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10/04/2025

Fall in love with the mindset first. Not body parts.

Let body parts be a bonus; not the principal thing.

01/02/2025

Welcome to February

As we step into the month of February, often celebrated as the month of love, let’s take a moment to reflect on what love truly means. This isn’t just about roses, chocolates, or grand gestures—it’s about rekindling the flame of love in our relationships, nurturing our families, and strengthening the bonds that hold us together.

Love is a choice, not just a feeling. It’s about intentional actions, patience, and kindness. If you’ve noticed the love between you and your partner fading, let this month be a fresh start. Take the time to reconnect, to listen, and to understand each other deeply. Call each other intentionally, not just to talk about daily routines, but to express appreciation, gratitude, and affection. Spend time praying together, inviting God’s presence into your relationship, and asking for His guidance to love each other the way He intended.

The Bible gives us a beautiful blueprint for love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. It reminds us that love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. This is the kind of love we are called to embody—not just in February, but every day of our lives.

This month, let’s challenge ourselves to love beyond emotions and physical intimacy. Let’s choose to be patient with our partners, to forgive past hurts, and to let go of grudges. Let’s be kind in our words and actions, and let’s protect and honor the sacred bond we share. Love is not just about what we feel; it’s about what we do.

So, dear friends, let’s make this February a month of intentional love. Rekindle the spark, pray together, and cherish each other deeply. Let’s show our partners the kind of love that reflects God’s heart—a love that is selfless, enduring, and full of grace.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐨𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬

03/01/2025

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2025

17/12/2024

INSECURITY

They fell in love with you because you were looking good.
After getting married to you, they no longer want you to look good.

WHY?
They're afraid that others would be enticed by your good looks and sn**ch you from them.

19/08/2024

You've already been slapped three times since the relationship started. You're still there, thinking he/she will change. 😃
Please help us know if corporal punishment (beating) is a type of love language.

15/08/2024

If your partner's first reaction to every problem/misunderstanding is "let's end this thing and go our separate ways," my dear brother/sister, you are wasting valuable time with the wrong person.

14/08/2024

𝐌𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐫 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞: 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭

There's this age-old question on social media about whom should a man love more between his mother and wife.
This question has been posed in many different forms; especially by women, in order to decipher what lies deeply in the hearts of men.

While proponents of "You can have only one mother in life" sweat and bleed to defend why they love their mothers more, their colleagues of "the mother of my children comes first" have been in constant denial.

While it's fair to acknowledge the importance of a mother and a wife in the life of a man, it is unwise to experiment this with a head-to-head competition.
This justifies why most men find it difficult to give a vivid answer each time they come across this puzzle.

Understanding the roles of a mom and a wife and also comprehending the type of love existing between mother and son, and wife and husband should be considered before any interrogation is coined.
To a mother, the man in question is addressed as a son. To a wife, the man is a husband. This alone justifies the magnitude of bias in the question.

It is vital to understand that the love existing between mother and son is Filial, while the husband-wife type is Eros.
Comparing these two is synonymous to asking a human being to choose between blood and water. We all know that 70% of blood is water and also, water alone can not perform the functions of blood.

In all fairness, the roles of a mother and that of a wife in the life of a man are unique and distinct.
We should rather promote men to honour and appreciate their mothers and respect and love their wives. This will enable them to maintain a balanced atmosphere at home (between their wives and mothers) when their mothers go to sojourn with them.

07/08/2024

If after a certain age (say 40), you still claim to have never met a good man/woman to live this life with, then, you are the bad person. God is not that unjust to have never let any good person come your way.
At times, the bad in us prevents us from identifying good people when we find them.

24/07/2024

I am blessed to have a virtuous wife.

She perfectly understands the tenets of partnership.

We are a tag team. Nobody's aim is to outgrow the other (because there's no competition).

She respects me as her husband and has never for once undermined my leadership.

Instead of challenging me; she prays for me and gives me sound advice.

When you have a wife who fully understands and executes the role of a wife in the life of her man, you would live long.

God, if ah no spoil this my Queen with all the fine things of this life, make ma hand bend. I am so intentional about it.

Prince Tambe

19/07/2024

Celebrating Our Son's Third Birthday

Three years ago today, our son was born, and in that moment, our lives were forever changed for the better. He is our only son, and having him is the greatest gift we've ever received. His birth brought a wave of joy, love, and countless opportunities into our lives, transforming not only our hearts but our futures as well.

Holding him for the first time, feeling his tiny heartbeat against our chests, we knew that life would never be the same. He was our miracle, our precious bundle of joy, and we promised to cherish every moment with him.

His presence has brought us closer as a family, and his birth opened doors we never imagined. Opportunities seemed to present themselves effortlessly, as if the universe was aligning to celebrate his arrival just as much as we were. Our hearts have grown in ways we never thought possible, and we've discovered strengths and capacities for love that we didn’t know we possessed.

Today, as we celebrate his third birthday, we are filled with immense gratitude. We are grateful for his health, his happiness, and the endless joy he brings into our lives. Watching him grow and learn has been the most rewarding experience, and we can’t wait to see what the future holds for our little boy.

Our darling Dorstine-Hartmann, you are the light of our lives, the source of our greatest joys, and the embodiment of our dreams. Happy birthday! May your life be filled with as much love, happiness, and wonder as you have brought into ours. We love you more than words can ever express, and we are so incredibly proud to be your parents.

Dorothy👫Augustine

01/07/2024

𝐔𝐧𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐄𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧

You claim to not like women who club, drink and smoke. Every weekend; you club and get overpowered by alcohol, urinate on yourself, go home and vomit on your wife's body. You attempt to biit her at times.

My brother, please tell us the colours of your double standards.

If you don't want a woman who does the above, please, make sure you are also in phase with her.
Eske Cow fit marry Horse?

21/01/2024

𝐃𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐁𝐢𝐚𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐀𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭 𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐁𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲

The early days Pentecostal denominations gave a truncated narrative about the use of cosmetics and make-up; when they first came.

Through repetitive non-contextual scriptural teachings, followers were lured to believe that using cosmetics, ornaments, precious metals/jewellery, hair attachment and others to beautify themselves was ungodly, indecent and sinful.

On Sundays, Pastors and Church elders became watchmen, accessing peoples appearances (with special attention given to women). Some of these women were even sent back home for using cosmetics to make-up their faces while others were asked to remove their golden chains, bracelets and earrings.

This form of outward appearance was highly esteemed to the deterioration of the believers' inner being.
A righteous sister was considered to be someone who was not always colourfully dressed, had no jewellery, no hair attachment or anything that made her look attractive.
In fact, attractive women were often considered to have the spirit of seduction. Some were accused of having "Queen of the Coast spirit."
The Church has been unfair to women.

Then came the New Movement Pentecostal denominations. A brand that didn't see anything wrong about the use of cosmetics, jewellery and blah blah blah.

The message of the early days denominations had already established a tap-root in the hearts and minds of Christians. It will take decades of contextual scriptural teachings to cancel this false narrative about outward beauty and righteousness.

If you still find yourself tagging women "indecent and unrighteous" because of make-up, hair attachment, jewellery, etc., ask God to lend you some Angels so you can go and create another heaven.
For the God I know, has neither a problem nor accusation against His beautiful daughters. They are just women looking good. If you doubt me, ask Queen Esther in the Bible.

Tambe Augustine

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