

Sel, my very good friend has forcefully had s*x with my 19 year old daughter and the issue has become a police case. Unfortunately, my husband is all out for my friend to be prosecuted even though, he knows we are very good childhood friends.

Sel, I am really in a dilemma because I don't know how to help convince my husband to manage the issue, at home.My reason is that, he is also threatening to disclose that our first child is his and this could result in a divorce for me. I must fight for my daughter however, my marriage is also at stake. What do I do?

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