24/10/2025
"Plz, i just want the world to know that I have absolutely nothing to do with this lady, as I've officially dvozd her, & I'm indeed in shock after realizing the real woman i thought loves me. I'm disappointed
When I married this woman 4 years ago, she came with absolutely nothing into the marriage, just someone from wrecked background. But I didn't mind coz my business was doing great.
However, coz of a little mistake in our marriage, she left despite everything I've done for her & her family. Truth is, I actually had a child out of wedlock before our marriage. So, 2 years into our marriage, we had a daughter but, I found myself still attached to my baby's mother. Somehow, I lost focus & started, sleeping out late, & sometimes spending 2-3 days without coming home. Also forgetting to give her money for food & upkeep, which made things tough for her. I had also forbidden her from taking a job.
Things took a turn when she discovered my daughter's birth certificate & found out that I was still in contact with her mom. This brought about serious issues, even after I pleaded & tried convincing her that I kept it a secret because she wouldn't have agreed to marry me if she had found out. She still left, & both families and elders had to step in to resolve the issue, which took almost 2 weeks.
I sincerely apologized & promised to be a better husband to her. I even set up a boutique business for her as she demanded & honestly tried not to have anything to do with my baby's mama, but I love my daughter so much, which kept connecting me back to her mom. I realized how much I still feel for her, & I couldn't help but start seeing her again about a month later.
My wife was distracted & concentrated on her business, making it hard for her to suspect anything. My relationship with my baby mama went on for almost 2 & a half years, & unfortunately, she got pregnant with our second baby. At this point, I realized I could no longer keep it a secret, so I confided in my mom and some elders, who advised that I take her as a second wife since she was already pregnant with my son.
We went to her village & did the traditional wedding. I later rented a house and asked her to stay for some time so I could inform my first wife, believing she would understand since we're from the same village and she knows our culture permits a man to take a second wife. However, I was shocked when she packed her things and left, strongly rejecting the idea of being involved in a polygamous marriage.
She took our 3-year-old daughter along and served me with divorce papers. I thought it was a joke. I've been begging my wife to return home for the past six months, but instead, she and her family called me up for a meeting to refund the bride price I paid on her.
What's annoying the most is that I just discovered that this woman bought a house for her family while she was still living under my roof, using money from the business I opened for her. Fatima, you can go, but i want my daughter back including everything that belongs to me in your possession.
it's been over 2 months gone since I asked you to return the business I opened for you, & I want it back, including everything you've acquired from it since you've refused to continue with the marriage, & you think I'm joking. I'm willing to go any length to keep æxzin you & ur family if i don't hv back everything that belongs to me that i promise you!! Mrk my words! ''
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