17/06/2024
So today I completed my 61st orbit of the Sun.
I feel privileged to have arrived here in this present moment amazingly in good form physically, emotionally and spiritually.
My previous life choices shouldn't have allowed me to do so.
It's a sad indictment that (depending who you ask), the average lifespan of an artistic / creative is 57. I'm truly blessed to have eclipsed that mark.
Today is not that much different to other days in that I'm feeling immense gratitude for the things that cannot be bought, put in a box and wrapped up in a bow.
The love and devotion of my beautiful wife Connie Gourvelos, wonderful family and friends, general well being, a successful studio that somehow still manages to keep its doors open, and above anything else, the greatest gift of all.........Life itself.
As I age each year a little more disgracefully, I pity those who see each anniversary of their birfday as a curse......a reason to complain about aches and pains.......wrinkles........saggy bits.......double chin......love handles and just not being as sprightly as their previous selves.
Ageing is a privilege that is not bestowed upon everybody.
Losing 2 very close mates (Phil Krokidis & Michael Bradley) within a week of each other in recent years, who were both quite younger than me was a sobering reminder of this truism.
The odds of being here in this realm is 1 in 400,000,000,000,000.
You probably have a better chance of getting hit by lightning twice and then winning the lottery in the same week.
So while things may not be exactly as you'd prefer today, (if you have the presence of mind), I invite you to ponder and celebrate that.........and know you can do something to improve your situation.
I'm acutely aware there are less years ahead of me than I have enjoyed to date.
This makes my remaining time here more than ever my most valuable resource.
Time to stop counting time and making time count.
It's my intention to make the best use of it, by being the best Father, hubby and friend I can be.
This also means continuing to serve the community I love so much, through my mastering studio both as an engineer and a mentor to those open to what's on offer, not to mention speaking to those who want to make positive change(s) in their world.
Time does fly.........make the most of it.
Don't put off the things that excite and inspire you.
Father time will creep up on you like a Ninja.
Oh and don't "grow up"........it's waaaaaay overrated and I refuse to "act my age" ;-)
Happy Tuesdee Kids.
Image Barry C. Douglas