08/04/2023
Nigerian men, we need to do better.
I gave this amazing woman 5 out of 100 simply because she didn't have a big yansh. When I don't even have an income, foresight or respect to bring to the table. A lot of men in this world would kill for a woman with half her qualities. She is kind, intelligent, beautiful and financially independent. Truth is, I personally don't have much to offer a woman like her at this point in my life so maybe I was projecting onto her my own insecurities. Because out of 100 yansh can't possible be valued at 95 and all those other great qualities at only 5. When I watched this video back later I realized how rediculous that is.
A woman just like her took care of me since birth and never gave up on me even when everybody else did and she could have too. The people that continue to see my potential and give me opportunities in life today just out of the kindness of their hearts are women, African women, my mothers, my sisters, women just like this lady. The size of their breast or yansh has nothing to do with the size of their hearts and kindness towards me. Thats what truly matters in life. So whatever my spec might be today I should have been kinder and more respectful to this lady and I'm sorry I wasn't. This is not how we treat others. Always lead with kindness and respect.
"So whatever you wish others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the law of the prophets."_Matthew 7:12
"When you are kind to others, it not only changes you, it changes the world."_Harold Kushner
"If somebody is nasty or treats you poorly, don't take it personally. It says nothing about you but a lot about them."_Michael Josephson