Alla Tormey

Time to get unstuck. Maybe it’s that nagging feeling like life isn’t quite clicking. Like you’re doing all the “right” things, yet somehow, your relationships—or lack of them—still feel off. Time to uncover the hidden dynamics that keep showing up. Why do the same patterns repeat, no matter how much work you’ve done on yourself? Why does it feel like the universe keeps serving up lessons on repeat? (Looking at you, Saturn return survivors!) Time to realign your relationships with who you are now. Because let’s be real: you’re not the same person you were five—or even two—years ago. Life has shifted. You’ve shifted. But are your relationships evolving with you? This is for the people who feel like they’re standing at a crossroads: Still attached to who you thought you were supposed to be. Ready to step into the clarity and confidence of who you actually are. It’s time to make a choice: stay in the loop of what’s not working—or break free and move forward. 💬 DM me Xray to explore how your relationships—and your life—can transform with the clarity you’ve been searching for. #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #RelationshipHealing #PersonalTransformation #SelfDiscovery #Unstuck #SelfAwareness

What Are You Letting Go of in 2025? 2024 is almost over, let’s face it—some of the sht we’ve been holding onto? BYE. Let’s make room for what actually matters, shall we? Here’s your "Stop Giving a F**" list for 2025: 1️⃣ Fortune obsession: The Wheel turns, babe. Stop clinging to the highs or lows—it’s all a cycle. 2️⃣ Fake emperors and fear of failure: Trying to impress the wrong crowd? Exhausting. Let them crown themselves king of their own BS. 3️⃣ Limiting beliefs: You’re not stuck. You’re not "half-baked." You’re cooking up something major—be patient with the process. 4️⃣ Emotional manipulation: No more falling for sob stories or letting other people's drama derail you. Keep your energy sacred. 5️⃣ Juggling everything: Pick your focus, protect your peace, and drop the balls that don’t matter. 💡 Pro Tip: Where your focus goes, your energy flows. Pick your battles wisely in 2025, and laugh a lot more while you’re at it. ✨ Ready to go deeper? Let’s X-ray your relationships. My Relationship Xray gives you personalized insights into the hidden dynamics holding you back in love (and life), plus the tools to break free of toxic patterns for good. 👉 DM me 'Xray' for the link. And while you're at it, make sure to follow @allatormey for more cosmic chaos, spicy tarot takes, and zero-fluff spiritual insights. 🎯 💭 What are YOU done giving a f* about next year? Drop it in the comments—I wanna hear your 2025 glow-up plans. 🌟 #RelationshipXray #2025Goals #StopGivingAF #LettingGo #PersonalGrowth #SelfMastery #AstrologyAndTarot #AllaTormey #TarotReading #ShadowWork

Why do I feel like I’m never fully seen or understood? It’s that quiet ache—wondering why no one truly gets you. Maybe you’ve told yourself, “I just haven’t met the right person yet.” But here’s the truth: feeling unseen doesn’t start with them—it starts with you. When you don’t fully understand or embrace yourself, it becomes harder for others to truly see the real you. Are you clear on who you are and what you need in love? Are you showing up authentically, or as the version you think others want to see? This is where the Relationship Xray and Tarot Immersion come in. Together, they’re your cosmic compass and finely tuned frequency, guiding you to clarity and connection. The Relationship Xray reveals: The patterns behind your insecurities Why you feel unseen—and how to shift that How to align with love that truly honors you The Tarot Immersion is a deeper, tailored experience: Over three days, I create a telepathic link, like tuning into your unique frequency I connect to the planetary grid to bring precision and depth to your reading You’ll receive a voice message, photos of your spread, and three days of post-reading integration This isn’t just about answers—it’s about transformation. Together, we uncover what’s hidden, empower you to own your worth, and help you align with love that truly sees you. DM me XRAY or click the link in bio to grab the Relationship Xray at 50% off. Add the Tarot Immersion to dive even deeper into your truth. Follow @allatormey for soulful clarity, cosmic insights, and tools to create the love life you deserve. #TarotReading #AstrologyInsight #RelationshipHealing #RelationshipXray #TarotImmersion #SelfWorth #HealingJourney #ClarityInLove #AstrologyReading #SelfDiscovery

Imagine this: A quiet moment suspended in time, high above the city, laughter filling the air as the world spins below. Not good, not bad—just alive. That’s me and @irina.nigay on our first (and hopefully not last) trip together. 🎡 Every moment we live is neutral at its core. It’s us—our thoughts, our feelings, our stories—that bring it to life, coloring it with joy, sorrow, or something else entirely. And the same is true of our relationships. Relationships, like moments, aren’t broken or perfect. They’re invitations—opportunities to grow, to heal, to see ourselves from a new perspective. This trip reminds me: life isn’t about chasing “better” moments; it’s about showing up fully for the ones you have. Irina flew in to see me, and all we had to do was be present for each other, knowing new stories were waiting for us both. Years later, we’re living in separate worlds, but those moments stay with us, shaping who we’ve become. Because even when you let something go, it never really leaves. It’s part of you forever. And that’s the beauty of relationships: they don’t define you—they help you define yourself. The question is, what story will you write with them? ✨ If you’re ready to rewrite the story of your love life and see yourself—and your relationships—through a brand-new lens, the Relationship Xray is here. DM me XRAY for more details and grab it at 50% off. Because every moment, every connection, is unique—and the way you color it? That’s all you. 💫

✨ Before I Learned to Read Between the Lines ✨ Before I became an astrologer and guide for soulful seekers, I was just a little girl with big dreams… AND a lot of fear. I grew up in 90s Russia, where chaos was the norm. There was no safe space to dream, let alone play. Sunset always came too early, the cold pressed in, and we stayed inside, watching life pass by. But somehowI knew there was something else out there—a world far away, warm and upside-down. How did I even know it existed? It was my soul calling. In 2006, I moved to Australia with zero emotional support. Sure, the money was there, but there were other needs I craved, needs that weren’t met. Still, I’m deeply grateful to my parents for helping me the way they could, ensuring I never had to worry about finances. But clarity? Connection? I had to find those on my own. My dark night of the soul in 2013 cracked me open. I was surrounded by people who reflected everything I didn’t want, leaving me questioning: Was I too idealistic? Too much? Too little? But in that space of doubt, I turned inward and found the unseen—prayer, connection, Christ consciousness. Slowly, I pieced myself back together. And then I found astrology. At first, it wasn’t serious—it was just a curiosity. But soon, it became something far bigger: a new way to tell stories. I’d always been a storyteller, first as a filmmaker, unearthing unseen narratives, and now as an astrologer, illuminating lives in colors people never knew existed. Today, I’m deeply grateful for the chaos that shaped me. And while being an empath can be exhausting, I never tire of helping others feel more, see more, and know more about themselves. Life is counterintuitive, and the trip can be wild—but the keys to the journey are always in your hands. I help people rewrite their narratives, deepen their relationships, and create lives brimming with purpose and connection. Sometimes, we have to get a little lost to be found. Trust me—i

Attention to all bold souls seeking true connection! The Myth-Busting Edition is here, hehe =) Myth #1: "Astrology and tarot are just vague and generic." Reality check: The Relationship Xray isn’t about cookie-cutter insights. It’s a tailored deep dive into your chart and your unique relationship dynamics. Think of it as your personal blueprint, uncovering what makes you tick in love, why patterns keep showing up, and how to break free from them. Specific, strategic, and soulful—this isn’t your daily horoscope fluff. Myth #2: "It’s just about finding ‘The One.’" Nope! This isn’t about chasing some fairytale prince or princess. It’s about you—your self-worth, your patterns, and your relationship ideals. The Xray helps you get clear on what fulfills you, so whether you’re single, partnered, or it’s complicated, you’re making choices that truly align with your highest self. Myth #3: "Only people with relationship problems need this." False! Whether you're feeling stuck, want to deepen an already amazing connection, or just love learning about yourself, the Relationship Xray gives you tools to evolve. Love isn’t just about solving problems—it’s about creating a life that feels expansive and full of possibilities. Myth #4: "This is woo-woo and impractical." LOL, as if. The Relationship Xray combines astrology, tarot, and grounded strategy. It’s not about wishful thinking; it’s about actionable insights. You’ll leave with clarity, timing, and a practical roadmap to build the connections you want—within yourself and with others. Myth #5: "I’ll have to wait forever to see results." The Xray isn’t about dangling vague promises. You’ll walk away with specific answers and a timeline of key opportunities for transformation. It’s about aligning with your rhythm so you can take empowered steps—right now. Comment below XRAY and let's get this ball rolling!

✨ To the ones who are tired of feeling stuck and ready to rewrite their story… ✨ Trust me, I get it — you’ve been through an epic, soul-stretching ride. But what if I told you it doesn’t have to be this hard anymore? 💔 Not-it relationships. 💭 Self-doubt and endless overthinking. ❌ Feeling like you’re stuck in the same patterns, no matter how much you try to shift. It doesn’t have to be this way. 🌟 The Relationship Xray is here to help you: - Break free from those cycles for good. - Find clarity in your relationships and within yourself. - Discover the timing to align with deep, fulfilling love. This is your invitation to finally step into the life and relationships you deserve. I’ve been through it too: messy relationships, self-doubt, and the constant search for clarity. And I found my way to the other side. Now, I help others do the same. 📩 DM me “Xray” to book your session today. Let’s make this the turning point you’ve been waiting for. Your transformation is here. You ready? #RelationshipClarity #HealAndThrive #AstrologyAndTarot #CosmicGuidance #RelationshipBreakthrough #DeepHealing #EvolutionaryAstrology #AuthenticConnections #RewriteYourStory

📖 Your Love Life: A Mystery Novel Missing Some Chapters? Some chapters are stolen. (Book thieves, am I right?) But the Relationship Xray is here to uncover the truth and solve the mystery. 🔍 Here’s how it works: I - Natal Chart Dive: We explore your cosmic fingerprint—the unique blueprint you were born with. This reveals your patterns, karmic lessons, and the timing of key events. Yes, the stars do have receipts. II - Tarot Immersion: A three-day deep dive into your energy and the hidden dynamics around you. Together, we untangle the knots, solve the problem, and bring you back into alignment. ✨ It’s not just about what’s wrong—it’s about how to fix it and live in flow with your authentic self. Ready to find clarity, align with your truth, and create the love story you deserve? 💬 Drop a comment or DM me XRAY. Let’s rewrite your love story before the year ends. 🔥 50% off until January 1st! Don’t wait—your clarity is just one decision away. #RelationshipXray #AstrologyAndTarot #FindClarity #LoveAlignment #CosmicBlueprint #KarmicLessons #HealingJourney #SelfDiscovery #AstrologyReading #TarotWisdom #RelationshipHealing #RealWorldMagic #TransformationJourney

The Devil Card moment. 2018 was one of those years that felt like a blank page, but not in the fresh-start kind of way. I was lost. Years of sh*tty relationships had left me running—not just from others but from myself. Running from the thoughts that haunted me, from the feeling of how did I let it get this bad? I remember pulling the Devil card from my tarot deck again and again. At the time, I couldn’t see the full picture. It was just heavy—so heavy. But when I finally started asking the right questions and diving into the real work, the patterns became clearer. Years later, I realised something wild: The Devil card isn't just about toxicity. It's also about Capricorn energy. And guess what? My husband is a Capricorn. I laugh now because even when I was pulling that card, part of me knew—I was calling in someone steady, someone who could teach me what real partnership looks like. It took years of shadow work, chart deep dives, and real reflection to get here. If you’re staring down your own Devil moment, know this. It’s not the end. It’s a sign. Here’s what I learned: - Relationships mirror back what we’re avoiding in ourselves - The patterns you ignore now will repeat until you address them - True love doesn’t require running, hiding, or shrinking—it allows you to expand - Sometimes, the cards show us what’s coming before we’re ready to see it If you’re ready to stop running and start understanding, my Relationship Xray special is open. Let’s see the hidden dynamics shaping your love life and rewrite your story—because you deserve something more. What’s your Devil card moment? Share it below or DM me if you’re ready to work through it. #RelationshipHealing #TarotAndAstrology #ShadowWork #RelationshipPatterns #SelfAwareness #HealingJourney #LoveAndClarity #AstrologyInsights #SoulGrowth #EmotionalFreedom #RewriteYourStory #DevilCardLessons #CapricornEnergy #LoveAndEvolution #ConsciousRelationships

Big release, big cry. 🌀 Sometimes, emotions don’t need fixing; they just need to be. Anxiety weaves itself into the body—hiding in our necks, our traps, anywhere we try to keep it quiet. But when we finally let it out? That’s liberation. For Anthony @breathe.relax.perform, the needle is the tool—finding the tension, releasing it, and letting the tears flow. For me, the needle is a metaphor for the attention I give to focal points in a client’s astrology chart. In both cases, it’s not about making things neat or pretty; it’s about making them real. That’s the thing about emotions—they don’t ask us to fight them. They ask us to feel them, understand them, and forgive them. They’re not the enemy. They’re signposts, guiding us back to ourselves. How do you let your emotions speak? #FeelYourFeelings #EmotionalRelease #LetEmotionsFlow #HealingThroughFeeling #MindBodyConnection #SomaticHealing #LetItOut #VulnerabilityIsStrength #AnxietyRelease #EmbraceTheMess #AuthenticLiving #HealingJourney #EmotionalFreedom #RawAndReal #ConsciousHealing #BodyWisdom #InnerWork #SelfAwareness #HealingIsMessy #EmotionsAreEnergy

What they say about love? - "Relationships are hard; just deal with it." "It's a job: More like a 9-5." "Lower your expectations and you’ll be fine." "Men are *erks who just wanna f." "Women are lucrative *os." "It’s not your path, not this lifetime." “Get real, time to move on. How come you haven’t done it yet?” At this point, you feel like eating coals. Yet, you try again only to be blasted against concrete each time. Then you give up. Your heart is a peeled banana on the floor. Not even monkeys look at you because your dimmed. Squashed by reality. To feel better, you lie: “I don’t need love.” But this reality? It’s all energy. And energy is consciousness. It cannot be destroyed, it changes form. Do you even know yours at this point? And after all the emotional gymnastics, they blame you. Then comes the magic crowd: “Manifest your soulmate.” “Crystals will do the trick.” “Listen to 1,000 podcasts to ‘be better.’” Or worse: “Just trust the vibes!” (Anyone wanna show me how to do all this without the condescending flair or plain pitty?) And when you’re stuck, it’s either your energy wasn’t enough, or it was “too good to be true.” Sound familiar? Hi, I’m Alla. I created Relationship Xray because I’m done watching bold, free-spirited humans get caught in this nonsense. Here’s the truth: Clarity in love isn’t about lowering standards or chasing vibes—it’s about understanding yourself. Here’s how we’ll do it: ✨ Astro Insights—mapping out your relationship patterns with your natal chart. ✨ Tarot Immersion—unpacking hidden dynamics. This is a no-BS, deep dive into your relationships—50% off right now for my end-of-year special. DM me XRAY or click the link in my bio to get started. You deserve relationships that feel real, aligned, and worth your time. Let’s do this. 💛 #RelationshipAdvice #TarotReading #LoveAdvice #AstrologyForRelationships #LoveClarity #RelationshipXray #Astrolo

The Real Reason You Feel Like You’ve Aged 10 Years Overnight

Let’s spill the tea on how stress and pain are treated 👀. It’s not just about toughing it out or “powering through.” Stress isn’t your enemy—it’s your body’s way of talking to you. Most of us ignore it, mask it, or push it aside, but that’s not the flex you think it is. 😬 Trigger point therapy reminds us that pain is a signal, not a sentence. It’s about learning to acknowledge, accept, and let go. The real glow-up starts when you: ✔️ Stop treating pain like something to “conquer.” ✔️ Learn to work with your body instead of fighting it. ✔️ Start listening to the signals instead of silencing them. ✔️ Let go of the guilt around self-care—because feeling good isn’t a luxury. Your body isn’t a punching bag for stress. 💥 It’s a partner in your self-worth journey. Are you ready to listen? 👂✨ ✨ Big thanks to @breathe.relax.perform for this interview. More clips and segments to come. You've been a constant inspiration to transform the way we think about stress. 🙌 #TriggerPointTherapy #SelfWorthJourney #PainIsAPortal #StressSignals #BodyWisdom #HealingJourney #StressRelief #LetItGo #ListenToYourBody #Empowerment #SelfCareTips #SelfHealing