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𝐀 𝐌𝐞𝐥𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐨𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐈𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭:
📌𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠
📌𝐅𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐌𝐚𝐧𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭

22/12/2025

Wuside the ring wey that boy be give you, wey you be di wear-wear-am all side so?
Ah no di see the ring again. You be don last move-am or how?

Na who first tell you say them do waka wear ring anyhow so?

Unserious Boy go give you PROMISE RING, then di waka yi freely (with no ring on his hand). You carry ya fat head di waka wear the ring for all side for 6 years 3 months.

Did you know the scaring power of a ring to a potential suitor?

When a man is attracted to you at first sight, his next (immediate) move is to check your fingers.
Any ring in it gives him could shoulders.

NB: Not all engagement/promise rings are worth wearing. Should I still remind you that YOU ARE SINGLE UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED?
IF NO BE YA WEDDING RING, YOU ARE NOT OBLIGED TO WEAR IT.

01/12/2025

On my Calendar, DECEMBER 1 is equally as special as JANUARY 5 because it is the day another part of me was born.
Yes! So, today, while celebrating the birthday of my sweet wife, I feel like it's my birthday too.
You can't imagine how I always look forward to December 1.

Sincerely, my blessings began when I encountered this fine black girl.
I am one of those who strongly believe your partner could be your blessing or curse.
In my case, God helped me to make the right choice.
I am only afraid that over sweetness and happiness fit k!ll me ooh. Because ah hear say sweet di give diabetes.

My Gem,
I want to thank God for you.
I am celebrating the loving and wonderful wife you are to me, and an excellent mother to our beloved son.
Though I sometimes sound headstrong as a man, but deep inside of me, I love how accountable I must be to you.
I love how you remind me of my deadlines even before my phone calendar /alarm.
You are the the most explicit definition of a wife. Yes, a support/help mate.

So, tell me why ah no go spoil you?
Tell me why ah no go give you multiple or***ms?
Tell me one reason why ah no go be very transparent with you concerning my financial details?
Tell me why ah no go WILL everything for ya name?
Bibs, ya place over dey.

Happy Birthday My Gem 💎 🎂🍾🥂🥀
With so much love,

Tambe and Hartmann

04/09/2025

No matter how mad you are at your partner, never use his/her insecurities (especially physical/bodily ones) against him/her. There are lines that shouldn't be crossed.

19/07/2025

Dear Son,

No scientific instrument can accurately estimate the magnitude of love we have for you. You are the symbol and fruit of the love that we share.
We're grateful to God for using us as a channel to your entry and existence into this world.

You shall continue to be a blessing to us and to your generation.
You shall be highly favoured and loved by your people.
The Brightness of your star shall neither diminish nor be diminished.
You shall be excellent and exceptional in all the good things you do.

HAPPY 4TH BIRTHDAY OUR BELOVED SON 🎂💐🍾🥂

Doro Black
Prince Tambe

10/04/2025

Fall in love with the mindset first. Not body parts.

Let body parts be a bonus; not the principal thing.

01/02/2025

Welcome to February

As we step into the month of February, often celebrated as the month of love, let’s take a moment to reflect on what love truly means. This isn’t just about roses, chocolates, or grand gestures—it’s about rekindling the flame of love in our relationships, nurturing our families, and strengthening the bonds that hold us together.

Love is a choice, not just a feeling. It’s about intentional actions, patience, and kindness. If you’ve noticed the love between you and your partner fading, let this month be a fresh start. Take the time to reconnect, to listen, and to understand each other deeply. Call each other intentionally, not just to talk about daily routines, but to express appreciation, gratitude, and affection. Spend time praying together, inviting God’s presence into your relationship, and asking for His guidance to love each other the way He intended.

The Bible gives us a beautiful blueprint for love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. It reminds us that love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. This is the kind of love we are called to embody—not just in February, but every day of our lives.

This month, let’s challenge ourselves to love beyond emotions and physical intimacy. Let’s choose to be patient with our partners, to forgive past hurts, and to let go of grudges. Let’s be kind in our words and actions, and let’s protect and honor the sacred bond we share. Love is not just about what we feel; it’s about what we do.

So, dear friends, let’s make this February a month of intentional love. Rekindle the spark, pray together, and cherish each other deeply. Let’s show our partners the kind of love that reflects God’s heart—a love that is selfless, enduring, and full of grace.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐨𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬

03/01/2025

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2025

17/12/2024

INSECURITY

They fell in love with you because you were looking good.
After getting married to you, they no longer want you to look good.

WHY?
They're afraid that others would be enticed by your good looks and sn**ch you from them.

19/08/2024

You've already been slapped three times since the relationship started. You're still there, thinking he/she will change. 😃
Please help us know if corporal punishment (beating) is a type of love language.

15/08/2024

If your partner's first reaction to every problem/misunderstanding is "let's end this thing and go our separate ways," my dear brother/sister, you are wasting valuable time with the wrong person.

14/08/2024

𝐌𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐫 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞: 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭

There's this age-old question on social media about whom should a man love more between his mother and wife.
This question has been posed in many different forms; especially by women, in order to decipher what lies deeply in the hearts of men.

While proponents of "You can have only one mother in life" sweat and bleed to defend why they love their mothers more, their colleagues of "the mother of my children comes first" have been in constant denial.

While it's fair to acknowledge the importance of a mother and a wife in the life of a man, it is unwise to experiment this with a head-to-head competition.
This justifies why most men find it difficult to give a vivid answer each time they come across this puzzle.

Understanding the roles of a mom and a wife and also comprehending the type of love existing between mother and son, and wife and husband should be considered before any interrogation is coined.
To a mother, the man in question is addressed as a son. To a wife, the man is a husband. This alone justifies the magnitude of bias in the question.

It is vital to understand that the love existing between mother and son is Filial, while the husband-wife type is Eros.
Comparing these two is synonymous to asking a human being to choose between blood and water. We all know that 70% of blood is water and also, water alone can not perform the functions of blood.

In all fairness, the roles of a mother and that of a wife in the life of a man are unique and distinct.
We should rather promote men to honour and appreciate their mothers and respect and love their wives. This will enable them to maintain a balanced atmosphere at home (between their wives and mothers) when their mothers go to sojourn with them.

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