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15/01/2025
This guy is trending on Twitter (X) for deciding that he will be giving his number to a lady he fancies instead of the usual way of asking for her number, and leaving her to make the choice to reach out or not.
For him, it cuts through the stress of going through multiple calls, chats, and dates to find out if she likes him back or a relationship might develop.
I honestly think it makes perfect sense, even if it’s unconventional.
I was also thinking ladies would appreciate the idea, giving that it saves them a lot of trouble too, but many Twitter ladies have been taking it the other way.
They have been saying he is arrogant, his approach is horrible, and that it does not respect women.
I find that to be quite dishonest; simply because we have seen countless posts from women who claim that they do not like it when men (that they are not interested in) pester them for their number, and that they give it out (when it’s not fake) just to get him off their backs. Such numbers often end up being blocked, deleted, or never answered when a call comes through.
Here is an opportunity that puts you in total control of that situation and you turn around and say it’s arrogant and doesn’t respect you.
I have to ask: What do women want??
Some have even claimed that it’s a bad way to approach a stranger.
This approach does not read like one that just goes about dropping numbers on the lap of random ladies. It’s the type that comes after an initial conversation that must have gone well, where both parties vibed well.
The only difference is that instead of the guy taking the initiative to ask for her number, he rather gives her his number and waits to see if she would show an interest in continuing the conversation by texting him first.
Saves time for both parties and everyone is happy.
But e be like say some women do not want to lose that opportunity to do “shakara” and this guy is threatening to take that away.
What do you think?"
ImAwesome