Ayo Moments - eat, explore, unwind

15/04/2025

The other day I was chatting to my PT ( ) because the gym’s been… well, inconsistent to say the least. Life’s been life-ing, and I’ve been putting literally everything else before myself. He asked me, “Out of 10, how happy are you with where you’re at right now?” and I said, “Honestly, probably a 5 — not sad, just kind of… average.”

Then he hit me with: “Are you okay with living your life at a 5/10?”

And listen, that question kind of rocked me. Because the truth is, I have been okay with it. I’ve been coasting. Comfortable. But I know I could feel better , mentally, physically, emotionally , if I actually prioritised me.

I think over time I’ve made myself the least important person in my life, and it’s catching up. So right now, I’m slowly choosing me again. That means making decisions that actually benefit my well-being and peace of mind. Saying no to things that don’t serve me. Listening to my gut and showing up for myself the way I show up for everyone and everything else.

If you’ve followed me for a while, you’ve seen the journey. You’ve seen the moments I’ve felt burnt out or just frustrated with the industry. And while I still love content creation and storytelling, I need to make sure I’m doing it from a place of peace, not pressure.

I really enjoy doing Brewing Thoughts and it’s always gonna be a thing, but it might not be every Friday. Honestly, I think every week was a bit too ambitious, and it started feeling like a job — not the vibe I want. So it might not be this Friday, but I plan to do it every second Friday of the month. Less pressure, more intentional, and a lot more fun.

So if you notice a shift in what I post or where I show up — know that it’s intentional. It’s because I’m putting me first. Always.
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15/04/2025

The other day I was chatting to my PT ( )because the gym’s been… well, inconsistent to say the least. Life’s been life-ing, and I’ve been putting literally everything else before myself. He asked me, “Out of 10, how happy are you with where you’re at right now?” and I said, “Honestly, probably a 5 , not sad, just kind of… average.”

Then he hit me with: “Are you okay with living your life at a 5/10?”

And listen, that question kind of rocked me. Because the truth is, I have been okay with it. I’ve been coasting. Comfortable. But I know I could feel better , mentally, physically, emotionally, if I actually prioritised me.

I think over time I’ve made myself the least important person in my life, and it’s catching up. So right now, I’m slowly choosing me again. That means making decisions that actually benefit my well-being and peace of mind. Saying no to things that don’t serve me. Listening to my gut and showing up for myself the way I show up for everyone and everything else.

If you’ve followed me for a while, you’ve seen the journey. You’ve seen the moments I’ve felt burnt out or just frustrated with the industry. And while I still love content creation and storytelling, I need to make sure I’m doing it from a place of peace, not pressure.

I really enjoy doing Brewing Thoughts and it’s always gonna be a thing, but it might not be every Friday. Honestly, I think every week was a bit too ambitious. So it might not be this Friday, but I plan to do it every second Friday of the month. Less pressure, more intentional, and a lot more fun.

So if you notice a shift in what I post or where I show up , know that it’s intentional. It’s because I’m putting me first. Always.
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10/04/2025

[ eat ] Just stumbled across this burger pic from our hotel stay and remembered I’ve been seriously slacking on sharing all the hotel food I’ve been having lately. [ ad ]

This one’s from (W XYZ Bar), and honestly? The food was so good — dinner was a win across the board. The burger? Juicy and full of flavour. The chicken wings? Not pictured because they didn’t stand a chance. And breakfast the next morning? Equally solid.

I fully meant to post this weeks ago but here we are — better late than never. I’ll be sharing a reel soon with all the food bits so hold tight for that, but for now… this burger deserved its moment.
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08/04/2025

Still Thinking About That Maca Bowl from Bio Café

It’s been a few weeks, but I’m still dreaming about the Superfood Maca Bowl I had at Bio Café ( ). Warm maca-infused porridge, crunchy granola, peanut butter, fresh fruit, and berry purée – everything I love in one bowl. Seriously, if you haven’t tried this yet, you’re missing out.
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05/04/2025

Foodie Resurgence: A Stop at Thirty-Three Steps, Valletta, Malta

It’s been forever since I posted about food, so let’s take it back to Malta! We stopped by Thirty-Three Steps ( ) in Valletta and kicked things off with cocktails. I had the Tipsy Pineapple Sour (which was gone in about 3 seconds), and Matty opted for the Amalfi Iced Tea. Both went down a treat and definitely put us in vacation mode.

After drinks, we grabbed a quick bite. The menu we were given was from San Paolo Naufrago, a neighboring spot. I went for the Focaccia Paradise—mozzarella, Parma ham, and truffle, drizzled with balsamic (which I added to bring out the flavour). Matty had the Burrata Toast, fresh and light with a basil dressing.

Both dishes were delicious, and we shared because, well, it’s what you do on vacation, right?

Highly recommend Thirty-Three Steps if you’re in Valletta, great cocktails, great food, and an even better vibe!
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31/03/2025

[ ad | gifted ] - Trying out because who doesn’t love a taste test?

I was gifted a few flavours to try, and while I had grand plans of baking scones or something fancy, reality hit, I don’t actually know how to make those. So, toast it was! But let’s talk about the jam itself: I’ve tried the apricot and strawberry so far, and the flavour is definitely there. The texture, though, is a bit different from your standard jam , less thick, more of a fruit purée vibe. It’s giving fruit compote energy, which makes me think it would be amazing in desserts or even cocktails (which I will be testing).

Bonus: It’s low-calorie and low-sugar, so if that’s something you’re looking for, it’s a great option! I’ll be experimenting with it in different ways and will report back, but for now, consider this an initial review with plenty more testing to come.

Ever tried Good Good Jams? How do you like to use them?
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28/03/2025

I asked ChatGPT to critique my Instagram feed, and apparently, I need to show my face more, so here I am, doing my best to follow AI’s wise advice. Who knew my feed was missing me?

I’ll admit, I’m much more comfortable behind the camera, capturing coffee, travels, and all the little joys, but in the spirit of growth (and maybe slightly better engagement), I’m stepping in front of the lens.

Do you love posting your face on the grid, or are you more of a behind-the-scenes type like me? Let me know so I don’t feel completely called out by a chatbot.
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26/03/2025

Lighter days, brighter mood…

Spring is here, and everything is glowing. Flowers blooming, skies clearer, moods brighter. Just embracing the season and letting it all feel easy. 🌸☀️
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21/03/2025

Aberdeen’s street art scene is something I’ll never get tired of exploring. I love chasing down murals, and I’m still making my way through all the incredible pieces around the city, but this one by Helen Burr is easily a favourite.

Painted in 2021 for Nuart Aberdeen, it’s a continuation of her first mural (now gone due to the building being demolished). It tells the story of Hugo and Ally, now with their newborn Ruby-Rae, capturing love, connection, and the passage of time.

What makes this piece even more special is that it was completed during World Breastfeeding Week and has since been used as a symbol for breastfeeding awareness and normalisation. I love how street art isn’t just something to look at—it carries meaning, sparks conversations, and becomes part of the city’s identity.

Still so many murals to see, but this one will be hard to top. What’s your favourite street art piece in Aberdeen?
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15/03/2025

A moment in time ✨

Our short trip to Malta is coming to an end, but it’s been filled with so many little joys in such a short time. Waking up to golden sunshine, dipping my toes in the cool waters of Mellieħa Bay, watching the ducks float by without a care. Wandering through the charming streets of Valletta, taking in its history and beauty. Cocktails to cool down, happy hour always calling my name. Even the local cats have mastered the art of a perfect siesta.

It’s these small, fleeting moments that make a trip unforgettable. Can’t wait to return and explore even more of this beautiful country.
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07/03/2025

I’ve been loving my daily greetings here on Instagram, especially how each week naturally takes on its own theme! This week was all about castles, and I couldn’t let them disappear without a proper send-off. So here’s a roundup of the beauties we explored:

🏰 New Slains Castle
🏰 Castle Fraser
🏰 Castle Stalker
🏰 Dunnottar Castle
🏰 Craigievar Castle

From dramatic ruins to fairytale towers, each one has its own charm and history. Which one is your favourite? Let me know in the comments!
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01/03/2025

A moment in time ✨

It’s funny how the little things always end up making the biggest impact. Lately, it’s been all about those tiny moments that make my day a little brighter - like finding the perfect iced coffee when the sun’s out or wandering along a beach where the only thing you hear is the waves. Willow is turning one this month (how did that happen?!), and I’ve been thinking about how fast time flies and how much joy she’s brought me.

These little joys are everywhere, whether it’s that first sip of iced coffee, a pastel de nata that takes you straight to sunny days, or just soaking in the moment. Scotland is full of amazing places to explore, and I’m always discovering new spots that leave me in awe.

It’s the small things that make life so full, and I’m constantly reminding myself to slow down, enjoy the now, and appreciate every little bit of happiness that comes my way.
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25/02/2025

20/02/2025

Falling in Love with Northumberland, One Staycation at a Time

Over the past year, we’ve been spending more and more time in Northumberland, and honestly, I’ve fallen in love with it. Maybe it’s the rugged landscapes that remind me of Scotland, or maybe it’s the endless cosy cabins and charming little villages - either way, it’s become a place I always look forward to returning to.

One of our favourite trips was to Otterburn, where we stayed at The Drey in Otterburn Hall Lodges. It’s a beautiful, dog-friendly cabin, perfect for switching off and just enjoying the peace. We spent the first evening tucked away in the cabin with a home-cooked meal (thanks to a Costco haul), but we also made time to venture out for dinner at William De Percy - a warm, inviting pub with some seriously good food.

What I’d recommend:
Staying in a cabin at Otterburn Hall Lodges for a peaceful escape

Ordering the seafood platter at William De Percy—fresh, flavourful, and a definite must-try

Taking a walk around the Otterburn estate, where you’ll find a picturesque pond and plenty of scenic spots to explore

Northumberland has slowly become one of my favourite places to unwind. It has the same wild beauty as Scotland, but with its own charm and character. If you’re looking for a quiet getaway with great food and stunning landscapes, it’s well worth a visit.

Have you been to Otterburn before? Or do you have a favorite Northumberland staycation spot? Let me know!
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19/02/2025

Craving a proper Hong Kong-style feast? Taste of Hong Kong has been my go-to for authentic flavours, and honestly, their dumplings are some of the best I’ve had in Aberdeen. Perfectly soft, packed with flavor, and just the right amount of bite - exactly what I needed.

If you’re after something quick, comforting, and full of bold flavours, this spot never misses. Have you been? What’s your go-to order?


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18/02/2025

A Luxurious Staycation at The Marcliffe Hotel & Spa ✨🏡

For our Valentine’s treat, Matty surprised me with a stay at The Marcliffe Hotel & Spa - a five-star escape right here in Aberdeen. It was my first time visiting, and after seeing so many glowing reviews, I was so excited to finally experience it for myself.

From the moment we arrived, the hospitality was unmatched - we were welcomed with a glass of fizz before being shown to our gorgeous room, where the cutest love heart macarons were waiting for us. It’s the little details that make all the difference!

We spent the evening sipping cocktails by the cosy fire, fully embracing the relaxing atmosphere. Unfortunately, we didn’t book dinner in advance (rookie mistake! 😅), but the staff were incredibly accommodating, letting us order off-menu for room service - which was amazing.

The next morning, we enjoyed a delicious breakfast overlooking the courtyard, soaking in the luxury of it all. The Marcliffe truly delivers on elegance and charm, and while we didn’t get a chance to try the spa this time, it’s definitely on my list for a future visit!

If you’re looking for a special staycation in Aberdeen, I highly recommend The Marcliffe. Have you been before? Let me know your thoughts! ⬇️


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13/02/2025

A Moment in Time ✨

I’ve always loved photography - it’s what first drew me to Instagram. Over time, I’ve picked up new skills and explored different styles, but at the heart of it, I just love capturing little moments.

From finally seeing Bow Fiddle Rock (a must-visit if you love coastal scenery!) to discovering new coffee spots, wandering through different cities, and even meeting some adorable animals along the way - these are the small joys that make up a trip or a day out.

If you’re looking for places to explore, Bow Fiddle Rock is in Portknockie and is a stunning natural sea arch. Or, if you’re in Aberdeen, the beach is always a great spot to unwind. Sometimes, it’s the simple things that make the best memories.

What’s a little moment that made you smile recently?
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12/02/2025

I’ve been thinking a lot about why I create. It’s never been about chasing numbers or fitting into the ‘content creator’ box (honestly, I don’t even know if I want to be in that industry). But creating - taking photos, filming, editing - has always been something that brings me joy. It’s my escape when life feels overwhelming. Additionally, I love supporting small & local businesses as best I can.

But beyond that, I also create because I want people who look like me to see that it’s possible. Because I know how hard it is to find representation in this space, especially in Scotland. There are so many talented creators - some with huge followings, doing incredible work - yet they’re not being seen. Brands aren’t working with them. Instagram isn’t pushing their content. And I can’t help but ask… why?

People want different perspectives. They want to see themselves reflected. And yet, the same small group keeps getting the same opportunities. The industry keeps playing it safe instead of evolving.

I don’t know exactly where this journey will take me, but I know one thing - my creativity has value. And if you have a platform, connections, influence - ask the questions. Challenge the norm. It won’t take away from you, but it might just change things for someone else.
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