The Freedom Family

26/11/2023

What was the first TRUTH that began your awakening?..

21/01/2023

I haven’t written a post like this for a while (Incoming 🎤drop)… whilst most of us humans on this Earth living this physical experience are chasing the 🥕 (the illusion) of external freedom…

Money, time, travel, success, lifestyle.

The real FREEDOM in life comes from *within*.

Because when you go to work on YOU.

And do everything in your power to be the fullest expression of your true self…

You’ll finally experience the feeling of being truly worthy of the love you seek, the abundance, the peace, the fulfilment.

The truth is, when you GET, that there’s no-thing to GET and the thing you seek externally to receive validation, is NEVER going to give you what you truly want.

What you seek, is already within *YOU*.

Open your ❤️ and connect to it.

This is why there are so many “Rich” people or “financially free” people who are depressed, internally broke and suicidal.

True riches aren’t found in how much money you make, or how “successful” you are.

True FREEDOM is an internal game.

It’s an inside out thing, not outside in.

The next time you find yourself chasing the “🥕” stop and ask your inner self…

“WHO am I becoming here?”

Because no matter where you go, you’ll always be with YOU.

It’s YOU that you have to live with your entire life.

And when you’re free from within, you don’t need anything external to make you feel better, good enough, worthy, successful, happy, loved, validated…

You carry that from within and you carry that electric energy EVERYWHERE you go.

Stop putting off the thing that’s been nagging you and living in the excuse of “some day”.

*NOW* is the best moment, to work on you… being free, truly free.🕊

16/01/2023

🎉[NEW VIDEO UPLOAD] 🎉 While travelling to Jamaica and unschooling our kids,

We visited a beautiful spot called Lashings Boutique Hotel & Villas for the day.

We swam in the infinity pool, ate some delicious food and soaked up some of the sun while chilling in a hammock.

This spot is deffo a spot to visit if you’re ever in Jamaica… especially in Treasure Beach, St Elizabeth.

Do you want to see the latest video we uploaded to our channel?

Link is the first comment in the comments 👇🏾

23/11/2022

🎉Join this week's LIVE stream as we hang out with Jessica Amy.
Jess is an open-minded mother, coach and speaker who lives in Bedford.

I've personally had the good fortune to get to know Jess on a personal level and can confidently say that she is super passionate about sharing all things to do with Self-Love and Mindset.

In this interview, we'll discover:

'WHO'S' Jess...
'WHAT' Jess does...
'WHY' Jess loves what she does...
'HOW' Jess makes an impact in our local community...
'HOW' Jess and her product/services could benefit you (or someone you know)...

And anything else Jess feels aligned to share with us.

PLUS if you join us LIVE you will also have the opportunity to ask questions and get them answered right there on the spot!

Are you tuning in LIVE with us?

Say "YES" in the comments.👇🏾

Be sure to say "Whatsup" when you join and we will give you a shout-out on the live stream.

If you want the link to the 'Replay' comment "REPLAY" below and I'll get it over to you as soon as it's available.

The more energy we can collectively gather around this event, the more impact we can create in Bedford.

And the more people we can support!
See ya there!

PS. If you’re a local business owner based in Bedford (or you service the Bedford area) and you’d love to be featured in one of our upcoming interviews…

We’d love to hear from you too!

Simply comment "SHARE MY BUSINESS" in the chat.
..Or send us a DM with the words "SHARE MY BUSINESS" and let’s talk about it.

26/07/2021

When we get triggered it’s so easy to get angry

Frustrated, annoyed at ourselves

Annoyed at others

Especially when your on a journey of development and working on yourself

Focusing on creating the life and business you want

However those limiting beliefs, fears, triggers

Are happening for a reason

Every single thing that comes up is coming up to show you something

It allows you to identify with the block that is there right now

The area that needs to heal

The limiting belief that is sabotaging you

You would have exactly what you wanted right now

If you didn’t have the current limiting beliefs

Or the fear

Or the triggers

So it’s happening for a reason

We so easily make it wrong and beat ourselves up

We go straight into victim mentality

Saying how sh*t it is these things are happening

But it’s meant to

It’s highlighting something that needs to be brought to the surface to clear

Breakthrough

And overcome

Trust the process and understand that your exactly where you need to be

And stay committed to what it is your wanting to create

Because entertaining those self sabotaging thoughts

Aren’t going to get you closer to what it is your creating

22/07/2021

Hey! We are Donté & Vicky!!!

𝑫𝒐 𝑾𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒐 𝑫𝒊𝒔𝒄𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑶𝑵𝑳𝒀 3 𝑻𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝑵𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝑪𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒆, 𝑳𝒂𝒖𝒏𝒄𝒉 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑺𝒄𝒂𝒍𝒆 𝒀𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝑪𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆 𝒐𝒓 𝑪𝒐𝒂𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑷𝒓𝒐𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒎?

Whilst working LESS, experiencing FREEDOM and living LIFE on YOUR terms!

As world schooling parents that travel full-time.
𝗪𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗙𝗥𝗘𝗘𝗗𝗢𝗠!

We leverage our time and create Magnetic Content.🔮
That attracts our dream clients whilst repelling those who are not.

So we can enjoy more time with our kids in cool places like Mexico.

Join Our Group- https://www.facebook.com/groups/magneticgeniusfree

It wasn't always this way for us though.

Just a few months ago we were struggling financially due to all of Donté's offline clients having to close their businesses.

And Vicky wasted 18 months doing free coaching calls.
With a poor money mindset which led to 0 clients... 0!
Now, we create our own reality and experience abundance.

In the past 3 months, we made a choice to master our inner world so that we could take things to the next level in our business.

And we have seen a huge transformation in both our personal life and business.

Having our first ever 10k day, 14k week and 20k launch with our brand new program.

Imagine how it would feel to have this kind of result in your business...

It is SO possible for YOU too, and it doesn't need to be complicated or time-consuming either.

We've learned that the only 3 things you need to do in order to grow a course or coaching program, authentically are:

✅ Master Your Mindset
✅ Create A SOUL-ALIGNED Business
✅ Use Magnetic Content that Speaks Directly to the Soul of Your Dream Client

And we would love to share how YOU can do this too.
That's why we put together this video to invite you to join our free Magnetic Genius™ group.

PLUS, if you click the link below (first one in the comments) and join now, we will also give you instant access to our free training:
👉🏽 "How to Break Free From Your Past".
👉🏽 "How to Reclaim Your Self-Worth"
👉🏽 "How to Reprogram Your Money Mindset"
PLUS:
👉🏽 Magnetic Messenger Mastery script
👉🏽 Magnetic Group Creation checklist
👉🏽 Regular LIVE training inside the group
And SOOO much more!
You ready? Yes!

Join Our Group Today- https://www.facebook.com/groups/magneticgeniusfree
See you inside!

Vicky & Donté

21/07/2021

𝑾𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝑫𝒊𝒔𝒄𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑶𝑵𝑳𝒀 3 𝑻𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝑵𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝑪𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒆, 𝑳𝒂𝒖𝒏𝒄𝒉 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑺𝒄𝒂𝒍𝒆 𝒀𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝑪𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆 𝒐𝒓 𝑪𝒐𝒂𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑷𝒓𝒐𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒎?

Whilst working LESS, experiencing FREEDOM and living LIFE on YOUR terms!

As world schooling parents that travel full-time.
𝗪𝗲 𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗙𝗥𝗘𝗘𝗗𝗢𝗠!

We leverage our time and create Magnetic Content.🔮
That attracts our dream clients whilst repelling those who are not.

So we can enjoy more time with our kids in cool places like Mexico.

Join Our Group- https://www.facebook.com/groups/magneticgeniusfree

It wasn't always this way for us though.

Just a few months ago we were struggling financially due to all of Donté's offline clients having to close their businesses.

And Vicky wasted 18 months doing free coaching calls.
With a poor money mindset which led to 0 clients... 0!
Now, we create our own reality and experience abundance.

In the past 3 months, we made a choice to master our inner world so that we could take things to the next level in our business.

And we have seen a huge transformation in both our personal life and business.

Having our first ever 10k day, 14k week and 20k launch with our brand new program.

Imagine how it would feel to have this kind of result in your business...

It is SO possible for YOU too, and it doesn't need to be complicated or time-consuming either.

We've learned that the only 3 things you need to do in order to grow a course or coaching program, authentically are:

✅ Master Your Mindset
✅ Create A SOUL-ALIGNED Business
✅ Use Magnetic Content that Speaks Directly to the Soul of Your Dream Client

And we would love to share how YOU can do this too.
That's why we put together this video to invite you to join our free Magnetic Genius™ group.

PLUS, if you click the link below (first one in the comments) and join now, we will also give you instant access to our free training:
👉🏽 "How to Break Free From Your Past".
👉🏽 "How to Reclaim Your Self-Worth"
👉🏽 "How to Reprogram Your Money Mindset"
PLUS:
👉🏽 Magnetic Messenger Mastery script
👉🏽 Magnetic Group Creation checklist
👉🏽 Regular LIVE training inside the group
And SOOO much more!
You ready? Yes!

Join Our Group Today- https://www.facebook.com/groups/magneticgeniusfree
See you inside!

Vicky & Donté 💜

20/07/2021

Quick announcement: We will be changing the name of this page to Donté & Vicky moving forwards.

You will still receive value-based content to help you transform your life and business.

Thanks for all your support...

Stay tuned!

04/05/2021

I used to not even smile with my teeth showing as I was so self conscious

I’d of never thought I’d upload a photo ever

Of myself with my pjs on, no make up and wet hair clipped up

What I’ve realised over the years is when I worry about other peoples opinions

Focus on what everyone else is doing

Try and fit in

I’m left feeling not worthy or good enough

And giving up my power

However once I started to let down my wall

Step into my vulnerability

Stop blocking and suppressing my feelings

I started to shift my internal world

I realised I am worthy

Other peoples opinions and judgements are a reflection of their internal world

And are never a reflection of me

And I I started to honour my feelings and giving myself permission to make decisions that are aligned with my desires

I stopped people pleasing

My self worth increased

I started stepping out of my comfort zone and my confidence increased

And I slowly started to reprogram my negative belief systems about myself

So here I am. Embracing myself and just loving myself for who I am and who I am not

I encourage you to do the same

If you need any help with reclaiming your self worth

Comment below and I’ll send you my 3 day workshop to reclaim your self worth

02/05/2021

Did you know your body in a sense is your unconscious mind?

For example if you're sitting down and you starting to think about something in the future

A worst case scenario that you're thinking up in your mind

You actually begin to feel the emotional of that event

Your body doesn't know the difference between the events that's taking place in your world outer world

And what you're creating by emotion or thought alone

So most people are constantly reaffirming their emotional states

When it’s time to giving up the emotion

They will say I really want to do it

But in those moment, the body is stronger than the mind

Because it's been conditioned that way

So the servant has now become the master

All of a sudden when they step into the unknown they feel guilt and suffering

But at least they can predict it.

Because in the unknown is a scary place for most people

The unknown is uncertain and people

“Well I can't predict my future if in the unknown”

I will always say the best way to predict your future.... Is to create it

Not from the known. But from the unknown

22/04/2021

‘You’ve transformed a psycho 😂’

That’s what one of my clients said to me last week!

We finished working together yesterday and literally it was a really emotional session

She said to me she will never forget how much I’ve helped her and she’ll be eternally grateful🥺

Before we started working together I asked her what her 3 biggest goals were in the next 12 months

She said-

💜Change my thought process to positive
💜Be/feel happy
💜Not wish I had someone else’s life and to love my own

She was not in a good place, she was ready to leave her partner and take her son

She was unhappy in her relationship and just angry all the time

I remember our first coaching session and she was having huge resistance

She didn’t like what I’d say sometimes and she would get angry

I was challenging her belief system and of course naturally it felt uncomfortable

I knew what was possible for her if she broke free from this belief system

It definitely caused triggers and she told me yesterday she wanted to tell me to F off sometimes 😂😂😂😂

However she stayed committed to herself and what she wanted to create

Every week she took baby steps and implemented what I was teaching her

Il never forget when she came on the phone and said to me ‘I haven’t got that voice in my head’

‘It’s just quiet and I feel calm and it’s just so weird’

‘I don’t feel angry’

Omg the shift in her energy, she was smiling and it was just amazing 😍

Yesterday she said that she literally coached someone she works with

Sharing exactly what I’ve taught her as the lady was being so negative

I said to her ‘that was you 8 weeks ago!!!!’

It’s insane how much she has changed and how much her life has changed.

Her relationship is transformed

She is back in the same bed with her partner

Her son finally has a bond with his daddy as she’s stepped back and stopped controlling everything

She’s improved her relationship with her mother in law and her brother

She let down the wall that she thought was protecting her but actually it was making her angry and fearful

She said sorry for the first time in her 10 year relationship

She has started implementing reiki on others and in talks about renting a place to start her business

And most importantly she’s improved her relationship with herself

She finally realises that the story she’s told herself her whole life is a lie

And that she is lovable and is worthy of love

For the first time in her life she feels excited

She feels happy and positive

I literally am filled with so much gratitude that she trusted me

That even when times were challenging and triggering

She committed to the change she wanted to create

She told me there was no other option for her and that’s why 8 weeks on she’s broke free

And is finally feeling a happiness and fulfilment she’s never had before

I knew what was possible for her all along

And I’m so proud of her and how much she’s transformed her mindset and life in such a short space of time

Quite often we think the version we desire to be has to be so far in the future

But really it exists within us right now

We just have to unblock what’s there stopping us being that version today

The pain of staying the same has to outweigh the pain of change or nothing happens

21/04/2021

Do you have a issue when people say nice things about you?

They give you a compliment and you don’t believe them?

Whether it’s about the way you look, an accomplishment you’ve achieved or even an idea you have

Do you feel like they are lying or trying to manipulate you?

Like if your partner says you’re beautiful but just think they’re obliged to say it

Or you deflect the compliment for example someone says your look nice

You reply something like ‘ oh thanks, it’s just a cheap dress from primark’

Here are 2 reasons feeding into one another making it hard for you to accept the compliment

1. Is low self esteem/self worth
2. Cognitive dissonance

It goes like this: you don’t think much of yourself for whatever reason.

So it’s impossible to see your worth in others

Maybe you are continually comparing yourself to others

And coming up short in your opinion

It becomes uncomfortable for your mind

Because you are faced with 2 prospects

1. You’re wrong about yourself

Or 2 they’re lying

So while you’re brain is trying to justify the 2

You will open your mouth and justify based on your own belief

Just like that the pressure is off

Did you know that people who routinely dismiss positive comments

Actually have a harder time remembering the level of positivity of feedback

More than the people who accepted them to begin with

It’s worth it to accept compliments both for your memory and mental health

Even just saying thank you. It can feel awkward

And you’ll have that urge to justify yourself

But how about trying for one week to just accept it

Not deflect it or justify it

Because this is a small habit you can start to break

And I believe it’s as important to take a compliment as it is to give one💜

19/04/2021

Whenever I feel guilty it always comes from something I feel I should or shouldn’t of done

But thinking like this makes me feel so negative and powerless

Just because I didn’t do something

It doesn’t mean I have to feel guilty for not doing it

I just didn’t do it

If I did do something again. I did it and I shouldn’t make myself wrong

But when I get into my head and start going down the hole

Thinking I should of done, said or acted differently

Or I shouldn’t of done this that or the other

I loose my power

Because I’m considering a alternative reality

That doesn’t even exist!!!!

It didn’t happen! So what’s the point in even wasting my time feeling guilty

What’s the point in putting my energy in something that’s in the past

I did what I did, I didn’t do what I didn’t do

However what’s really going on is

I’m making that experience mean something about me

I’m a rubbish mum, I’m a rubbish wife

I instantly loose my power to my mind

Because that’s not true

Me doing something or not doing something

Does not mean nothing about me or anyone else

It’s so important to gain power over these thoughts

Otherwise youl find yourself beating yourself up believing what the hell you tell yourself

The amount of women who I connect with on a daily basis and they say

I’m scared to fail because this happened, I’m not good enough because of this

That mind talk will drag you out of the present moment and into the past in a split second

Leaving you powerless

So becoming so self aware to your thoughts is one of the most powerful things you can ever do

19/04/2021

On the 27th feb I wrote in my journal and dated it the 13th april

I read it last night and was pretty emotional

It started off saying ‘I am so happy and grateful to be sitting in Mexico in our beautiful airbnb right near the beach’

‘I feel so free and in total alignment with what I am doing in my life right now’

‘I am fulfilling my life purpose, helping other women empower themselves & to fearlessly live a life they love’

When I wrote that letter I had just started working with 2 new clients and I knew it was just the beginning

Since I wrote that letter, I’ve been living into that reality everyday

I now work with 11 clients who I’m helping to reclaim their self worth and create freedom, happiness and success in their life

I also have 417 amazing women inside my Facebook group😍

When I wrote that letter I had been working through limiting beliefs

Around my fear of success and being afraid of becoming this version of me that I desired to become

I knew I was playing so small and that I was holding myself back

So this letter was for me to tap into my highest desires and to get on paper exactly what I wanted to create

Then trust myself to step into this version from that day forward

I used to get so frustrated when I’d write in my journal and it not happen

But I didn’t realise that it doesn’t work like that

And I had so many blocks preventing me from bringing into my life what I desired

However by working through all of this stuff

I’ve been able to align with exactly what I want to create and bring this into my reality

Literally over the past 48 days

I have been loving the process after all these painful years of beating myself up

For not being good enough and lacking confidence

Feeling a failure and unworthy

However now it’s flowing effortlessly, it feels amazing and is totally aligned

I am unapologetically me and I feel so free and self expressed in my life

I am literally living on my terms and choosing to live a life that feels good to me

So anyone out there that feels stuck or lost right now

Giving their power away in order to feel loved and accepted

I want to tell you this

Once you get crystal clear on what you want, reclaim your worth

And unblock whatever is stopping you achieving that life

Then you literally can create that reality faster then you’d ever imagine 🥺😍🙌💜

Ps check out the tan😆😂🤩

15/04/2021

We’ve been in Mexico 5 weeks this week 🤯😱

I just can’t believe how fast the time has gone

I definitely have to pinch myself sometimes because I can’t believe we actually did it!

We wanted to take our life and go to a hot country

So we did

But it definitely feels surreal at times!

It isn’t a holiday, it’s a lifestyle

We was working from home anyway

But we said we could do this in multiple locations and get to absorb the sun at the same time 😍

This is the freedom our businesses allows us to have

It also means we get to choose when we work and also how much we work

I’m feeling so grateful to be showing my children

What is possible when you feel the fear and do it anyway

What living an inspired and empowered life feels like

And to never let anyone else’s opinion stop you from chasing your dreams 💜

09/04/2021

If you make decisions from a negative mindset

What do you think will happen?

You will create a negative result

I used to always think that creating a happy and fulfilled life

Simply meant to just write down my manifestations and trusting it to happen

However what I failed to realise was I had a underlying belief

Of whether I was worthy of having what I wanted

If I really could achieve the life I desired

Fears and limiting beliefs would always creep in

Blocking me from even being in alignment with what I wanted

I had a huge limiting beliefs around money

And money was always on a pedestal that it was hard to earn

And even harder to keep

When you can reprogram your subconscious belief system

Shift from a negative limiting space

To one filled with possibility and worthiness

Anything can be created

I am so grateful for every part of my journey

As it’s moulded me into the person I am today

Every pain I’ve been through

I’ve used to learn a lesson from

Taking full responsibility for my life

My actions and how I want to think and feel

In every moment 💜

You can create this for yourself too!

Just say yes to committing to living powerfully

And work on breaking free from everything holding you back😍😍😍

If you want help with this. Join my free Facebook group. Link in comments 🥰

06/04/2021

You’re not good enough

You don’t know what you are doing

You will never going to be able to do achieve what it is that you want

This is what I used to tell myself when I started my business

I’d been working for free for a few months

Getting some amazing testimonials for my business

I had a lovely looking website and landing page

However I was finding myself stuck on how to make money

I had outgoings for my business but 0 income

I felt like a fish out of water and was just trying to do what I thought I should be doing

I always knew that I could help people and transform their lives

I just was struggling to transition and actually work with someone

I had a huge money story and limiting beliefs around being able to charge for my services

I felt like I undervalued myself and my service

I was consumed with fear and eventually I just stopped taking any action

It was nearly a year of doing nothing in my business

That I decided enough was enough

I had to get back into as I absolutely loved it and I knew it was my purpose

I’d invested thousands into myself and it was all just a waste

If I didn’t use my skills and knowledge at all

So I started again doing free coaching sessions again

But I found myself overworking and getting nowhere

Offering my service at a hugely discounted price

And still finding my money story was impacting my business massively

I still didn’t believe I was worthy of charging what I knew it was worth

I was constantly compare myself to other people online

I was thinking what is wrong with me.

Why am I not having any success

How am I ever going to have this business I desire

No matter how much I would visualise the reality I was wanting to create

I would meditate and manifest this reality that I wanted for myself on my life

Something still wasn’t working

There was something blocking me and I didn’t know how to break free from it

What changed for me was when I made a decision that something needed to change

I was never going to create this reality until I discovered fully what was holding me back

So I took the plunge and invested in myself and hired a coach

I did have fears and limiting beliefs about whether it was going to work

I had a huge fear around investing because I’d been burnt in the past

But something within me was telling me to trust myself and the process

I knew it was going to be different this time

I didn’t want to stay where I was anymore

Constantly under valuing myself and my services

I was ready to fully discover what was specifically holding me back

I wanted to step into the highest version of myself

I wanted to know why I undervalued myself

Straightaway when I started working with my coach

I discovered how much I was shrinking myself through fear of success

I had money on a pedestal

I thought it was something I could never obtain easily in my life

I lacked belief in being able to have a successful business

I had self doubt about being able to transform peoples lives

So many things were holding me back from taking action

Fears and limiting beliefs from past experiences

Were still showing up in my reality in different ways

I was functioning from a space of fear

And subconsciously sabotaging my own success

Once I was able to break free from these lies, limiting beliefs and fears

There was an instant shift of energy within me

Possibility was created

I had clear clarity on who I wanted to help

How I was going to specifically help them

What exactly I needed to do to move forward powerfully in my business

Self sabotage and procrastination disappeared

I didn’t feel the need for things to be perfect before getting started

I reprogrammed my money mindset so money was no longer on a pedestal

I discovered the belief and confidence within me

I aligned with the person I needed to become

To help in the way my clients needed

Everything shifted.

When you can get in total alignment with the dream you are wanting to create

Free from anything blocking you from having that reality

Everything happens easily and effortlessly

I no longer feel overwhelmed or burnt out

I don’t fear money or attach my worth to money

I know exactly what I am doing and I am creating a huge impact in the world

I am helping women transform their lives on a daily basis

And it feels absolutely amazing

Get out of your head and play big!

Because your life will be exactly the same in 12 months time

If you keep focusing on changing your outer world

And don’t make the necessary changes to your inner world

05/04/2021

01/04/2021

After just 5 weeks working together Colleen is launching her Reiki workshop after spending months and months procrastinating and not taking action🙌💜🥰

She had limiting beliefs around needing to be a expert and things being perfect before she could launch which was just keeping her stuck

Working together over the past 5 weeks we’ve reprogrammed Colleen’s money mindset which was stopping her fully charging for her services so she no longer fears money or has it on a pedestal

Colleen has now started taking action in her business and is now not afraid to speak to people incase they want to work with her😂🙌

As a result of breaking free from these blocks, many new opportunities have started landing on Colleen’s lap which is exactly what happens when you get in alignment with what you desire and become the highest version of yourself

If you are finding yourself stuck in your situation and struggling to break free, not taking action in your business because of procrastination and fear or feel you want to discover your purpose so you can live a life on your terms then send me a dm and we can chat about how I can help you 💜

30/03/2021

So we’ve moved again!!! 😂 This place is even more stunning and I caught another sunset last night/tonight 😍

We left it too late to book a block 4 weeks stay in 1 property.... It was Easter weekend so places got booked up pretty quick! So we are spreading our stay out between both properties🤦‍♀️

Yep it feels pretty long but we’re staying with an amazing air bnb host who not only gave us a great discount he also is the owner of both the properties so that’s helped alot😂

I definitely found myself frustrated and annoyed that we hadn’t been ‘organised’ as anyone who knows me knows this is my strong point 😂

But I decided to take a step back and be more relaxed and not so planned... so instantly I was back into my righteous way of being and making the situation wrong because ‘I should of been more organised’

All these reasons came up about being laid back and not planning properly causes stress etc etc and creating a whole new STORY around what happened

Isn’t it funny how instant we can switch back into our old ways and as we love to be right these situations give us just the evidence we need to moan 😂😂

I had to coach myself through it and remind myself that this situation is just another adventure and an opportunity to experience and me creating a story is unpowerful and leaving me feeling negative

In moments where things don’t go to plan we have a choice to allow it to completely control us and consume our thoughts and feelings or we can choose to powerfully deal with it

Looking for the opposite thoughts to what we initially think and how this situation can serve us rather then define us

Don’t get it twisted, I have to coach myself through things all the time... the only difference between me and you is I have the tools to powerfully coach myself through these situations so I don’t stay stuck there anymore 💜