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Sel, I am a guy who is currently in a relationship with this lady I love and wants to marry. In fact, everything is goin...
21/12/2024

Sel, I am a guy who is currently in a relationship with this lady I love and wants to marry. In fact, everything is going well but these few days to Christmas, is showing me some character of my lady which is putting me off. The issue is that, we have shopped for both my parents and her parents and everything was the same.

Sel, when we got home, I realized she was moody so I asked her what the problem was. It was then she spoke reluctantly about the fact that, her parents will not be impressed with the things I bought for them. According her, I should have made the 2 big bags of rice 5 since they have relatives to share to, offer a full cow and add $3000 instead of $500 I gave my parents and her's. By doing so, her parents will be happy and know their daughter is in safe hands. But I rejected it so she is calling me a stingy man. Am thinking of leaving the relationship because I foresee a very materialistic wife in the future. Your advice is needed!

Worried guy

21/12/2024

Hello, what is ur location and wat are ur plans for this Christmas? What is cooking at home!!!

20/12/2024

Tell us your location and share what challenges that exist in ur community and what u want authorities to do about it.
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Our carols has been rescheduled for tomorrow the 20th.Sel, I have been in a marriage that i don't like my husband but j...
19/12/2024

Our carols has been rescheduled for tomorrow the 20th.

Sel, I have been in a marriage that i don't like my husband but just because of money, I went into it. It happened that for 5 years, i went into this marriage because the man was very rich and I was just interested in the money. It was that serious that, I decided not to have kids for him so I put myself on family planning and emergency pills.

Sel, after 5 years of no pregnancy, he decided to divorce me, of which I was happy. I am currently married to a man I fell in love with but not able to have kids even though I am no more on family planning. A recent visit to church has resulted in a fight in my house, as the prophet said I have wronged my former husband. According to him, until I sent back all his monies, I will not have a good marriage. My husband is now on me to return all these huge money to my ex. I need an advice because I was his wife and entitled to his money. Are my actions not justified?

Anonymous Lady

Sel, I am a lucky woman in a happy marriage however there is a delicate challenge that is affecting the marriage. The th...
19/12/2024

Sel, I am a lucky woman in a happy marriage however there is a delicate challenge that is affecting the marriage. The thing is, my husband takes good care of me and we have a happy home however, he is not able to satisfy me s*xually.

Sel, since we got married for the past 5 years, he has not on a single day even satisfied me in bed. I have tried everything to let it work but nothing fruitful came out of it. In effect, he just get or**sm while I struggle. I try to manage myself all these while however, I got in to the company of a lady who takes care of my s*xual needs now and I am glad I did. I really want to stop and get on with him but don't know how to solve the problem. Sometimes, he just discharge at the mere look at my b***s before we even start kissing.what do I do?

Anonymous Lady

19/12/2024

May God issue an immediate divine intervention in ur life, concerning all ur midnight cries!!

Thanks so much for all your birthday wishes to Sel.We are grateful.....!Tomorrow God willing, we shall have our Carol se...
18/12/2024

Thanks so much for all your birthday wishes to Sel.We are grateful.....!

Tomorrow God willing, we shall have our Carol service as a family and it shall be at 20:00 GMT. Please make time and invite someone. Thank you.

Sel, I am a lady who is facing a huge challenge which is very disturbing. My worry is that, with 3 failed relationships so far, I have been s*xually active with them about 130 times. This is a very serious issue for me because they all had s*x with me in this serious relationships, but did not end in marriage.

Sel, as I speak i am considering another person to date because by all means, I need to get married. The dilemma is that, this new One will definitely ask for s*x and it is a fact that, it is not automatic that marriage is guaranteed. However, if you deny him too, he might begin not to be serious and start looking elsewhere. What do i do because some will say, let them know that no s*x before marriage but this is dicey.To be honest, 130 s*x sessions without marriage is not a joke and this makes me sad. What do i do because I want to settle down too!!!

Worried Lady

This is Sel and it's his birthday today. From the Selshow team, we wish you long life, wisdom and good health. Happy bi...
18/12/2024

This is Sel and it's his birthday today. From the Selshow team, we wish you long life, wisdom and good health. Happy birthday and enjoy your day!!!

17/12/2024

Between $30,000 and a responsible wife/husband for life. Which will u go for and Why?
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Sel, for some years now, I have been fighting the biggest fear of my life: how do i get a responsible woman to marry or ...
17/12/2024

Sel, for some years now, I have been fighting the biggest fear of my life: how do i get a responsible woman to marry or I am the problem.Whichever the answer will be, is the reason I am here on this noble platform.The fact is that, within a matter of 5 years, I have dated 3 ladies but they have all been singing the same song.

Sel, just weeks or months into the relationship, they started asking for huge and regular sums of money and other material things.When I gave an excuse for some time, they all changed their attitude towards me. They won't call me, became moody and used the whole thing as though I am not the right person.Meanwhile, I give her money, and mostly support her, but still it's not appreciated.So my question is, should some ladies use a relationship as an opportunity to have their needs met? And at what point should a guy start spending that much on a lady?

Disturbed Guy

Sel, I am married to a lady I love so much about 6 months ago but there is a serious issue already in the marriage. Abou...
17/12/2024

Sel, I am married to a lady I love so much about 6 months ago but there is a serious issue already in the marriage. About a month ago, I went for a funeral in my hometown and was to come the next day. I communicated this to my wife who could not go with me due to ill health so she decided that her sister will come and take care of her, while I was away.

Sel, upon second thought I just drove through the night to come home and take care of my wife. Unfortunately, I caught my wife in the arms of another man. She has been begging me to forgive her but I have asked her to pack her things and leave home. Knowing she was going to do this, her sister did not even come over to our place. Does it mean it was a planned thing? My main challenge however, is how the family elders and pastors are telling me i took the wrong decision by asking her to leave the house. Am I wrong in my decision? Advice is needed

Anonymous Guy

17/12/2024

The suffering is too much! I repeat, may money follow you today and forever!!

17/12/2024

Hello family, it's few days to Christmas and end of this year. How are things going with you. Let's know if there is any progress!

Sel, my parents are doing something that I don't like and this is also putting my mental health at stake. The issue is t...
16/12/2024

Sel, my parents are doing something that I don't like and this is also putting my mental health at stake. The issue is that I am a lady who is 25 years old and has fallen in love with a 73 year old man, fùor the past 2 years. Now that my love want us to get married, my parents are against the marriage.

Sel, I love this man because I have peace of mind with him. How do I get my parents to understand my feelings? I need urgent advice from your platform to address this important issue!!

Worried Lady

16/12/2024

When your partner is very angry, what is that single thing that can calm him/her down?
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Sel, I don't know if I should be happy or sad but, I am having mixed feelings at the moment.The reason being that, my fa...
16/12/2024

Sel, I don't know if I should be happy or sad but, I am having mixed feelings at the moment.The reason being that, my father and mother travelled with us from the north to the south in search of greener pastures.My mum has struggled with my dad in every thick and thin but any time money comes, that is when my father will start accusing my mum of not taking good care of him so he goes in for another woman.My father has been doing this for years,he has treated my mum badly to the extent of not helping our education because he thinks we shall take the glory to our mother's side.

Sel, to make a long story short my father has huge cocoa farms of which, he and my mum did together. Recently when the cocoa season came, my dad has once again gotten two side chicks,one in the same town whiles the other is in another city. My dad told us he was going to visit his family in his home region which was last week Monday but his brothers and sisters called us that, my father was rather with his girlfriend and the lady died in his arms.Please advice us, should we go there or not?

Worried Lady

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