Headwitchress

23/04/2025

If you’re shallow, my depth will f🔥cking terrify you

– Scorpio Moon, embodied.

I’m not here for surface-level conversations or connections built on convenience.
I’ve tasted the underworld.
I live in the realm where shadows speak, wounds reveal truth & silence says more than words ever could.

My Scorpio Moon doesn’t do small talk.
It wants to know what broke you.
What you hide from the world.
What you ache for but are too afraid to name.

I’ve been to the edge of myself & back.
That’s why my presence either activates or repels.

I’m not afraid to sit with your rage, your grief, your deepest longing -
Because I’ve sat with mine.

If you’re used to masking, I’ll unmask you.
If you’re used to controlling the narrative, I’ll rewrite it.
If you’re used to shallow validation, my energy will feel like a cosmic exorcism 💀

Because I’m not here to be liked.
I’m here to transform.
Alchemy is my love language, babe.

So don’t flirt with my waters unless you’re ready to drown in the truth.
And don’t confuse my softness for weakness - I’ll hold you tenderly while burning through your illusions 🔥

Scorpio Moon doesn’t play nice.
She plays REAL. ✨

17/04/2025

I’ve entered my swamp witch era… & I’ve never felt hotter. 🔥

Middle-age is coming? Good. Let her.
She can sit beside me while I sip tea on the bow of my boat, topless if I feel like it, while the wind tangles my hair into a crown of “don’t f*ck with me.”

I’m not here to be polite.
I’m not here to be palatable.
I’m not here to chase beauty standards built by people who wouldn’t last one day in my body.

I’m here to be free.
Magnetic.
And fully, wildly, unapologetically ME.

No more masking. No more shrinking.
Just full-bodied, swamp-slicked sensual power.

My witchcraft is wise. My boundaries are bulletproof.
My face is soft, sun-kissed, & shaped by every story I’ve survived.
And I wouldn’t trade her for anything.

Come behind the scenes onboard Elysium.
This is where the real magic lives - off-grid (kinda!), off-script, deeply embodied 🔥

Subscribe to The Witch of the Wharf & join me as I kiss perfection goodbye & worship presence instead 🤌🏼✨

02/04/2025

Confidence isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence. 🤌🏼

The pick-me girl era is dead.
The ‘fix me first’ energy is over.
We’re done waiting until we’re more polished, more filtered, more palatable to show up.

Confidence isn’t something you paint on with a beauty filter.
It’s what naturally rises when you finally stop performing & start presenting.

That’s the energy behind The Witch of the Wharf - my brand new subscriber space on Instagram.
There’s no performance here. No aesthetic pressure. No curated illusion of perfection. No ‘YOU WANT MY LIFE DON’T YOU’ vibes 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

Because I live on a bloody boat.
There’s cat hair. Dishes in the sink. Chaos in the cupboard & magick on the stovetop.
But more importantly - there’s presence.
And you’re welcome to join me in it 🥰

This space is real, wholesome, witchy & deeply alive.
A quiet rebellion against the filtered noise.
A little sanctuary in your scroll.
A tether to something softer, slower, soul-led.

My presence honours your presence.
You’re not just subscribing to content - you’re stepping onboard my Boaty.
So take your shoes off.
Pour a cuppa.
And let the gentleness of this way of life soothe you ✨

Subscribe to The Witch of the Wharf & come be part of the magic. Let’s slowww & quieten the f❤️‍🔥ck down.
We’re doing things differently over here, be part of it 🫶🏼

31/03/2025

So…some of you beauties were wanting to know a bit more about life onboard a Widebeam boat… so HERE SHE IS 😍

Self-proclaimed ‘The Witch of the Wharf’ can be accessed through my business IG, Headwitchress - listen babe, nobody’s gonna bestow such a title upon you, you gotta do it yourself 👑 🧙🏻 😜

So if you want to know more you can absolutely see BTS on my boat Elysium, get a glimpse into Marina life (it’s dizzyingly fast out here), free card readings & help keep me in duck food for Terence & Maria 🦆

First 5 subscribers get it half price as well, less than a pint of milk my friends! 🥛

TODAY IS SO BEAUTIFUL ☀️

See you in there, yeah? 😘

28/03/2025

You’re Not a “Pick Me” Anymore. You Pick YOU. 🔥

There’s a direct link between people-pleasing & the belief that you have to look a certain way to be accepted.

Cosmetic tweaks. The perfect outfit. The curated aesthetic.
We *say* it’s for us.
But so often what we really mean is:
“It makes me feel better… because I think others will like me more.”

Socially. Sexually. Romantically.
Subtly or not, we’re still chasing being chosen.

But that ache?
That constant tweaking, performing, pleasing?
That’s the wounded inner child inside you—desperate to be picked.
Desperate to finally be good enough. 😞

✨ She’s not wrong.
✨ She’s not shallow.
✨ She just didn’t know she already was the one.

We live in a world that profits from our self-rejection—& then sells self-worth back to us in a bottle, needle or algorithm.
But let’s call it what it is: survival programming.
Born from abuse. Conditioned through culture.
But no longer welcome in this chapter.

The pick-me girl era is officially dead. 🔥

We don’t need to be picked.
We choose ourselves.
Over & over again.

We wear what we want.
We show up as we are.
We heal the need to be chosen—because we already are.

Drop a “ME” in the comments if you’re done chasing acceptance & ready to claim your raw, magnetic power 😍

26/03/2025

You’re Not ‘Doing It for Yourself’ – You’ve Just Been Taught to Reject Yourself 😬

Let’s be real.
The Botox. The fillers. The nips, tucks & tweaks.
So many women say, “I’m doing it for me.”

But are you?
Or are you doing it because you believe it’ll make you feel better about yourself?
Because you’ve been taught your raw essence isn’t enough?
Because approval from others feels safer than acceptance of self?

The truth is this – if you fully accepted yourself, no one could ever reject you.
It simply wouldn’t touch you.

This isn’t just a patriarchy problem. It’s a wounded feminine problem too.
It’s other women, silently enforcing unspoken rules.
It’s sister wounds. Mother wounds. Wounds from abuse.
It’s the subtle competition to be prettier, thinner, smoother, more ‘together.’
It’s the fear of being the one who dares to age in her power.

We’ve normalised hating our faces. Our softness. Our lines. Our stories.
We’re told to erase the evidence of our becoming.
To silence the parts of us that don’t fit the aesthetic.

But if you need a procedure to feel worthy, it’s not empowerment – it’s conditioning.

And yes, I’m calling it out.
Don’t pretend you’re ‘doing it for you’ unless you’ve done the deep work to love yourself as you are first.
Because if you had?
You’d already know the truth:

🔥 You need nothing but your wild, raw & magnetic essence 🔥

Let’s break the spell.
Let’s stop pretending.
Let’s start healing the wounds that made us believe we weren’t enough.

Comment below if this resonates – or if you’d like to dive deeper into this work.

22/03/2025

22/03/2025

Feeling Good in Your Skin as a Woman? The Odds Are Stacked Against You ❌

Buy some collagen, you wrinkly b*tch.
Wear makeup, you look too pale.
Omg too much tan!
Take Ozempic, you’re too fat.
She’s far too thin, she looks ill.

Sound familiar?

America Ferrera’s monologue in Barbie hit hard because it’s TRUE. The rules are impossible, ever-changing, & designed to keep women in a constant state of self-doubt 👎🏼

There’s so much noise out there - & behind every snide comment or ‘concern’ about your appearance is a brand waiting to profit from your insecurity.

They’ll call it empowerment. They’ll wrap it in pretty packaging.
But let’s be clear - it’s disruptive marketing.

They plant the seed that you’re not enough, then offer you the product to fix it.
Except it’s not a fix - it’s a temporary sticking plaster that wears off the minute you forget to reapply, repurchase or re-perform.

So how do we drown out the noise that says:
“Don’t feel good in your skin - you look like sh*t & I’ve got something to sell you”?

Here’s how:

✨ You come home to your body.
✨ You choose embodiment over editing.
✨ You spend time with women who celebrate presence over perfection.
✨ You dance, cry, stretch, breathe, rest & nourish without asking for permission.
✨ You remember that your power doesn’t lie in their product - it lies in your presence.

You are not a brand. You are a woman.
& that will always be more powerful than their marketing plan 🫳🏼🎤

Drop a YES if you’re done being sold shame - & you’re ready to feel GOOD in the skin you’re in! 🌷🩷✨

21/03/2025

You Were Never the Problem - You Were Just Hidden From Yourself ✨

For years, I thought I had to be more. More polished. More perfected. More curated. Anything but what I naturally was. Because somewhere along the way, I learned that my raw, unfiltered self wasn’t enough.

But what if that was the biggest lie I ever believed?

🤔 What if you’re not unworthy - just unseen?
🤔 What if you’re not lacking - layered under conditioning that never belonged to you?

Narcissistic abuse fractures identity - it teaches you that who you are isn’t acceptable, that you need to shrink, edit, or modify yourself to be loved. But here’s what I’ve discovered:

✨ Magnetism isn’t something you “put on” - it’s what’s left when you strip away everything that ISN’T you.
✨ Embodiment is the moment you stop looking outside for permission to be seen.
✨ Feminine energy is not about playing small - it’s about taking up space with your essence, effortlessly.

I became magnetic BECAUSE I stopped hiding. Because I stopped believing that I had to look or do certain things in order to be accepted as beautiful & therefore as worthy.

🔥 I changed. I just stopped rejecting myself & the world responded.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re missing something—like you’re invisible, unnoticed, or not quite enough—I want you to hear this: YOU WERE NEVER THE PROBLEM.

Drop a 🔥 in the comments or share your thoughts if you’re done with dimming your light & ready to step into your full magnetism ❤️‍🔥

15/03/2025

🙏🏼 Why Peace Feels Uncomfortable After Narcissistic Abuse 🙏🏼

Now that you’ve claimed your peace & freedom, why does it still feel… strange?

💭 Ever noticed that when things finally calm down, you start waiting for the other shoe to drop?
💭 That silence feels unsettling?
💭 That you *almost* miss the chaos—even though you hated it?

🔥 That’s because your nervous system was wired to see ‘calm’ as unsafe. 😮‍💨

After narcissistic abuse, drama becomes familiar. When you finally step into peace, your body doesn’t know what to do with it. It’s looking for the next argument, the next insult, the next emotional rollercoaster—because that’s what it’s used to 😢

💡 This is why Grey Rock is more than just ‘not reacting’—it’s about retraining yourself to accept peace as normal.

✨ Peace doesn’t mean boredom.
✨ Calm doesn’t mean danger.
✨ Freedom doesn’t mean isolation.

Your new reality takes time to adjust to—but it’s real, & you DESERVE it.

🔥 Want to master Grey Rock & fully reclaim your peace? Comment “INFO”—doors close Tuesday! ✨

14/03/2025

💡 What happens when you go Grey Rock? The narcissist won’t just give up—so be prepared for what comes next.

🪨 First, they escalate—guilt-tripping, baiting, pushing for a reaction.
🪨 Then, they shift tactics—love-bombing, playing the victim, sending flying monkeys.
🪨 When that fails, the smear campaign starts—twisting the truth to control how others see you.
🪨 Finally, they seek a new supply—because they can’t exist without control.

✨ Your job? Stay neutral. Stay boring. Stay free.

🔥 This is why mastering Grey Rock is essential. The better you hold the line, the faster they lose interest—& the quicker you reclaim your peace.

🌑 Doors to Grey Rock close Tuesday—comment “INFO” to join before they shut. 🚀✨

13/03/2025

Full Moon in Virgo Release Ritual: Cut the Energetic Cord & Take Back Your Power 🌕✨

This Full Moon in Virgo isn’t just any full moon—it’s a lunar eclipse, amplifying its power & making it the perfect time to cut ties with what no longer serves you. Virgo energy is precise, discerning & unapologetically practical—which makes it the ultimate ally for releasing toxic cycles & reclaiming your peace.

💡 Sound familiar?
🔥 This is exactly what we do with Grey Rock. 🔥

Narcissists, manipulators, energy-drainers—they thrive on emotional entanglement. But just like this Full Moon invites us to declutter, detox & let go, the Grey Rock method teaches you how to emotionally detach & stop feeding their game. No more reaction. No more supply. No more control.

Ready to make it real? Here’s how to harness Virgo’s energy & step fully into your power.

⸻

Full Moon in Virgo Release Ritual

🔮 What You’ll Need:
• A white candle (clarity, purity, & Virgo’s no-BS energy)
• A bowl of water (cleansing & emotional release)
• Pen & paper

✨ Step 1: Get Grounded
Sit somewhere quiet. Light your candle. Take a deep breath & imagine a shield of energy around you—nothing gets in, nothing drains you.

✨ Step 2: Write It Down
Make a list of everything that keeps you trapped in toxic cycles—the patterns, the people, the lingering guilt, the need to explain yourself. Virgo energy loves clarity, so be specific.

✨ Step 3: Speak Your Release
Hold the paper & say:

“I release this with clarity & purpose. The cycle ends here. My energy is mine to keep, my peace is mine to protect.”

✨ Step 4: Water Cleansing
Tear the paper & drop it into the bowl of water. Watch as the ink blurs, dissolving what no longer has a hold on you.

✨ Step 5: Close the Ritual
S***f out the candle, thanking yourself for choosing peace. Pour the water away, releasing what’s done. It’s no longer yours to carry.

CONTINUED IN COMMENTS 🌈✨

13/03/2025

Full Moon in Virgo Release Ritual: Cut the Energetic Cord & Take Back Your Power 🌕✨

This Full Moon in Virgo isn’t just any full moon—it’s a lunar eclipse, amplifying its power & making it the perfect time to cut ties with what no longer serves you. Virgo energy is precise, discerning & unapologetically practical—which makes it the ultimate ally for releasing toxic cycles & reclaiming your peace.

💡 Sound familiar?
🔥 This is exactly what we do with Grey Rock. 🔥

Narcissists, manipulators, energy-drainers—they thrive on emotional entanglement. But just like this Full Moon invites us to declutter, detox & let go, the Grey Rock method teaches you how to emotionally detach & stop feeding their game. No more reaction. No more supply. No more control.

Ready to make it real? Here’s how to harness Virgo’s energy & step fully into your power.

⸻

Full Moon in Virgo Release Ritual

🔮 What You’ll Need:
• A white candle (clarity, purity, & Virgo’s no-BS energy)
• A bowl of water (cleansing & emotional release)
• Pen & paper

✨ Step 1: Get Grounded
Sit somewhere quiet. Light your candle. Take a deep breath & imagine a shield of energy around you—nothing gets in, nothing drains you.

✨ Step 2: Write It Down
Make a list of everything that keeps you trapped in toxic cycles—the patterns, the people, the lingering guilt, the need to explain yourself. Virgo energy loves clarity, so be specific.

✨ Step 3: Speak Your Release
Hold the paper & say:

“I release this with clarity & purpose. The cycle ends here. My energy is mine to keep, my peace is mine to protect.”

✨ Step 4: Water Cleansing
Tear the paper & drop it into the bowl of water. Watch as the ink blurs, dissolving what no longer has a hold on you.

✨ Step 5: Close the Ritual
Blow out the candle, thanking yourself for choosing peace. Pour the water away, releasing what’s done. It’s no longer yours to carry.

CONTINUED IN COMMENTS 🌈✨

11/03/2025

Grey Rock: The Power Move That Saved Me 🪨🔥

I know what it’s like to be trapped in a cycle of narcissistic abuse.
I know what it’s like to explain, defend, beg for basic respect—only to be met with gaslighting, mockery & more manipulation.
I know what it’s like to be hit in the face, not just by words, but by hands.

💡 When I finally realised that no amount of explaining, reasoning or proving myself would change them… everything shifted.

Because here’s the truth:
🛑 You will never get accountability from a narcissist.
🛑 You will never get closure from someone who thrives on keeping you hooked.
🛑 You will never “win” in an argument with someone who twists reality itself.

So what do you do instead?
🔥 You stop explaining.
🔥 You stop reacting.
🔥 You stop giving them access to your energy.

You learn Grey Rock.

🪨 Grey Rock is the method that ended the cycle for me. It’s how I stopped being a pawn in their twisted games. It’s how I reclaimed my energy. It’s how I took back my power—& how you can, too.

💡 If you’re ready to finally disengage from narcissistic manipulation & reclaim your peace, this is your moment.

🔥 Join my Grey Rock mini-course & learn the strategy that narcissists HATE. Comment “INFO” below to register. 🚀✨

11/03/2025

Grey Rock: The Power Move That Saved Me 🪨🔥

I know what it’s like to be trapped in a cycle of narcissistic abuse.
I know what it’s like to explain, defend, beg for basic respect - only to be met with gaslighting, mockery & more manipulation.
I know what it’s like to be hit in the face, not just by words, but by hands.

💡 When I finally realised that no amount of explaining, reasoning or proving myself would change them… everything shifted.

Because here’s the truth:
🛑 You will never get accountability from a narcissist.
🛑 You will never get closure from someone who thrives on keeping you hooked.
🛑 You will never “win” in an argument with someone who twists reality itself.

So what do you do instead?
🔥 You stop explaining.
🔥 You stop reacting.
🔥 You stop giving them access to your energy.

You learn Grey Rock.

🪨 Grey Rock is the method that ended the cycle for me. It’s how I stopped being a pawn in their twisted games. It’s how I reclaimed my energy. It’s how I took back my power - & how you can, too.

💡 If you’re ready to finally disengage from narcissistic manipulation & reclaim your peace, this is your moment.

🔥 Join my Grey Rock mini-course & learn the strategy that narcissists HATE. Comment INFO below to register. 🚀✨

08/03/2025

What If I’m Not Ready to Go No-Contact? 🤔

One of the biggest fears people have when learning about narcissistic abuse is this:
💬 “I know I need to protect my energy… but I’m not ready to go no-contact.”

💡 Here’s the truth: You don’t have to go no-contact to reclaim your power.

For many - whether it’s family, co-parenting, or workplace dynamics - no-contact isn’t an option right now. That doesn’t mean you have to stay emotionally entangled in their chaos. This is where Grey Rock comes in.

🪨 Grey Rock is for when you HAVE to engage, but you refuse to be drained.
🪨 It’s how you keep your peace - even when no-contact isn’t possible (yet).
🪨 It allows you to disengage from manipulation WITHOUT causing more conflict.

If You’re Not Ready to Go No-Contact Yet… Try This Instead:

🔥 Limit emotional access. Just because they’re in your life doesn’t mean they get access to your deepest thoughts & feelings.
🔥 Keep conversations surface-level. No personal details, no vulnerability, no giving them ‘ammunition’ to use against you.
🔥 Stay neutral. The less reactive you are, the less control they have over you.
🔥 End interactions quickly. When the conversation shifts toward manipulation or drama, disengage.

You don’t need permission to protect your energy. You don’t have to explain your boundaries. You don’t need to ‘prove’ that they’re toxic.

Grey Rock is the bridge between awareness & freedom. Whether you go low-contact, no-contact, or stay in limited contact, this is how you take back your power without losing yourself.

🔥 Want to learn how to master Grey Rock? Comment DETAILS to join my Grey Rock mini-course & learn how to disengage from toxic people while keeping your peace. 🕊️