Bye Bye Fatman

Bye Bye Fatman I'm a 50something year-old family man on a journey to radically transform my life by losing weight and adopting a healthy lifestyle.
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I"m a 50something bloke on a mission to lose weight and transform my health and wellness.

I've just reached 150K followers! Thank you for continuing support. I could never have made it without each and every on...
07/10/2025

I've just reached 150K followers! Thank you for continuing support. I could never have made it without each and every one of you. 🙏🤗🎉 I love you guys! Thanks for sharing my journey with me. And we’re only just getting started! 🏃‍♀️ 😊 🙏

07/10/2025

Happy 7th Birthday, Emily

Happy 7th birthday to my little diva Emily — my sportswoman, dancer, singer, and rockstar! You light up our world, and I love you so much. 💖🎉🎂

07/10/2025

My Little Girl Turns Seven

My little girl, Emily, is seven today. Watching my daughter grow up feels different, harder somehow, than watching her two brothers get older. The bond between a father and a daughter is unlike anything else. Other dads with both sons and daughters will understand it, even if it is difficult to explain. The love feels deeper, not greater, but different.

Maybe it is her perceived vulnerability. As a man, I know what men can be capable of, and I feel an instinctive need to protect her. It is in my nature. But I often ask myself, do I smother her? Am I too protective? I know she needs the freedom to grow and flourish, and that sometimes the best kind of love is background support, quiet and steady rather than loud and overbearing.

I adore her hugs. They come several times a day, and each one melts my heart. I dread the day when they stop being a daily occurrence. Maybe that is why I hold her so close. Maybe I am the vulnerable one. Maybe it is my own insecurities I am projecting.

I also wonder sometimes, am I a hypocrite or even a mild misogynist for treating her differently to my boys? I hope not. Parenting is complicated. We love all our children equally, but love expresses itself in different ways.

And the truth is, Emily is no fragile flower. She is strong, determined, and fiercely competitive. She is an incredible little sportswoman, more driven to win than her brothers and completely unwilling to accept defeat. She has courage and spirit in abundance.

So maybe she does not need my protection as much as I think she does. Maybe she just needs my belief, my trust, and my quiet confidence that she can handle the world.

She will be all right. She will be more than all right. She is Emily. And she is already amazing.

My wife is now seeking bookings for her children’s party planning. She has sourced lots of amazing materials from across...
06/10/2025

My wife is now seeking bookings for her children’s party planning. She has sourced lots of amazing materials from across the world and can make your child’s party an unforgettable experience. Contact The Real Tinatra for more details and book an appointment.

06/10/2025

Children’s Party Planning in Zambia

Children’s party planning in Zambia by the Real Tinatra — creativity, colour, and joy in every detail! 🎈🎉

06/10/2025

Garden Transformation

Transforming our garden into a children’s party venue — my wife is so talented! She turns every idea into something magical. 🎉❤️

Birthdays and the Passing of TimeThis weekend my youngest child, Cian, turned five, and in just a couple of days, Emily ...
05/10/2025

Birthdays and the Passing of Time

This weekend my youngest child, Cian, turned five, and in just a couple of days, Emily turns seven. Birthdays have always been special to me, but as I grow older, they have taken on a deeper meaning. They are moments of reflection, reminders of how far we have come as a family and how precious every day truly is.

As an older-than-average dad, I sometimes feel the passing of time more keenly. Birthdays remind me that childhood is fleeting, that every giggle, every tantrum, every bedtime story, and every morning hug is part of a season that will not last forever. It seems like only yesterday these little people were born — tiny, fragile, and dependent — and now they are growing into independent, funny, confident children with their own voices, opinions, and dreams.

Watching them run, laugh, and live with such joy fills my heart. Their excitement over cake, balloons, and presents may fade as they grow older, but for now, it is pure magic. Their laughter is infectious. Their happiness is mine.

Being a father has given my life new meaning. Loving and cherishing my children completes me in ways I never imagined possible. Yes, parenthood is tiring, demanding, and sometimes overwhelming, but it is also the most fulfilling and rewarding journey I have ever known.

Every birthday reminds me to slow down, to be present, to put my phone away, and to live these moments fully. Because one day, they will be older, busy with their own lives, and I will look back on these days with a mix of pride and nostalgia.

My cup is full. My heart is grateful. And I know that being their father is the greatest privilege of my life.

05/10/2025

Happy Birthday, Cian

Happy birthday, Cian — our little boy is five! You make every day brighter with your smile and energy. ❤️🎉

04/10/2025

Happy Birthday, Cian!

Happy birthday to my little boy Cian, who turns five today! You fill our lives with laughter, energy, and love every single day. ❤️🎉

04/10/2025

Being Married to a Zambian Woman Be Like

Couples jokes all day long — laughter really is the soundtrack of our marriage. 😂❤️

03/10/2025

Do I Look Older?

Some people think I look older than my wife! Not sure if I should be offended or just accept it. 😂

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