A befitting life

10/11/2024

A night to remember

10/09/2024

Hi Folks!

My name is Dipa and I am an immigrant. My husband and I moved to Toronto in 2018 and now we live here with our little dog Storm!

I created this account as a creative outlet. All the social media pretty perfection was starting to make me crazy and I wanted to share my messy life in hopes of balancing the odds a little bit to reality's favor. Even though life is messy and sometimes really challenging, there is beauty in it and I strive everyday to find it.

So if you are someone who is trying to like their not-so-perfect life and maybe focus on slower living, maybe you and I can be friends? This account is not meant to inspire, it is only meant to exist as a copanion to your life's journey. Because simple existence is beautiful as well. So sit with me with a warm beverage in your hand and we can exist together.

02/16/2024

Feb 16, 2024 Visiting the Toronto Zoo promises an enriching experience for wildlife enthusiasts of all ages. Tickets can be conveniently purchased online through the official Toronto Zoo website, allowing visitors to plan their excursions seamlessly. Ample parking facilities are available on-site for a hassle-free experience. The zoo hosts various shows and events, providing entertaining and educational opportunities for guests. To stay informed about show schedules and potential cancellations due to unforeseen circumstances, visitors are encouraged to check the official…...

https://abefittinglife.com/toronto-zoo/

02/01/2024

Come visit the Molinaro Ranch in Acton, Ontario for a magical time.

https://abefittinglife.com/the-molinaro-ranch-acton-on/

02/01/2024

1 Feb, 2024 The Molinaro Ranch Molinaro Ranch If you are looking for a quiet weekend getaway with the most awesome amenities within a few hours of Toronto, then this little Airbnb in Acton is my recommendation. The 50-acre ranch hosts several horses(duh!), a cute little donkey named Vanilla, miniature goats, ponies, ducklings galore, swans, sunbathing turtles and hares to name a few of the animals....

01/25/2024

26 Jan , 2024 About Driving to Tobermory from Toronto is like stepping into a picturesque haven of natural beauty and outdoor adventure. Nestled at the northern tip of the Bruce Peninsula, Tobermory is renowned for its crystal-clear turquoise waters, rugged coastline, and diverse marine life. The focal point of the town is the bustling Little Tub Harbor, where you'll find charming shops, restaurants, and boat tours....

01/20/2024

Subject: 30 Days of Slow Living Tips for Your Busy 9-5 Life 🌿

Hello Friends,

I hope this note finds you well! As we navigate the hustle and bustle of our 9-5 lives, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and caught up in the fast-paced world around us. But what if I told you that incorporating slow living into your daily routine could bring more peace, mindfulness, and fulfillment?

For the next 30 days, I'm excited to embark on a journey of sharing one slow living tip each day on Instagram. These tips are designed specifically for those of us with busy 9-5 schedules, offering simple yet transformative practices to infuse a sense of calm and intention into our lives.

🌟 Why Slow Living?
Slow living is about savoring the present moment, making intentional choices, and finding joy in the simplicity of life. It's a gentle reminder that life isn't just about racing to the finish line but relishing the journey along the way.

📅 What to Expect:
Starting Monday(Jan 22, 2024), I'll be posting a daily slow living tip on my Instagram feed. Each tip is carefully curated to fit seamlessly into your 9-5 routine, helping you create pockets of mindfulness and tranquility amidst the daily grind.

👣 How to Join:

Follow me on Instagram:
Keep an eye on my feed every day for the latest slow living tip.
Engage with the community by sharing your experiences and thoughts using the hashtag .

🌿 Sample Tips:

Day 1: Create a morning ritual that sets a positive tone for your day.
Day 7: Practice a digital detox during your lunch break for mental rejuvenation.
Day 15: Introduce a 5-minute mindfulness exercise into your work routine.
Day 30: Reflect on the positive changes you've experienced during this journey.
I believe that by embracing these small changes, we can cultivate a more intentional and fulfilling life, even within the confines of a 9-5 schedule.

Let's embark on this slow living journey together! I look forward to sharing and connecting with you over the next 30 days. Here's to a slower, more mindful way of living.

01/18/2024

A short story about of identity and the silent unraveling of one's mother tongue, once a vibrant cadence that now echoes only in the recesses of a distant past.

18 Jan, 2024 - It always begins slowly. A word here, a phrase there, an emotion that's hard to name, or even a comment that once held personal meaning. That’s how you start to lose your language, your mother tongue....

read more here

01/16/2024

A couple of years ago, I adopted the practice of using a Vision Board. While I can't claim it has brought about miraculous changes in my life, it has certainly heightened my commitment to achieving yearly goals. Having a constant visual reminder on my laptop and phone serves as a motivating prompt, reinforcing the reasons behind my pursuits.

Unlike those who opt for physical vision boards with images from books and magazines, I prefer the digital version. I create versions for my desktops, iPad, laptops, and another tailored for my phone.

Once I've outlined my goals, I dedicate time to scouring the internet, especially platforms like Pinterest, for images and quotes that resonate with my aspirations. I then use Canva to bring it all together in a visually appealing design. My Vision Board primarily outlines broad goals, leaving the detailed plans, tracking, and metrics to be documented in my planner.

If you have used a vision board or plan to use one this year, I would love to hear how it has helped you and see what design choices you made for your board. This is mine for the year 2024!

01/11/2024

11 Jan, 2024 A foodie's guide to Kolkata. Recommendations with a personal touch and a nod to my mother's cooking. Welcome to Foodgasm in Kolkata. Start your day Club Kachori from Gupta brothers - deep fried savoury pastry with spicy potato side. The potato curry is the star of the dish and really makes the dish shine. Chicken sandwich and Mushroom sandwich from…...

A guide to the best food I ate in Kolkata, my hometown when I visited it in November 2023 after 6 long years. Experience foodgasm in Kolkata!

01/04/2024

If you want simple and sustainable tips on how to make the most out of 2024 without having to reinvent the wheel, let me show you my tips and tricks. This is something that I personally use and while it's not something that is fancy, it is practical.
This process helps me make real progress with my:
Finances
Career
Personal
Creative

Head over to my Blog Post to learn more...

https://abefittinglife.com/new-year-not-so-new-me/

01/04/2024

Jan 4, 2024 Much has been said about the 'New Year, New Me' trend. We have gone through the pros, cons, grey areas, and more. While I understand the appeal, in reality, a 'New Year, New Me' philosophy does not do much for me. Yes, I do get a mental boost when I think 2023 is over and some random cosmic changes would mean 2024 will be better for all of us....

12/28/2023

https://abefittinglife.com/thats-a-wrap-for-2023/

Dec 28, 2023 2023 unfolded as a captivating chapter in our lives. In the midst of grappling with global conflicts, economic uncertainties, supply-chain disruptions, and various challenges, we also experienced profound personal sorrows and heartaches. This year rigorously tested our physical and mental resilience like never before. As we navigate the aftermath, it's undeniable that 2023 brought forth its share of positive moments....

To read more, click on the following link to go to my blog post
https://abefittinglife.com/thats-a-wrap-for-2023/

12/28/2023

Misty Musings

Toronto has been shrouded in mist the last couple of days. Fog wraps everything in a soft mystery, turning everyday scenes into a magical blur. It's like nature's gentle secret, where things appear and disappear in a quiet, misty dance. Even though there is a dreamy quality about fog, there is also a sinister aspect of it. To me, any foggy evening immediately reminds me of 'The Hound of the Baskervilles' and the author's masterful imagery about the fog "over the great Grimpen Mire'.

"The steps grew louder, and through the fog, as through a curtain, there stepped the man whom we were awaiting."
- The Hound of the Baskervilles By Arthur Conan Doyle

Seems like the opportune moment for me to delve back into the adventures of my beloved detective.