Hello, Mindset

05/11/2024

💁🏼‍♀️ Life’s Best Lessons I Learned by 30

• Respect your own time—it’s your greatest asset.
• Invest in learning, not just earning.
• Find balance between ambition and peace.
• Never chase people; let them match your energy.
• Speak with intention; words have power.
• Choose health every day—it’s priceless.
• Keep your plans private until they’re in motion.
• Remember: consistency beats motivation.

Live by these, and you’ll thank yourself later.

05/11/2024

Things to Master in Your 20s:

• Building self-discipline over motivation.
• Knowing when to say no—it’s self-respect.
• Focusing on progress, not perfection.
• Managing money, even if it’s a little.
• Building habits that support your future self.
• Learning to find joy in solitude.
• Filtering who gets access to your energy.

These will set you up for life.

05/11/2024

Habits I wish I started sooner:

• Waking up early for a clear mind.
• Journaling to process emotions.
• Investing in mental & physical health
• Asking “Is this helping or hurting me?”
• Practicing gratitude daily.
• Speaking positively about myself.
• Learning something new every day.
• Decluttering my life and mind.

Small changes, big results.

05/11/2024

Mindset shifts that changed my life:

“I deserve to be here” instead of “Am I good enough?”
“It’s okay to rest” instead of “I have to keep pushing.”
“Failure is part of the process” instead of “I can’t mess up.”
“Small wins matter” instead of “It’s all or nothing.”
“I’m in control of my life” instead of “This is just how things are.”

05/11/2024

Life Upgrades to Make ASAP

• Drink more water and hydrate your skin.
• Choose quality sleep vs late-night scrolling.
• Practice saying “no” without guilt.
• Set goals with deadlines, not just ideas.
• Find mentors, even if it’s through books.
• Smile at yourself in the mirror
• Celebrate your progress, not just big wins.

05/11/2024

If You Are:

• An overthinker by nature
• Easily discouraged by failure
• Concerned with perfection
• Looking to make real progress

Embrace “imperfect action.” Start before you feel fully ready, make mistakes, learn, and adjust as you go. Growth happens through doing, not waiting for the perfect moment.

Thank me later.

05/11/2024

If You Are:

• Stuck in analysis paralysis
• Doubtful of your own ideas
• Obsessed with comparing yourself to others
• Eager to make progress but don’t know how

Commit to taking one small action daily. Even the smallest steps forward break the cycle of overthinking. Consistency builds momentum, which eventually builds confidence.

Thank me later.

19/10/2024

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24/09/2024

‘’How I wish I could just transfer the money on my mind to my debit card’’

23/09/2024

"I live in Jersey, and I don't have any friends. I just got out of a 14-year abusive relationship, and all I really want now is to find someone who loves me for who I am."

22/09/2024

‘’Feels like no one truly understands my pain, and that support from others is conditional—people are only “there for you” when it's convenient for them.’’

22/09/2024

‘’Feeling so lonely, no friends. My daughter lives 3 hrs away and I don't drive, no other family. Why am I here? What's my purpose? I don't live, I just exist. No one would miss me if I wasn't here.’’

22/09/2024

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22/09/2024

‘’Man, how do you even try to find happiness when your whole life has been filled with sadness? It’s like just when you think you’ve felt it all, you lose everyone who mattered to you, and it hits you even harder.

To make things worse, it happened so young, and now you’ve got no one close to you like the ones you lost—no partner, no kids, no more family. Just you. Alone. I mean, your animals are the one thing keeping you going, and while they’re great, is it really enough? It feels like no one truly understands.

People say they’re “there for you,” but only when it’s convenient for them, or until they’ve had enough of hearing you out. And you keep hearing how you’ve been dealt a crappy hand in life. Hell, someone even said, “No offense, but your life sucks.” Like, thanks for that.

At this point, you’re just wondering what even makes it all worth it anymore. The hope and desire to keep pushing forward are fading fast. You’ve tried therapy, meds, positive thinking—you name it. And religion? Nah, that’s just not your thing. It’s like you’ve done all the "right" things, but nothing’s really sticking, and you’re left wondering what’s the point.’’

22/09/2024

‘’My fiancé and I just split up today and it has me in so much pain. The relationship was a bit toxic and abusive too but I loved him and tried to work it out’’

22/09/2024

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12/09/2024

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