Blessing Chima Okafor

Blessing Chima Okafor I am Blessing Chima Okafor. A woman on a mission.

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05/10/2022

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I waited and waited for you,For nine whole months.Since the beginning which felt so rough,The middle which felt like a t...
29/09/2022

I waited and waited for you,
For nine whole months.
Since the beginning which felt so rough,
The middle which felt like a teaser,
Through the end which felt so long.
My patience was tested in every way,
But you were worth the wait,
To me, you are perfect.

I worried and worried over you,
About everything that could go wrong.
Whether I could give you what you need,
Whether you would enter this world healthy,
Whether we would continue our journey after we met.
My worry for you was constant,
But you were worth every worry,
You are my everything.

I tossed and turned every night for you,
Looking for the comfort I craved.
Trying so hard to rest because I was tired,
Fighting insomnia like it was something I could control,
Waking to your movements because I wanted to check on you.
My darkness was more awake than asleep,
But you were worth every sleepless night,
You are what I dreamed of

I’ve stretched and stretched some more for you.
In every which way imaginable.
My body has been pulled and scarred,
My mind was opened wider,
My heart was torn throughout.
My give knew no bounds,
But you were worth every stretch,
You are the growth worth celebrating.

I’ve pushed and pushed my body to get you here,
It’s not always been easy.
I endured physical intensity and exhaustion.
I tapped into every emotion possible,
I depleted most sources available.
I forgot just how testing it was,
But you were worth every push,
You are the result I’ll remember.

I’ve given everything and more to be with you,
But it was so worth it.
My darling,
You were so worth it.


Art: O Trocatintas
Words of Emma Heaphy

MARRIAGE IS WORKMarriage is not a cure for loneliness. Marriage is not a cure for horniness. Marriage is not a cure for ...
28/09/2022

MARRIAGE IS WORK

Marriage is not a cure for loneliness.
Marriage is not a cure for horniness.
Marriage is not a cure for sadness.
Marriage is not a cure for emptiness.
Marriage is not a cure for brokenness.

If you get married expecting it to resolve all these issues, all you really did was make breaking up more expensive. Love is for everyone, but marriage is for the matured.

Instead of praying for an opportunity, first ask God to prepare you for the opportunity so that when you receive the blessing you can handle the measure of responsibility attached to it.

Many are asking for something that their character cannot maintain. Marriage is too big for you to enter into with little understanding.

Marriage is not an experiment. It's a divine covenant that you enter into advisedly, soberly and reverently. You don't get married to just try it out. You get married to LIVE IT OUT, WORK IT OUT AND LOVE IT OUT!!!

Many people have a plan to build, but not a strategy to sustain and maintain what they've prayed for. Longevity must be a part of the blueprint. If God's kingdom is eternal, then what we build must be built on longevity in mind. It's bigger than cosmetics and having a sexy curves and pretty face.

Anyone can engage. Anyone can elope. Anyone can exchange vows... but can you endure?

Forever is such a long time to be miserable!

Marriage is not an experiment. Don't try it out. Go into it knowing this is what you want, where you want to be and who you want to be with or else your experiment will become an experience you desperately want to escape.

Everyone wants the wedding, but can you stand the marriage? Most of us only love based on condition and convenience.

Can you stand the test when God allows your marriage boat to rock just a little or will you jump ship?

You have to want more than just the pretty pictures. It's about having something REAL AND WORTH PRESERVING.

Being married won't heal you and being single won't kill you. Don't rush. Don't force it. Don't be desperate for it and don't settle just for anyone.

A lot of people promise FOREVER until they realize how much work FOREVER is.

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Nigerian woman who has experienced six miscarriages finally gave birth to triplets. Isn’t this wonderful? Only a women c...
28/09/2022

Nigerian woman who has experienced six miscarriages finally gave birth to triplets.

Isn’t this wonderful?

Only a women can fathom this kind of pain and blessings.

The pain and suffering that comes with childlessness is nothing to write home about.

In our community, being childless is like living in the land of the living and not actually living.

Passing through the gestational period and finally loosing your child at the point of delivery is heart wrenching!

It is physically and mentally draining. It is painful.

How can one explain that kind of predicament! Indeed mothers faces a lot yet they still find ways to smile and act all good.

Truely, the Joy of mother hood is having your baby after all this pains, sufferings and endurance.

Mama triplet’s tears has been wiped.

Her hands are full and her cup has overflowed.

Congratulations to mama triplet ♥️♥️♥️

Blessing Chima Okafor

28/09/2022

You truly do not need a new day to start over, you need a NEW MINDSET. Without a good mindset you will keep repeating the same circle with same result.
Mindset is everything.

Mama Africa, ⁣I never understood why you seemed grouchy on some days 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 and realized how bone-tired...
28/09/2022

Mama Africa,
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I never understood why you seemed grouchy on some days 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 and realized how bone-tired you were and underappreciated you felt.⁣
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I never understood why it took so long for you to get ready 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 and realized you were too busy doing everything to get 𝘶𝘴 ready, and you came last.⁣
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I never understood why you would say give me five minutes when I wanted to play 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 and just wanted a second to breathe in-between tasks.⁣
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I never understood why you would lose it over the smallest things 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 and realized it was a buildup of frustration, anxiety, and stress that had you snapping and not the spilled cheerios all over the floor.⁣
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I never understood why you got mad at me when I got out of bed every ten minutes on loop because I wasn't tired 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 and realized how many things you needed to get done while we were sleeping. ⁣
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I never understood why you were always worried 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 and realized it's because your love for me was so strong the idea of anything bad happening hurt your soul.⁣
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I never understood why you hugged me extra tight some days 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 and realized the world is hard, and I was your reminder that everything was worth it.⁣
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Entering motherhood has given me a changed perspective on everything, including you.⁣
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And becoming a mother made me⁣
love you more.

I love you mama m ♥️
We love you Mama Africa ♥️

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Words by Living FULL

28/09/2022

Do you know the difference between MA, MADAM and MA'AM?

'MA' means mother.
Therefore don't refer to one who is not your mother 'ma' in an official setting.

'MADAM' means a respectable, polite and more formal way to address a woman in an official setting.

It is also used to refer to a woman who owns a brothel.

'MA'AM'
This is a polite or respectable way to address a woman though less formal(not informal). This term can be used in an official setting. It is also the short form of Madam and madame.

Have you learned their differences?

Therefore, anyone, you don't call mum can't be referred to as 'ma'. This is the reason we write 'dear madam' in a formal letter not 'dear ma'.

Credit: English Proficiency Tutor.

27/09/2022

Create your closure.
Close the chapter.
Leave the past where it belongs. It time to move on to the life you deserve.
Trent Shelton 🔥

This lady is so talented mhen! Her Photoshop skills is just woooooow 🤩Well done Minichep ♥️ ✔️ Feel free to share Blessi...
27/09/2022

This lady is so talented mhen!
Her Photoshop skills is just woooooow 🤩

Well done Minichep ♥️

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Blessing Chima Okafor

27/09/2022

Ten truth everyone should accept in life!

1 Love is action. If you love someone, you will do anything to make him/her happy. If your spouse doesn’t care about you, he/she doesn’t love you.

2. Strict but loving parents will save your future.

3. Money is not everything. But everything needs money, even respect.

4. If you have money, you look younger. If you poor, you look older than your age.

5. If you don’t have goals, your life will be flat and boring.

6. Your biggest enemy is your own thought. Self affirmation is important.

7. People who post their selfies 24/,7 think they are attractive. People who don’t, know they are.

8. Someone else’s success can be either a great motivator or destroyer.

9. Contentment is the key of happiness.

10. Exercise reduce stress significantly. If you feel hopeless, go running until you soaking wet or just do any form of exercise that your body type can accommodate.

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Meet 30-year-old Ezra Suwanta dubbed the tallest man in Kaduna!He is said to be the descendant of a giant who lived in K...
27/09/2022

Meet 30-year-old Ezra Suwanta dubbed the tallest man in Kaduna!

He is said to be the descendant of a giant who lived in Kagaro!

Ezra is one of the 5 surfing children out of 11 born to the Suwanta Zako family.

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