12/11/2025
The Three Destinations That Shaped My Life and Career Decisions
When I look back at my university years, I realize how a few key experiences shaped my outlook on life, career, and even where I choose to call home today. During my undergraduate years, I was fortunate enough to travel to three very unique destinations — each one teaching me something profound about myself, the world, and the realities of living in the diaspora.
As many of us know, Africa — beautiful and blessed as it is — struggles with high unemployment rates. It’s no surprise that many African youth, full of ambition and dreams, often seek opportunities abroad. I was no exception. But through my travels, I learned that sometimes the “dream life abroad” isn’t always what it seems.
1. Canada – The Land of Endless Winter (At Least to Me)
My first international trip took me to Canada for a one-week conference. It was winter — and believe me, no amount of preparation could have readied me for that cold. For seven long days, I was tucked away in my hotel room, buried under layers of blankets and duvets, with the water heater and AC both struggling to keep up.
I tried to enjoy it, but survival came first! When I later learned that Canada’s winter lasts for months on end, I knew right away — this was not my forever home. I went back to Uganda — the Pearl of Africa, blessed with arguably the best weather in the world — fully assured that Canada was permanently off my list.
2. Korea – A Lesson in Cultural Awareness
After Canada, I turned my focus to Asia, particularly South Korea. I had been researching scholarship opportunities and top universities there — and Korea ranked highly. But before committing to anything as serious as moving there for studies, I decided to visit and experience the culture firsthand.
At the time, I had just returned from South Africa, where I’d completed my internship at the University of KwaZulu-Natal during one of the worst xenophobic periods in the country’s history. People were being attacked, and women were unsafe — it was a harsh reality to witness. Because of that, I had become very sensitive to racism and social acceptance.
Visiting Korea was, therefore, not just a casual trip — it was an evaluation. I wanted to be sure I could thrive and feel comfortable there. The experience taught me to always test the waters before diving in.
3. South Africa – The Place That Built My Resilience
South Africa holds a special place in my story. It’s where I did my internship — a chapter filled with both growth and hard truths. Despite the challenges, that period shaped my strength, resilience, and sense of purpose. It opened my eyes to the complexities of living and working abroad, especially as an African in another African country.
And Then Came Dubai – My Second Home
After all those experiences, I can confidently say that Dubai feels like home away from home. I don’t have to worry about the cold, about racism in the same way, or about belonging. Dubai, with all its diversity, ambition, and opportunities, gives me a balance between modern living and cultural familiarity.
It’s not perfect — nowhere is — but it’s where I’ve found peace, progress, and purpose.
So yes, I’ve been to Canada, Korea, and South Africa… but Dubai is where my heart found rest — my second home, after the Pearl of Africa.