30/12/2023
Ace nothin's View, Life and Relationship last message for the men in 2023
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Start to invest only in the females who value you, respect you, and are loyal to you.
The woman who can go the extra mile for you is the woman to hold. Life is hard for a man.
They can not even make a sandwich ๐ฅช for you. They can not even clean your apartment and do your laundry. Such a woman doesn't deserve you.
Understand that life is hard for a man. You want a woman who is willing to make life easier for you. It is already hard out here for most guys.
Riding a bike, and hocking rubber flip-flops in the city of Douala under the sun is tough, you don't want to come home to another battle.
Remember that the woman who can be there for you is more than gold. Cherish such a woman. In today's world, most women are not even willing to know what men want or how men feel. Your life is very important to you.
When choosing a spouse, focus more on internal beauty. What value can she bring to your children? Her morals, is she selfless, she respects men in general, chooses a healthy woman, and her bills are less. When you find her, know that messing around will cost you a fortune.
Life is what you make. A man has a role to play in a chaotic home. Make your home peaceful. 9 out of 10, times, if you lead your home, right, your woman will act right.
Strive to be the leader of your home. Women are not good at steering a relationship. She will burst emotionally when things go rough. Men and women are best when they combine forces. Men and women are equal in their differences. When put together, it's beautiful.
Choose a woman who values relationships, marriage, and families and sees marriage as an achievement. If she doesn't, she won't be able to work hard to fix it. Humans only fix the things they value and want to keep.
In case of separation, and you have a child, remember to separate peacefully, it's very important. Take care of your child, a state or government is not supposed to tell you to be responsible. As a man, you must be a responsible man.
Remember, your health is your wealth. Eat healthy, build muscle, read books, and make friends with good men. Don't be alone. Men are not to be alone.
Value your woman's input, she has a mind of her own and her opinions can save you millions of dollars. Be a man you would like your girl child to respect. A girl child's first love is her father. The way you treat her mom is the way she will see men. Create a better blueprint.
Tell your children you love them, make them feel special, and spend time with them. I was with my 4-year-old, 2-month-old daughter, she said Daddy I miss you, it heats me hard because I knew, she was not supposed to say that. I'm supposed to be there for every single day. I cried as I typed this particular paragraph. It is a special bond I have with her.
Be a responsible man. When you have a problem with your girl, don't rush to act. Be emotionally intelligent, it's a skill, learn it. Maintain silence, it's very important and powerful. Many people have lost opportunities because they cannot be silent.
Having multiple sources of income is very important, look at how you can get this done, you will never become rich with one income. I learned this a few weeks ago.
Know the difference between assets and liability. I bet you I have more money in my wardrobe than in my bank account. The wardrobe is useless. Buy assets and not liability. Every man has what it takes to be financially free, my mentor told me this, look for your purpose and die for it.
Lastly, I'm not a good writer but I write from my heart.
Wishing you and your family a fantastic New Year ๐.
I love you.
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