Heal My Marriage Podcast

26/08/2024

Your spouse probably didn't marry you to hear you complain all the time.

24/08/2024

Love on your spouse today. Show him/her how much you care.

23/08/2024

Honesty in your marriage is like breath in the lungs. Both are required for survival.

22/08/2024

Recommit yourself to your vows as often as you need to do so. It will keep your heart from straying.

21/08/2024

Oftentimes when praying to God about your spouse, He will change you. Be open to that.

19/08/2024

Forgiveness builds bridges in marriage while revenge destroys them.

18/08/2024

Think about it: Yelling at your spouse doesn't make him/her feel closer to you.

11/08/2024

Don't waste your marriage fussing & fighting. Be humble, get on the same page, and move forward.

16/07/2024

And do !🤣🤣

11/07/2024

Arguing over "tone" is a real thing.💀😂

09/07/2024

09/07/2024

The more you look for good in your spouse, the more you'll see.

06/07/2024

Forgiveness is the gateway to peace in your marriage.

04/07/2024

You can never Change a person. When you meet that man or woman , ask yourself this and be honest with yourself. Can I live with him or her as they are ? If they never changed for the rest of my life, never get married because you think it's going to make the problems go away. Marriage will only highlight and intensify the problems that are already there.

03/07/2024

Look out for the interests of your mate, not just your own.

01/07/2024

“If you change nothing, nothing will change.” – Anonymous

When you expect (and accept) that nothing will change, you maintain the status quo. You’re probably reading this now because you are not happy with the status quo. You know things need to change. But how you go about change is important. For example, telling your partner you felt hurt or disappointed that they didn’t follow through will resonate more than saying, “You’re such a jerk.”

couple-save-a-marriageA key element of change is shifting the narrative. Over-communication, specifically over-clarification, can help change the current unproductive story one or both of you is telling yourself. An even more powerful tool for resolving conflict is listening to what is really being said and working towards mutual understanding. Everyday issues that cause arguments, like disappointment about the dishes not being washed, have a root from where they stem.

Take a moment and reflect on the root cause. What emotion are you feeling? Did you have an expectation that wasn’t met? Are different values placed on different activities? And when you have answers to these questions and a better feel for the root cause, focus on what you can control. Yes, it’s easy to chalk it up to “my spouse is a jerk.” However, that “explanation” doesn’t work towards change – it keeps you and your marriage stuck.

You cannot control your partner. Your partner is not you, so he or she will not prioritize things exactly as you do. Nagging your partner to isn’t sustainable and doesn’t create change. Working towards understanding what is causing you to want to start an argument over everyday issues can provide insight that may help your partner adjust to meet that underlying need.

28/06/2024

Facing obstacles head-on in your marriage empowers you and your spouse to find a responsible solution.

22/06/2024

There's ALWAYS potential for your marriage to get better. Be hopeful, persistent, and prayerful.

21/06/2024

Show your spouse compassion today.

19/06/2024

Too many spouses have confused marriage with make-believe. In the real world, marriage takes work, patience, and commitment.

10/06/2024

Power testimony 💟✝️

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10/06/2024

The Bible didn't tell us to fight our fight when it comes to sexual immorality .. The Bible tells us to
Flee—- Run from it.

28/05/2024

Apathy in relationships, like a silent intruder, can creep in when least expected. It’s that numbing silence, the distance that grows between two souls that once felt inseparable. It’s not the loud arguments or disagreements that signal trouble; sometimes, it’s the quiet, the indifference, and the lack of enthusiasm that’s more alarming. Recognizing this emotional stagnation is crucial, for it’s the first step to overcoming apathy in a relationship that’s losing its warmth and vibrancy.

Understanding Apathy

Whether it’s a marriage or a romantic couple, apathy, in its essence, is about showing a lack of interest in your relationship. It’s when one or both partners begin to feel indifferent towards each other, their shared experiences, and the relationship’s future. This emotional disconnect doesn’t arise overnight. It’s often the culmination of unresolved issues, unexpressed feelings, and unmet needs. Over time, what starts as minor annoyances or occasional indifference can snowball into a deep-seated apathy.

Just like a plant that’s not watered regularly; slowly, it withers away. The danger of apathy is its subtlety. Unlike open conflicts, apathy silently erodes the foundation of a relationship, making it essential to understand its roots and address it head-on. It’s not just about rekindling lost love but about rediscovering mutual respect, understanding, and the joy of shared experiences. New Episode check out our latest podcast on our YouTube channel and please subscribe,like and follow 📌

21/05/2024

Marriage improvement is much like home improvement. It takes a plan, time, thought, resources, and patience.

17/05/2024

The seeds you plant in your marriage -- good or bad -- will produce a harvest one day.

16/05/2024

16/05/2024

FYI: Hurting your spouse (physically, mentally, emotionally, financially, etc.) won't heal the hurts you feel.

14/05/2024

Don’t expect more from your mate in the marriage than you’re willing to contribute yourself.

12/05/2024

Jill 🖤🖤🖤🖤

10/05/2024

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