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The Dorstines, London (2025)

03/01/2025

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2025

17/12/2024

INSECURITY

They fell in love with you because you were looking good.
After getting married to you, they no longer want you to look good.

WHY?
They're afraid that others would be enticed by your good looks and sn**ch you from them.

21/08/2024

Thank you Reverend Daddy.

Adam could not control his own and through her action she invited death into her family and humanity.

NB: Control in this context has nothing to do with enslavement.
It's all about being able to GUIDE her with CARE to follow your leadership. Remember, she is the weaker vessel.

19/08/2024

You've already been slapped three times since the relationship started. You're still there, thinking he/she will change. 😃
Please help us know if corporal punishment (beating) is a type of love language.

15/08/2024

If your partner's first reaction to every problem/misunderstanding is "let's end this thing and go our separate ways," my dear brother/sister, you are wasting valuable time with the wrong person.

14/08/2024

𝐌𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐫 𝐖𝐢𝐟𝐞: 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐅𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭

There's this age-old question on social media about whom should a man love more between his mother and wife.
This question has been posed in many different forms; especially by women, in order to decipher what lies deeply in the hearts of men.

While proponents of "You can have only one mother in life" sweat and bleed to defend why they love their mothers more, their colleagues of "the mother of my children comes first" have been in constant denial.

While it's fair to acknowledge the importance of a mother and a wife in the life of a man, it is unwise to experiment this with a head-to-head competition.
This justifies why most men find it difficult to give a vivid answer each time they come across this puzzle.

Understanding the roles of a mom and a wife and also comprehending the type of love existing between mother and son, and wife and husband should be considered before any interrogation is coined.
To a mother, the man in question is addressed as a son. To a wife, the man is a husband. This alone justifies the magnitude of bias in the question.

It is vital to understand that the love existing between mother and son is Filial, while the husband-wife type is Eros.
Comparing these two is synonymous to asking a human being to choose between blood and water. We all know that 70% of blood is water and also, water alone can not perform the functions of blood.

In all fairness, the roles of a mother and that of a wife in the life of a man are unique and distinct.
We should rather promote men to honour and appreciate their mothers and respect and love their wives. This will enable them to maintain a balanced atmosphere at home (between their wives and mothers) when their mothers go to sojourn with them.

07/08/2024

If after a certain age (say 40), you still claim to have never met a good man/woman to live this life with, then, you are the bad person. God is not that unjust to have never let any good person come your way.
At times, the bad in us prevents us from identifying good people when we find them.

24/07/2024

I am blessed to have a virtuous wife.

She perfectly understands the tenets of partnership.

We are a tag team. Nobody's aim is to outgrow the other (because there's no competition).

She respects me as her husband and has never for once undermined my leadership.

Instead of challenging me; she prays for me and gives me sound advice.

When you have a wife who fully understands and executes the role of a wife in the life of her man, you would live long.

God, if ah no spoil this my Queen with all the fine things of this life, make ma hand bend. I am so intentional about it.

Prince Tambe

19/07/2024

Celebrating Our Son's Third Birthday

Three years ago today, our son was born, and in that moment, our lives were forever changed for the better. He is our only son, and having him is the greatest gift we've ever received. His birth brought a wave of joy, love, and countless opportunities into our lives, transforming not only our hearts but our futures as well.

Holding him for the first time, feeling his tiny heartbeat against our chests, we knew that life would never be the same. He was our miracle, our precious bundle of joy, and we promised to cherish every moment with him.

His presence has brought us closer as a family, and his birth opened doors we never imagined. Opportunities seemed to present themselves effortlessly, as if the universe was aligning to celebrate his arrival just as much as we were. Our hearts have grown in ways we never thought possible, and we've discovered strengths and capacities for love that we didn’t know we possessed.

Today, as we celebrate his third birthday, we are filled with immense gratitude. We are grateful for his health, his happiness, and the endless joy he brings into our lives. Watching him grow and learn has been the most rewarding experience, and we can’t wait to see what the future holds for our little boy.

Our darling Dorstine-Hartmann, you are the light of our lives, the source of our greatest joys, and the embodiment of our dreams. Happy birthday! May your life be filled with as much love, happiness, and wonder as you have brought into ours. We love you more than words can ever express, and we are so incredibly proud to be your parents.

Dorothy👫Augustine

01/07/2024

𝐔𝐧𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐄𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧

You claim to not like women who club, drink and smoke. Every weekend; you club and get overpowered by alcohol, urinate on yourself, go home and vomit on your wife's body. You attempt to biit her at times.

My brother, please tell us the colours of your double standards.

If you don't want a woman who does the above, please, make sure you are also in phase with her.
Eske Cow fit marry Horse?

17/06/2024

If you claim to be a high value man who does not value a woman's education and other excellent things about her, you are a low value man in disguise.

02/06/2024

𝐌𝐄𝐍 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐏𝐑𝐈𝐙𝐄

There's this age-old misconception about men "Being The Prize."
Many Relationship Coaches, Red Pill content creators and proponents of the Masculine Movement have been battling with their female counterparts about this phenomenon.

WOMEN ARE THE PRIZE, NOT MEN.
MEN ARE CHAMPIONS.

As a fellow man, I know you are already bubbling inside, calling me a "SIMP" and wanting to comment in a hurry, even before reading through this piece.
Hush and have a read.

1. 𝐒𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲
To men, GOD SAID "He that finds a wife, finds a good thing..."
𝐈𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞: A wife is a good thing. She is the PRIZE that her Husband (THE CHAMPION) finds.

To women, He said "Your husband shall be your head..."
𝐈𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞: When a Champion wins a Prize, a crown is put on his head because he is the head. A medal is a also put on his neck. He is a Champion.

2. 𝐒𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲
Men are hunters/chasers. They chase after the women (Prize) of their hearts, desires, dreams, philosophy.
𝐈𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞: When you chase, compete and win the prize, you become a Champion.

3. 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲
Men are Lovers, Providers, Protectors,...
𝐈𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞: When you win a prize, you kiss it and lift it up for the world to see. Also, you provide money for its mentainace (to keep it shining).
Finally, you protect it from destruction and theft by putting it in safe and secured place.

Mindful of the above, it conspicuous that MEN are CHAMPIONS, NOT the PRIZE.
At the end of the day, it is the Champion that carries the prize home, not the other way round.

NB: Dear women, don't be a cheap prize.
Cheap Prizes are for local champions.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐨𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬

26/05/2024

Dorothy and Augustine (Dorstine 2024)
The Beginning of a Lifetime Love Journey.

NB: Professionally taken Pics are still to come.
Let's manage the Amateur ones at the moment.

28/04/2024

𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐲𝐠𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐞

In Marriage (Holy Matrimony), the first type of hygiene is faithfulness.
No go carry dorty for outside bringam inside marryhouse.

16/04/2024

God created her to be your HELP MEET (a support system).
Instead of focusing on your goal and and letting her perform her role as a help meet, you changed and started focusing on her, making her the centre of your life.

Guess what? She will find you weak and unattractive. Her interest level will drop. She will start taking interest in another man who is focused on his goals, asking him if she could be of help. This is the female nature.

A woman knows that once you are focused on you goals and she is there to give you the needed support, you will reach the summit. This guarantees her security and that of the kids.

Take home message:
Focus on your goals and let her focus on helping you realise them.
At the end of the day, both of you will be satisfied for playing your parts correctly.
Final Product: A secured, satisfied and happy family.

NB: Show me a man who focused all his energy on women and I will show you an unsuccessful man.

Tambe Augustine

25/03/2024

One of the ways to keep your emotional life healthy is to stay away from friends, family members, influencers and bloggers who always say negative thing about men/women.

You can't be trying to build a good relationship while constantly feeding your mind with negative things about the very gender you intend to spend the rest if your life with.

21/01/2024

𝐃𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐁𝐢𝐚𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐀𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭 𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐁𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐲

The early days Pentecostal denominations gave a truncated narrative about the use of cosmetics and make-up; when they first came.

Through repetitive non-contextual scriptural teachings, followers were lured to believe that using cosmetics, ornaments, precious metals/jewellery, hair attachment and others to beautify themselves was ungodly, indecent and sinful.

On Sundays, Pastors and Church elders became watchmen, accessing peoples appearances (with special attention given to women). Some of these women were even sent back home for using cosmetics to make-up their faces while others were asked to remove their golden chains, bracelets and earrings.

This form of outward appearance was highly esteemed to the deterioration of the believers' inner being.
A righteous sister was considered to be someone who was not always colourfully dressed, had no jewellery, no hair attachment or anything that made her look attractive.
In fact, attractive women were often considered to have the spirit of seduction. Some were accused of having "Queen of the Coast spirit."
The Church has been unfair to women.

Then came the New Movement Pentecostal denominations. A brand that didn't see anything wrong about the use of cosmetics, jewellery and blah blah blah.

The message of the early days denominations had already established a tap-root in the hearts and minds of Christians. It will take decades of contextual scriptural teachings to cancel this false narrative about outward beauty and righteousness.

If you still find yourself tagging women "indecent and unrighteous" because of make-up, hair attachment, jewellery, etc., ask God to lend you some Angels so you can go and create another heaven.
For the God I know, has neither a problem nor accusation against His beautiful daughters. They are just women looking good. If you doubt me, ask Queen Esther in the Bible.

Tambe Augustine

02/01/2024

𝐀 𝐇𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐁𝐞𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐝 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧

The role of men as providers in marriages has been a tradition upheld through generations. The concept of provision was straightforward. A man's ability to financially support his family was the cornerstone of marital happiness. However, as societal dynamics evolve, the essence of provision expands beyond the realm of monetary support.

Nowadays, women have rightfully stepped into various professional domains, showcasing their capabilities not just as nurturers but also as formidable earners. This shift challenges the conventional narrative, prompting us to explore a more holistic definition of what it means for a man to be a provider in the modern family structure.
The narrative extends beyond the tangible provisions of material wealth.

Imagine a scenario where a husband diligently fulfils his financial responsibilities but falls short in offering emotional support during crucial moments. Imagine a husband provides but always runs into the arms of another woman; each time his wife is pregnant. A man who makes fun of his wife’s postpartum situation. A husband who abandons his very sick wife to seek pleasure in the thighs of a strange woman. Tell me about a father who does not help his kids with their assignments or teach them how to ride a bicycle. The list is lengthy.

A man's role as a provider should encompass a spectrum of non-monetary needs such as; the mentorship of children, sharing the load of household responsibilities, and providing a stable emotional anchor. In a world where financial independence is no longer a gender-specific trait, a man's allure as a partner transcends his earning capacity. If financial provision is the only card in a man's deck, what keeps the flame of attraction alive when a woman can match or even surpass that capacity?

Painting a broader picture of family life, a husband's ability to empathize, nurture, and actively engage in the emotional and intellectual growth of his family becomes paramount. Let us redefine the narrative and acknowledge that the richness of a man's contribution to his family is not solely counted in currency notes but in the priceless moments of shared laughter, heartfelt conversations, and the strength of emotional bonds. The true measure of a man's provision lies not just in the thickness of his wallet but in his ability to be present as a father and partner.

Tambe Augustine

The Dorstines