Becoming Nomads

05/11/2024

And we're off! See you next spring Canada!

25/10/2024

"Today you would have been 32. Two years without your infectious laugh, bright smile, and the way you could light up any room feels both like forever and just yesterday. While you'll forever be 30 in our memories, being your big sister has filled my life with more love than words could ever express. The world was so much brighter with you in it. Missing you with every breath today, little brother but I am celebrating the amazing soul you were and always will be. My heart may be broken, but it's still full of love for you, baby brother. ♥️" ❤️😢

21/10/2024

Felt exceptionally motivated today, so I decided to cook Gordon Ramsay's beef wellington with garlic and herb mashed potatoes and honey glazed carrots for the family today!

Finished it off with Gordon's sticky toffee pudding.

While it wasn't much to look at because the juices leaked out and soggied the pastry, it was absolutely delicious. I'm pretty proud of myself considering I've never made it before.

Yum! 😋😋😋

20/10/2024

Took the Bronco out for a little off roading fun today! This might be my new hobby 😇😂

We're headed back to Vegas for the winter, and there are tons of off roading opportunities around there in the surrounding mountains and desert.

18/10/2024

We had been planning to do this next summer, but SOMEBODY cracked the transmission case on our little Chevy Sonic while off grid in northern Ontario last month.

Soooo.... we made it work now and picked up a Ford Bronco a couple of weeks ago! Super excited to see what sorts of adventures await. Off roading anyone?

17/10/2024

Liam Payne's recent struggles have sparked a much-needed conversation about mental health, reminding us that no one, no matter their status or success, is immune. The former One Direction star has openly battled anxiety and depression, and rumors of him contemplating su***de highlight the severity of his challenges. This should serve as a wake-up call.

Mental health issues don't discriminate—rich or poor, famous or unknown, we all have vulnerabilities. The pressures that celebrities face can be extreme, but the need for support is universal. Society often assumes that wealth and fame shield people from life's hardships, but in reality, mental health struggles can be even more isolating for those in the public eye. Stigma, shame, and the misconception that "having it all" means being happy often keep people from seeking help.

This situation underscores the importance of breaking down these barriers. It's crucial for everyone to have access to support, whether it's through therapy, a strong support system, or simply feeling safe enough to talk openly about their feelings. We need to push for a world where mental health is treated with the same seriousness as physical health, where checking in on each other becomes second nature, and where nobody feels alone in their battle.

Whether you're a pop star or a regular person, mental health matters. Let's honor these moments of struggle by committing to empathy, support, and the fight against stigma, so that no one feels like their only option is to suffer in silence.

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20/09/2024

♥️
“Today was a Difficult Day," said Pooh.
There was a pause.
"Do you want to talk about it?" asked Piglet.
"No," said Pooh after a bit. "No, I don't think I do."
"That's okay," said Piglet, and he came and sat beside his friend.
"What are you doing?" asked Pooh.
"Nothing, really," said Piglet. "Only, I know what Difficult Days are like. I quite often don't feel like talking about it on my Difficult Days either.
"But goodness," continued Piglet, "Difficult Days are so much easier when you know you've got someone there for you. And I'll always be here for you, Pooh."
And as Pooh sat there, working through in his head his Difficult Day, while the solid, reliable Piglet sat next to him quietly, swinging his little legs...he thought that his best friend had never been more right.

𝗦𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗗𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗶𝗰𝘂𝗹𝘁 𝗗𝗮𝘆 𝘁𝗼𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗼𝗽𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗣𝗶𝗴𝗹𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗶𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 ❤️

16/09/2024

One year ago today, my life changed forever when I lost my brother Andrew to su***de. It’s hard to wrap my head around the fact that a whole year has passed because the pain still feels so fresh, like it just happened. Not a day goes by where I don’t think about him—his warmth, his laugh, and how he made everyone around him feel loved and understood. Andrew had such a big heart, and I miss him so much. I miss him in ways I can’t even find the words to explain.

This year has been filled with so much grief, trying to figure out how to keep going without him here. I’ve learned that there are some questions that will never have answers, and that’s something I’m still learning to accept. But more than anything, I hold on to the hope that Andrew has found the peace he couldn’t find in this world.

If you’re struggling, I know reaching out can feel impossible sometimes. Mental illness can make it feel like you’re all alone, like no one understands, and it can take away the energy or hope needed to ask for help. That’s why it’s so important for the rest of us to check in on the people we care about. Sometimes, it’s about being there, listening without judgment, and reminding them that they matter—without waiting for them to reach out first. We can help by showing up with love, by asking how they’re really doing, and by creating a safe space where they feel supported.

If you or someone you know needs support, here are some resources that can help:

David Kessler Online therapy

Crisis Services Canada (available 24/7): Call 1-833-456-4566 or text 45645

Kids Help Phone (available 24/7): Call 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868

National Su***de Prevention Lifeline: 988 or 1-800-273-TALK (8255)

Crisis Text Line (available 24/7): Text HOME to 741741

LGBTQIA+

The Trevor Project (U.S. - available 24/7): Call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678678

Trans Lifeline (Canada & U.S.): Call 1-877-330-6366

LGBT YouthLine (Canada): Call 1-800-268-9688 or text 647-694-4275 (youth up to age 29)

Please, if you’re hurting, reach out when you can. And for those of us who can, let’s reach out to those who might be struggling. The world is better with you in it. Let’s take care of each other, have those tough conversations, and remind one another that hope is still there, even if it’s hard to see sometimes.

Andrew, you’ll always be in my heart. I love you more than words can say, and I miss you every single day. You were my my friend, and my brother. I hope you’ve found peace, little bro, and I’ll carry your memory with me forever.

12/09/2024

Powerful tragic song. Issues that need to be talked about. Open, honest and true conversations. Johnny Schaefer amazing job

When It's Your Kid-:Johnny Schaefer. (For lyrics, click closed captioning) A song for Su***de PRevention Mo...

10/09/2024

We often hear phrases like "Have a great day!" or "Hope your day is amazing!" While well-intended, these high expectations can feel overwhelming, especially when life is tough. If your day isn’t going smoothly, it’s easy to feel like you’ve failed because it wasn’t “great” or even “good.” But what if, instead of aiming for a "great" day, we shift our focus to finding small, positive moments—what we can call glimmers?

A glimmer is a tiny, positive moment or feeling that brings a sense of calm or happiness, no matter how brief. It could be as simple as enjoying your first sip of coffee, a kind smile from a stranger, or catching a moment of sunshine between clouds. These glimmers don’t make the day perfect, but they are small sparks of light that remind us life is more than just the rough patches.

By looking for glimmers instead of pressuring ourselves to have a “good” day, we learn to appreciate small joys and build resilience. So, next time your day feels hard, try not to focus on whether it was "good" or "bad." Instead, ask yourself: What little glimmers did I notice today? Those moments may be just enough to shift your perspective.

09/09/2024

Grief is a journey that doesn’t follow a straight path. Losing Andrew has shown me just how complex and painful that journey can be. There are days when it feels like the weight of his absence is unbearable, when the sadness hits so hard that it feels like it will never end. And then there are other days when the memories of him—his laugh, his smile, the way he made life a little brighter—bring a bittersweet comfort. Grief is unpredictable like that. It comes in waves, sometimes overwhelming, and other times gentle, but it never fully goes away.

The thing about grief is that it isn’t something we ever “get over.” Instead, we learn to live with it. We learn to carry the loss in our hearts while trying to continue forward with our lives. It changes us. Losing someone as special as Andrew leaves a permanent mark, a wound that may heal over time but never truly disappears. There are moments when I still feel anger, confusion, guilt—wishing I had done more, wondering what I missed. Those feelings are a part of grieving too, and they don’t have easy answers.

But in that grief, there’s also the recognition of how deeply we loved. The pain of loss is a reflection of how much someone meant to us, how much they shaped our lives. Grieving Andrew has taught me that love doesn’t die with the person. It lives on in the memories, in the ways we honor them, and in the ways we carry their spirit forward in our own lives.

Grief also connects us to others. It reminds us that we are not alone in our suffering. While the pain may be deeply personal, there is a shared humanity in loss. There is strength in leaning on others, in seeking support, in talking about our grief even when it feels impossible to put into words. Sharing the weight of loss, as difficult as it may be, helps us begin to heal.

And healing doesn’t mean forgetting or moving on. It means learning to live with the absence, finding ways to honor Andrew’s life, and allowing ourselves to feel joy again, even alongside the sorrow.

Grief is messy. It’s raw and real, and it changes us in ways we may not have anticipated. But through it all, there is love. And it’s that love—my love for Andrew—that will carry me throu

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