28/11/2021
LIFE LESSONS time.
Ever look back and wish you knew something earlier?
I sure do. 🙋🏻♀️
Here are my top three things I find myself wishing someone had told me before...
💡 Don't be afraid to show up confident and charge what you're worth.
I struggled for SO LONG with charging lower rates and justifying them with silly reasons. I'm new. I'm in Canada (what?). I don't have a lot of followers. I do this part-time.
I wish someone had shook me and told me it's okay to charge what I feel I'm worth. I have the testimonials, knowledge, passion, and values to back it up. By charging more, I'm keeping my energy high and being my most productive self for my clients. I'll be showing up authentically. And, I'm new, so what? Baby sharks are still MF-ing sharks.
💡 It's not being b*tchy, it's being assertive - and it's a good thing.
As women, we're often told to not be "too" much. Don't be too loud. Don't swear too much. Don't talk too much about yourself. Don't make more money than your partner. Don't dress too provocatively. Don't dominate conversations. Don't argue. Don't challenge beliefs. Don't speak up if someone is bothering you, because that's rude.
Luckily, I ditched all of these pretty early on in life, but I still held them as truths for far too long. I have come to realize that speaking up is healthy. Asking for what I want is healthy. Not accepting less than what I deserve is healthy. Being vocal, being a natural leader, and being motivated don't make me less than, they make me a good entrepreneur. I'm not a bitch, I just stand my ground.
💡 Your mental health challenges can be a strength, not a weakness.
Some of you might know I am diagnosed OCD, among other things. OCD isn't just a need for things to be clean and tidy, it's a constant TV static in the mind of fears, worries, anxieties, obsessions, and compulsions. The brain picks an intrusive thought and causes the body to do irrational things to make this thought go away. Though, through therapy, medication, and lifestyle habits, OCD has been a brilliant assistant in my work. It helps me plan, helps me list, helps me celebrate checking off items and hitting deadlines. My OCD means I'm a hard worker that *literally* won't stop until the job is done, and done well. It's my secret superpower, and I'm making it work FOR me, not against me.
Double tap if one of these resonates! ❤️