Do you have to be right?
Your need to be right will break connection faster then you can blink.
When the world needs belonging and love, being right about something or ensuring your opinion is heard becomes irrelevant…
Lead with your heart first, then your ears and mouth will follow.
#podcast #selfleadership #responsibility #discipline
So often what we do can give us an identity.
However, our identity should always come from who we are not what we do.
It can happen that if we get our identity from what we do it feeds our ego and can turn into a status-seeking situation, always looking for the next thing to feed that monster.
But, if our identity comes from who we are, and our values, we have all the validation we need internally 🤍
#identity #podcast #theconflab #boytoman #whoareyou
You are a leader whether you think you are or not.
You lead you 🫵🏼
Learn how to lead you well and that will transfer over onto everything else you do.
This you can’t learn in a university,
You are the organisation you need to lead
YOU. PTY LTD
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Having a so-called predisposition to addiction is your ability to mask your deep needs like belonging, love and connection.
So, we turn to things that we can control…
The two things that finally won the war for @jonwynnfitnessandsobriety life were wanting a family and a fear of going so far with substance abuse that you become irreparable.
I am super bloody proud of this Aussie legend 👏🏼
He has been to the darkest and lowest points of his being and now he has won that war, this doesn’t mean the battle is over, but it does mean he knows what it takes… Humility, persistence, courage and love, first with himself 🤲🏼 then for his family and the wider community.
I am honoured to bring this episode, number 50 with this absolute legend, @jonwynnfitnessandsobriety to you. I know that this episode will inspire you to make the changes you need to make in order to shine your light the brightest it’s ever been and to chase those dreams you’ve had locked away. The Hidden Secrets of an Elite Soldier, with Jon Wynn is out now on all major platforms 🎙
I hope you enjoy the rawness, depth and and tenacity that this episode brings to your ears!
#podcast #theconflab #mentorship #mindset #leadership #identity #purpose #freedom #discipline
Being carefree can be a mask for not taking responsibility with your life…
This also leads to being non committal. Which can lead us to be untrustworthy first with ourselves.
Truly deeply trusting ourselves is the key to being trustworthy 🔑
Taking responsibility and being disciplined, as much it sounds like a paradox is the true answer to freedom 😌
Great wisdom and vulnerability here from @thejacoboneill 🙏🏼. You can catch the latest episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & YouTube or check the link in my bio for all of the details.
If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, rate & review!
Can’t wait to Conflab next week! 🎙
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As we transition from one stage of life to the next those around us also need to move up a level... So, when a child moves to young adult, we as parents need to move up a level and so forth.
Without this, we run the risk of stifling the new growth of our younger generations as they move through their Rite of Passage 🤲🏼
#podcast #riteofpassage #boytoman #selfleadership
What an honour it was to sit with Arne Rubinstein to pick his brain about the necessities of going through a rite of passage 🙏🏼
The need for a coming of age or child to young adult transition through the use of a guided rite of passage is so necessary for emotional intelligence and agility.
Without this process we have mature bodies however, immature emotions, not being able to cope with pressure, or dealing with nuance in others or being able to make decisions based on real logic.
We see this in all sorts of organisations today from politicians to sporting organisations…
Where can you identify with this?
Is it time to do a rite of passage?
A very special episode that I hold close to my heart in collaboration with a dear friend @brettrobbocoach 🖤 You can catch the latest episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & YouTube or check the link in my bio for all of the details.
If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, rate & review!
Can’t wait to Conflab next week! 🎙
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Designing your life should come from the desires of your heart ♥️
The ones that have been placed deep within us to go after a mission.
The trick is to ignore the desires of our mind, the egocentric ones and really listen to what our heart is saying.
Here’s a tip 🍃
- Get back to nature
- Go for a hike
- Ground yourself
- Get in the ocean
- Get some much-needed solitude
You will end up realising the life you design will be about others 🤲🏼
#podcast #theconflab #mentorship #mindset #leadership #identity #purpose #freedom #discipline #missionlead #heartsdesire #desire #designyourlife
Status quo is the biggest enemy to growth… I’ve said this before 💥
We need to do more than just use words…
When they all have their place, actions and habits will carry us through the hardest of times and help us celebrate the best of times.
Be true to yourself and develop a life around actions not just words 👏🏼
#podcast #theconflab #mentorship #mindset #leadership #identity #purpose #freedom #discipline
Instant gratification is the kryptonite to real success 🫣
The more you can delay, the more you will value and be grateful for what you achieve.
#instantgratification #podcast #mindset #leadership #theconflab
How to be the best version of yourself will take a journey that can be difficult and humbling, it will definitely involve suffering, however, it will bring us to a place where we truly do love ourselves and who we have been created to be 🤍
This is by no means toxic positivity, it is the ability to see yourself raw and as you are and be okay with that version of yourself to become the version you were designed to be.
Self-leadership is taking ownership of your sh*t! 💥
Episode 45 is available to download on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & YouTube or check the link in my bio for all of the details.
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Can’t wait to Conflab next week! 🎙
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Status quo is the biggest enemy to change 🤔
You won’t change until the pain of change becomes less then the pain of staying the same.
However, you can make a choice backed up with discipline, self control, consistency and patience.
Change is growth 📈
A great episode where @seansoole drops a tonne of knowledge and wisdom on his journey through life and business! 👏🏼
Episode 44 is available to download on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & YouTube or check the link in my bio for all of the details.
If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, rate & review!
Can’t wait to Conflab next week! 🎙
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Learning how to approach suffering as a way to grow will help us face the things in our life that we either choose or not choose, that push us through the liminal path.
Suffering is unavoidable, however, how we respond is our choice 🙏🏼
A victim will say “why is this happening to me”…
A victor will say “another lesson to help me on my way”…
The power is in the choice! Which one are you?
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The truth is never threatened by being questioned!!
If we are afraid to question the truth maybe we are afraid that it’s not the truth… 🫣
Judgement and curiosity cannot dwell in the same space.
Being curious should only open a door to seeing more magnificence in the truth!
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Doing more, we achieve less and never experience real connection. To the opposite, doing less, we can achieve more and a deeper connection with self and others and or God.
◦ Slow down
◦ Breath
◦ Focus on where you are
◦ Feel the presence and connect
As above so below, as within so without 〰️
Respecting this universal law will help us distinguish there is always:
A. cause and effect
What causes us distress in our mind may cause distress in our body.
Be kind to your mind and let your body thrive 🤍
You can catch more on the recent episode on all the major podcast platforms - The Conflab 🎙
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Iggy felt peace and a sense of belonging facing physical giants and physical feats.
It brought him present rather than letting his thoughts run.
Fighting was his jam and he thrived amongst it 💪🏼
Now he has transitioned into a place where he knows what he is capable of and because of this chooses love, empathy and compassion.
Are you truly present in your life?
#innerpeace #meditation #mindset #presence #theconflab #podcast
So many of us can give up on purpose and even do things that we really don’t want to do to fill that hole of loneliness and before we know it, we are stuck in a lifestyle that we hate and can’t see a way out.
This can and does start with relationships.
This quote from Vladimir Lenin “Show me who your friends are and I will show you who you really are”, couldn’t be truer.
Sometimes if we want to change our behaviour we need to look at those within our circle and not be afraid to eliminate those who don’t serve our desired future.
#purpose #identity #leadership #theconflab #podcast
Robby’s story is one of a person saved by grace and no matter what or where he went, he was protected for a purpose.
Have you ever felt like someone was protecting you and you haven’t yet received what you maybe deserved due to the style of life you choose?
What appears to be a true dichotomy could be true purpose, maybe it’s time to ask the question… What am I really here for?
#purpose #identity #podcast #mindset #theconflab
“There is a space between stimulus and response that will show your growth or freedom” - Viktor Frankl - Whatever happens, choose to take a few seconds to ensure you respond from your values 🙏🏼Latest episode is out now on all major platforms! You can check the link in my bio🎙 #podcast #theconflab #selfawareness
The beautiful mess of life and the journey of unlocking your real potential by becoming self aware that everything you need to do and all that you were designed to do is with in you 🤍
Latest episode of The Conflab with my second cousin and great friend, @kingsleycolley is available to download on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & YouTube or check the link in my bio for all of the details.
If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, rate & review!
Can’t wait to Conflab next week! 🎙
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