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02/09/2024

Family Moments.
Creating memories together.

NATURE Walk is something our family enjoys doing.

21/08/2024

# 69 DON'T MAJOR IN MINOR THINGS💯
Don’t make every little thing such a big deal when it comes to your marriage.

There is a popular saying, When you do that, you are majoring in the minors. In other words don’t go around nitpicking at the things that don’t matter. Focus on the bigger picture; if it includes a problem then coming up with a solution.

When you spend your quality time focusing on minor things it can become aggravating for your spouse while simultaneously aggravating yourself too.

Letting go of small grievances( in most cases include your spouses habits that can be changed with right structure or disciplines implemented) and prioritizing love, respect, and communication , will allow you and your beloved to build a stronger, more resilient relationship.

Exerpt from the Book 100 Other Ways To Stay Married by Racquel Domonique

17/08/2024

12/08/2024

FIRST DAY in the 11th GRADE

The last High Schooler of our Quiver is a HS Junior and a College Junior too!!!! Yikes....

Blessings to a productive year to her and to everyone during the school year. 🙏🏾🙌🏿

12/08/2024

Stay OBEDIENT

Obedience comes from the root word "Obey" which according to one meaning is to act or behave according to a rule, law or instruction.

When asked recently what keys to give for a resilient marriage? Out of the many, this was the first one that came to mind:

Be obedient to the LORD and you will undoubtedly be faithful to your beloved.

So what does obedience look like?
What does it feel like?
How do you apply obedience to your marriage?

First of all, let us get somethings clear: it is important to comprehend that marriage comes with instructions by The ONE who initiated and instituted - our Creator.

However, husbands and wives, create rules within the confines of their marriage space and then there are laws that govern marriage based on the stste, country or society you live in.

Some of the vital instructions include:
1. Wives submit to husbands
2. Husbands "love" your wife
3. Do not commit adultery (infidelity)
4. Esteem each other more than yourself.
5. Be patient and considerate
6. Your marriage should be honorable, etc.

WHAT DOES IT LOOK LIKE: Obedience is like this.. no matter what may happen, you don't come up with your own reasoning; but will remain true to 'the instructions'- from the onset given for marriage.

WHAT DOES IT FEEL LIKE:
Joyful. Contented. Fulfilled. Thankful. Peaceful. United. Fruitful. Loved. Appreciated, etc.

APPLY: be intentional about learning, comprehending and working daily on 'the instructions' for your union.

See you at the top!

09/08/2024

This week we celebrated our younger son's 18th earthstrong.... being thankful for LIFE and the abundance His Majesty has afforded him.

15/07/2024

One of the highest positions to occupy in life is to "serve" others and our communities. We are thankful for the opportunity to serve with the Family Life Team at our home church. Our prayer is that the Lord will empower us as we 'die daily to self' so that His glory will be magnified.

12/07/2024

COUPLE H I G H L I G H T🥰❤️

Meet the Archers
Chester and Zarmina

We love to see couples "LIVING MARRIAGE IN COLORS"- doing the marriage journey and "making their together forever an ongoing adventure".

See you at the top

08/07/2024

LOVE Has Character!
[Exerpts from the upcoming book]

Time is the master and the Master of time is the Creator of Time.

To truly comprehend the many facets of marriage, you have to take a deep study into the process behind marriage. Marriage can be mysterious at times and just when you think you got it, then you uncover something else.

Marriage won't work and you won't enjoy and experience its applications and extensive benefits unless you fully emerse yourself into its concepts.

Time displays the true value and nature of LOVE when you are married. LOVE needs both commitment and equal consideration, plus an invitation and acceptance inorder to exist in a union of two imperfect people professing to be "in love".

If you vibe on the faith flex then know that LOVE Loves at all times. By its nature and very character:
Love is not easily provoked. This means [ in part] that LOVE slows down anger. Even when your spouse violates your rights or space.

This is just one of the many charcter traits of LOVE. When you master this concept to the point where it becomes your nature, then naturally you will begin to experience the true effects of what it means to be "in LOVE".

For the sake of marriage, see you at the top.

07/07/2024

25/06/2024

It would be Selfish to think that our marriage is only "for us".

We know you thought (like we did some years back) that your marriage was just for you and your spouse, right?

We are under a misconception as married folks that our marriages are to ONLY serve us. To a great degree yes! To the remainder, it can be construed as being selfish.

Once you comprehend the assignment and "work daily" to fulfill it, then the excitement, the adventure, the fun, the sexual intimacy, the "you still give me butterflies in my stomach" feeling🥰, etc.. becomes neverending. That's your reward for placing your spouse and yourself in a position to be a model to motivate, encourage and "sharpen" others and "your next gen" - becuase your children and grandchildren are watching- to the highest level in the marriage space!

Not quantity [in number of years married]
But Quality of the marriage journey.

If you vibe on the Faith Flex, then you know, "Iron sharpens Iron"...one author says, wise [people should be questioning, encouraging, coaching, and challenging each other" so we can move each other to a higher place.

Once upon a time😄, we came upon a quote:
"I want a marriage that makes my kids want to get married".

Thats the end goal, a marriage that serves as an example of His Majesty's love between two imperfect people who despite any odds, understand and believe in the substance that propells the union, and follows HIS directives so that the beauty they come to experience reaches the 3rd and 4th generation.

Let your marriage be one that exemplifies the true nature of Yahweh's character.

For the love of marriage
See you at the top.

24/06/2024

20/06/2024

She [wife] doesn't make me happy! 💁🏾‍♂️

With all due respects sir, [husband] you do not make me happy either!🤷🏾‍♀️

The truth is we now comprehend that JOYFULNESS was already present in both of us when we met some almost 3 decades ago so we don't need each other to be happy.

However we do "full-joy" the fact that when our joy [or happiness] comes together "As ONE" we become powerful together within that space.

We have learned that If you really want to comprehend relationship and marriage you have to learn to think deep!

In your marriage, you may choose to rely on your partner for happiness [which is fleeting]; but you can probably guess what happens when your spouse chooses not to be happy in a moment for whatever reason, right?

You have to find your own [individual] happiness first and then happiness will keep finding you. The reason why you are probably miserable in marriage is because you are relying on outward source to fulfil an inate need or desire. Greater is He that is in you....

You have to learn what it takes to be happy and apply it [ whatever "it" is] on a consistent basis. You have to create happiness.

On the other hand being joyful is a state of being. So if you are joyful then joyfulness will be attracted to you. If you vibrate on the Faith Flex then you know JOY is a fruit of the Spirit and spirits connect with each other.

For the love of marriage
See you at the top.

16/06/2024

Happiest Fathers Day to ALL the Fathers out there! WE APPRECIATE YOUR DEDICATION AND COMMITMENT.

and

BIG UPS🙏🏾🙌🏿 to "The Priest " of our Family .... Our Home!
Moving us daily in greatness under The LORD's grace and divine guidance!

16/06/2024

Today We give Special Recognition to one of "The Originals".

He accepted the assignment of fatherhood at a young age.
He never wavered!
He was "Too Legit To Quit"
We love you Dad!
We love you GrandPa

If you vibe on the Faith Flex then meditate on this: Proverbs 17:6 speaks of "Children's children are the crown of the grandfather, and the glory of children are their fathers".

When a family seeks God, EACH generation can look to others with joy and satisfaction, and that family life is blessed when children make their parents and grandparents rejoice.

12/06/2024

Was it all for Show?

When we decided to marry at age 22 and 25, we really were not sure what we were getting into except that we were being obedient to "The Spirit" and got engaged in a covenant promise.

Old time Jamaicans use to say" mi spirit tell mi seh...🤣🇯🇲". This means that the conscious mind moves them into action to make a good choice or decision.

If you vibrate on the Faith Flex then meditate on, "let this mind [the same mind we talk about] be in you that is also in Christ Jesus."

We were obedient to the Spirit. Be obedient.

We are engaged in a promise. You should seek out that promise. A lot of folks are married but haven't engaged in "the promise". The promiseis like a compass. It keeps you focused and provides direction... a guide to collect all the treasures of goodness you are to receive along the journey. The Creator of the promise looked at all He had created and said "it is good."

We stayed committed to the promise and became each others accountability partner. Stay committed to the promise. Hold each other accountable.

It may look like everything is going smoothly but it doesnt always. However, with Jesus in the vessel.. we smile at most of the storms.

For the love of Marriage
See you at the top

02/06/2024

Photobook.
Congratulations to our Son and Thirdborn. .

Children are a heritage of the Lord. As ours are moving more out of childhood and into adulthood we pray for a smoothe transition..for not just ours but your too.

Remember, they may not know exactly what they really want to do, so be patient and understanding and be careful not to be too hard on them as they are assimilating themselves into "grown up" world.

02/06/2024

Family Shenanigans.

Saturday Night S'mores.

It's the little things....that one day become the big things.

12/05/2024

Happiest MOTHERS Day to all the beautiful Mothers Out there!

Starting out the day with "The One" who was very instrumental behind "the process" ..making me a Momma🥰

Love and Nature🌊🏖

10/05/2024

FAMILY FIRST Friday
Family is the Fundamental structure of society.

It all started with The Creator bringing 2 people together.
"Be Fruitful and Multiply and "replenish".

"Don't be too busy growing up that you forget your parents are growing up too"

Have a better than amazing Friday!



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09/05/2024

Go on a quick J A U N T with us:
We love wedding Anniversaries and Family Reunions. It helps us to get away. Every relationship needs that break. Every family needs that break.

Create Memories so that when you need a mental break you can get away back "to location"

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28/04/2024

LOVE and Nature
Sunday Mornings
Sungazing

28/04/2024

Beach BABES 🌊🏖
Checking out the Sunrise.

18/04/2024

Initially When the souls of TWO [you and your spouse) are connected [become one] know that it starts with LOVE; but there is an "in between".

Thats why you have to ensure you add this one tool to the Marriage ToolBox-

P A T I E N C E.

The journey is long - SWEET and maybe a little sour at times ... so be prepared. Somedays she is going to try your patience and some days you are going to try hers fellas.. ladies, the same goes for you too- BUT in the end LOVE Wins if you are equipped!

For the love of marriage
See you at the top.

11/04/2024

How does faith in a Supreme being with Supreme principles and Supreme rewards for yiur marriage has to do with your Marriage?

Well so many things!!!! For starters... reapecting the laws of the journey:
🟡Husbands LOVE your wives.
- if you vibrate on the Faith Flex then, you know Love is patient, kind, not easily provoked, does not boast, is not unkind, etc.. - not that it is always that way.... but when you are rooted in faith... thats what it is supppose to be.
🟢Wives, submit to husbands... seems harsh.. but when the husband does what he is suppose to do then submitting becomes seemless 🙃. ..that's not even half of the beauty of flexing your faith in your marriage.

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