Ayo Dines

18/02/2025

A Luxurious Staycation at The Marcliffe Hotel & Spa ✨🏡

For our Valentine’s treat, Matty surprised me with a stay at The Marcliffe Hotel & Spa - a five-star escape right here in Aberdeen. It was my first time visiting, and after seeing so many glowing reviews, I was so excited to finally experience it for myself.

From the moment we arrived, the hospitality was unmatched - we were welcomed with a glass of fizz before being shown to our gorgeous room, where the cutest love heart macarons were waiting for us. It’s the little details that make all the difference!

We spent the evening sipping cocktails by the cosy fire, fully embracing the relaxing atmosphere. Unfortunately, we didn’t book dinner in advance (rookie mistake! 😅), but the staff were incredibly accommodating, letting us order off-menu for room service - which was amazing.

The next morning, we enjoyed a delicious breakfast overlooking the courtyard, soaking in the luxury of it all. The Marcliffe truly delivers on elegance and charm, and while we didn’t get a chance to try the spa this time, it’s definitely on my list for a future visit!

If you’re looking for a special staycation in Aberdeen, I highly recommend The Marcliffe. Have you been before? Let me know your thoughts! ⬇️


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13/02/2025

A Moment in Time ✨

I’ve always loved photography - it’s what first drew me to Instagram. Over time, I’ve picked up new skills and explored different styles, but at the heart of it, I just love capturing little moments.

From finally seeing Bow Fiddle Rock (a must-visit if you love coastal scenery!) to discovering new coffee spots, wandering through different cities, and even meeting some adorable animals along the way - these are the small joys that make up a trip or a day out.

If you’re looking for places to explore, Bow Fiddle Rock is in Portknockie and is a stunning natural sea arch. Or, if you’re in Aberdeen, the beach is always a great spot to unwind. Sometimes, it’s the simple things that make the best memories.

What’s a little moment that made you smile recently?
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12/02/2025

I’ve been thinking a lot about why I create. It’s never been about chasing numbers or fitting into the ‘content creator’ box (honestly, I don’t even know if I want to be in that industry). But creating - taking photos, filming, editing - has always been something that brings me joy. It’s my escape when life feels overwhelming. Additionally, I love supporting small & local businesses as best I can.

But beyond that, I also create because I want people who look like me to see that it’s possible. Because I know how hard it is to find representation in this space, especially in Scotland. There are so many talented creators - some with huge followings, doing incredible work - yet they’re not being seen. Brands aren’t working with them. Instagram isn’t pushing their content. And I can’t help but ask… why?

People want different perspectives. They want to see themselves reflected. And yet, the same small group keeps getting the same opportunities. The industry keeps playing it safe instead of evolving.

I don’t know exactly where this journey will take me, but I know one thing - my creativity has value. And if you have a platform, connections, influence - ask the questions. Challenge the norm. It won’t take away from you, but it might just change things for someone else.
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10/02/2025

There’s Nothing to Do in Aberdeen… Part 2!

Since my last post, I’ve had so many great suggestions from you all, so here’s another round of things to do in Aberdeen - because there’s definitely more to this city than people think!

Greyhope Bay – A hidden gem with stunning sea views, peaceful vibes, and a perfect spot for a quiet, romantic walk. While you’re there, stop by for a coffee with a view!

Second Home Studio & Café – A cosy space for coffee and crafts! They run events throughout the month, so check their page for what’s on.

Fittie (Footdee) – Aberdeen’s charming little fishing village by the beach, filled with colorful cottages and artsy corners. A photographer’s dream!

Cove Bay – A gorgeous coastal spot just outside the city with beautiful views and a quiet place for a cold-water dip or a scenic picnic.

Fat Batch Bakery – If you’re looking for incredible bakes, Fat Batch is a must-visit (though Aberdeen has so many amazing bakeries!).

Rob Roy Statue (Peterculter) – A lesser-known historical landmark with ties to Scottish history. A great stop if you’re exploring the area!

Parks & Gardens – Johnston Gardens for a relaxing stroll (and some friendly ducks), Victoria Park for a game of giant chess, and of course, Union Terrace Gardens for city-center green space.

Devona Spa – After all that exploring, a little relaxation at is definitely needed! (part of a gifted stay)

So, do you still think there’s nothing to do in Aberdeen? Let me know if you’ve done any of these or if I should do a Part 3!
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10/02/2025

01/02/2025

POV: Your husband hasn’t asked you out for Valentine’s Day… so you’re on the streets of Aberdeen looking for a Valentine. (photo credit: )

Listen, desperate times call for desperate measures. If he won’t plan a date, maybe the Aberdeen streets will provide. Armed with red balloons and a dream, I set off on a (totally serious, not at all dramatic) mission to find love—or at least a dinner reservation.

Can confirm: Aberdeen has many lovely people, but no one was ready to commit on the spot. Shocking.

If you see a woman running around Union Street with balloons, mind your business (or propose).

Moral of the story? Don’t wait around - book your own Valentine’s Day plans! Whether it’s a solo date, a Galentine’s night, or a romantic dinner, make it happen.

Aberdeen Date Night Ideas:
Cocktails and Cosy dinner
Axe throwing because… why not?

Would you ever do this? Drop a ❤️ if you’ve booked your Valentine’s plans or a 💔 if you’re still waiting!

30/01/2025

We’ve all seen how stunning Mowgli( ) is, but let’s talk about the food. Since I was in Edinburgh earlier this week, I decided this would be my lunch / dinner spot of choice. The space is beautiful, but the food? It delivers too.

I went for the Office Worker Tiffin - four tiers of meat, veg, and carbs, all chef-chosen. It’s a great option if you struggle to decide! I also added a Mowgli Puri because… why not? I can’t remember every dish I got (bear with me), but I do know I had Basmati Rice, Tea Steeped Chickpeas, Agra Ginger Chicken, and a spicy chicken dish I wish I could name. Everything was full of flavour, and for £20, the portions were solid value.

I also tried the Sweet Delhi Heights cocktail—sweet, refreshing, and easy to love. The menu has so much variety, including great vegan options, which can be a little overwhelming, but this tiffin set made ordering simple.

Would I recommend it? Definitely. Whether you go for a set meal or pick your own dishes, you’ll leave full and happy.
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24/01/2025

Weeks 3 & 4

The past two weeks have been quite similar to the previous ones in terms of work, balancing between going into the office and working from home. However, we managed to fit in several enjoyable activities that made the weeks more exciting.

Outdoor Activities: We had a lovely walk at Kincorth Nature Reserve with the dog, making the most of the fresh air and peaceful surroundings. We also enjoyed a badminton date at Sports Aberdeen, which was a fun way to stay active.

Exploring Art: A visit to the art gallery was another highlight. Although I had seen some of the pieces before, it was nice to finally take the time to appreciate them properly. This experience has inspired me to create a guide to encourage others to explore the beautiful art Aberdeen has to offer.

Chasing Sunrises: I had planned to catch the sunrise over the weekend, but I never quite managed to wake up early enough. Fortunately, I did catch a glimpse of it on my way to work on the days I was in the office.

Milan Trip Disruption: Our excitement for the Milan trip in week four was unfortunately disrupted by a storm. We woke up at 2 AM to catch the bus to the airport, only to find our flight delayed. On the plus side, we received a free hotel stay, giving us some time to relax, eat, and drink while waiting for our rescheduled flight. What was meant to be 48 hours in Milan has now been reduced to 24, but we’re determined to make the most of it.

Despite a few setbacks, the past two weeks have been filled with enjoyable moments and new experiences.

14/01/2025

I love the idea of weekly highlights created by , but if I’m being honest, I know I wouldn’t commit to it weekly. So instead, I’m going biweekly or just rolling the weeks I miss into one post - it feels more manageable. This year, I’m putting a big emphasis on play. I want everything I do to have an element of fun, so I’m trying out new ways to keep this page a creative outlet that brings me joy.

Lately, I’ve been feeling drained, and I’m realising it’s because I haven’t been having enough fun. This space is for me to be as creative as I can be, so I’m leaning into that energy.

Anyway, let’s get into the roundup. It’s been a very day-to-day couple of weeks, but here are some moments:

- Crocs in the snow - because it wouldn’t be me if I wasn’t in crocs, right?

- Fun at Duthie Park - I won the snowball fight, and trust me, everyone knew about it.

- Prioritising my health - after a health scare last year, I’m reminded how important this is.

- Office days - sometimes I forget how beautiful my work building is until I step outside of it.

- Gym sessions—building consistency, one workout at a time.

- WFH days—made even better with my Velcro dogs by my side.

- Pizza night—finally made use of our Christmas gift with some homemade pizzas!

03/01/2025

Foodie Photo Dump: Festive Edition 🍴

I’ve eaten so much over the festive period and didn’t get the chance to share it all - so here’s a little roundup of recent eats. Some hits, some misses, but all worth sharing:

Deep North Donuts - (Tynemouth)
I had the Homer donut and a brown sugar white chocolate mocha. The donut was soft, sweet, and just what I needed after not having a doughnut for ages - so good!

Durano Lounge - (Tynemouth)
This place has cosy vibes and eclectic wall art that kept me entertained. I had the breakfast quesadillas from the brunch menu - delicious but a little small compared to everyone else’s dishes.

Foodstory - (Aberdeen)
Tried their banana bread French toast, but sadly, it wasn’t for me - odd texture and a soapy taste. On the bright side, their dirty chai and almond-raspberry swirl were amazing.

Perra - (Aberdeen)
The baklava here was a highlight! Perfectly sweet and so moreish - I could’ve eaten a whole box in one sitting.

Christmas Dinner - (M&S Food)
We ordered from M&S this year. Most of it was delicious, though the turkey was a bit dry (probably our own fault for overcooking it!).

Black Sheep Coffee - (Aberdeen)
The white chocolate and mint matcha from their winter menu is so good! The flavour combo is a must-try if you’re a matcha fan like me.

28/12/2024

I’ve always admired people who are naturally open and vulnerable…

22/12/2024

A Year in the Shape of Love

The year began with a countdown clock,
Nine months to our wedding, a life to unlock.
Between then and vows, a whirlwind spun,
Celebrations and gatherings, one by one.

Moments of joy, of laughter, of cheer,
Family and friends drawing near.
Yet beneath the sparkle, something stirred -
A quiet loneliness, faint but heard.

The pressure mounted, the days grew tight,
Traditions to honour, finances to fight.
Self-care abandoned, my reflection unclear,
A body neglected, bound by fear.

Then September came, our day arrived,
A celebration of love, a dance to survive.
A moment of magic, of gold and light,
But with the stillness, the shadows took flight.

The loneliness that hid beneath it all,
Rose to the surface, a growing call.
No more plans, no more noise,
Just quiet nights and an aching void.

Yet through it, I found a truth to keep -
That even in shadows, love runs deep.
For family, for friends, for time to mend,
To love myself, my story, my end.

Now I stand with a braver heart,
Ready again for a fearless start.
This year taught me to cherish, to grow,
To find the light when the world feels slow.

20/12/2024

Making the most of the Christmas season before it’s gone! Went to The Roost ( ) today for some festive cheer and a very delicious peppermint mocha. Creamy, minty, and topped with candy cane magic—what’s not to love? Taking breaks like this makes such a difference!
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15/12/2024

Life feels a bit chaotic right now—so much is on my mind, and trying to stay present is exhausting. But it’s the little pockets of joy that keep me going.

Lately, I’ve been spending more time just looking up, and there’s something so peaceful about watching the sunrise. In the midst of all the craziness, it’s a reminder to find beauty in the small things.

Here’s to appreciating the little moments that bring us peace, even in the chaos.
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12/12/2024

The lovely Karen ( )shared a story from another creator about the lack of visibility of Scottish POC creators in media and content spaces, and it really struck a chord with me. It’s something I highlighted on my Instagram towards the end of last year and again earlier this year. And now, as I focus on building -a collective for POC creators—I wanted to introduce this idea here too.

Here’s how I see it:
Imagine starting a painting with just one colour. Sure, you could paint something, but it would lack depth and dimension. Now, as you add tone and shadow, play with light, and layer in more colours, the painting transforms. It comes to life, rich and vibrant, and suddenly the artist’s intention is clear.

That’s what inclusion feels like to me. It’s not just a nice idea—it’s essential. Without it, things feel flat and disconnected, and if something doesn’t resonate with me on that level, I find it hard to engage or even recommend it to others.

Inclusion isn’t just about ticking boxes—it’s about embracing the richness and depth that different voices and perspectives bring.