The Esteemed Life with Bolanle

07/16/2024

▪︎ Attitude is a choice.

▪︎ Happiness is a choice.

▪︎ Optimism is a choice.

▪︎ Kindness is a choice.

▪︎ Giving is a choice.

▪︎ Respect is a choice.

▪︎ Whatever choice you make makes you.

Choose Empathy... Choose wisely.❗️

Have a pleasant week💕👌

07/13/2024

To reconnect with your inner self means to be bold, and ready to show up in a BIG way, even when others may not understand, validate or approve of your lifestyle.

💥This video is a gentle reminder for you, to know that: it is OKAY to be bold and take up spaces. You do not need anyone's permission to live your true and authentic life.

YOU represents something even bigger: owning your own presence and being unapologetically yourself.✨

For too long I hid in the background of my own life.
Trying to please everyone around me, and in the process, shrinking myself.
Until one day, I decided that I was meant for so much more. 💖

💯 I say it loud and clear, from this moment on, No more hiding! I will honor my TRUTH and make IMPACT📌

💢PLEASE DO NOT DIM YOUR GOD's GIVEN LIGHT, AND TALENTS TO FIT INTO THE BOX THE WORLD HAS CREATED FOR YOU! RECLAIM YOUR POWER BACK, FULFILL YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE...THE WORLD WILL ADJUST AND CELEBRATE YOUR UNIQUENESS!

Each and every one of you has unique gifts and talents to offer the world, and it's up to YOU and only YOU to use them boldly and fearlessly.

Don't be afraid to heal from your past pain, stand out, take risks, and shine your light bright like a diamond for all to see.☀️

The world needs your brilliance, your creativity, and your unique perspectives. So, embrace your boldness, embrace your healing journey and create a world that is full of authenticity, courage, and possibility. 🙌🏾

▪︎Be phenomenal, be you!

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10/09/2023

How can you be grateful when you’ve lost your job, your health, or a loved one?

Listen, do not look at what you’ve lost, but what you have. And you have an awful lot left.

You’re alive, for one good reason and that is priceless!

So the question is: What are you taking for granted? Your health? Your freedom? Your relationships? Your opportunities?

There is an old song that says, “Count your blessings, name them one by one.” We need to do that often. We need to make lists of what we are thankful for: our families, our friends, our successes, and whatever other reasons we are thankful.

When times are tough, that’s when you need to be reminded of everything God has given you.

Becoming a truly grateful person can be the healthiest change you make in your life all year long, better than any diet or exercise plan you start on.

📍Reflect on:

1 Thessalonians 5:18 NLT

“In everything give thanks; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. ”

Happy Thanksgiving to you all 🇨🇦 🍁 🇨🇦

10/08/2023

“The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today.”

Believing in yourself can be challenging when everyone else around you doubts your abilities. Still, it's important to remember that no one else knows what you are capable of doing better than yourself.

If you have a dream or goal, don't let someone else's negativity stop you from achieving it! Be willing to take risks and try new things. Don't let fear hold you back from attempting something just because it might not work out on the first attempt.

Failure is an opportunity for growth: learn from each failure so that next time around, there will be no room for mistakes!

Have a productive new week!

09/22/2023

▪︎ Attitude is a choice.

▪︎ Happiness is a choice.

▪︎ Optimism is a choice.

▪︎ Kindness is a choice.

▪︎ Giving is a choice.

▪︎ Respect is a choice.

▪︎ Whatever choice you make makes you.

Choose Empathy... Choose wisely.❗️

Have a pleasant weekend 💕👌

09/13/2023

Diversity and individuality enable every person on earth to truly be one-of-a-kind. It's extraordinary to think that out of the billions of people who inhabit the planet, there's only one you!

When you embrace your individuality, you have the freedom to explore your passions, values, and interests.

This self-discovery journey has helped me to understand my strengths and weaknesses, enabling personal growth and development.

By being true to ourselves, we create an inner harmony that radiates through our actions, relationships, and achievements.

▪︎ This is your reminder for today: CELEBRATE YOUR UNIQUENESS 📌

09/10/2023

Let go of who you thought you should have been. Fall in love with who you are today.

The only thing that has power is this present moment... So be here now!

Have a pleasant week 🥰

08/24/2023

Life’s true gift and treasures lie in your freedom to design it beautifully. With each rise of the sun, you get to chase the opportunity to fill your days with meaning to live your life the way you choose.

“My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.” —Maya Angelou📌

08/07/2023

TENACITY IS THE REASON I CAN CELEBRATE MY STORY TODAY. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!

Tenacity is a fierce blend of determination, persistence, and grit, and I can boldly say: that describes my personality and life.

My birthday anniversary today, is a moment to reflect, & share my joy and gratitude, and I am grateful for how far I have come and my commitment to keep growing no matter the challenges that may arise.

Some of you have had a tough year. You’ve endured your share of criticism, rejections, unfair treatment, judgment, toxic work environment, and unprofessional supervisors that never acknowledge your good job performance. Maybe you’ve even lost a job, or maybe you’re going through a rough patch in your relationships.

This is to encourage you all that Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth. Greatness lies within you, and your value has no limits.

Know your worth. You definitely deserve better, and you are enough! You must find the courage to leave the table if respect is no longer being served.

As for me, i continue to look forward, building my resilience while i remind myself to humbly celebrate myself every day.

📍Note that: Great opportunities and possibilities lie ahead, and do away with your limiting mindset. Learn from the past, embrace your true & authentic self, live the life of your dreams in abundance, be open to learning, live in the present, and always look forward to the bright future ✨️

📍My life is a testimony of God's divine grace and audacious victory ✌️

Happy birthday to me, I celebrate myself, my achievements, growth, my unrelenting quest for success and tenacity 📌

08/01/2023

God has created you to be a victor, not a victim. Be rest assured in God's promises for your life, and expect great manifestation of God's grace.

In life, some moments mark the beginning of a new chapter, a chance to turn the page, an opportunity for a 'RESET' Just like every new month or new events of our lives is a guiding light, reminding us that every ending paves the way for a remarkable new beginning.

Isaiah 43:18-19 King James Version (KJV)

Remember, ye not the former things, neither consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.

“Every day is a new beginning. Treat it that way. Stay away from what might have been, and look at what can be.”

Have a blessed month of August!

07/28/2023

It's a Hot 🔥 Friday! Let's view this beautiful side of life together ❤️

Did you say AMEN, to my prayers?

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07/26/2023

There is no "one-size-fits-all" approach to life.

Everyone plays life cards differently, and your journey will never be the exact journey as someone else’s. What works for one may not work for another, and you know what, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that📌

Despite your age, I believe that by default and unconsciously, we compare our timeline to others. We look at the milestones that family or friends have accomplished, We may compare job status, relationship status, family status, and life opportunities. This list could go on and on.

Social media platforms like Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook bombard us with posts about what we lack. These apps are comparison traps that encourage us to question aspects of our own lives.

It’s easy to forget that social media is a highlight reel of other people’s lives. We see their best moments but don’t usually witness their struggles.

No one truly knows what’s happening behind the scenes in someone else’s life. Everyone is facing their own struggle

No matter the situation, we should be conscious of walking our own walk regardless of the pace of others.

our individual paths taken through life should not be a replica of others. Those in front of us are to set examples, but they are not the blueprint for a successful life. We can follow the paths of others, but you can still walk your own walk on that same path.

📍Know this👉🏿 comparison raises nonessential stress and dissatisfaction with yourself.

I invite you to practice walking your own walk through life. When you see people on their own path, smile, wave, celebrate them, then continue walking forward on your own journey.

07/25/2023

Life at the lake, Ducks and exploration...

07/19/2023

Life can be stressful and we may lose that connection with ourselves. We can easily forget who we are, what we’re capable of, and what we deserve.

It’s not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority. It’s necessary!

For me, I am at a place in my life where my peace of mind is a priority, I make deliberate life choices to protect my mental health and personal space. It took me a long time to come to this reality...it's indeed a process!

I don't know about you but i will suggest you find happiness in the little things and events of life, don't lose sight of the bigger picture, let go of the worries about every other things, but put yourself first and stay connected with yourself, allow yourself to at least feel your own pulse✨️

Today, this is your reminder to prioritize your selfcare needs, preserve your energy, avoid unnecessary life dramas and respect yourself enough to walk away from everything that violates your values 💯

Cheers 🥂🥂🥂

07/18/2023

You may be going through somethings and you do not understand WHY!

Trust God to work them out for your good.

Something will grow from all you are going through and it may be YOU. So be gentle with yourself, and know that all these pain and suffering you are enduring now, is a catalyst for growth.

Note that, from the moment you choose to be true to yourself, when you truly love yourself for who you are (even when you’re not at your best), and when you’re willing to change and grow, your life will only get better.

07/15/2023

Downsview merchant farmers market, Toronto Ontario

07/12/2023

Sunset in Newmarket, and a short visit to Magnan community center

07/11/2023

Every moment of life is a defining moment ✨️

07/02/2023

All good things come to those who wait. This is definitely my season of great harvesting💃💃💃

When we surrender to His timing, He does mighty things in and for us, according to His will and His timing. God acts on behalf of those who wait for Him.

May this month of July yield forth good tidings, may we all have good reasons to celebrate and testify to God's awesome love and grace🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

Happy New Month to you!

07/01/2023

Canada Day celebration at fairy lake, Newmarket Ontario 🇨🇦 🍁 We are outside ooo💃💃💃

07/01/2023

Every relationship will experience conflict. There will be disagreements and arguments that may be toxic or unhealthy for our relationships.

The best skill that everyone needs to master is CONFLICT RESOLUTION SKILLS. These skills are useful in every human interaction, be it in your professional, business, or intimate interactions.

The fact is humans are wired differently. Our perspectives, mindset, and beliefs differ. Therefore, there will be moments of disagreement and conflict. The big question, however, is HOW DO WE RESOLVE CONFLICT IN OUR RELATIONSHIPS?

In this video (link below), I shared explicit tips that will help us resolve conflict and rebuild a healthy, non-toxic relationship.

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Every relationship will experience conflict. There will be disagreements and arguments that may be toxic or unhealthy for our relationships.The best skill th...

06/29/2023

Life happens, and we all will experience being rejected one way or the other. Your experiences of rejection should not make you feel dejected!

Separate what happened to you from who you truly are. Your rejection experience shouldn't define You. In this video, I shared practical tips to deal or cope with the feeling of rejection.

Rejection is sometimes a redirection for something better ahead. Look back and appreciate how far you have come. Give yourself credit for all the efforts you have put forward and the risks you have taken so far. Reflect on the lessons you have learned from your experience of rejection and be hopeful for the future wins 🏆

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06/07/2023

Peter McWilliams once said, “Comfort zones are most often expanded through discomfort.
Discomfort is a catalyst for growth. It makes you yearn for something more. It forces you to change, stretch, and adapt.

The secret to success lies in the very thing you’re avoiding. Those things that seem to break you down and humble your spirit.

👉🏿Seek out discomfort. Be deliberate about doing things that push your limits magnificently. Difficulty helps you to grow.

■ Jerry Dunn once said, “Don’t limit your challenges; challenge your limits.”📌

Challenge your mind — even make it a little uncomfortable by pushing yourself to learn new tasks that may not come naturally. Most things seem impossible until they are done.

Give yourself permission to think and act beyond the usual. Stepping up when it’s annoying or painful or draining builds character.

Be good at making time for what matters to you — especially when you don’t feel like it.

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06/06/2023

“Never bend your head. Always hold it high. Look the world straight in the eye.”

📍The truth is nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.

📍Your life is a sequence of opportunities and possibilities. You have inspiring stories to tell and gifts to share with the world, and We are all uniquely gifted. Your gifts or potentials are not for you to keep to yourself but to share with the world.

● Start where you are, with what you have, and make a great difference.

The world awaits your impacts📌

🎤

06/05/2023

Sometimes, you turn back. Sometimes, you walk away. And sometimes, you find the place you're meant to be, and you stay there. You find a way to make it work. Whatever it takes.

Our fate is determined by how far we are prepared to push ourselves to stay alive - the decisions we make to survive. We must do whatever it takes to endure and make it through alive.

Have a productive week, guys!

05/10/2023

Just a quick reminder...YOU ARE ENOUGH! STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF. Commit to take action, and full responsibility of your life, dreams and vision.

You do not need the validations from others, believe in yourself, refocus, and unleash your innate potentials.

GOD HAS GIVEN YOU ALL IT TAKES...GO FORTH AND MANIFEST YOUR GIFTS📌📌📌

05/10/2023

The first step toward creating an improved future is developing the ability to envision it. VISION will ignite the fire of passion that fuels our commitment to do WHATEVER IT TAKES to achieve excellence.

Only VISION allows us to transform dreams of greatness into the reality of achievement through human action. VISION has no boundaries and knows no limits. Our VISION is what we become in life.

Sometimes, you turn back. Sometimes, you walk away. And sometimes, you find the place you're meant to be, and you stay there. You find a way to make it work. Whatever it takes.

You should always have the "Be Unstoppable" mindset because you are changing so many lives with what you do.

05/09/2023

You may think the grass is greener on the other side. But if you take the time to water your own grass, it would be just as green.

Don't concern yourself with things that don't concern you. If it's not your business, don't make it your burden. When you mind your business, life is way less stressful.

Minding your own business will take you very far in life. Do what you do and be yourself.

Don't worry about what other people say. When you worry too much about what others think, you leave little to no room to be yourself.

Oya, go and Drink water and mind your business 😌 😁

05/07/2023

God is speaking to us…are we listening?

Your heart is clustered. You are mostly deflated and distracted. Even the world is too noisy, polluted, and fast-paced. But, in the midst of all this noise, God is steady. His words are true and alive.

God is speaking to you, but the question is: Are you listening?
God speaks through people, things even through the things you consider to be foolish since God's way of reasoning is in accord with things of the spirit, it confounds the reasoning of this world. It is wiser than human reasoning because spiritual things are wiser than carnal ones.

This new week, i encourage you to take a pause and create quiet time to commune with your creator consistently admist the noise.

As we all learn to hear the voice of our Father in heaven, may we walk by faith and not by sight. May we move through life with confidence📌📌📌